Guest guest Posted January 27, 2001 Report Share Posted January 27, 2001 , Thank God you are alright... physically speaking. I know how devastated you are right now. When will you mourn you ask, when you can handle it! You have been through so much sweetie... these past few days have brought you such highs and lows. Every time I lost a baby, I would feel just the way you do... I would be completely freaked out before I really knew what was happening (ep, etc..) then after it was over, nothing... then one day it would hit me and then I'd have to deal. Everyone is different in how they handle these things sweetie... I know you are hurting... and we'll be here for you when you are ready to mourn, vent, cry, etc... You know we will! I'm glad that your pregnancy was uterine and that your remaining tube is still there... take care of yourself and know how much I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2001 Report Share Posted January 27, 2001 lisa, I am so sorry for everything that you are going thru right now. I know that After i had my m/c i thought ok my next one has to be " good " because two " bad " things can't happen in a row then 2 months later i had my ep. I had a really hard time dealing with the fact that it was happening to me again. We live really close to each other so if you want to meet for coffee or something like that just let me know. Sometimes talking about the whole situation with people that understand it the best medicine for the soul. take care jeanette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2001 Report Share Posted January 27, 2001 thanks lisa. I did have a D & C also. I probably had alrready passed the sac from all the horrendous bleeding on thursday. I am just so sad. I just want you all to get pg and be happy. I can never thank you all for all your love and support. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2001 Report Share Posted January 27, 2001 Oh , hun, I am so sorry. I wish I could make the hurt go away. Give yourself time...the numbness will go. Take care of yourself. Things will get better. -AmyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2001 Report Share Posted January 27, 2001 thanks . just waiting to feel something. and believe me, you all will hear about it!! lisa r - " the robot " T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2001 Report Share Posted January 27, 2001 thanks amy r. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2001 Report Share Posted January 28, 2001 R I am so sorry!!! We have been so worried about you. I don't know what to say. I just want to cry for you. I just want you to know that I have been thinking of you and you have been and will be in my prayers. Love, Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2001 Report Share Posted January 28, 2001 , I am sooo sorry to hear that you lost your baby, I know how devastated you probally fell right now. I am glad to hear that you got to keep your only tube. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.--Keri > > I lost the baby. Probably thursday night. I went to the dr friday morning > for u/s and was rushed to hospital. Had to have the lap to make sure it > wasn't in my tube. Wednesday would be 5 months to the day of the last ep. > > The good news is that it was a uterine pg and I got to keep my only tube. I > am sore from the surgery. I am soooooo numb and empty I can't even cry. > When will I mourn? I named our baby . Now I have two angel babies > in heaven. I don't even want to eat or anything... > > Well, I will try to catch up with all the mail. I hope you all are doing > well. > > lisa r > T.T.F.N. > > Find the best deals on the web at AltaVista Shopping! http://www.shopping.altavista.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2001 Report Share Posted January 28, 2001 Pam, Hang in there girl. Lots of +++++++++++++ thoughts and prayers for you. :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::;baby dust flying all around you. Take it easy at work tomorrow and please keep me posted. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2001 Report Share Posted January 29, 2001 Thanks . I wish I could run around or yell or scream, still just feeling numb.... lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2001 Report Share Posted January 29, 2001 Oh , I am so sorry that this happened to you again. I know the feeling of not wanting to eat anything. You do need time to grieve so take it easy and pamper yourself as much as you can. Try to eat a little and drink fluids so you don't get dehydrated. I am thinking of you. Vicki wrote: > > I lost the baby. Probably thursday night. I went to the dr friday morning > for u/s and was rushed to hospital. Had to have the lap to make sure it > wasn't in my tube. Wednesday would be 5 months to the day of the last ep. > > The good news is that it was a uterine pg and I got to keep my only tube. I > am sore from the surgery. I am soooooo numb and empty I can't even cry. > When will I mourn? I named our baby . Now I have two angel babies > in heaven. I don't even want to eat or anything... > > Well, I will try to catch up with all the mail. I hope you all are doing > well. > > lisa r > T.T.F.N. