Guest guest Posted August 30, 2004 Report Share Posted August 30, 2004 JoAnn, Do we have an address to send her cards via mail? She won't be able to check emails for awhile. I have been wanting to see how we could get home addresses,birthdays, and anniversaries for those lucky ones of you. Please let me know. Love you, DebDog Echols wrote: JoAnn- You are so right to ask us to send a note of regard to . I'm sure no one is hurt that you asked us to do it! It's hard for me to try to keep up with all the postings,and I'm still trying to get to know everybody, but I will make an effort to communicate with ....Wishing you less painful days!...JoAnn & Russ Ford wrote: I just found out today, Monday, that is still in hospital and in great pain. They are having very hard time with controlling pain as the RSD has taken off like crazy, her legs and arm are in spasms and just a painful, painful mess. Ya'll my heart breaks for her as know each of you are also considered for her as she has been a loyal, loving member of this digest and always writes to help others. Every time one of us has surgery is hard for others on here to know anything of course unless have someone to let us know what is going on and I thank Jeannie for updating you already as she loves greatly also. So anyway, will you when able blest for when she is able to get back on here which will be days or week or so most likely but anyway, when you get a chance, as know we each have those rotten pain days, and sometimes run together in 3 and 4 days.......but when able, please just send a message to let her know your thinking of her as we all need that or we would not get on here to tell others how we hurt, or how scared we are ... at least I need to feel loved, cared for, wanted, needed, as it is hard when I have not had a bath, am still in my pj's and to have my husband see me like this,.....well darn it to heck it hurts me beyond words that I have not done better and I may write to you all and I do sometimes as I need support and love and to know I am not the worst thing crawling under some snakes belly for not getting out of bed. Make any sense to anyone.....or perhaps it is only me that is so weak and lazy and stupid. But I am asking that since cannot write to you and tell you herself that her pain is past agony, and her heart is broken as her daughter needs her badly with all her medical troubles, that if it was me, I would need to come back and know you cared and please lets just support her when we are able to write a note just to help her get through this as even when she gets home sure will be days before she can write much but she may read digest and would like her to know how wonderful her family here was to her. So that is it. And no, not upset or in any mood to have my feelings nitpicked in case anyone feels the need, nor am I being critical about anyone or anything, no arguments as adults here and all I am saying as I know how my heart breaks for what I cost my husband and how need my family here, and we all need each other, just a thought that a kind word for her to read later would be nice. JoAnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 30, 2004 Report Share Posted August 30, 2004 Oh you sweet woman you........I will gladly give those to you and think it is great idea for whoever is willing to share either home email addresses or home address so cards can be sent either way as many on here are in need of this caring from us. So perhaps if anyone interested put your home email on a message and your literal home address if want to also. Perhaps rather put home address direct to someone instead of on digest, which ever someone is most comfortable with. I may well be over stating this as one of those days can't even really explain......but I would love to have chance to write others that are really struggling more often and mail cards also. Just that like others there will be some missed and that is why if more are willing then at least someone who is really depressed or struggling with pain, surgeries, whatever, that they are assured of the understanding that we all come here to find. At least I did, heck maybe I am the only "needy" one at times. Thanks again Deb. I will get her home address soon but I just mailed her a package and it came back as have wrong zip code so have to get that answer first. Might be Wed before back to you Deb as will be gone tomorrow. Hugs s Momma JoAnn Re: Response to JoAnn JoAnn, Do we have an address to send her cards via mail? She won't be able to check emails for awhile. I have been wanting to see how we could get home addresses,birthdays, and anniversaries for those lucky ones of you. Please let me know. Love you, DebDog Echols wrote: JoAnn- You are so right to ask us to send a note of regard to . I'm sure no one is hurt that you asked us to do it! It's hard for me to try to keep up with all the postings,and I'm still trying to get to know everybody, but I will make an effort to communicate with ....Wishing you less painful days!...JoAnn & Russ Ford wrote: I just found out today, Monday, that is still in hospital and in great pain. They are having very hard time with controlling pain as the RSD has taken off like crazy, her legs and arm are in spasms and just a painful, painful mess. Ya'll my heart breaks for her as know each of you are also considered for her as she has been a loyal, loving member of this digest and always writes to help others. Every time one of us has surgery is hard for others on here to know anything of course unless have someone to let us know what is going on and I thank Jeannie for updating you already as she