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What a nightmare. It could easily be eczema on your nipples that is what

happened to my friend and after several months she finally weaned her 13

month old daughter. She just couldn't take it anymore. Go see someone

else. A naturopath pehaps? Don't stop trying to get help someone can help

you who is pro bf. I wish you luck and healing.

Wendi

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I thought you'd all get a kick out of how supportive my primary care doctor

is of nursing...

I was there today for some exzema <sp> that I have on my legs and feet.

While I was there, I decided to ask his opinion on my nipple problem. I

said

" after 7 weeks, treating for thrush (of which I have no symptoms), and 2 LC

visits, I still have horrendously cracked nipples, could this be related to

my exzema? "

He said " no, probably not. of course you have cracked nipples, you

traumatize that sensitive area how many times a day? You're going to have

them until you stop breastfeeding. " And went on to tell me that we

couldn't

treat the exzema on my legs until I stop BFing also. He also said that as

long as the cracks aren't bothering me or the baby, that I'll just have to

deal with it until I stop. Hello. Not bothering? Let me slice your

nipple

in half and see how that " doesn't bother " you.

How supportive, eh?

Is it ANY wonder why so many women formula feed or give up on BFing? I'm

not

at all surprised. I invite anyone to stand in my shoes today and question

why a woman would give up BFing.

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Does anyone know of any homeopathic ways to treat eczema?

The Monster Doctor gave me a 'script for a steroid (to treat my legs, we're

still treating nipples as yeast and I FINALLY got diflucan from my OB).

Anyway, I don't want to use a steroid if I can get away with something

natural, as I don't want HOlden getting the steroid. I just need to treat

the itchiness.

Thanks guys...you're always so wonderful ;-)

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Hi ,

I have really bad psoriasis and excema. It is only on my scalp and in my

ears. How weird is that?? I was using a prescription topical gel

(Temovate)that contained a steroid, but only when it got bad. I started

using Dr. Bronner's castille soap instead of shampoo, and it disappeared. I

don't use the medicine anymore and it is totally gone. I think that I was

allergic to the fragrance or detergents in shampoo. I use that now in the

shower totally, no soap, no shampoo and no conditioner. I haven't had

symptoms since I started using this. It's available at health food stores

and quite a few places online. LMK if you want some links.

HTH,

Tammy

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>

>

> From: Mygrdntool@...

>

> Does anyone know of any homeopathic ways to treat eczema?

>

> The Monster Doctor gave me a 'script for a steroid (to treat my

> legs, we're

> still treating nipples as yeast and I FINALLY got diflucan from my OB).

> Anyway, I don't want to use a steroid if I can get away with something

> natural, as I don't want HOlden getting the steroid. I just need

> to treat

> the itchiness.

>

> Thanks guys...you're always so wonderful ;-)

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<< LMK if you want some links.

>>

Tammy~

Please...thanks! Wow...in the ears???? YUCK!

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On the subject of laundry soap for eczema. The only thing my friend can use

is Amway's detergent. She even brings it with her when she comes here so I

can run our sheets through a cycle before she sleeps on them.

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Califlora Calendula Gel, Jojoba oil, Eucerin Cream, vitamins C, A & B

complex, Evening Primrose Oil capsules 500 mg capsule 2x per day, bathe

with Lavendar essential oil, bathe in warm not hot water, stay in tub for

at least 20 minutes. Moisturize frequently. What kind of laundry

detergent do you use? I have found All Clear Free to be the least

irritating of all the detergents and have tried more than you care to know.

I can understand what you are going through and hope it clears up soon.

Wendi

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Does anyone know of any homeopathic ways to treat eczema?

The Monster Doctor gave me a 'script for a steroid (to treat my legs, we're

still treating nipples as yeast and I FINALLY got diflucan from my OB).

Anyway, I don't want to use a steroid if I can get away with something

natural, as I don't want HOlden getting the steroid. I just need to treat

the itchiness.

Thanks guys...you're always so wonderful ;-)

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Gee... breastfeeding is traumatic on your nipples? As if they were doing

something they were not designed to do?? Hrmph. :)

Actually, I heard nearly the same thing last night and this morning.

