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Thank you some much, ... that does help me a lot. The

reason why I've initially gone ahead with this, is that I too figure

now is the time to do it, while I'm realtively young and healthy.

I have a few specific fears that maybe other people can respond

to?

First, that the RPE expander will widen my face and nose. I have

read about some experiences people have had where that

happened. The process itself sounds incredibly unfun, but I

know that I can cope with that. It's the facial changes that worry

me. The RPE was thrown into my treatment almost as an

afterthought I felt like, and I didn't realize what a laborious

process it is.

Second, that my nose will change through the upper jaw surgery.

I just can't stand that idea. I love my nose and consider it my best

facial feature, and I also consider it part of my family heritage.

Third, that the process will drag on much longer than anticipated.

I got engaged this winter, and already we're planning on a

super-long engagement because we don't know what my

condition will be at various stages. But frankly I'm ready to throw

in the towel and elope to Vegas because of all I've read here....

people exhausted 5 months after surgery, people swollen for 2(!)

years after surgery.... Really, my ortho gave me no sense of any

of this.

Anyone have words of reassurance? :)

> > Hi, I am a 29-year-old patient who currently has lower braces

> > and is waiting to get in to see a surgeon to begin the rest of

the

> > process: RPE, braces, upper and lower surgery. I have to

say,

> > having now spent a lot of time reading postings on this site, I

> > am reconsidering going through with any of it.

> >

> > I went to see an orthodontist originally because my teeth

were

> > crowded and one of the top front teeth was slightly crooked.

And

> > was told I need to have everything done. Yes, I have a

recessed

> > chin, and it's something I'm self-conscious of, but not to the

point

> > that I would otherwise choose to have surgery to correct it. I

have

> > some problems that are probably associated with my jaw

issues

> > (decay in the back teeth, some breathing problems) but I've

lived

> > with them my whole life, and so far we're only talking minor

> > inconveniences. And otherwise, I love my nose and would

never

> > want to change it, and am content enough with my

appearance

> > that I'm not sure I want to go through this 2-3 year agony. I'm

also

> > not someone that would seek out cosmetic surgery for

herself. I

> > only sought out orthodontic work thinking it would be

> > non-invasive.

> >

> > So I guess what I'm asking is, is it really worth it? I

understand

> > why it would be for people with considerable underbites or

> > overbites, or sleep apnea, but I'm having problems

> > comprehending why it's worth it to go through all of this

> > otherwise, just to straighten your teeth and possibly improve

your

> > profile. It sounds like cosmetically you're not " right " for years,

and

> > that physically some of the risks (such as permanent nerve

> > damage) are really undesirable ones.

> >

> > Are there people out there who felt this way and have since

felt

> > that they've done the right thing? Are there people out there

> > reconsidering?

> >

> > Meaghan

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My only concern if you don't have the surgery would be future

possible problems. If I were you I'd ask the surgeon what he thinks

your chances of developing tmj problems or something else might be.

If he/she sees no future problems (or maybe just a small chance) then

I say don't fix it if it's not broken. However if this surgery could

save you from future tmj problems then you might want to think more

seriously about doing it. I agree that you should not do it for

purely cosmetic reasons, as things can go wrong, I am a testament to

that. You have a big decision to make, feel free to pick our brains

for help!

Katt

> Hi, I am a 29-year-old patient who currently has lower braces

> and is waiting to get in to see a surgeon to begin the rest of the

> process: RPE, braces, upper and lower surgery. I have to say,

> having now spent a lot of time reading postings on this site, I

> am reconsidering going through with any of it.

>

> I went to see an orthodontist originally because my teeth were

> crowded and one of the top front teeth was slightly crooked. And

> was told I need to have everything done. Yes, I have a recessed

> chin, and it's something I'm self-conscious of, but not to the

point

> that I would otherwise choose to have surgery to correct it. I have

> some problems that are probably associated with my jaw issues

> (decay in the back teeth, some breathing problems) but I've lived

> with them my whole life, and so far we're only talking minor

> inconveniences. And otherwise, I love my nose and would never

> want to change it, and am content enough with my appearance

> that I'm not sure I want to go through this 2-3 year agony. I'm

also

> not someone that would seek out cosmetic surgery for herself. I

> only sought out orthodontic work thinking it would be

> non-invasive.

