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> WTG Lori!!!!!! You are doing fantastic! : )

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> Rhonda

Thanks!!! I am actually starting to feel really good as well!! :)

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Basically...you have the right

not to be around them or make contact.

It is not a persons belief that would keep me away, but their behavior.

If they are unloving, why would I want someone like that in my life?

My oldest daughter is of a religion where they don't believe in holidays and they were told not to associate with anyone outside of their religion.....meaning us. She does talk to us, but on her terms, and we "see" the grandchildren from time to time.....Anyway...I don't try to avoid contact with my daughter...but I have the right to not communicate with her if it upsets me (religion beliefs causing certain behavior on her part). I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART, but she

can believe how she wants to. I don't have to. I have raised her since she

was 4 and she is now 30. 12 years ago she stopped calling me Mom. What kind

of religion is this? It is HER I love with all my heart, not her behavior

and it is upsetting to me at times, so those are the times I choose not to

say anything that would hurt our chances for a relationship with the grandkids.

In the past when I have said how I felt, there was no communication for

months. So I back off and have very little to do with her.

Hope I made sense!!

Carol

Lori Phibbs wrote:

Thank you Carol:) Thats all anyone wants i think, to make their own choice, and not to be condemned for any opinion. But i dont understand the "And I have the right to not live around it." Is that meaning that if people dont believe as you, you would avoid contact with them??

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Basically...you have the right

not to be around them or make contact.

It is not a persons belief that would keep me away, but their behavior.

If they are unloving, why would I want someone like that in my life?

My oldest daughter is of a religion where they don't believe in holidays and they were told not to associate with anyone outside of their religion.....meaning us. She does talk to us, but on her terms, and we "see" the grandchildren from time to time.....Anyway...I don't try to avoid contact with my daughter...but I have the right to not communicate with her if it upsets me (religion beliefs causing certain behavior on her part). I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART, but she

can believe how she wants to. I don't have to. I have raised her since she

was 4 and she is now 30. 12 years ago she stopped calling me Mom. What kind

of religion is this? It is HER I love with all my heart, not her behavior

and it is upsetting to me at times, so those are the times I choose not to

say anything that would hurt our chances for a relationship with the grandkids.

In the past when I have said how I felt, there was no communication for

months. So I back off and have very little to do with her.

Hope I made sense!!

Carol

Lori Phibbs wrote:

Thank you Carol:) Thats all anyone wants i think, to make their own choice, and not to be condemned for any opinion. But i dont understand the "And I have the right to not live around it." Is that meaning that if people dont believe as you, you would avoid contact with them??

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Carol, I don't think that is a religion. . . . sounds more like a cult. The bible does not teach you to push your family aside.

MikeyA

Re: Fw: Lori

Basically...you have the right not to be around them or make contact. It is not a persons belief that would keep me away, but their behavior. If they are unloving, why would I want someone like that in my life? My oldest daughter is of a religion where they don't believe in holidays and they were told not to associate with anyone outside of their religion.....meaning us. She does talk to us, but on her terms, and we "see" the grandchildren from time to time.....Anyway...I don't try to avoid contact with my daughter...but I have the right to not communicate with her if it upsets me (religion beliefs causing certain behavior on her part). I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART, but she can believe how she wants to. I don't have to. I have raised her since she was 4 and she is now 30. 12 years ago she stopped calling me Mom. What kind of religion is this? It is HER I love with all my heart, not her behavior and it is upsetting to me at times, so those are the times I choose not to say anything that would hurt our chances for a relationship with the grandkids. In the past when I have said how I felt, there was no communication for months. So I back off and have very little to do with her.Hope I made sense!!CarolLori Phibbs wrote:

Thank you Carol:) Thats all anyone wants i think, to make their own choice, and not to be condemned for any opinion. But i dont understand the "And I have the right to not live around it." Is that meaning that if people dont believe as you, you would avoid contact with them??

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Carol, I don't think that is a religion. . . . sounds more like a cult. The bible does not teach you to push your family aside.

MikeyA

Re: Fw: Lori

Basically...you have the right not to be around them or make contact. It is not a persons belief that would keep me away, but their behavior. If they are unloving, why would I want someone like that in my life? My oldest daughter is of a religion where they don't believe in holidays and they were told not to associate with anyone outside of their religion.....meaning us. She does talk to us, but on her terms, and we "see" the grandchildren from time to time.....Anyway...I don't try to avoid contact with my daughter...but I have the right to not communicate with her if it upsets me (religion beliefs causing certain behavior on her part). I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART, but she can believe how she wants to. I don't have to. I have raised her since she was 4 and she is now 30. 12 years ago she stopped calling me Mom. What kind of religion is this? It is HER I love with all my heart, not her behavior and it is upsetting to me at times, so those are the times I choose not to say anything that would hurt our chances for a relationship with the grandkids. In the past when I have said how I felt, there was no communication for months. So I back off and have very little to do with her.Hope I made sense!!CarolLori Phibbs wrote:

Thank you Carol:) Thats all anyone wants i think, to make their own choice, and not to be condemned for any opinion. But i dont understand the "And I have the right to not live around it." Is that meaning that if people dont believe as you, you would avoid contact with them??