loves greatly also. So anyway, will you when able blest for when she is able to get back on here which will be days or week or so most likely but anyway, when you get a chance, as know we each have those rotten pain days, and sometimes run together in 3 and 4 days.......but when able, please just send a message to let her know your thinking of her as we all need that or we would not get on here to tell others how we hurt, or how scared we are ... at least I need to feel loved, cared for, wanted, needed, as it is hard when I have not had a bath, am still in my pj's and to have my husband see me like this,.....well darn it to heck it hurts me beyond words that I have not done better and I may write to you all and I do sometimes as I need support and love and to know I am not the worst thing crawling under some snakes belly for not getting out of bed. Make any sense to anyone.....or perhaps it is only me that is so weak and lazy and stupid. But I am asking that since cannot write to you and tell you herself that her pain is past agony, and her heart is broken as her daughter needs her badly with all her medical troubles, that if it was me, I would need to come back and know you cared and please lets just support her when we are able to write a note just to help her get through this as even when she gets home sure will be days before she can write much but she may read digest and would like her to know how wonderful her family here was to her. So that is it. And no, not upset or in any mood to have my feelings nitpicked in case anyone feels the need, nor am I being critical about anyone or anything, no arguments as adults here and all I am saying as I know how my heart breaks for what I cost my husband and how need my family here, and we all need each other, just a thought that a kind word for her to read later would be nice. JoAnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2004 Report Share Posted August 31, 2004 Thanks Kenny, I have to say that most likely have missed any others if sent as had 300 emails to look at and was deleting allot. But think it is nice to know how to reach others when they either are sick or down or just to send a happy note if able to. Thanks again Kenny JoAnn Re: Response to JoAnn JoAnn, Do we have an address to send her cards via mail? She won't be able to check emails for awhile. I have been wanting to see how we could get home addresses,birthdays, and anniversaries for those lucky ones of you. Please let me know. Love you, DebDog Echols wrote: JoAnn- You are so right to ask us to send a note of regard to . I'm sure no one is hurt that you asked us to do it! It's hard for me to try to keep up with all the postings,and I'm still trying to get to know everybody, but I will make an effort to communicate with ....Wishing you less painful days!...JoAnn & Russ Ford wrote: I just found out today, Monday, that is still in hospital and in great pain. They are having very hard time with controlling pain as the RSD has taken off like crazy, her legs and arm are in spasms and just a painful, painful mess. Ya'll my heart breaks for her as know each of you are also considered for her as she has been a loyal, loving member of this digest and always writes to help others. Every time one of us has surgery is hard for others on here to know anything of course unless have someone to let us know what is going on and I thank Jeannie for updating you already as she loves greatly also. So anyway, will you when able blest for when she is able to get back on here which will be days or week or so most likely but anyway, when you get a chance, as know we each have those rotten pain days, and sometimes run together in 3 and 4 days.......but when able, please just send a message to let her know your thinking of her as we all need that or we would not get on here to tell others how we hurt, or how scared we are ... at least I need to feel loved, cared for, wanted, needed, as it is hard when I have not had a bath, am still in my pj's and to have my husband see me like this,.....well darn it to heck it hurts me beyond words that I have not done better and I may write to you all and I do sometimes as I need support and love and to know I am not the worst thing crawling under some snakes belly for not getting out of bed. Make any sense to anyone.....or perhaps it is only me that is so weak and lazy and stupid. But I am asking that since cannot write to you and tell you herself that her pain is past agony, and her heart is broken as her daughter needs her badly with all her medical troubles, that if it was me, I would need to come back and know you cared and please lets just support her when we are able to write a note just to help her get through this as even when she gets home sure will be days before she can write much but she may read digest and would like her to know how wonderful her family here was to her. So that is it. And no, not upset or in any mood to have my feelings nitpicked in case anyone feels the need, nor am I being critical about anyone or anything, no arguments as adults here and all I am saying as I know how my heart breaks for what I cost my husband and how need my family here, and we all need each other, just a thought that a kind word for her to read later would be nice. JoAnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2004 Report Share Posted September 2, 2004 You can add me too JoAnn...home e-mail is CooleWitch@... and home address- Chrissy Mayhew 96 Brodhead Rd West Shokan, NY 12494.... Hugs, ~Chrissy~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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