>

> So I guess what I'm asking is, is it really worth it? I understand

> why it would be for people with considerable underbites or

> overbites, or sleep apnea, but I'm having problems

> comprehending why it's worth it to go through all of this

> otherwise, just to straighten your teeth and possibly improve your

> profile. It sounds like cosmetically you're not " right " for years,

and

> that physically some of the risks (such as permanent nerve

> damage) are really undesirable ones.

>

> Are there people out there who felt this way and have since felt

> that they've done the right thing? Are there people out there

> reconsidering?

>

> Meaghan

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YEs, when I meet with the surgeon I wll definitely ask him about

all that. I've also requested a sit down with my orthodontist to

discuss this with him.

Tell me, is anyone out there from Los Angeles? can you tell me if

you've had good success with your surgeon/ortho? I'm on

Kaiser, so I'm using their surgeon (There's only one)

> > Hi, I am a 29-year-old patient who currently has lower braces

> > and is waiting to get in to see a surgeon to begin the rest of

the

> > process: RPE, braces, upper and lower surgery. I have to

say,

> > having now spent a lot of time reading postings on this site, I

> > am reconsidering going through with any of it.

> >

> > I went to see an orthodontist originally because my teeth

were

> > crowded and one of the top front teeth was slightly crooked.

And

> > was told I need to have everything done. Yes, I have a

recessed

> > chin, and it's something I'm self-conscious of, but not to the

> point

> > that I would otherwise choose to have surgery to correct it. I

have

> > some problems that are probably associated with my jaw

issues

> > (decay in the back teeth, some breathing problems) but I've

lived

> > with them my whole life, and so far we're only talking minor

> > inconveniences. And otherwise, I love my nose and would

never

> > want to change it, and am content enough with my

appearance

> > that I'm not sure I want to go through this 2-3 year agony. I'm

> also

> > not someone that would seek out cosmetic surgery for

herself. I

> > only sought out orthodontic work thinking it would be

> > non-invasive.

> >

> > So I guess what I'm asking is, is it really worth it? I

understand

> > why it would be for people with considerable underbites or

> > overbites, or sleep apnea, but I'm having problems

> > comprehending why it's worth it to go through all of this

> > otherwise, just to straighten your teeth and possibly improve

your

> > profile. It sounds like cosmetically you're not " right " for years,

> and

> > that physically some of the risks (such as permanent nerve

> > damage) are really undesirable ones.

> >

> > Are there people out there who felt this way and have since

felt

> > that they've done the right thing? Are there people out there

> > reconsidering?

> >

> > Meaghan

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Hi Meaghan. It's me again. :)

Congratulations on your engagement - I got engaged this winter too.

Looks like we have a lot in common.

I can't help you with info on the effects of RPE or upper jaw surgery

(mine will be lower only so that's all I really know), but in terms of

the time required, I do have some thoughts.

I think the best advice, if you go ahead with this, is to be prepared

for it to take longer than you initially expect. In the beginning, I

was told 1 year in braces, then surgery, then another 6 months in

braces and...voila! I'd have my new bite all set to go.

It hasn't turned out that way. I've now had my braces on for 2 years,

and I'll be having surgery next month, then have post-surgery

treatment for who knows how long before my braces are off. (We've put

off our wedding until August 2004. Hopefully they'll be off by then.)

From what I've heard from others, my experience isn't at all unusual.

So I guess the bottom line is...you won't really know for sure when

this will be over. You have to either forge right on with the rest of

your life regardless, or put some things off until it's done. In my

case, I decided it was worth it to wait for my wedding, but I've

carried on with everything else.

Hope this helps too.

K.

> > > Hi, I am a 29-year-old patient who currently has lower braces

> > > and is waiting to get in to see a surgeon to begin the rest of

> the

> > > process: RPE, braces, upper and lower surgery. I have to

> say,

> > > having now spent a lot of time reading postings on this site, I

> > > am reconsidering going through with any of it.

> > >

> > > I went to see an orthodontist originally because my teeth

> were

> > > crowded and one of the top front teeth was slightly crooked.

> And

> > > was told I need to have everything done. Yes, I have a

> recessed

> > > chin, and it's something I'm self-conscious of, but not to the

> point

> > > that I would otherwise choose to have surgery to correct it. I

> have

> > > some problems that are probably associated with my jaw

> issues

> > > (decay in the back teeth, some breathing problems) but I've

> lived

> > > with them my whole life, and so far we're only talking minor

> > > inconveniences. And otherwise, I love my nose and would

> never

> > > want to change it, and am content enough with my

> appearance

> > > that I'm not sure I want to go through this 2-3 year agony. I'm

> also

> > > not someone that would seek out cosmetic surgery for

> herself. I

> > > only sought out orthodontic work thinking it would be

> > > non-invasive.

