About , please lets make sure she knows we care

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I just found out today, Monday, that is still in hospital and in great pain. They are having very hard time with controlling pain as the RSD has taken off like crazy, her legs and arm are in spasms and just a painful, painful mess. Ya'll my heart breaks for her as know each of you are also considered for her as she has been a loyal, loving member of this digest and always writes to help others.

Every time one of us has surgery is hard for others on here to know anything of course unless have someone to let us know what is going on and I thank Jeannie for updating you already as she loves greatly also.

So anyway, will you when able blest for when she is able to get back on here which will be days or week or so most likely but anyway, when you get a chance, as know we each have those rotten pain days, and sometimes run together in 3 and 4 days.......but when able, please just send a message to let her know your thinking of her as we all need that or we would not get on here to tell others how we hurt, or how scared we are ... at least I need to feel loved, cared for, wanted, needed, as it is hard when I have not had a bath, am still in my pj's and to have my husband see me like this,.....well darn it to heck it hurts me beyond words that I have not done better and I may write to you all and I do sometimes as I need support and love and to know I am not the worst thing crawling under some snakes belly for not getting out of bed.

Make any sense to anyone.....or perhaps it is only me that is so weak and lazy and stupid. But I am asking that since cannot write to you and tell you herself that her pain is past agony, and her heart is broken as her daughter needs her badly with all her medical troubles, that if it was me, I would need to come back and know you cared and please lets just support her when we are able to write a note just to help her get through this as even when she gets home sure will be days before she can write much but she may read digest and would like her to know how wonderful her family here was to her. So that is it.

And no, not upset or in any mood to have my feelings nitpicked in case anyone feels the need, nor am I being critical about anyone or anything, no arguments as adults here and all I am saying as I know how my heart breaks for what I cost my husband and how need my family here, and we all need each other, just a thought that a kind word for her to read later would be nice.

JoAnn