Guest guest Posted August 18, 2003 Report Share Posted August 18, 2003 , I'm so sorry for the BFN!!!! I'm right there with you, lady. Those darned negatives are becoming common place in our house as well...I'm certainly feeling like another BFP is just not possible. I know these drugs can really create havok on your body, so I wanted to share with you a tidbit of perspective that my friend gave me this last week: She admitidly hasn't dealt with the emotions behind infertility, but shared with me that she thought I would have regrets if I threw in the towel earlier than our original plan. She also reminded me that even if these next few months are hard, it's only a few months of my entire lifetime. And even if it seems like forever right now, if hanging in there gets us where we want to be --parents-- then those tough months will be totally worth it. She helped bring back some perspective and re-energized my resolve. Now, I'm not telling you that you need to stick with the Clomid - you know yourself more than any of us do. Do what is right and take breaks when you feel like you can't go on. But maybe her wise words that helped me reload for our next cycle will help you, too. I've found that focusing on our infertility journey on a day by day basis helps A LOT!!! I refuse to let myself do the " what-ifs " that so often take over each and every time the BFN visits again. Again, I'm so sorry that you have to miss out on the April baby. Hang in there, lady!! Both you and I will get there at some point - we just don't when or how. Sending you tons of (((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))), Kristi 32, 1 m/c ttc #1 (2 failed IUI's...cd4 and looking forward to the next IUI) > This morning I have done a pg-test. It was negative.Now I am waiting > for AF the day after tomorrow, because with clomid the second time > in cycle is always 16 days.So this time I am not sooo angry!It is > always the same, I am not pg!Now it`s really normal!I can`t really > believe being pg!I think I give up! This now was the 3rd cycle of > clomid!Now it will come another cyle and after that my gyn want to > make insemination.I think I will take a break from clomid this > cycle.I am not feeling good.Only I got from the clomid is 5kg > more.And I was not really thin before I took the first time clomid! > So the next cycle I don`t want to take it!!!!!!!I hate it!NO positiv > effects, only more weight. > And after that cycle I will call my gyn to speak about the IUI! > No Aprilbaby for me!So the end of pg will be in the hot summer.(may? > june, july) > , SU,bicollis, resected, ttc for two years(1m/c), 3rd neg. > clomidcycle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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