> > >

> > > So I guess what I'm asking is, is it really worth it? I

> understand

> > > why it would be for people with considerable underbites or

> > > overbites, or sleep apnea, but I'm having problems

> > > comprehending why it's worth it to go through all of this

> > > otherwise, just to straighten your teeth and possibly improve

> your

> > > profile. It sounds like cosmetically you're not " right " for years,

> and

> > > that physically some of the risks (such as permanent nerve

> > > damage) are really undesirable ones.

> > >

> > > Are there people out there who felt this way and have since

> felt

> > > that they've done the right thing? Are there people out there

> > > reconsidering?

> > >

> > > Meaghan

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Hi Meaghan!

You certainly bring up very valid questions. However, the answer to

a lot of them is " it depends " . (I'm not trying to be funny either)

How much movement you require makes a LOT of difference in how your

appearance will change. If you only need a little expansion, you

very likely won't notice any change to your nose. I had my palate

expanded about .25 " and it didn't cause any noticable change to my

nose. I'll tell you now that having the expander put in was one of

the worst things that I've ever done. I was ready to just chuck to

whole process and say forget it. It didn't hurt, it was just very

uncomfortable. However, that was a VERY short term feeling (a couple

of days or so) and I got used to it very quickly! Now, it's just an

inconvenience and only slightly bothers me. Since there are so many

different types of expanders, your experience may be different than

mine.

I can't really say that I did this process while I was young and

health (how about old and healthy?). I wish I would have heard about

this process years ago. I would have jumped on it then. Bad teeth

kind of runs in my family, and if you look at everyone, you'll see

the same problem that I have: Small lower jaw that ends up putting a

LOT of pressure on the back teeth and causing them to wear fast and

eventually fall out. My dad has had dentures since he was abut 28,

my mom has had partials since about 40, my older brother has lost his

back teeth on the right side, even my grandmother has the same

symptoms.

There are decisions that have to be made when you undertake this

process. Everything from the commitment that it takes to reach the

end, to deciding the correct treatment path for you, to weighing the

chances for permanent numbness against the chance for permanent tooth

loss. For me, it was a no brainer. A little pain now for the chance

to keep my teeth later. My surgeon and I talked at length about the

pros and cons of having this surgery and I feel I made the right

decision for me. I'm very happy with the result (my surgery was Jan

8th). I still have numbness, but I knew going in that I could have

numbness for up to a year (and may never get some of it back) and I

am noticing it coming back more and more every day. I still have a

bite problem where I'm only hitting on 2 teeth, but we are working on

correcting that problem. However, I'm confident that all of the

problems will be worked through and in the end, I'll have a full set

of chompers for a very long time.

Hope my ramblings help!

Jeff

> Thank you some much, ... that does help me a lot. The

> reason why I've initially gone ahead with this, is that I too

figure

> now is the time to do it, while I'm realtively young and healthy.

>

> I have a few specific fears that maybe other people can respond

> to?

>

> First, that the RPE expander will widen my face and nose. I have

> read about some experiences people have had where that

> happened. The process itself sounds incredibly unfun, but I

> know that I can cope with that. It's the facial changes that worry

> me. The RPE was thrown into my treatment almost as an

> afterthought I felt like, and I didn't realize what a laborious

> process it is.

>

> Second, that my nose will change through the upper jaw surgery.

> I just can't stand that idea. I love my nose and consider it my

best

> facial feature, and I also consider it part of my family heritage.

>

> Third, that the process will drag on much longer than anticipated.

> I got engaged this winter, and already we're planning on a

> super-long engagement because we don't know what my

> condition will be at various stages. But frankly I'm ready to throw

> in the towel and elope to Vegas because of all I've read here....

> people exhausted 5 months after surgery, people swollen for 2(!)

> years after surgery.... Really, my ortho gave me no sense of any

> of this.

>

> Anyone have words of reassurance? :)

>

>

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Thank you Jeff!

Your " ramblings " were very helpful. I think that generally

speaking, I won't require too much movement (that may just be

the optimism/naivete speaking though). When I find that out

more specifically, that may help me make my decision.