, my little guy with the heart defect/VSD, has had a fever, and only

a fever, for a few days. (Sorry Hannah that I didnt show up the other

night for the 4pm ET chat -- he was the reason!) I finally called the Ped

to let her know what was going on, and that I wanted to get an opinion that

the fever wasnt causing any stress on him that would add to his heart

problems. He had increased respirations (62 per min) which is high (normal

for his age is 30-40 per min) but with a fever, its pretty normal. So we

went in, no unusual respiratory sounds, no unusual heart sounds... but the

doc ordered a nebulizer breathing treatment which Jeff protested but

endured. :) At least he slept better after this treatment than he had in

the past two nights.

The next morning, the Ped called me back and wanted to make sure it wasnt

pneumonia, so we went back for x-rays... not pneumonia. She also noticed

in his chart that we hadnt done blood work (a blood draw into a tube, not a

finger stick) for lead and anemia. She wanted us to go ahead and do it

now, and get a CBC and blood culture while they were taking blood. I told

them one stick only, 15 secs to draw blood, or they were done. 15 secs

into it, no blood, so I called it done. The doc asked me if I wanted her

to do it (!!) and when I asked her how vital this stick was to his

health... she paused and admitted that he didnt have to have it done. We

left. still only has a fever, and it doesnt respond to Tylenol, so

Im thinking its just something viral that will eventually run its course.

It has been three days now, so it should be breaking soon. As I type this,

he is acting like a normal 17 month old, playing outside on a bike.

A long story just to tell you that while doing his " history " the doc asks

what he has had to eat or drink, and of course, I tell her that he has been

nursing more than normal for him, but is still eating, just less of it, and

still drinking fluids, just less of it. She says, " Are you planning on

weaning him any time soon? " so I tell her that I wasnt going to rush it,

and do something silly like put tabasco sauce on my nipples, or plan a trip

out of town for a week (something she has suggested before!) in order to

make it happen suddenly. I told her I was going to let him finish nursing

naturally, and she nodded. BUT, each time she or anyone else commented how

s symptoms were not like the other kids they had seen, the ones who

needed respiratory therapy, or hospitalization, or antibiotic therapy, I

quickly pointed out how lucky he was to have the protection of

breastmilk... or how lucky he is that he is a breastfed baby. :) Several

times I added something about new research that showed breastmilk killing

bacteria or cancer... Especially how this was his *first* illness. They

all got the hint. I enjoyed myself immensely. :)

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That bugs me more than anything(no ones really ever SAID anything to me)

---those head nods--when you can tell they think you are wrong but holding it

back--just " hhmm I see " grrrr

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What a great advocate you are for your son. I have seen children

repeatedly stuck for a routine blood sample and no one stepping in to say

that is enough. I am proud of you. You keep informing those docs and

maybe one day they'll figure out that the reason they don't see the kids in

their extended nursing is because they aren't getting sick. Could he be

cutting teeth? Zaid has been know to run a fever for more than four days

when he was cutting a big tooth. He had no other symptoms.

Wendi

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Gee... breastfeeding is traumatic on your nipples? As if they were doing

something they were not designed to do?? Hrmph. :)

Actually, I heard nearly the same thing last night and this morning.

, my little guy with the heart defect/VSD, has had a fever, and only

a fever, for a few days. (Sorry Hannah that I didnt show up the other

night for the 4pm ET chat -- he was the reason!) I finally called the Ped

to let her know what was going on, and that I wanted to get an opinion that

the fever wasnt causing any stress on him that would add to his heart

problems. He had increased respirations (62 per min) which is high (normal

for his age is 30-40 per min) but with a fever, its pretty normal. So we

went in, no unusual respiratory sounds, no unusual heart sounds... but the

doc ordered a nebulizer breathing treatment which Jeff protested but

endured. :) At least he slept better after this treatment than he had in

the past two nights.

