For Married /coupled women in the group

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Hello ladies,

I am just wondering if any of you have had inimate issues with your spouse

/significant other. I started needing to use a wheelchair about the 2 week in

December and have noticed that my husband hasnt touched me since. I dont know

if it is related or not.However i feel lower than lower and i feel more like

his child than his wife.

I also got my hair cut due to my upcoming surgury ..as to not frighten the

dickens out of our children(2 & 4). I have never had short hair (not that it is

short ,but for me it is ..mine use to be past my bra strap) now it sits at

the nape of my necklace line. Anyway the point I a trying to make is I feel

Very unattractive ..my surgury is in three weeks and i am scared to death!

And my hubby has stopped inimate relations with me. I feeel like i just want

to crawl into a whole! Sorry ladies but I am hurting so. I HATE this chiari

monster..it has ruined my life!

thanks for listening. Was just wondering if any of you are going thru this or

have gone thru any of this. I feel so alone!

Sheila In PA