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The thud was Zach pulling the full tub of Cool Whip off the counter

that Alyx left there. It landed upside down of course. And I had a

2 year old with pretty white hands.

YA SEE!

> OF HELL! Today is a bad day. For one, I'm bitchy, tired and

achy.

> My fibromyalgia is kickin my butt today. I'm mad at the world

today

> so bear with me.

> My biological dad (the one who always fails to come through on his

> promises) swore to my daughter that he would be here Saturday.

Today

> he called and gave me some lame ass excuse of how his car broke

down

> blah blah...he's used this one I don't know how many times. He was

> supposed to bring my new 32 year old sister. I say new because he

> just told me about her last year. I have yet to meet her.

Needless

> to say, my daughter and my other sister are highly upset. Dad left

> me to give out his appologies to them once again.

>

> My 12yo daughter is just like Eliza Thornberry's sister from the

> cartoon The Thornberries, without the hygiene. She believes her

sole

> purpose in life is to sit in front of the TV and watch Yu-Gi-OH.

> Since we have no cable right now, we get 0 channels. She's been

> driving me insane. " when are you gonna get some money to pay the

> cable bill? " nag nag nag. She has ONE chore. To empty and load

the

> dishwasher. Think she can do it correctly? HECK NO. I went to

> start the dishwasher and she had thrown stuff in there upside down

> and in such disarray that half the washer couldn't be loaded with

the

> rest of the dishes, so she left them in the sink. I marched her

back

> in there, flung open the door, and said.. " what the h*** is this

> mess? " I proceeded to rant about how I had to hike 30 miles

barefoot

> in a snowstorm to school...(uh hem) about how I had to do dishes by

> hand when I was a child, and I didn't think it too much for her to

> take 10 minutes out of her busy day to load it correctly. She gave

> me that heavy sigh with the eye roll and said " oh mom, take a

> pill...I can't be perfect " . I -at that moment- recalled the one

time

> my mother slapped me across the face. I had to leave the

> room...grabbing Zach off the dining room table as I walked by,

> crunching over the carpet full of cracker crumbs I just shampooed

> right before Christmas. It also sports a nice assortment of pink

> Amoxicillan and orange Ibuprofen stains from where I've had to hog

> tie him down to gag the medicine down his throat

>

> Zach is feeling better, as evident by his 'dr. destructo' mode. He

> still won't drink or eat..what is this, day 4? On the positive

side,

> he is sleeping in his toddler bed now, and has said an array of new

> words in just a week. He said 'ba' for bath yesterday.

>

> I just heard a thud in the kitchen...guess I better go.

>

> Can I have one of those valium suppositories for myself please?

>

>

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All I can say is {{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}

ellen

Re: A day in the life...

The thud was Zach pulling the full tub of Cool Whip off the counter

that Alyx left there. It landed upside down of course. And I had a

2 year old with pretty white hands.

YA SEE!

> OF HELL! Today is a bad day. For one, I'm bitchy, tired and

achy.

> My fibromyalgia is kickin my butt today. I'm mad at the world

today

> so bear with me.

> My biological dad (the one who always fails to come through on his

> promises) swore to my daughter that he would be here Saturday.

Today

> he called and gave me some lame ass excuse of how his car broke

down

> blah blah...he's used this one I don't know how many times. He was

> supposed to bring my new 32 year old sister. I say new because he

> just told me about her last year. I have yet to meet her.

Needless

> to say, my daughter and my other sister are highly upset. Dad left

> me to give out his appologies to them once again.

>

> My 12yo daughter is just like Eliza Thornberry's sister from the

> cartoon The Thornberries, without the hygiene. She believes her

sole

> purpose in life is to sit in front of the TV and watch Yu-Gi-OH.

> Since we have no cable right now, we get 0 channels. She's been

> driving me insane. " when are you gonna get some money to pay the

> cable bill? " nag nag nag. She has ONE chore. To empty and load

the

> dishwasher. Think she can do it correctly? HECK NO. I went to

> start the dishwasher and she had thrown stuff in there upside down

> and in such disarray that half the washer couldn't be loaded with

the

> rest of the dishes, so she left them in the sink. I marched her

back

> in there, flung open the door, and said.. " what the h*** is this

> mess? " I proceeded to rant about how I had to hike 30 miles

barefoot

> in a snowstorm to school...(uh hem) about how I had to do dishes by

> hand when I was a child, and I didn't think it too much for her to

> take 10 minutes out of her busy day to load it correctly. She gave

> me that heavy sigh with the eye roll and said " oh mom, take a

> pill...I can't be perfect " . I -at that moment- recalled the one

time

> my mother slapped me across the face. I had to leave the

> room...grabbing Zach off the dining room table as I walked by,

> crunching over the carpet full of cracker crumbs I just shampooed

> right before Christmas. It also sports a nice assortment of pink

> Amoxicillan and orange Ibuprofen stains from where I've had to hog

> tie him down to gag the medicine down his throat

>

> Zach is feeling better, as evident by his 'dr. destructo' mode. He

> still won't drink or eat..what is this, day 4? On the positive

side,

> he is sleeping in his toddler bed now, and has said an array of new

> words in just a week. He said 'ba' for bath yesterday.

