Guest guest Posted December 15, 2003 Report Share Posted December 15, 2003 Well, I am 22 years old just about 23 and I have had a boyfriend for four years and we have been living together for two years. I was diagnosed with Lupus Nephritis in October. My boyfriend, Greg, his father died when he was 16. So, eleven years ago. About middle November I have been having signs of renal failure and it has been a difficult time for me. Before I started getting worse, we were talking about getting married in a year or two. And now he says that he is feeling trapped. And then he made a comment that he didn't want to have children because he doesn't want them to not have a mother. So, I am wondering if he is just dealing with what I am going through in his own way or if he is trying to push me away because he still has unresolved issues from his Dad's death. Because everytime we start getting close again, he gets weird around me. And I don't know if this is really a healthy situation for me to be in right now. Because what I read on the boards, your husbands seem to be really supportive. I guess I am just needing some advice to either get out of this realtionship or see if Greg comes around and supports me more? I hope this makes sense. I tried to make it as short as possible because I could go on forever with the details. Thanks, Jeanmarie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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