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Thank you, I'm going to try to get into the doctor tomorrow, otherwise I'll have to go to the ER. I'm going to the hospital for an IV treatment for the RSD. They're going to do lidocaine and ketamine, and they want to monitor it closely as it can have pretty bad side effects - mainly short term memory loss and hallucinations. I'm just praying it works, I can't stand this pain anymore! I hope you are having a good weekend and feeling well.

<hugs> Lori

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Thanks , I wasn't sure but as it turns out there's no break, at least not that he could see. I'll give it some time but if it doesn't get better I guess I'll have to get it checked again.

<hugs> Lori

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I don't have a surgical shoe unfortunately. Do you know if you can get them at a medical supply store? My Primary Care Doc said it was tendons and muscles, that they are flared up and the muscle is flexed which is why my foot is turned in. So I guess it is similar to the tendonitis in my hands and shoulder, but it really hurts. Maybe it hurts more because I walk on it, just like my hands hurt more when I type alot - who knows. I'm going to call the doc tomorrow and see if he thinks I should come back in and maybe do another x-ray now that a full week has passed with no relief. I will keep you posted and let me know about buying a surgical shoe if you can. Hope you are having a good weekend.

<hugs> Lori

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Hey there,

Sorry you are flaring and not sleeping. Me either. Up at 3 am and then again

at 6 am after falling asleep at midnight. Woke up with a headache, sinus

pressure and feeling like I have been hit by a mac truck. Took some meds. Hope

they kick in soon.

That is aweful what happend at that mall and just done so he would be famous.

Wow.

Since you are a mod, please can I ask why we have to stick with this small

text to read? I know it is hard for alot of us to see. I have asked before, but

do not recall an answer.

ty and hugs,

Lori Hammer wrote:

Good morning all! I have only slept for a couple of hours. But the Spider

story was cute and made me laugh. Feeling sad as of couse I am in a flare #1 and

they are bringing out more details of the Omaha NE Mall issue.

This morning they played the first 911 call and all you could hear was the

dispatch saying " 911 hello " never a word on the other end. Just gunshots and 911

trying to get someone to answer. I feel so bad for the families involved.

Enough of that now I also want to welcome all new comers to the group and hope

that you will participate especially if you are having a bad day.

There are many here that will listen. But also participate if you are having a

good day. Both are important. And that is what we are here for.

Hugs,

Lori H

Moderator

Cheryl wrote:

>

> Goodmoring peoples, I woke up @ 4:00 AM w/o the Monster on my back and it

> feels great. I know he is lirking ,waiting

> to pounce @ anytime but that's just LIFE w/FM. For those of you suffering

> bigtime my heart goes out to you.

> It seems as if though suffering is what many of US knows best or know most

> of. For those of you who can hardly get out of bed ,I often think of you and

> wish thyere was a cure!!! For now WE have each other for comfort as no one

> else

> understands or even has aclue as to what WE must go thru each day. I care

> ! ! !

> GOD Bless ! ! ! . . .

>

..............................................................................the

> old,,the man

>

> Arkansas

>

> I'm very happy for you ! I have had a couple of good days

in a row and I hope you will have a long string of them too.

--

Cheryl

" Hairless Hugs and Crested Kisses "

Skyclad Chinese Cresteds

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,

I will check on it. You can always go into reply and use the font settings.

Like I did with this email and make it bolder and larger. Its a pain but it

works for now but I will check with one of the owner or co -owner.

w

Hey there,

Sorry you are flaring and not sleeping. Me either. Up at 3 am and then again at

6 am after falling asleep at midnight. Woke up with a headache, sinus pressure

and feeling like I have been hit by a mac truck. Took some meds. Hope they kick

in soon.

That is aweful what happend at that mall and just done so he would be famous.

Wow.

Since you are a mod, please can I ask why we have to stick with this small text

to read? I know it is hard for alot of us to see. I have asked before, but do

not recall an answer.

ty and hugs,

Lori Hammer wrote:

Good morning all! I have only slept for a couple of hours. But the Spider story

was cute and made me laugh. Feeling sad as of couse I am in a flare #1 and they

are bringing out more details of the Omaha NE Mall issue.

