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, It sounds like YOU aren't being treated as an equal partner! I'm a man so

I don't know how to encourage you in the best manner but I do sympathise

w/YOU!!! I believe it's a matter of standing up for yourself but not know your

others potential for Violence I personaly can't encourage you to take any

action. However at some point YOU will have to stand up for yourself because YOU

are #1 to you ! ! ! Take care of yourself first !

GOD Bless YOU ! ! ! . . . .

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Wed, 5 Dec 2007 05:11:10 -0800Subject: Still do not understand~venting

Ok here is my question. Why does my hubby throw tantrum fits, call me names, put

me down, ignore me, act unloving, and just plain acts mean at times? I do not

understand this. I can understand him being upset , when I spent money on

something other that what it was originally planned for, and talking to me about

it. Or if I spent more on something than the amount I originally agreed to and

talking to me about it.{even though I do not have access to look at the bank

account or know what is being paid or not paid, etc} But to throw a temper

tantrum like he did on Sunday and hit his fist on the wall leaving knuckle marks

and then go to sleep afterward and ignore everyone and never apologize. I do not

get it. I supposedly deserve this treatment because of my actions? There is

something wrong with this picture. Oh and now I am getting the silent

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[Guest guest]

Nope, you hit the nail on the head there. I am not an equal. probably cause I

don't work, who knows? i am tired of being treated with so little respect. I

will take care of me, so I can be here for . thanks for being there.

john honeycutt wrote:

, It sounds like YOU aren't being treated as an equal partner! I'm a man so

I don't know how to encourage you in the best manner but I do sympathise

w/YOU!!! I believe it's a matter of standing up for yourself but not know your

others potential for Violence I personaly can't encourage you to take any

action. However at some point YOU will have to stand up for yourself because YOU

are #1 to you ! ! ! Take care of yourself first !

GOD Bless YOU ! ! ! . . . .

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To: Fibromyalgia_Support_Group@...: herbal7@...:

Wed, 5 Dec 2007 05:11:10 -0800Subject: Still do not understand~venting

Ok here is my question. Why does my hubby throw tantrum fits, call me names, put

me down, ignore me, act unloving, and just plain acts mean at times? I do not

understand this. I can understand him being upset , when I spent money on

something other that what it was originally planned for, and talking to me about

it. Or if I spent more on something than the amount I originally agreed to and

talking to me about it.{even though I do not have access to look at the bank

account or know what is being paid or not paid, etc} But to throw a temper

tantrum like he did on Sunday and hit his fist on the wall leaving knuckle marks

and then go to sleep afterward and ignore everyone and never apologize. I do not

get it. I supposedly deserve this treatment because of my actions? There is

something wrong with this picture. Oh and now I am getting the silent

treatment.https://www.iamshaman.net/affiliatewiz/aw.aspx?A=317https://www.iamsha\

man.net/affiliatewiz/aw.aspx?A=317[Non-text portions of

this message have been removed]

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