>

> I just heard a thud in the kitchen...guess I better go.

>

> Can I have one of those valium suppositories for myself please?

>

>

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What a miserable day!!! Vent, bitch, whatever all you want!! Next, lock

the kids into their bedrooms, crank up the stereo so you can't hear them,

and let Calgon take you away!

Sue

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I would have PREFERRED the pill form, but at that moment in time I

would have bent over for it! I'm much better now, Zach took a long

nap, I sent the daughter to her room, and I cleaned up and vegged for

awhile.

Deep breath and moving forward

> > Can I have one of those valium suppositories for myself please?

> >

> :

>

> Sounds pretty bad. But are you sure you want the suppository????

>

> Salli

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> , did I miss something with that has been going on here. Where is your

man?

Lori <

> ALONE?

Shit. When did THAT happen?

(((((GINA))))))

Sissi who misses a lot of emails ... <

it's ok, it's not official, but it may as well be. seems as if i've found a man

who's all talk and not enough action.

you know what? i said i wasn't gonna make any more resolutions, but here's one

that i think will be pretty easy to fulfill...no more men, ever, period, finito.

i have my kids, that's all i need :)

" Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " - Mr.

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In a message dated 12/29/02 11:55:53 PM Eastern Standard Time,

MUOLLO3@... writes:

> it's ok, it's not official

No it isn't ok... damn it! Why can't these men ever step up to deal with

everything. SHIT ! I am really sorry.

I hope by the time you get this he'll be kissing your feet and begging

forgivness.

Hugs

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Oh

I am sorry.. I know you have your kids and thats great.. mine are my

lifeline and my loves.

But this still sucks!!!!!!

((((GINA)))))

Love Jeanette

> > , did I miss something with that has been going on here.

Where is your man?

>

> Lori <

>

>

> > ALONE?

>

> Shit. When did THAT happen?

>

> (((((GINA))))))

>

> Sissi who misses a lot of emails ... <

>

>

>

> it's ok, it's not official, but it may as well be. seems as if i've

found a man who's all talk and not enough action.

>

> you know what? i said i wasn't gonna make any more resolutions, but

here's one that i think will be pretty easy to fulfill...no more men,

ever, period, finito. i have my kids, that's all i need :)

>

>

>

> " Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " -

Mr.

>

>

>

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> I hope by the time you get this he'll be kissing your feet and begging

forgivness.

Hugs <

HA! keep hoping wendy, it ain't gonna happen. thanks anyway tho. actually, by

the time i got this from you, he had sent me this nasty email...

> hello I would just like to say I'm really sorry that we don't get along and

that I can't be there the way you want me to I do love you and it's more

than words though you disagree I think we are both acting a bit immature

about this whole situation. We seriously need to get our shit 2gether. And

if this is the end of our relationship, can we at least remain friends for

our own sake as well as the Baby's sake,I don't think it's fair to shun me

out totally especially from the baby too only because you hate me or are

pissed off at me. And I'm gonna do all I can to be in our child's life, so

for you to keep that from me,would only make the Baby grow up hating you for

keeping it away from me it won't hate me so that's on you! unless you fill

its head up with a bunch of lies! <

nice, huh? guess i should learn to read my own signature :(

" Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " - Mr.

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> What HAPPENED, ? What led up to this?

Jacquie <

ahh, it's a long story, but as for what happened last night preceding that

email...

