Well...I have to put my two cents in....

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First Happy New Year to all.....haven't been up to

posting in awhile. I couldn't help but notice this

private women's club beginning and as a spouse (we

alternate life style couples have these problems too)

I feel we spouses are being a bit put upon. It's hard

to overcome such things in the best of circumstances

however I often don't want to cause my partner more

pain...we see our loved ones in so much of it. I

think a small signal might help and remember we also

aare just people and not mind readers. We often

sppend hours researching our illness together as well

as oftenpicking up extra duties, try to be supportive

both financiallly and emotionally....am also scared

of life without you.....in other words please take the

lead when you can. We're kinda lost too. Love and

best wishes to all....Waltt & ...ps...sorry I

evesread wwhere I shouldn't...but I'm a bit

nosy...hehehe Waltt

--- ploughgirl50@... wrote:

> On the side of practicality: I used my U-shaped

> pillow to help

> prevent/remind me NOT to arch my neck.

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> Lillian Santana

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> and Great Pyrenees dogs, and Barbados Sheep

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