Both of my parents have also had many teeth problems and

thousands of dollars of work done later in life -- that is partly what

motivated me to explore my options now. I'm just having

problems accepting that so much work has to be done just to

correct my bite and teeth, at the possible expensive of other

facial features.

I'm so glad to hear that you're doing so well post-surgery! Here's

to your continued progress....

Meaghan

> > Thank you some much, ... that does help me a lot.

The

> > reason why I've initially gone ahead with this, is that I too

> figure

> > now is the time to do it, while I'm realtively young and healthy.

> >

> > I have a few specific fears that maybe other people can

respond

> > to?

> >

> > First, that the RPE expander will widen my face and nose. I

have

> > read about some experiences people have had where that

> > happened. The process itself sounds incredibly unfun, but I

> > know that I can cope with that. It's the facial changes that

worry

> > me. The RPE was thrown into my treatment almost as an

> > afterthought I felt like, and I didn't realize what a laborious

> > process it is.

> >

> > Second, that my nose will change through the upper jaw

surgery.

> > I just can't stand that idea. I love my nose and consider it my

> best

> > facial feature, and I also consider it part of my family heritage.

> >

> > Third, that the process will drag on much longer than

anticipated.

> > I got engaged this winter, and already we're planning on a

> > super-long engagement because we don't know what my

> > condition will be at various stages. But frankly I'm ready to

throw

> > in the towel and elope to Vegas because of all I've read

here....

> > people exhausted 5 months after surgery, people swollen for

2(!)

> > years after surgery.... Really, my ortho gave me no sense of

any

> > of this.

> >

> > Anyone have words of reassurance? :)

> >

> >

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Thanks Meaghan,

We're all here to help each other out. Sometimes it's for the advise

from the experienced, sometimes it's just to confirm our suspicions,

other times it's to whine (I do my fair share of that!!).

I think you're doing the right thing in checking into this now,

before the problems start showing up. You may decide to do it now,

you may decide to do it later. Heck, you may decide to not do it at

all. But at least you're making an informed decision!! THAT is the

most important thing of all!!

Jeff

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Hi Meaghan!

I will have to agree with Katt. Make sure you are having this

surgery for the right reasons. I hat upper/lower and upper expansion

on March 8th last year. I was also told that I will have lots of

problems later with boneloss and I would be better off having the

surgery to take care of the problem now.

I ended up having braces for one year before the surgery and I am

finally getting my braces off in April.

I did not have major problems before the surgery, but started having

lots of pain afterwards. I am still eating soft foods or cut the

food up really small. I am seeing a pain specialist every 2-3

weeks. I am happy to get my braces off, but I will not have the

result I was hoping for. I have an overbite again (not quite as big

as before) and only a few teeth are accually touching. My ortho

thinks that there is not much more she will be able to accomplish

with the braces, so we are kind of giving up and hope that nature

will do the rest of the work.

The part I am most upset about is, that when I told the pain

specialist the reason they told me to have the surgery, he told me

that they found out that it is not really true in most cases.

So, I spend the last 2 years of my life waisting a lot of money and

making myself miserable for no reason at all.

Am I happy I had the surgery. NOOOOOO! I would never do it again.

Are there a lot more people out there that are very happy with it.

You can read that yourself. I am an exception. (At least I think so)

On top of all of that, since the surgery I noticed that my cheekbones

are more noticable. I was told that it is a bonus and that lots of

people like that look. Well, to me I still looks like my face is

slightly swollen. Noboby, but my husband notices the same, but it

kind of bothers me.

One good thing is that my nose looks a little shorter now than before

the surgery. But it is a very slight change.

I hope I have not depressed you completely. But just like Katt

said: Why fix it when it is not broken.

I hope you will make the right decission.

Sabine

> Hi, I am a 29-year-old patient who currently has lower braces

> and is waiting to get in to see a surgeon to begin the rest of the

> process: RPE, braces, upper and lower surgery. I have to say,

> having now spent a lot of time reading postings on this site, I

> am reconsidering going through with any of it.

>

> I went to see an orthodontist originally because my teeth were

> crowded and one of the top front teeth was slightly crooked. And

> was told I need to have everything done. Yes, I have a recessed

> chin, and it's something I'm self-conscious of, but not to the

point

> that I would otherwise choose to have surgery to correct it. I have

> some problems that are probably associated with my jaw issues

> (decay in the back teeth, some breathing problems) but I've lived

> with them my whole life, and so far we're only talking minor

> inconveniences. And otherwise, I love my nose and would never

> want to change it, and am content enough with my appearance

> that I'm not sure I want to go through this 2-3 year agony. I'm

also

> not someone that would seek out cosmetic surgery for herself. I

> only sought out orthodontic work thinking it would be

> non-invasive.

