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I am convinced my mother has bpd and i dont know what to do. We were going to

family therapy together and after talking to the therapist alone she agrees with

me. My mom refuses to get help. Growing up she was severely physically

abusive, as well as verbally and emotionally. After calling the police on her

twice and the threat of being arrested the physical abuse stopped. I was 26.

Now she is verbally and emotionally abusive towards my father and I. She does

not see it this way. It's all us. Her perception of reality is completely

warped and she does not see that there are consequences for her actions. I am

still living with my parents due to the fact I feel guilty leaving my father

alone with her. I also am expecting a child in Feb in which the father and I

are not together anymore...he was abusive...go figure. Although I have a career

and whatnot I feel that I cannot make it on my own, I also feel guilty leaving

because I know if I do I will be completely cut off but I do not want to raise

my child in an unstable environment. Does anyone have any advice? I am at a

complete loss.