Re: Long time no write!

[Guest guest]

Yes that he is. I hope that we make it through this

surgery though I was reading that sometimes it can

break up a couple.

--- " Guthrie,Eileen " wrote:

> That's all that really matters. Been around

> extremely handsome men (didn't

> care for them too much. Very vain), been around men

> with money (always

> worried about making more of it and were obsessed

> with it) and ones who were

> good people, treated others with respect and had big

> hearts. I take one

> over any of the other two.

>

> Long time

> no

> > > > write!

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > Hello gang,

> > > > >

> > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have

> to

> > > say

> > > > I am so happy

> > > > since

> > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and

> now

> > I

> > > > don't even blink

> > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to

> say

> >

> > > > it's almost two

> > > > years

> > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my

> > goal

> > >

> > > > weight yet but I

> > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be

> which

> > > is

> > > > Dec of this year.

> > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't

> > know

> > > > why I know I must

> > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes.

> Sometimes

> > I

> > >

> > > > still see myself

> > > > as

> > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes

> > they

> > > > are so big. When I

> > > > go

> > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how

> good

> > I

> > >

> > > > look but I'm still

> > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's

> that

> > > > awful? but I still

> > > > have

> > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to

> > me

> > > > I'm looking behind

> > > > me

> > > > > because they can't be talking to me right?

> > > That's

> > > > still something

> > > > I'm

> > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one

> that

> > > > still feels a little

> > > > > shell shocked?

> > > > >

> > > > > Dawn

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

[Guest guest]

Hi Dora,

Listen don't you worry you will get your date and begin an exciting

new chapter in your life. Are you currently lossing weight? As for

your hubby I think it's great when you have unconditional support. I

hope one day to meet someone with the same values.

Right now I'm just meeting fools! LOL

> > Dawn,

> >

> > What you are going through makes perfect sense. I was talking

with

> my sister-in-law (who recently has lost a lot of weight) and some

> friends about this same issue recently. The thing is that when you

> are fat, your fat becomes your safety. You know you are safe

because

> no one looks at you or talks to you. You can be a flirt and no one

> takes you serious, or you can just fade into the background. But

> without that layer of fat protecting you it is scary. Because the

> opposite sex do look at you now and they like what they see. She

has

> assured me that it gets better with time. Give yourself time to

get

> adjusted to the new you. You look good and now you need to get

your

> mindset to where you feel like you look good. Hang in there. It

> will work itself out. Enjoy your new body and live!!

> >

> > Dora

> > Awaiting approval in TN

> >

> > Long time no write!

> >

> >

> > Hello gang,

> >

> > It's been a while just living life. I have to say I am so happy

> since

> > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I don't even blink

> > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say it's almost two

> years

> > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal weight yet but I

> > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is Dec of this

year.

> > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know why I know I must

> > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I still see myself

> as

> > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they are so big. When

I

> go

> > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I look but I'm

still

> > very negative toward my body image. It's that awful? but I still

> have

> > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me I'm looking

behind

> me

> > because they can't be talking to me right? That's still something

> I'm

> > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that still feels a

little

> > shell shocked?

> >

> > Dawn

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

Dawn,

I am currently trying to loose weight through my work with a dietician. I have

not lost much but I am trying. You will find that right person for you one day.

I never thought I would find someone to love me with my weight but I was wrong.

Toss the fools, you deserve better than that.

Dora

Long time no write!

> >

> >

> > Hello gang,

> >

> > It's been a while just living life. I have to say I am so happy

> since

> > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I don't even blink

> > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say it's almost two

> years

> > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal weight yet but I

> > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is Dec of this

year.

> > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know why I know I must

> > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I still see myself

> as

> > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they are so big. When

I

> go

> > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I look but I'm

still

> > very negative toward my body image. It's that awful? but I still

> have

> > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me I'm looking

behind

> me

> > because they can't be talking to me right? That's still something

> I'm

> > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that still feels a

little

> > shell shocked?

> >

> > Dawn

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >