Re: Jo/ omg I'm dead meat.....

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Tonia,

You are NOT getting in over your head. You can do it. It's going to be difficult, but where there is a will, there is a way.

You're an intelligent woman, you are just freaking out due to being nervous. Make sure they know that when you get there...

I can tell you it's hard to do. For several years, before I remarried, I worked 50 hrs. a week, took care of three children, etc. without help. I know how little time there is in a day...

You are just going to have to arrange your schedule so you have time to study and take time for yourself to recharge. Petey will be the challenge, as he's so young, but you'll manage.

Relax!!! Again, the best advise I can give you. These people at the school are trying to help you....

Jo

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Jo,

First Instinct....I'm doomed. Especially after only getting 3 1/2 hours of sleep....how the heck I'm going to drive the hour there, take the 2 hour test, talk to the Financial Aid advisor, and drive home an hour.....is beyond me.

I'm getting myself in over my head......I just know that I am....

And, I have a feeling that it's all going to screw up my chances of getting the SSI that I'm fighting to get.....but, if I do work, I can at least get the work credits that I need to qualify to get the SSD instead........

ugh.....

I'm doomed

Tonia

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Tonia,

The best thing you can do is RELAX. Not everyone tests well. From experience, I can tell you that you should always go with your first instinct, unless you have a good reason to change your mind.

You were probably over analyzing!

You'll be fine, I know it.

Hugs,

Jo

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Jo, You can do this. Relax and everything will be fine.

Love and Good Luck,

Deb Dog

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Jo,

First Instinct....I'm doomed. Especially after only getting 3 1/2 hours of sleep....how the heck I'm going to drive the hour there, take the 2 hour test, talk to the Financial Aid advisor, and drive home an hour.....is beyond me.

I'm getting myself in over my head......I just know that I am....

And, I have a feeling that it's all going to screw up my chances of getting the SSI that I'm fighting to get.....but, if I do work, I can at least get the work credits that I need to qualify to get the SSD instead........

ugh.....

I'm doomed

Tonia

-------Original Message-------

Tonia,

The best thing you can do is RELAX. Not everyone tests well. From experience, I can tell you that you should always go with your first instinct, unless you have a good reason to change your mind.

You were probably over analyzing!

You'll be fine, I know it.

Hugs,

Jo

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Tonia

first rule of thumb, dont stress yourself into circumstances that you

have no control over, instead focus on what you do have control over

and thats your strength and your desire to accomplish this. Know that

you can get thru the drive, the test, the meeting and the return

drive. That when you come home it will all be over with and you can

relax, dont stress over it as it will tense up your muscles and make

you feel 10 times worse.

YOU CAN DO THIS!! Take that deep breath Tonia, you will be fine!

Many gentle hugs!

Donna