>

> So I guess what I'm asking is, is it really worth it? I understand

> why it would be for people with considerable underbites or

> overbites, or sleep apnea, but I'm having problems

> comprehending why it's worth it to go through all of this

> otherwise, just to straighten your teeth and possibly improve your

> profile. It sounds like cosmetically you're not " right " for years,

and

> that physically some of the risks (such as permanent nerve

> damage) are really undesirable ones.

>

> Are there people out there who felt this way and have since felt

> that they've done the right thing? Are there people out there

> reconsidering?

>

> Meaghan

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Well, yeah, you've completely depressed me. I mean, I've been

told to do it for a lot of reasons, bone loss being just one of them.

I got a second opinion before I went ahead with this. I know that

there are a lot of good reasons to do it, but.... why is your pain so

bad? Have they figured it out? I'm sorry that it went that way for

you.

> > Hi, I am a 29-year-old patient who currently has lower braces

> > and is waiting to get in to see a surgeon to begin the rest of

the

> > process: RPE, braces, upper and lower surgery. I have to

say,

> > having now spent a lot of time reading postings on this site, I

> > am reconsidering going through with any of it.

> >

> > I went to see an orthodontist originally because my teeth

were

> > crowded and one of the top front teeth was slightly crooked.

And

> > was told I need to have everything done. Yes, I have a

recessed

> > chin, and it's something I'm self-conscious of, but not to the

> point

> > that I would otherwise choose to have surgery to correct it. I

have

> > some problems that are probably associated with my jaw

issues

> > (decay in the back teeth, some breathing problems) but I've

lived

> > with them my whole life, and so far we're only talking minor

> > inconveniences. And otherwise, I love my nose and would

never

> > want to change it, and am content enough with my

appearance

> > that I'm not sure I want to go through this 2-3 year agony. I'm

> also

> > not someone that would seek out cosmetic surgery for

herself. I

> > only sought out orthodontic work thinking it would be

> > non-invasive.

> >

> > So I guess what I'm asking is, is it really worth it? I

understand

> > why it would be for people with considerable underbites or

> > overbites, or sleep apnea, but I'm having problems

> > comprehending why it's worth it to go through all of this

> > otherwise, just to straighten your teeth and possibly improve

your

> > profile. It sounds like cosmetically you're not " right " for years,

> and

> > that physically some of the risks (such as permanent nerve

> > damage) are really undesirable ones.

> >

> > Are there people out there who felt this way and have since

felt

> > that they've done the right thing? Are there people out there

> > reconsidering?

> >

> > Meaghan

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Hi Meaghan!

I am sorry. I didn't mean to upset you. Just wanted to give you

another opinion.

I wish I would have read some of the negative outcomes before I had

the surgery, but there might not be many people with problems or

nobody lets you know. It took me a long time to bring up the courage

to write about the negative experience, but I felt it would be the

right thing to do.

The pain I am having is nerve related. Nerves are very tricky, so it

is hard to find out the best way to 'fix' the problem. My doctor sais

that the nerves get moved around during the surgery and that they are

not always very forgiving. I am taking ELAVIL and the doctor has been

playing around with it to see what would be the best dosage to

minimize the pain. My bigges problem is that I have a constant

burning in my tounge and lower lip. It has been getting better and

we hope it will go away when I get my braces out and I won't have to

wear any more bands. The reason I am still not chewing much is that

I get TMJ pains if I do, so I have been taken it very easy. It is a

slow progress, but I am hoping I will be back to normal soon.

It was not an easy road for me, but there are a lot of people that

had great outcomes.

Sabine

> > > Hi, I am a 29-year-old patient who currently has lower braces

> > > and is waiting to get in to see a surgeon to begin the rest of

> the

> > > process: RPE, braces, upper and lower surgery. I have to

> say,

> > > having now spent a lot of time reading postings on this site,

I

> > > am reconsidering going through with any of it.

> > >

> > > I went to see an orthodontist originally because my teeth

> were

> > > crowded and one of the top front teeth was slightly crooked.