The next morning, the Ped called me back and wanted to make sure it wasnt

pneumonia, so we went back for x-rays... not pneumonia. She also noticed

in his chart that we hadnt done blood work (a blood draw into a tube, not a

finger stick) for lead and anemia. She wanted us to go ahead and do it

now, and get a CBC and blood culture while they were taking blood. I told

them one stick only, 15 secs to draw blood, or they were done. 15 secs

into it, no blood, so I called it done. The doc asked me if I wanted her

to do it (!!) and when I asked her how vital this stick was to his

health... she paused and admitted that he didnt have to have it done. We

left. still only has a fever, and it doesnt respond to Tylenol, so

Im thinking its just something viral that will eventually run its course.

It has been three days now, so it should be breaking soon. As I type this,

he is acting like a normal 17 month old, playing outside on a bike.

A long story just to tell you that while doing his " history " the doc asks

what he has had to eat or drink, and of course, I tell her that he has been

nursing more than normal for him, but is still eating, just less of it, and

still drinking fluids, just less of it. She says, " Are you planning on

weaning him any time soon? " so I tell her that I wasnt going to rush it,

and do something silly like put tabasco sauce on my nipples, or plan a trip

out of town for a week (something she has suggested before!) in order to

make it happen suddenly. I told her I was going to let him finish nursing

naturally, and she nodded. BUT, each time she or anyone else commented how

s symptoms were not like the other kids they had seen, the ones who

needed respiratory therapy, or hospitalization, or antibiotic therapy, I

quickly pointed out how lucky he was to have the protection of

breastmilk... or how lucky he is that he is a breastfed baby. :) Several

times I added something about new research that showed breastmilk killing

bacteria or cancer... Especially how this was his *first* illness. They

all got the hint. I enjoyed myself immensely. :)

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<< BUT, each time she or anyone else commented how

s symptoms were not like the other kids they had seen, the ones who

needed respiratory therapy, or hospitalization, or antibiotic therapy, I

quickly pointed out how lucky he was to have the protection of

breastmilk... or how lucky he is that he is a breastfed baby. :) Several

times I added something about new research that showed breastmilk killing

bacteria or cancer... Especially how this was his *first* illness. They

all got the hint. I enjoyed myself immensely. :)

>>

,

Ohhh!! Sounds like fun! : ) Good job! I hope your little one is feeling

better REAL soon!

You'll be in my thoughts!

Dana : )

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Wendi~

Thanks for all of the suggestions. The trick now is to find all of the

remedies! I know Jojoba Oil is available @ Body Shop and Evening Primrose is

quite common. Don't women use Eve. Primrose for menopausal symptoms?

I have used Era for my entire life as a detergent. I don't think that's the

cause, since I have it on my feet (I don't wear socks, I live in

Birkenstocks) and the backs of my knees (I live in shorts). I think that I

picked it up in the hospital (is it a contagious thing?) because that's when

it started.

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More likely than not the cycle started in the hospital from their harsh

detergents. The problem is, as I well know, once the cycle has started it

is very difficult to break. All the products that I mentioned are

available online and at health food stores. Eve primrose is used for lots

of stuff including menopause and labor induction.

Wendi

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Wendi~

Thanks for all of the suggestions. The trick now is to find all of the

remedies! I know Jojoba Oil is available @ Body Shop and Evening Primrose

is

quite common. Don't women use Eve. Primrose for menopausal symptoms?

I have used Era for my entire life as a detergent. I don't think that's

the

cause, since I have it on my feet (I don't wear socks, I live in

Birkenstocks) and the backs of my knees (I live in shorts). I think that I

picked it up in the hospital (is it a contagious thing?) because that's

when

it started.

Again, thank you much ;-)

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http://www.wholefoods.com/market/2.8.4/products/0,1054,018787762325,00.html

Sorry it took me so long to post this. It's is the link for Dr. Bronners at

wholefoods.com. If you have one in your area, it would be cheaper to buy it

there because they charge a lot for shipping. I found it at other places on

the net, but the prices were high. I paid 5.99 for a 32 oz bottle at a local

HFS. It REALLY goes a long way, because you're supposed to dilute it. I use

the supermild baby soap, because the others have fragrance, although they

are natural fragrances.

HTH,

Tammy

>

>

>

> ,

>

> More likely than not the cycle started in the hospital from their harsh

> detergents. The problem is, as I well know, once the cycle has

> started it

> is very difficult to break. All the products that I mentioned are

> available online and at health food stores. Eve primrose is used

> for lots

> of stuff including menopause and labor induction.

