Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 So Mid Feb we are going to Israel for a whopping 2 whole weeks. My brother will be there too so it's really nice that all of us will be together to see the grandparents. I am mostly going to stay with my in-laws. I am very worried about cross contamination issues and I don't really know how to deal with explaining yet again that my soup cannot be stirred with the rice or potato spoon. Or I cannot use the toaster that is full of bread crumbs. I think one of the reasons I hardly ate and had a constant belly ache last time I was there was due to cross contamination issues. My mother in law is so wonderful towards me and helps me very much but I guess it is hard to be mindful about these kind of things if you don't live with it. If anyone has suggestions how I can deal with this- that would be appreciated. It's also hard for me to eat from the communal food as people put their utensils in the lets say lamb dish that they eat their pasta or potatoes with. All of this is something I find very stressful to deal with. The other thing; What are great long lasting snacks I can bring myself from home? What are recipes from the Dehydrator I can bring with me? Does anyone have suggestions for the types of food I could pack with me when traveling from my in-laws to my grandparents house (it's over an hour drive and I would be there all day) I cannot really cook in my grandmas kitchen as she likes to do everything for me so it's hard to argue. Any tips would be so appreciated to make this SCD legal, hassle and stress free as possible. I am not the greatest when it comes to managing stress issues. I totally internalize it and it turns in to a major boogie man.. Much hugs to all of you for your time.. Jodi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 > > I am very worried about cross contamination issues and I don't really > know how to deal with explaining yet again that my soup cannot be > stirred with the rice or potato spoon. Or I cannot use the toaster > that is full of bread crumbs. > > I think one of the reasons I hardly ate and had a constant belly ache > last time I was there was due to cross contamination issues. Compare it to kashrut. Say you need to be as strict separating your dishes as someone who is black hat Orthodox. Otherwise, you won't eat the food. Because you feel that it will harm you, (materially instead of spiritually). She may not like it, she may not agree with it, but she'll get the point. > My mother in law is so wonderful towards me and helps me very much but > I guess it is hard to be mindful about these kind of things if you > don't live with it. > > If anyone has suggestions how I can deal with this- that would be > appreciated. It's also hard for me to eat from the communal food as > people put their utensils in the lets say lamb dish that they eat > their pasta or potatoes with. > > All of this is something I find very stressful to deal with. Well your brother is going to be with you. He's a yoga teacher, right? Have him do some yoga breathing with you to help you relax. Mara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 Mara, > > I am very worried about cross contamination issues and I don't really > > know how to deal with explaining yet again that my soup cannot be > > stirred with the rice or potato spoon. Or I cannot use the toaster > > that is full of bread crumbs. > > > > I think one of the reasons I hardly ate and had a constant belly ache > > last time I was there was due to cross contamination issues. > > > Compare it to kashrut. Say you need to be as > strict separating your dishes as someone who > is black hat Orthodox. Otherwise, you won't > eat the food. Because you feel that it will harm you, > (materially instead of spiritually). > > She may not like it, she may not agree with it, > but she'll get the point. Very good point. I will try this. Maybe it will sink in this way as she really wants to help me... > > > My mother in law is so wonderful towards me and helps me very much but > > I guess it is hard to be mindful about these kind of things if you > > don't live with it. > > > > If anyone has suggestions how I can deal with this- that would be > > appreciated. It's also hard for me to eat from the communal food as > > people put their utensils in the lets say lamb dish that they eat > > their pasta or potatoes with. > > > > All of this is something I find very stressful to deal with. > > Well your brother is going to be with you. He's a yoga > teacher, right? Have him do some yoga breathing with > you to help you relax. This cracked me up.. You're awesome! I will talk to my brother about it (he sporadically just does Yoga- like downward dog during conversations to chill) Jodi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 Jodi, Compare it to keeping kosher -- to a non-observant person, keeping meat and milk separate, having different sets of dishes, and so forth may seem odd or unnecessary. But to the observant person, it is essential, otherwise they cannot eat the food. Your SCD rules are different from the laws of kashrut, but they are just as critical for your well-being. Before considering what snack foods you can prepare and take, check to see what Iraeli import laws are. Remember your snacks being confiscated at the embassy, was it last year? Once you have that information in hand, you can compare it to what foods you currently tolerate, and figure out the snacks you can prepare. — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 Marilyn, > Compare it to keeping kosher -- to a > non-observant person, keeping meat and milk > separate, having different sets of dishes, and so > forth may seem odd or unnecessary. But to the > observant person, it is essential, otherwise they > cannot eat the food. Your SCD rules are different > from the laws of kashrut, but they are just as critical for your well-being. > You and Mara are totally right about this. I will do this. I think it will sink in this way. I hope my step-mother listens too. But if I have one kitchen I can schlep food with me all over and eat my own food so I don't have to bother with everyones kitchens. I am going to bring a couple of small thermouses this time too. > Before considering what snack foods you can > prepare and take, check to see what Iraeli import > laws are. Remember your snacks being confiscated > at the embassy, was it last year? Once you have > that information in hand, you can compare it to > what foods you currently tolerate, and figure out the snacks you can prepare. You are incredible- the kind of memory you have.. I totally forgot about this experience. What a good idea!! Thank you. I would be very sad if my SCD suitcase or food bag was confiscated. Jodi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 Dear Jodi,The suggestions, to explain to oyur family in Kosher framework seem perfect. So I won't re-make that suggestion!that leaves:"what to eat!" Which is a big 'nuff question. Esp as I seem to recall dairy is not an option for you. If you can do avocado, that may be one fall-back possibility. The other day I had a full day, had not brought food, ran to a convenience store and picked up an avocado and a head of lettuce. [Can you do lettuce?] Was a good meal, and one I'd repeat. Also, can you do olives? Such good olives there, and they are healthy, and while not a meal, a filling snack. Since you'll be doing research, perhaps you can find some SCD legal tuna or salmon in pouches. When I find those on sale, I buy a case [my husb not SCD] and it's a great quick, portable food.Of course, if you can do nuts, you're in luck. and if oyu can cook there, might you perhaps be able to make some of the same dishes that they will eat, such as shakshuk, the eggs baked in tomatoes and other veggies, put in a plastic container and bring along? If they will eat brisket, maybe you culd do your own, and have leftovers for several meals....Two weeks sounds great!best,Ruth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2009 Report Share Posted January 29, 2009 Ruth, Those are good ideas. I want to intro tomatoes (aren't Israeli Tomatoes the best???) and the idea about olives- which is filling, that might work too. I always loved the produce in Israel and then for a few years the quality really took a nose dive. The past two years it's been delicious again. My in laws also have an orange tree- so that is a treat!! The idea about shakshuka and stew kind of thing is awesome. Thanks! Jodi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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