Guest guest Posted November 21, 2003 Report Share Posted November 21, 2003 OH Starlet, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I hope the doctor got the msg when you told him how disappointed you were. Is there any way you can find a different doctor to work with? One that will act on your needs and help you through this? It seems to me the path would be much easier if the PCP was supportive. Good luck, pre-op surgery date 2-5-03 -- i am so sad went to the doctor and he had not even worked on my cases and its been 2.5 weeks since i was in the doctors office last..and now the doctor tells me he did not do anything... i told him with tears in my eyes i am very disappointed in him.. i cannot believe he didn't do anything.. i did all the leg work for him.. found a doctor that takes my HMO.. gawd... i feel like crying again.. what a let down.. i told the doctor again how upset i was.. how did all of you get thru the drama of doctors that drag there feet.. then my boy friend wants to shake up rather marry me.. i could not believe the night i was having.. sorry to unload to who ever reads this.. i am just sad.. starlet _________________________________________________________________ Set yourself up for fun at home! Get tips on home entertainment equipment, video game reviews, and more here. http://special.msn.com/home/homeent.armx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2003 Report Share Posted November 21, 2003 IM so sorry that you are going threw this, that really sucks, when you think things are going a certain way then all of a sudden boom! We find out the total opposite. Sorry again I hope things work out for you okay. a friend! h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2003 Report Share Posted November 21, 2003 In a message dated 11/21/2003 2:34:31 PM Central Standard Time, cfg1@... writes: my boy friend wants to shake up rather marry me.. i could not believe the night i was having.. sorry to unload to who ever reads this.. i am just sad.. starlet Well Starlet, It sounds like you need another PCP and a better boyfriend! If the BF can't committ then its time to dump him. Shacking up is what users do on the majority, not all, but most. Sometimes there are extenuating, but temporary circumstances, sometimes there just is no other way. But if you are wanting to marry and he doesn't then he is either one of two things. Not in love with you or a coward and afraid to committ to one woman. Hope the issue with the doctor works itself around to getting you a PCP that supports you. Wolfie Leeds, Alabama " Keep It Real & Off the Top " Lap Rny & Choly Dr. Lee Schmitt Medical Center East August 27,2003 336/271/200 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 22, 2003 Report Share Posted November 22, 2003 a quick weigh-in regarding the shacking up issue.. my shaker was a law student at the time .... both of us poor as poor can be. Young, struggling... etc. It was a matter of pooling our resources until we could afford a " real wedding " . As things turned out, we couldn't wait. After nine months of living together we ended up getting married in Las Vegas... typical but too, looking back, it was the best choice for us at the time. Things have a way of working out Starlet ... for better or worse. Follow your heart .... listen to your head ....trust your feelings ... and make the most honorable choices you can, for yourself, and for the people you love. my two cents Skinny wishes from Mandy in CA 275/148/126 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 23, 2003 Report Share Posted November 23, 2003 In a message dated 11/21/2003 2:34:31 PM Central Standard Time, cfg1@... writes: my boy friend wants to shake up rather marry me.. i could not believe the night i was having.. sorry to unload to who ever reads this.. i am just sad.. starlet Well Starlet, It sounds like you need another PCP and a better boyfriend! If the BF can't committ then its time to dump him. Shacking up is what users do on the majority, not all, but most. Sometimes there are extenuating, but temporary circumstances, sometimes there just is no other way. But if you are wanting to marry and he doesn't then he is either one of two things. Not in love with you or a coward and afraid to committ to one woman. Hope the issue with the doctor works itself around to getting you a PCP that supports you. Wolfie Leeds, Alabama " Keep It Real & Off the Top " Lap Rny & Choly Dr. Lee Schmitt Medical Center East August 27,2003 336/271/200 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 23, 2003 Report Share Posted November 23, 2003 thank you so much.. i woudl love a quick vegas wedding.. but it all depends on him coming to terms with his self.. he had 2 previouse bad marraiges.. and thinks ours woudl be.. i will just give hiim time.. nothing but is all can be done.. i just love that silly old man of mine.. starlet >From: BilletDoux003@... >Reply-To: Gastric_Bypass_Family >To: Gastric_Bypass_Family >Subject: Re: i am so sad >Date: Sat, 22 Nov 2003 12:22:17 EST > > > > >a quick weigh-in regarding the shacking up issue.. > > >my shaker was a law student at the time .... both of us poor as poor can >be. > Young, struggling... etc. It was a matter of pooling our resources >until >we could afford a " real wedding " . As things turned out, we couldn't wait. >After nine months of living together we ended up getting married in Las >Vegas... typical but too, looking back, it was the best choice for us at >the time. > >Things have a way of working out Starlet ... for better or worse. Follow >your heart .... listen to your head ....trust your feelings ... and make >the >most honorable choices you can, for yourself, and for the people you love. > > >my two cents >Skinny wishes from Mandy in CA >275/148/126 > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 23, 2003 Report Share Posted November 23, 2003 thank you wolfey.. we are workign through it.. >From: Wolfeyes205@... >Reply-To: Gastric_Bypass_Family >To: Gastric_Bypass_Family >Subject: Re: i am so sad >Date: Sat, 22 Nov 2003 02:52:17 EST > >In a message dated 11/21/2003 2:34:31 PM Central Standard Time, >cfg1@... writes: >my boy friend wants to shake up rather marry me.. i could not believe the >night i was having.. sorry to unload to who ever reads this.. i am just >sad.. starlet > >Well Starlet, > It sounds like you need another PCP and a better boyfriend! If the BF >can't committ then its time to dump him. Shacking up is what users do on >the >majority, not all, but most. Sometimes there are extenuating, but >temporary >circumstances, sometimes there just is no other way. But if you are >wanting to >marry and he doesn't then he is either one of two things. Not in love with >you >or a coward and afraid to committ to one woman. Hope the issue with the >doctor >works itself around to getting you a PCP that supports you. > >Wolfie >Leeds, Alabama > " Keep It Real & Off the Top " >Lap Rny & Choly >Dr. Lee Schmitt >Medical Center East >August 27,2003 >336/271/200 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2003 Report Share Posted December 1, 2003 Starlet, dry up and get used to it. A couple of weeks is nothing, most will spend a couple of months and some will spend a couple of years wading through this mess. You'll need a boat load of toughness to make it through this little setback, it's going to be a rough ride for you. Marina starbabyyy2003@... wrote: > went to the doctor and he had not even worked on my cases and its been > 2.5 > weeks since i was in the doctors office last..and now the doctor tells > me he > did not do anything... i told him with tears in my eyes i am very > disappointed in him.. i cannot believe he didn't do anything.. i did > all the > leg work for him.. found a doctor that takes my HMO.. gawd... i feel like > crying again.. what a let down.. i told the doctor again how upset i > was.. > how did all of you get thru the drama of doctors that drag there > feet.. then > my boy friend wants to shake up rather marry me.. i could not believe the > night i was having.. sorry to unload to who ever reads this.. i am just > sad.. starlet > > _________________________________________________________________ > Set yourself up for fun at home! Get tips on home entertainment > equipment, > video game reviews, and more here. > http://special.msn.com/home/homeent.armx > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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