>

> Wendi

>

> Re: Frustration...

>

> From: Mygrdntool@...

>

> Wendi~

>

> Thanks for all of the suggestions. The trick now is to find all of the

> remedies! I know Jojoba Oil is available @ Body Shop and Evening

> Primrose

> is

> quite common. Don't women use Eve. Primrose for menopausal symptoms?

>

> I have used Era for my entire life as a detergent. I don't think that's

> the

> cause, since I have it on my feet (I don't wear socks, I live in

> Birkenstocks) and the backs of my knees (I live in shorts). I

> think that I picked it up in the hospital (is it a contagious

> thing?) because that's

> when

> it started.

>

> Again, thank you much ;-)

>

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Tammy,

I do like doctor Bronner's but I recommend their baby version as it is less

drying than their other types. Eczema can get worse if it gets dry.

Wendi

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>

> From: Mygrdntool@...

>

> Wendi~

>

> Thanks for all of the suggestions. The trick now is to find all of the

> remedies! I know Jojoba Oil is available @ Body Shop and Evening

> Primrose

> is

> quite common. Don't women use Eve. Primrose for menopausal symptoms?

>

> I have used Era for my entire life as a detergent. I don't think that's

> the

> cause, since I have it on my feet (I don't wear socks, I live in

> Birkenstocks) and the backs of my knees (I live in shorts). I

> think that I picked it up in the hospital (is it a contagious

> thing?) because that's

> when

> it started.

>

> Again, thank you much ;-)

>

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In a message dated 6/6/99 1:04:36 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

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<< Eve primrose is used for lots

of stuff including menopause and labor induction. >>

I used EPO for labor induction =)

Martha

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Martha,

How is your recovery coming along?

Wendi

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In a message dated 6/6/99 1:04:36 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

naturebaby@... writes:

<< Eve primrose is used for lots

of stuff including menopause and labor induction. >>

I used EPO for labor induction =)

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Pretty good.....i am still getting Headaches most everyday...doctor told me

that i would probably get them..i just wish they would go away...My ankle is

getting better...i just can't wait to get this dang cast off. Only 3 1/2

more weeks.

is still nursing but not as much. I am trying sooo hard to cut that

formula out. She gets only about 10 ozs a day of formula and nurses all

night long and man do I mean ALL NIGHT LONG. I have tried to give her some

solids but she just doesn't want anything to do with them. She hasn't gotten

rid of the tongue reflex yet.

Thanks for asking Wendi!!!!!

Martha

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<< Can you nurse her before you give her formula so you are getting the

stimulation for those times too? >>

I am doing that. It seems to be working b/c she only got about 7-8 ozs

today. I also tried bananas again today and her tongue reflex seems to be

dimishing. so hopefully within the next 2-3 weeks we will be formula free.

Martha

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Martha,

Glad to hear you are recovering. I know it can't be quick enough for you.

Can you nurse her before you give her formula so you are getting the

stimulation for those times too? Wishing you a quick and complete

recovery.

Wendi

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Pretty good.....i am still getting Headaches most everyday...doctor told me

that i would probably get them..i just wish they would go away...My ankle

is

getting better...i just can't wait to get this dang cast off. Only 3 1/2

more weeks.

is still nursing but not as much. I am trying sooo hard to cut that

formula out. She gets only about 10 ozs a day of formula and nurses all

night long and man do I mean ALL NIGHT LONG. I have tried to give her some

solids but she just doesn't want anything to do with them. She hasn't

gotten

rid of the tongue reflex yet.

Thanks for asking Wendi!!!!!

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Martha,

Great job bouncing back from a potentially weanable situation. It takes a

lot of courage to keep going in spite of all you've gone through. I hope

she is formula free very soon.

Wendi

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In a message dated 6/9/99 6:08:27 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

naturebaby@... writes:

<< Can you nurse her before you give her formula so you are getting the

stimulation for those times too? >>

I am doing that. It seems to be working b/c she only got about 7-8 ozs

today. I also tried bananas again today and her tongue reflex seems to be

dimishing. so hopefully within the next 2-3 weeks we will be formula free.

Martha

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