This morning they played the first 911 call and all you could hear was the

dispatch saying " 911 hello " never a word on the other end. Just gunshots and 911

trying to get someone to answer. I feel so bad for the families involved.

Enough of that now I also want to welcome all new comers to the group and hope

that you will participate especially if you are having a bad day.

There are many here that will listen. But also participate if you are having a

good day. Both are important. And that is what we are here for.

Hugs,

Lori H

Moderator

Cheryl wrote:

>

> Goodmoring peoples, I woke up @ 4:00 AM w/o the Monster on my back and it

> feels great. I know he is lirking ,waiting

> to pounce @ anytime but that's just LIFE w/FM. For those of you suffering

> bigtime my heart goes out to you.

> It seems as if though suffering is what many of US knows best or know most

> of. For those of you who can hardly get out of bed ,I often think of you and

> wish thyere was a cure!!! For now WE have each other for comfort as no one

> else

> understands or even has aclue as to what WE must go thru each day. I care

> ! ! !

> GOD Bless ! ! ! . . .

>

..............................................................................the

> old,,the man

>

> Arkansas

>

> I'm very happy for you ! I have had a couple of good days

in a row and I hope you will have a long string of them too.

--

Cheryl

" Hairless Hugs and Crested Kisses "

Skyclad Chinese Cresteds

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Doesn't matter which font I use. when I send to the group it comes out in small

plain text. very weird. I always use a bigger size on my fonts and colors too,

so this one is baffling.

Lori Hammer wrote: ,

I will check on it. You can always go into reply and use the font settings. Like

I did with this email and make it bolder and larger. Its a pain but it works for

now but I will check with one of the owner or co -owner.

w

Hey there,

Sorry you are flaring and not sleeping. Me either. Up at 3 am and then again at

6 am after falling asleep at midnight. Woke up with a headache, sinus pressure

and feeling like I have been hit by a mac truck. Took some meds. Hope they kick

in soon.

That is aweful what happend at that mall and just done so he would be famous.

Wow.

Since you are a mod, please can I ask why we have to stick with this small text

to read? I know it is hard for alot of us to see. I have asked before, but do

not recall an answer.

ty and hugs,

Lori Hammer wrote:

Good morning all! I have only slept for a couple of hours. But the Spider story

was cute and made me laugh. Feeling sad as of couse I am in a flare #1 and they

are bringing out more details of the Omaha NE Mall issue.

This morning they played the first 911 call and all you could hear was the

dispatch saying " 911 hello " never a word on the other end. Just gunshots and 911

trying to get someone to answer. I feel so bad for the families involved.

Enough of that now I also want to welcome all new comers to the group and hope

that you will participate especially if you are having a bad day.

There are many here that will listen. But also participate if you are having a

good day. Both are important. And that is what we are here for.

Hugs,

Lori H

Moderator

Cheryl wrote:

>

> Goodmoring peoples, I woke up @ 4:00 AM w/o the Monster on my back and it

> feels great. I know he is lirking ,waiting

> to pounce @ anytime but that's just LIFE w/FM. For those of you suffering

> bigtime my heart goes out to you.

> It seems as if though suffering is what many of US knows best or know most

> of. For those of you who can hardly get out of bed ,I often think of you and

> wish thyere was a cure!!! For now WE have each other for comfort as no one

> else

> understands or even has aclue as to what WE must go thru each day. I care

> ! ! !

> GOD Bless ! ! ! . . .

>

..............................................................................the

> old,,the man

>

> Arkansas

>

> I'm very happy for you ! I have had a couple of good days

in a row and I hope you will have a long string of them too.

--

Cheryl

" Hairless Hugs and Crested Kisses "

Skyclad Chinese Cresteds

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Guess it does not work when it is sent though. But to read it if it is

difficult you can do that

Lori Hammer wrote: ,

I will check on it. You can always go into reply and use the font settings. Like

I did with this email and make it bolder and larger. Its a pain but it works for

now but I will check with one of the owner or co -owner.

w

Hey there,

Sorry you are flaring and not sleeping. Me either. Up at 3 am and then again at

6 am after falling asleep at midnight. Woke up with a headache, sinus pressure

and feeling like I have been hit by a mac truck. Took some meds. Hope they kick

in soon.

That is aweful what happend at that mall and just done so he would be famous.

Wow.

Since you are a mod, please can I ask why we have to stick with this small text

to read? I know it is hard for alot of us to see. I have asked before, but do

not recall an answer.

ty and hugs,

Lori Hammer wrote:

Good morning all! I have only slept for a couple of hours. But the Spider story

was cute and made me laugh. Feeling sad as of couse I am in a flare #1 and they

are bringing out more details of the Omaha NE Mall issue.