in the last 4 days, he had called me twice. once was friday around 11pm and i

didn't answer the phone. i honestly didn't answer it on purpose, but there's

nothing to say that i couldn't have already been in bed, right? then on

saturday, he IM'ed me and said he'd come over after his chores. i wasn't at the

computer and he never came over. then sunday he IM'ed me again and again i

wasn't at the computer, but of course, i don't have a life, so i'm SUPPOSED to

be at the computer, right? so he got all pissy and thought i wasn't talking to

him. then he called last night around 7:30pm and, again, i didn't answer, so he

leaves me this message about " what's the deal? do you hate me now? blah blah

blah " so i called him back and told him i had other things to do than just sit

around waiting for his calls, then he said he'd call me back and hung up. a few

hours later, like 10:30, he called me back and asked me if i hated him and i

told him i didn't hate anybody. then he asked me if i had any disappointments in

him and i said yes, actually i do. so then he asked me what and i told him what

i've been telling him all along that he's not involved enough and he only comes

around when HE feels like it. then i told him i was tired of him being a big

baby when he didn't get my complete attention. we argued a bit more and then i

told him i was sick and had to go and he got mad at me!!! then he mumbled some

shit about sorry to be bothering me and hung up. next thing i know, he's at the

door, actually unlocking it and trying to come in! but i had done the bottom

lock, which i thankfully never gave him a key to, so he couldn't get in. then he

starts banging on the door and ringing the doorbell!!! at 11pm!!! well, you know

damn well i'm not gonna answer the door to THAT, so he stomps upstairs to his

mom's and calls me. i answered and he wanted to know why i didn't open the door,

so he could talk to me and i said " i just told you i was sick, didn't i? " then

he says " how can you be sick and pregnant at the same time? that doesn't make

any sense " wtf????? so then i told him that was the stupidest question i had

EVER heard and i told him i was sick of him being a big baby every time he

wasn't the center of attention. then i told him to leave my key on the front

seat of the car, so he goes " it's like that, huh? " and i said " you don't come

around here enough anymore to just let yourself in whenever you feel like it, so

yeah, it's like that " oh, and at some point during the conversation, he actually

had the nerve to ask me if i had " company " !!!! so anyway, then i told him that i

had to go before i got sick again and he got mad at me again!!! then he finally

agreed to let me go and we hung up and i thought that was that. then i woke up

to that email this morning.

whew! that was too damn long of a story and that was only last night! glad you

asked? ;)

" Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " - Mr.

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> HA! keep hoping wendy, it ain't gonna happen. thanks anyway tho. actually,

by the time i got this from you, he had sent me this nasty email...

>

What HAPPENED, ? What led up to this?

Jacquie

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> > Can I have one of those valium suppositories for myself please?

> >

> :

>

> Sounds pretty bad. But are you sure you want the suppository????

LOL Salli, that's what I was thinking. Anything will do in a pinch I

suppose.

Sissi who is supposed to be writing humorous new year's predictions and not

getting very far ...

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ALONE?

Shit. When did THAT happen?

(((((GINA))))))

Sissi who misses a lot of emails ...

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> > Sissi who is supposed to be writing humorous new year's predictions and

not getting very far ... <

>

>

> hey sissi, i have a humorous one for you. starts with wishing for sex and

ends with being pg and alone. pretty funny, huh? :-P

>

>

>

>

> " Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " - Mr.

>

>

>

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>>>>>>>>>>

> hello I would just like to say I'm really sorry that we don't get along

and

that I can't be there the way you want me to I do love you and it's more

than words though you disagree I think we are both acting a bit immature

about this whole situation.

<<<<<<<<<<

I agree with this part...you know I do.

>>>>>>>>

We seriously need to get our shit 2gether.

<<<<<<<<

Yes, you do...and he needs to stop using the number " 2 " in place of " to " ;-)

>>>>>>>>>>>>>

And

if this is the end of our relationship, can we at least remain friends for

our own sake as well as the Baby's sake,I don't think it's fair to shun me

out totally especially from the baby too only because you hate me or are

pissed off at me. And I'm gonna do all I can to be in our child's life, so

for you to keep that from me,would only make the Baby grow up hating you for

keeping it away from me it won't hate me so that's on you! unless you fill

its head up with a bunch of lies! <

<<<<<<<<<<<<<

Oops, this paragraph started out nice enough, he should have stopped at " all

I can to be in our child's life " .......

You two have to either get on with it, or ....get on with it.

Penny

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So is there a reason you didn't mention ME at all in this post?

You KNOW how I hate to be left out.

;-)

Penny

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> What HAPPENED, ? What led up to this?

Jacquie <

ahh, it's a long story, but as for what happened last night preceding that

email...

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> Sounds to me like, hey please lets' be friends so you don't take me to

court and get a child support order slapped on my lazy ass.

:( <

oh, he won't have a choice with that one. baby's going on our DSS case on friday

" Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " - Mr.

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> > baby's going on our DSS case on friday

> WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>

> ????????

>

>

umm, not sure what you mean here, but DSS is social services. we

already have an open case which trevor is still on. he has a recert

on friday so i will add the baby to the case. they automatically ask

for child support as it gets paid directly to them.

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OK I'm stupid. As I know it Children's services took care of that and DSS

was like where you went if you were under investigation. Thank God that is

not the case! Silly me :)

Hope everything goes easily and as it should.

Hugs

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