Re: To anita

[Guest guest]

Good Point Beth,

Wouldn't want to make the nurses pass out - who would be there to

help me??? LOL!

Anita

Trying harder to not let too much hang out

> > > I think everything I have said is being taken the wrong way by

> > some

> > people.

> > > Here's some clarification.....This is not a " secret. " This is a

> > very private

> > > personal decision that I have made. This is not people outside

my

> > homes

> > > business nor will it ever be. I have asked someone who may know

my

> >

> > husband to

> > > please not say anything because these are my wishes to be able

to

> > keep my

> > > life PERSONAL. As far as my mother in law....I'm already

> > called " fat and

> > > gross " I do NOT need anything else added to these comments

> > as " failure " etc.

> > > If someone wants to scream from a rooftop that they had this

> > surgery...more

> > > power to you. If someone, as myself, wants this to stay in

their

> > home...even

> > > more power to you. I do not wish that MY business is put out

there

> >

> > by anyone

> > > other than myself. If at any time I choose to tell someone it

will

> >

> > come from

> > > me....not from someone who " heard " it through the grape vine. I

> > live in a

> > > very small town on the Cape...a place where my husband was born

> > and

> > raise and

> > > then same with his parents. It seems as if they know everyone

and

> > as far as

> > > my mother in law and her mouth....it can be and has been very

> > damaging for

> > > me. I don't mean to rage on, but I feel as if I have been

laughed

> > at for MY

> > > choice in not telling this whole damn town my personal business

> > and

> > I wont

> > > stand for it. I know none of you know me...except for one

person

> > on

> > this

> > > list, so it wouldn't hurt me at all to leave. As far as the

> > meetings...I'd

> > > come and go to my one and never go again. I don't feel that

anyone

> >

> > should

> > > ever make someone feel this way, but they have...and that's a

> > shame. I hope

> > > in later times people don't make the mistake of making

> > something " personal "

> > > the same thing as a " secret. " I can't believe I actually lost

> > sleep

> > over this

> > > crap...

> >

> >

> >