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2001 Report Share Posted January 29, 2001 - I am so sorry you lost the baby. Nobody deserves to go through this, esp after everything you've been through. Maybe it will help you to focus on the positive side of the news: you can get pg, and you can have a uterine pg. I know it's not much in a way of comfort, but that's all I can offer besides my love and support. I hope you are doing better today. Hugs, a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2001 Report Share Posted January 29, 2001 My hcg levels dropped from 8863 to 1858 (thurs to sat) and my progesterone went from 19.4 to 8.7 So good news I suppose. I will go in friday for more blood and then in two weeks for an exam. I tried to go out today and did a little too much and am paying for it now... and I thought I could go to work tomorrow!! I'm off to lie down, I really feel horrible. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2001 Report Share Posted January 29, 2001 thanks vicki. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2001 Report Share Posted January 29, 2001 thanks a. Focusing on the positives is the only thing keeping me sane right now.. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2001 Report Share Posted January 30, 2001 thanks libby, it means soo much to me. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2001 Report Share Posted January 30, 2001 , resting is driving me crazy!! I am soo tired though!! lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2001 Report Share Posted January 30, 2001 thanks Amy r. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2001 Report Share Posted January 30, 2001 R, With my mc in 9/00 and ep in 12/00, I am also hoping that three times is a charm.........here's hoping and praying for all of us!!!!!! elle > , > > I spoke with my dr about the progesterone. He says he doesn't like to give > it until he knows it is a viable pg because if it isn't, it just keeps the > baby growing and you have a higher chance of rupturing a tube.... > > He said some woman just have proge. problems. I am DES exposed so it could > just be that. The exposure makes me a much higher risk to m/c and have ep. > > I am keeping the faith though. God is taking care of us. Besides, wasn't > it you who told me " third time is the charm " ?!!! > > How are you feeling?? good I hope. > > lisa r > T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2001 Report Share Posted January 30, 2001 , I'm going to pick up Elyse (birthday shopping in the rain with a almost 4 y.o., the true test of potential motherhood!), I'll give you a call from the car. maria Re: lisa r update > , > resting is driving me crazy!! I am soo tired though!! > > lisa r > T.T.F.N. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2001 Report Share Posted January 30, 2001 In a message dated 1/30/2001 11:23:41 AM Eastern Standard Time, tigger89@... writes: > . Besides, wasn't > it you who told me " third time is the charm " ?!!! > , I'm not sure if I said that or not... For me the 6th time was the charm, so hopefully you'll beat me out in that department!!!! I'm not all that familiar with the progesterone thing, so please don't think I was diagnosing you or anything! Take Care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2001 Report Share Posted January 30, 2001 lisa, i am sorry i haven't called but my daughter has a really bad cold and i think i am getting the flu or something. I hope to chat soon. I hope you are feeling alittle better. This is my third pg this year and so far so good. 3 is a charm jeanette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2001 Report Share Posted January 30, 2001 I'm crossing my fingers and praying the third time is the charm! Re: lisa r update > In a message dated 1/30/2001 11:23:41 AM Eastern Standard Time, > tigger89@... writes: > > > > . Besides, wasn't > > it you who told me " third time is the charm " ?!!! > > > > , > > I'm not sure if I said that or not... For me the 6th time was the charm, so > hopefully you'll beat me out in that department!!!! > > I'm not all that familiar with the progesterone thing, so please don't think > I was diagnosing you or anything! > > Take Care, > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2001 Report Share Posted January 30, 2001 Jeanette, You really give me hope in the belief that 3 is a charm!!! Hope you feel better soon! elle > lisa, > > i am sorry i haven't called but my daughter has a really bad cold and i think > i am getting the flu or something. I hope to chat soon. I hope you are > feeling alittle better. This is my third pg this year and so far so good. 3 > is a charm > > jeanette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2001 Report Share Posted January 31, 2001 karen, I hope 3 will do it, but hey, 6 is my lucky #!! As far as diagnosing me, I come to this group looking for advice and experience. Don't worry about it. I appreciate it. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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