> And

> > > was told I need to have everything done. Yes, I have a

> recessed

> > > chin, and it's something I'm self-conscious of, but not to the

> > point

> > > that I would otherwise choose to have surgery to correct it. I

> have

> > > some problems that are probably associated with my jaw

> issues

> > > (decay in the back teeth, some breathing problems) but I've

> lived

> > > with them my whole life, and so far we're only talking minor

> > > inconveniences. And otherwise, I love my nose and would

> never

> > > want to change it, and am content enough with my

> appearance

> > > that I'm not sure I want to go through this 2-3 year agony. I'm

> > also

> > > not someone that would seek out cosmetic surgery for

> herself. I

> > > only sought out orthodontic work thinking it would be

> > > non-invasive.

> > >

> > > So I guess what I'm asking is, is it really worth it? I

> understand

> > > why it would be for people with considerable underbites or

> > > overbites, or sleep apnea, but I'm having problems

> > > comprehending why it's worth it to go through all of this

> > > otherwise, just to straighten your teeth and possibly improve

> your

> > > profile. It sounds like cosmetically you're not " right " for

years,

> > and

> > > that physically some of the risks (such as permanent nerve

> > > damage) are really undesirable ones.

> > >

> > > Are there people out there who felt this way and have since

> felt

> > > that they've done the right thing? Are there people out there

> > > reconsidering?

> > >

> > > Meaghan

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I haven't finished reading all the responses to your original

question, but thought I would throw my two cents in. I would have

never considered having this surgery when I was in my teens or even

early 20's. I knew that there was something wrong with my jaw, had

even gone through one set of braces already, but like you, I could

never concieve of having a surgery which would be more cosmetic than

for function. However, as I got older, the problems I was having got

worse (I had an 11 mm overbite) as in my sleep apnea, my chewing, my

tooth enamel wearing funny because of my off bite. I didn't have

these problems when I was younger (I'm 28 right now), it had just

been since I was around 24-25 that it got a lot worse in a short

amount of time. My dentist mentioned to me that I would have less

periodontal problems if my teeth weren't so crowded, but it wouldn't

be worth getting the braces if I didn't have the surgery as well.

That was the start of it a few years ago, I'm now 6 months post op

and out of my braces and I'm so happy that I went through with the

surgery.

The shape of my nose didn't change (I was really concerned about

that too, because my nose looks just like my mother's nose, she died

when I was 2 so it's sort of like I carry a little of her with me),

they put a stitch in the base of my nose inside the sinus cavity (I

think it's called an alar stitch or something like that, I'm sure

someone on here will correct me if I'm wrong). The procedure did take

a lot longer than I anticipated, just getting approved for the

insurance and then I had to switch surgeons in the middle and my new

surgeon was having my ortho make adjustments to my teeth months after

my first surgeon said that I was ready for the surgery. The whole

ordeal never goes along the timeline that you have set up.

On the side of getting married, I am all about eloping to Vegas,

since that's what I did in December of 1999 and we had an absolute

blast. I know it sounds cheesy, but Vegas was made for newlyweds and

honeymooners, everytime someone would hear that we just got married,

we would get free coupons for stuff, the hotel gave us free stuff, we

got a discount on our rooms and our dinners, it was the best time

ever. And my husband and I aren't much for gambling, there's just so

much to do in Vegas, I highly recommend the eloping route.

Hope this helps, J.

> > > Hi, I am a 29-year-old patient who currently has lower braces

> > > and is waiting to get in to see a surgeon to begin the rest of

> the

> > > process: RPE, braces, upper and lower surgery. I have to

> say,

> > > having now spent a lot of time reading postings on this site,

I

> > > am reconsidering going through with any of it.

> > >

> > > I went to see an orthodontist originally because my teeth

> were

> > > crowded and one of the top front teeth was slightly crooked.

> And

> > > was told I need to have everything done. Yes, I have a

> recessed

> > > chin, and it's something I'm self-conscious of, but not to the

> point

> > > that I would otherwise choose to have surgery to correct it. I

> have

> > > some problems that are probably associated with my jaw

> issues

> > > (decay in the back teeth, some breathing problems) but I've

> lived

> > > with them my whole life, and so far we're only talking minor

> > > inconveniences. And otherwise, I love my nose and would

> never

> > > want to change it, and am content enough with my

> appearance

> > > that I'm not sure I want to go through this 2-3 year agony. I'm

> also

> > > not someone that would seek out cosmetic surgery for

> herself. I

> > > only sought out orthodontic work thinking it would be

> > > non-invasive.

