Guest guest Posted February 17, 2000 Report Share Posted February 17, 2000 In a message dated 2/17/00 8:15:53 PM Central Standard Time, breastfeedingonelist writes: << I know even when we had our 3rd, people off the street would ask us what we were thinking, because we already had a boy and girl. Like that's the world's most perfect family model, and why would you want more? >> That drives me nuts too. I only have 1 1/2 at this point but my Step Mothewr has made it a point several times to say were done after this baby comes.I told her there would be at least 3 especally if this new one is a boy and if our third is a boy then theres a chance we may have 4. She said we were crazy and she coudlnt' afford that many grandkids hehe Don't spoil them so much then!!!!!! DUH!!!! Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2000 Report Share Posted February 18, 2000 From: Feb98@... In a message dated 2/17/00 8:15:53 PM Central Standard Time, breastfeedingonelist writes: << I know even when we had our 3rd, people off the street would ask us what we were thinking, because we already had a boy and girl. Like that's the world's most perfect family model, and why would you want more? >> That drives me nuts too. I only have 1 1/2 at this point but my Step Mothewr has made it a point several times to say were done after this baby comes.I told her there would be at least 3 especally if this new one is a boy and if our third is a boy then theres a chance we may have 4. She said we were crazy and she coudlnt' afford that many grandkids hehe Don't spoil them so much then!!!!!! DUH!!!! Amy My MIL is the worst with this! She had 8 but she has let us know since Keely was born that as far as she was concerned we were through, like it was HER decision to make! Every opportunity she had, she mentioned that anyone that had more than two was a moron, idiot, whatever. We never made it a secret that we wanted more than two and that pissed her off lol Anyway, when told her we were expecting #3 she actually said she was " angry " about the pregnancy. Then a month later I mentioned my friend had a baby girl (already had a son) and she said " well then they're done " , she just HAD to make a comment like that to make sure I knew how upset she was with us for having another. I have seen her exactly twice since then and not once has she asked me or how the baby and I are doing, she acts like I'm not even pregnant. She lives an hour away from us and I am not going out of my way to bring the baby out after he's born. She obviously doesn't want this grandchild. My mother on the other hand.....she's flying out on March 18th for two weeks to help me out :-) Michele, mom of Arran 12-27-93 & Keely 12-5-97 #3 EDD 3-13-00 It's a Boy! ICQ# 13092478 Our Family Pages ~ http://www.telusplanet.net/public/jcrocker/index.html Join AllAdvantage.com and get paid to surf the Web! Please use my ID (GJX196) when asked if someone referred you. Thanks! http://www.alladvantage.com/go.asp?refid=GJX196 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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