Guest guest Posted August 1, 2004 Report Share Posted August 1, 2004 sounds like life realy giving you a bad deal right now .just hang on now if you can remain cool with your hubby and and try to talk there is no way he could possiblly ever understand what your going through .nor can you imagine what he is feeling he probably has disappointments and quilt feelings you do know about men do not like to talk about thier real feelings.i hope things get better soon for all of you and you can be happy be free of pain i could not imagine taking care of a child mine are grown now.So your challange is great just hold on to that hero some say we have with in ourselves you can do it.God is never far away although we feel lost at times you wil be in my prayers.....Zonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2004 Report Share Posted August 1, 2004 Teri, Glad to hear that your son is doing as well as can be expected. I hope that the trip to the burn center on Tues. brings good news. I read about your husband, and wonder if he isn't experiencing some feelings about all this that he just isn't sharing, and is trying to escape from. I'm sure he was very scared, etc. He can't just keep leaving you there to take care of all by yourself, though. You need to sit him down and explain that both you and his son need him right now. Maybe he's afraid to deal with afraid to cause him pain, etc. If talking doesn't work, you need to b* & ch slap him upside his head! Hugs, Jo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2004 Report Share Posted August 1, 2004 Teri - Have you thought of going out and buying a mess of those little Post-Its and sticking them on the jobs that need to be done around the house? I would add the words "Someone Else's Turn" to each before I stuck them on the laundry, the grocery list, etc. Just a thought.....but I would seriously think about giving it a try. Maybe not everything is "squaw work." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2004 Report Share Posted August 2, 2004 That is a good one Barbara, you are just so darn clever will have to remember that when need something witty to say to someone......will just have to tell them to hold on for minute and write you and wait for your reply. Think that should work. Take care my friend Hugs s MommaJoAnn Re: re;teri Teri - Have you thought of going out and buying a mess of those little Post-Its and sticking them on the jobs that need to be done around the house? I would add the words "Someone Else's Turn" to each before I stuck them on the laundry, the grocery list, etc. Just a thought.....but I would seriously think about giving it a try. Maybe not everything is "squaw work." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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