Guest guest Posted November 12, 2003 Report Share Posted November 12, 2003 Hi! I guess I'll try once again. I seem to be sending these posts but no replys. So let's see where should I start? I know how about with my VITALS: 90/40 blood pressure is low today. 77 pulse normal, 95.8 temp.alright I guess. PAIN LEVEL: LOW-LOW-LOW. My name is Debi (please call me Bee) I live in Sunny but lately Smoky Lemon Grove California. Yea! you guessed it. San Diego. Right now I'm currently holding @47 and that gate up ahead once opened will make me 48. GREAT!! I grew up in the Upper Part of Michigan ( I'm what's known as a Yupper) I really miss it there. Snow and all. I have 1 husband right now. (had two others. But we won't go there.) Right now I love every holiday. That could change on a moments notice. My favorite holiday is Feb. 25th My grandson's birthday. His name is Caleb Heath. He will turn 1 years old. And he's my first grandbaby. I have the most wonderful son, named who by the way is Caleb,s Daddy. And one awesome daughter in-law. Who everyone thinks is my daughter not in-law. What makes me happy? Caleb my family. And my little friends at school. I'm a preschool teacher. Which by the way I believe is what keeps my going every day. What makes me mad? My Husband, when he just doesn't want to understand me and this Lupus... When he gets home It's computer time. But when I get home and want to go on-line he can't handle it. And then it's Him,Him,Him. Sex,Sex,Sex... Which if I can't He plays a mind trip on me. Who is it, that I remind you of? You need to forget the bad experience. Then gets mad. Doesn't talk to me for days. Until I have hour long sessions. Enough of that you asked. What't pisses me off? Yep! same thing. Big Boys Do pout. Do I have any fantasies. You bet I do. But I'll share later. It's now 1:40 a.m. and He should be waking up to see what I'm typing, That why I,m doing this so late and because I too can't sleep. I watch day's of our lives. Just because I've been watching since 1973. The year it started. Anything else to share? Yes but first let's see if anyone gets this first... So BEE will be saying "Becareful, Be sweet, Be kind, BELIEVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 12, 2003 Report Share Posted November 12, 2003 Bee, Did you subscribe to the group and send your personal info to our owner? If not, that may be why your messages didn't get through the first time. In any case, welcome to the group. Please tell us something about yourself, where you are in the Lupus process, and how we can help. This group is full of good people with humor, intelligence and experience who are willing and eager to share. Hugs, MM aka: Mike, one of the moderators Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 12, 2003 Report Share Posted November 12, 2003 Hi Bee, Don't have a clue where I was when you sent posts. I did let a bunch pile up because I wasn't feeling well and ended up deleting some too. Sorry!! This is a really good group to belong to if you are like me and have need of information and a shoulder to cry on from time to time. I'm glad to hear you have a grandson. We have 3 grandchildren. Like you, I'm a pretty proud grandmother. Hugs - a B. one of the moderators I'm trying again Hi! I guess I'll try once again. I seem to be sending these posts but no replys. So let's see where should I start? I know how about with my VITALS: 90/40 blood pressure is low today. 77 pulse normal, 95.8 temp.alright I guess. PAIN LEVEL: LOW-LOW-LOW. My name is Debi (please call me Bee) I live in Sunny but lately Smoky Lemon Grove California. Yea! you guessed it. San Diego. Right now I'm currently holding @47 and that gate up ahead once opened will make me 48. GREAT!! I grew up in the Upper Part of Michigan ( I'm what's known as a Yupper) I really miss it there. Snow and all. I have 1 husband right now. (had two others. But we won't go there.) Right now I love every holiday. That could change on a moments notice. My favorite holiday is Feb. 25th My grandson's birthday. His name is Caleb Heath. He will turn 1 years old. And he's my first grandbaby. I have the most wonderful son, named who by the way is Caleb,s Daddy. And one awesome daughter in-law. Who everyone thinks is my daughter not in-law. What makes me happy? Caleb my family. And my little friends at school. I'm a preschool teacher. Which by the way I believe is what keeps my going every day. What makes me mad? My Husband, when he just doesn't want to understand me and this Lupus... When he gets home It's computer time. But when I get home and want to go on-line he can't handle it. And then it's Him,Him,Him. Sex,Sex,Sex... Which if I can't He plays a mind trip on me. Who is it, that I remind you of? You need to forget the bad experience. Then gets mad. Doesn't talk to me for days. Until I have hour long sessions. Enough of that you asked. What't pisses me off? Yep! same thing. Big Boys Do pout. Do I have any fantasies. You bet I do. But I'll share later. It's now 1:40 a.m. and He should be waking up to see what I'm typing, That why I,m doing this so late and because I too can't sleep. I watch day's of our lives. Just because I've been watching since 1973. The year it started. Anything else to share? Yes but first let's see if anyone gets this first... So BEE will be saying "Becareful, Be sweet, Be kind, BELIEVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"The LUPIES Store" Come check out our store...http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies"The LUPIES Web Page"http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html"The LUPIES online photo albums!" Check out what your fellow Lupies look like...http://www.picturetrail.com/gallery/view?username=lupies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2003 Report Share Posted November 13, 2003 HIya Bee.. yep .. got it! I know what you are going through .. since your hubby likes going on the computer so much .. ask him to read an article on my site .. It is an article on Love and Respect http://www.itzarion.com/awareness.html#loveandrespect And remember, his problems about your past relationships are also your problems. The two of you need to come to terms over the relationship you have now.. not the relationships that " used to be " . Having an illness like Lupus is hard enough without having to deal with extra stress so it will help YOU to help HIM to overcome these problems. It is like when I tell my clients when they complain that training their dog is taking so long. I tell them, you can spend two weeks now training your dog .. or spend the rest of his lifetime (about 12 years) dealing with the problem. You can spend time now facing and correcting the problem .. or you can waste the time spent for the next 12 years dealing with the mess. hang in there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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