Re: Re: Still do not understand - venting

December 6, 2007

That is so true. It is emotional and I like how you put it, physical as well. No

wonder I am in a never-ending flare. You are correct, I deserve to be treated

with respect and loved for me, not who someone wants me to be. He wasn't like

this until we had . She is 17 now. It has worsened since his pd diagnosis

a couple years ago. Some say it could be meds causing it, but he was that way

before the pd, si iam inclined to think that isn't it. thanks for being there.

micheleninaguess wrote: As a woman who has " been there

and done that " , there is NO excuse for

that type of behavior, it is definatly emotional abuse, and with

someone with fibro (knowing that stress makes fibro lots worse), in my

mind, makes it physical abuse.

I've seen that another reply that said try therapy, which I think is

the only way to maybe change his behavior. Don't wait around and just

hope it will get better on it's own, you DESERVE respect and love and

to be treated with kindness.

All the gentle hugs you can stand, Nina

1. While it is wonderful to share our experiences with everyone on the list as

to what treatments do and don't work for us, pls always check with your dr. Some

treatments are dangerous when given along with other meds as well as to certain

health conditions or just dangerous in general.

2. If you are in a difficult situation (doesn't matter what it is) pls don't be

afraid to ask for help. It is the first step to trying to make that situation

better.

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4. Also, it is not uncommon for more than one member to be feeling bad at the

same time when it comes to flares and b/c of that potentially take something

another member says the wrong way. And that includes the things that one member

may find funny (even if it's laughing at fibro itself) even though we who deal

with illness whether one such as fibro or multiple illnesses try to keep a sense

of humor.

5. Pls let's be gentle with each other, and if you are having a bad day pls let

us know so that we can do our best to offer our support.

Have a nice day everyone.

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