> > >

> > > So I guess what I'm asking is, is it really worth it? I

> understand

> > > why it would be for people with considerable underbites or

> > > overbites, or sleep apnea, but I'm having problems

> > > comprehending why it's worth it to go through all of this

> > > otherwise, just to straighten your teeth and possibly improve

> your

> > > profile. It sounds like cosmetically you're not " right " for

years,

> and

> > > that physically some of the risks (such as permanent nerve

> > > damage) are really undesirable ones.

> > >

> > > Are there people out there who felt this way and have since

> felt

> > > that they've done the right thing? Are there people out there

> > > reconsidering?

> > >

> > > Meaghan

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I think the " exhausted at 5 months " is an exaggerated interpretation

of my post #56257. Check it out. I said that I did not have full

stamina for certain physical things, like cross country skiing, at 5

months post-op, not that I was exhausted in general. Several weeks

ago we went skiing and I managed about 2.5 hours, which I've never

done before. I doubt if I could have done it the following day, but

I'm certainly getting there. Like I said, I'm no athlete at 47 years

of age. I don't train for this stuff, I'm a typical weekend warrior.

I'd love to hear from anyone who is running marathons at 5 months

post-op!

Folks should not be exhausted at 5 months post op. I would encourage

them to talk to their surgeon if that's the case.

> Irish!

>

>

> But frankly I'm ready to throw

> > in the towel and elope to Vegas because of all I've read here....

> > people exhausted 5 months after surgery, people swollen for 2(!)

> > years after surgery.... Really, my ortho gave me no sense of any

> > of this.

> >

> > Anyone have words of reassurance? :)

> >

> >

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Hi Meaghan, I do not want to talk you into or out of this surgery

but I do want to tell you how this all came about and turned out for

me. I have never liked my weak chin or overbite and talked to my

dentist about it 15 years ago to see if braces would help my teeth

and chin. He said at the time that braces wouldn't help and I would

have to have surgery to correct those problems. He also said that

it would be considered cosmetic and insurance would not pay for it

if I had it done. I knew that I would never have it done for

cosmetic reasons so didn't consider it again for 10 years. 5 years

ago I started having problems with my gums receding. They were

causing a lot of nerve pain when I ate anything cold, sweet or too

hot. Brushing them became a nightmare unless I was very careful and

used very warm water to rinse my teeth. I asked the same dentist

about the receding gums and he told me that was because I was over

40 and a lot of people start having receding gums at my age.

Because I had been unhappy with him for a while I decided to go to

another dentist that told me that the receding gums have nothing to

do with age but are related to the bite. Since I had never had

braces for my overbite my teeth never connected properly when I

chewed and my gums were receding because of it. I had also

developed the beginnings of TMJ with some clicking and cracking when

I opened my mouth widely. The new dentist suggested surgery to

correct the problems and said there was really no other way to do

it. I also needed to have all of my teeth lengthened to also make

the perfect connection. I am a grinder so all of my teeth are

shorter than they should be.

In April of 2000 I talked to the recommended orthodontist and we

started the process of braces, surgery, recovery and

reconstruction. I got my braces on in October, 2000 and had my

surgery in January, 2002. My braces came off in October, 2002 and

reconstruction begins next month. I had 2 dental implants last

month and I will have all of my teeth crowned with temporaries until

next year when the permanent crowns go in.

It has ALL been worth it and I wish I had started the process 15

years ago no matter what my other dentist said. My insurance

company deemed the surgery necessary and all of that was paid. The

crowns and braces have to come out of pocket. I have no more TMJ

and I can open my mouth as far as I could before the surgery with no

more cracking. The swelling was gone 2 months after too. I don't

know of anyone that has had swelling for 2 years after unless they

had complications. My only residual numbness is in my lower lip and

a small section of my chin. It is still getting better and better

but may never go away completely. I'm so used to the tingling in

that little section of lip and chin that I may actually miss it when

it's gone. It's a reminder of all that I have been through.

If you are doing this for cosmetic reasons only I wouldn't do it

but, if you have functional problems as I did they may only get

worse over time and mine did. I wouldn't change anything I have

done even though, yes, it was inconvenient and painful at times but

all worth it. You will make the right decision for you no matter

what we all say but do it for the right reasons and keep the end in

sight.

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