Personal Questions

[Guest guest]

Admittedly, I dont post very often. Its usually only when I feel lke I

really have something to add or when a thread really sparks my interest. Some

of

you are acting completely out of line regarding the question about being able

to swallow sperm after surgery. Thats right - I typed SPERM!!!! SPERM! There

- I did it twice more. Get over it. It was a completely legitimate question

and even something I had wondered about. Even though I dont swallow, I still

wondered, so I imagine that a woman who does would really need to know. This

forum is suppose to be about support and it is suppose to be a place to you

can ask anything, even questions you might be too embarrased to ask your doctor

face to face. And some of you ran her smooth out of the group. You should

be so ashamed of yourselves although I highly doubt you are.

Those of you who can't handle such personal topics as sex, should take a hint

from the subject line that she put on her email - PERSONAL QUESTION - and

just skip over it.

~ami~

Lap RNY 5-13-03

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[Guest guest]

This group is getting gross about things like that. Ask something about our

surgery not something like that. Thats WAY to much information for this group.

Sorry, but call her doctor or something I don't need to see it, or read it.

I think its time to leave.

[Guest guest]

I did not run her out of the group nor understand why she would feel

like she needed to leave. No one was rude in their response just taken

aback that it was asked. I'm sorry that she felt that she needed to

leave....but as she has a right to ask the question, we also have a

right to our opinion and being vocal about the shock of asking the

question on the board is as legitimate opinion/question as the original

asked. In retrospect, I wouldn't have had the gumption to ask such a

question, in fact, I would probably use my surgery to get out of this

practice all together...LOL! Sorry, she left, but let's move forward

and use this board as the source it has become to one and all. As in

life, people come and go...but we can't lose site of the good that comes

from this group. Just one gal's opinion!

Carol Matar

Personal Questions

Admittedly, I dont post very often. Its usually only when I feel lke I

really have something to add or when a thread really sparks my interest.

Some of

you are acting completely out of line regarding the question about being

able

to swallow sperm after surgery. Thats right - I typed SPERM!!!! SPERM!

There

- I did it twice more. Get over it. It was a completely legitimate

question

and even something I had wondered about. Even though I dont swallow, I

still

wondered, so I imagine that a woman who does would really need to know.

This

forum is suppose to be about support and it is suppose to be a place to

you

can ask anything, even questions you might be too embarrased to ask your

doctor

face to face. And some of you ran her smooth out of the group. You

should

be so ashamed of yourselves although I highly doubt you are.

Those of you who can't handle such personal topics as sex, should take a

hint

from the subject line that she put on her email - PERSONAL QUESTION -

and

just skip over it.

~ami~

Lap RNY 5-13-03

261/174.5/130

[Guest guest]

Okay guys, can we PLEASE get back to the reason for this board instead

of fighting about this topic? I said my peace and moved on, whoever that

was that asked the question obviously decided to do the same, so can't

we all?

T.

Lap RNY 6/20/03

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