This morning they played the first 911 call and all you could hear was the

dispatch saying " 911 hello " never a word on the other end. Just gunshots and 911

trying to get someone to answer. I feel so bad for the families involved.

Enough of that now I also want to welcome all new comers to the group and hope

that you will participate especially if you are having a bad day.

There are many here that will listen. But also participate if you are having a

good day. Both are important. And that is what we are here for.

Hugs,

Lori H

Moderator

Cheryl wrote:

>

> Goodmoring peoples, I woke up @ 4:00 AM w/o the Monster on my back and it

> feels great. I know he is lirking ,waiting

> to pounce @ anytime but that's just LIFE w/FM. For those of you suffering

> bigtime my heart goes out to you.

> It seems as if though suffering is what many of US knows best or know most

> of. For those of you who can hardly get out of bed ,I often think of you and

> wish thyere was a cure!!! For now WE have each other for comfort as no one

> else

> understands or even has aclue as to what WE must go thru each day. I care

> ! ! !

> GOD Bless ! ! ! . . .

>

..............................................................................the

> old,,the man

>

> Arkansas

>

> I'm very happy for you ! I have had a couple of good days

in a row and I hope you will have a long string of them too.

--

Cheryl

" Hairless Hugs and Crested Kisses "

Skyclad Chinese Cresteds

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I too use the larger fonts when I am typing and have used colors. It goes

through just fine everywhere but here where it reverts to the tiny size of the

plain text.

Looking forward to you answers,

Marti

wrote:

Doesn't matter which font I use. when I send to the group it comes out

in small plain text. very weird. I always use a bigger size on my fonts and

colors too, so this one is baffling.

Lori Hammer wrote: ,

I will check on it. You can always go into reply and use the font settings. Like

I did with this email and make it bolder and larger. Its a pain but it works for

now but I will check with one of the owner or co -owner.

w

Hey there,

Sorry you are flaring and not sleeping. Me either. Up at 3 am and then again at

6 am after falling asleep at midnight. Woke up with a headache, sinus pressure

and feeling like I have been hit by a mac truck. Took some meds. Hope they kick

in soon.

That is aweful what happend at that mall and just done so he would be famous.

Wow.

Since you are a mod, please can I ask why we have to stick with this small text

to read? I know it is hard for alot of us to see. I have asked before, but do

not recall an answer.

ty and hugs,

Lori Hammer wrote:

Good morning all! I have only slept for a couple of hours. But the Spider story

was cute and made me laugh. Feeling sad as of couse I am in a flare #1 and they

are bringing out more details of the Omaha NE Mall issue.

This morning they played the first 911 call and all you could hear was the

dispatch saying " 911 hello " never a word on the other end. Just gunshots and 911

trying to get someone to answer. I feel so bad for the families involved.

Enough of that now I also want to welcome all new comers to the group and hope

that you will participate especially if you are having a bad day.

There are many here that will listen. But also participate if you are having a

good day. Both are important. And that is what we are here for.

Hugs,

Lori H

Moderator

Cheryl wrote:

>

> Goodmoring peoples, I woke up @ 4:00 AM w/o the Monster on my back and it

> feels great. I know he is lirking ,waiting

> to pounce @ anytime but that's just LIFE w/FM. For those of you suffering

> bigtime my heart goes out to you.

> It seems as if though suffering is what many of US knows best or know most

> of. For those of you who can hardly get out of bed ,I often think of you and

> wish thyere was a cure!!! For now WE have each other for comfort as no one

> else

> understands or even has aclue as to what WE must go thru each day. I care

> ! ! !

> GOD Bless ! ! ! . . .

>

..............................................................................the

> old,,the man

>

> Arkansas

>

> I'm very happy for you ! I have had a couple of good days

in a row and I hope you will have a long string of them too.

--

Cheryl

" Hairless Hugs and Crested Kisses "

Skyclad Chinese Cresteds

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I am so glad ! I swear that would be a kitty I could fall in love with. I

still have not heard back about the fonts yet everyone but emailed the question

to them again. So bear with me.

Lori H

wrote:

Thanks Lori,

Oreo is doing fantastic. She is active and purring lots.

Hugs,

Lori Hammer wrote:

,

I am glad to hear you and your family are ok! How is Oreo?

Lori H

wrote:

We had a freakin' chimney fire this afternoon. Scared me to death. At least it

was contained to the chimney and our houes is ok, animals ok and we are ok. My

nerves are shot though. Never been so scared in my life. I will never burn

another fire, even after it is fixed. Will write more later. Just wanted ev1 to

know.

Hugs,

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