Re: Just how delusional do BPD mom's get?

[Guest guest]

Well, that is really crazy-making behavior!!

My mother never told me that my father was not my sister's biological father. I

overheard it in conversation when I was about 14. She made all kinds of crazy

claims that my sister's birth father tried to murder her. When she died, my dad

revealed that my mother had never divorced her first husband and their

'marriage' was never legal.

Just how delusional do BPD mom's get?

Hello All-

Okay, so our wonderful foster daughter () told me the other day her BPD mom

() insisted that every boyfriend she ever had for more than a few days be

called " dad " .

Not just as a formality, but because truly believed that every one of these

guys was the 's biological father.

WTF?

When pointed out this was physically impossible, her mom flew into rages.

Has anyone experienced this level of delusion in their BPD mom, or is there

something else going on here?

Letty

[Guest guest]

My BPD mom is very delusional. She believes that she is an exceptionally

spiritualy advanced person and she loves to share her wisdom with anyone that

will listen. Yes, she probably is narcisistic too.

She also believes that I practice witchcraft and that I attack her with black

magic. One time she got bronchitis and she told me that I had used my dark

powers to make her get sick. I have been the designated evil child my whole

life.

She is very intelligent and articulate. In public she is charming and doesn't

discuss her crazier delusions. I hate it that she successfully cons other

people into thinking that she is so great.

[Guest guest]

Wow. Okay. Thought I might hear some hard stories, but wow.

Elora, don't even know how you survived all that insanity. My heart aches for

you. And the part about the dog is just the evil icing on the cake. Seriously, a

DOG possessed by the devil? I wish you had a way-back machine and could snatch

yourself out of there.

And , interesting how it didn't occur to her that if you really had

" black magic " powers you'd use them to get the hell out?

Some people really, really shouldn't have children. And yet it's so damn hard to

get those children away, even if they are desperate to go. had only known

us for ONE DAY before she decided that she'd much rather live with us than her

mom.

Yet we might have to send back to her mom some day, if the court orders

it. Apparently the mom has gotten her psychiatrist and domestic violence

counselor to write notes saying how it's in the mom's " best interests " to be

reunited with her child.

Meanwhile, she's gloating to about how she's going to " fool everybody " and

get back, then reunite with the guy who tried to kill her and .

(Elora, if you suddenly have fugitive neighbors in Canada, it'll be us running

north with to protect her from her mom! Note: I'm kidding about that.

Mostly.)

Why is there this obsession with biological parent's rights? Why can they hurt

children over and over again without getting punished or caught? SO many of the

things 's mother has done would result in a jail time if you did them to a

stranger's child.

Letty

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> Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010, 1:24 PM

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