Guest guest Posted June 15, 2004 Report Share Posted June 15, 2004 hi Bridget, Actually I have lost 110 pounds and trust me it aint easy because now that I can eat normally I find it still an adjustment to make the right choice in terms of food. I just keep saying to myself " self you worked too hard with working out and all to start fooling around now " and sometimes that works. I have to tell you working out will be something I have to do for the rest of my days. I would like to think of my goal rather in size then pounds. Right now I can wear an 18 I used to be a 28 so that's quite an achievement. I would like to be a comfortable 14. Dawn 355/240/???? That is wonderful Dawn! I can't wait till I'm close to my goal. If > you don't mind, can you tell us how much you've lost and what your > goal is. Do you ever feel like its hard to maintain or lose more > weight now that you're over a year out? > Take care and congrats on doing so well!! > Bridget > > > > Hello gang, > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say I am so happy > since > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I don't even blink > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say it's almost two > years > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal weight yet but I > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is Dec of this > year. > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know why I know I must > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I still see myself > as > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they are so big. When I > go > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I look but I'm > still > > very negative toward my body image. It's that awful? but I still > have > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me I'm looking behind > me > > because they can't be talking to me right? That's still something > I'm > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that still feels a little > > shell shocked? > > > > Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2004 Report Share Posted June 15, 2004 hi Bridget, Actually I have lost 110 pounds and trust me it aint easy because now that I can eat normally I find it still an adjustment to make the right choice in terms of food. I just keep saying to myself " self you worked too hard with working out and all to start fooling around now " and sometimes that works. I have to tell you working out will be something I have to do for the rest of my days. I would like to think of my goal rather in size then pounds. Right now I can wear an 18 I used to be a 28 so that's quite an achievement. I would like to be a comfortable 14. Dawn 355/240/???? That is wonderful Dawn! I can't wait till I'm close to my goal. If > you don't mind, can you tell us how much you've lost and what your > goal is. Do you ever feel like its hard to maintain or lose more > weight now that you're over a year out? > Take care and congrats on doing so well!! > Bridget > > > > Hello gang, > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say I am so happy > since > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I don't even blink > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say it's almost two > years > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal weight yet but I > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is Dec of this > year. > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know why I know I must > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I still see myself > as > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they are so big. When I > go > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I look but I'm > still > > very negative toward my body image. It's that awful? but I still > have > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me I'm looking behind > me > > because they can't be talking to me right? That's still something > I'm > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that still feels a little > > shell shocked? > > > > Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2004 Report Share Posted June 15, 2004 hi Bridget, Actually I have lost 110 pounds and trust me it aint easy because now that I can eat normally I find it still an adjustment to make the right choice in terms of food. I just keep saying to myself " self you worked too hard with working out and all to start fooling around now " and sometimes that works. I have to tell you working out will be something I have to do for the rest of my days. I would like to think of my goal rather in size then pounds. Right now I can wear an 18 I used to be a 28 so that's quite an achievement. I would like to be a comfortable 14. Dawn 355/240/???? That is wonderful Dawn! I can't wait till I'm close to my goal. If > you don't mind, can you tell us how much you've lost and what your > goal is. Do you ever feel like its hard to maintain or lose more > weight now that you're over a year out? > Take care and congrats on doing so well!! > Bridget > > > > Hello gang, > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say I am so happy > since > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I don't even blink > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say it's almost two > years > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal weight yet but I > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is Dec of this > year. > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know why I know I must > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I still see myself > as > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they are so big. When I > go > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I look but I'm > still > > very negative toward my body image. It's that awful? but I still > have > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me I'm looking behind > me > > because they can't be talking to me right? That's still something > I'm > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that still feels a little > > shell shocked? > > > > Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2004 Report Share Posted June 15, 2004 Hi Dora, You are so right I was invisable when I was fatter and it was sort of comfortable. You know what I absolutely hated? when people used to say to me but your so pretty like because I'm fat that like it was a crime. Now my body is starting to catch up with my features. It will take some serious time to adjust. You guys are the best thanks for responding to my post. Dawn > Dawn, > > What you are going through makes perfect sense. I was talking with my sister-in-law (who recently has lost a lot of weight) and some friends about this same issue recently. The thing is that when you are fat, your fat becomes your safety. You know you are safe because no one looks at you or talks to you. You can be a flirt and no one takes you serious, or you can just fade into the background. But without that layer of fat protecting you it is scary. Because the opposite sex do look at you now and they like what they see. She has assured me that it gets better with time. Give yourself time to get adjusted to the new you. You look good and now you need to get your mindset to where you feel like you look good. Hang in there. It will work itself out. Enjoy your new body and live!! > > Dora > Awaiting approval in TN > > Long time no write! > > > Hello gang, > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say I am so happy since > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I don't even blink > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say it's almost two years > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal weight yet but I > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is Dec of this year. > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know why I know I must > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I still see myself as > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they are so big. When I go > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I look but I'm still > very negative toward my body image. It's that awful? but I still have > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me I'm looking behind me > because they can't be talking to me right? That's still something I'm > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that still feels a little > shell shocked? > > Dawn > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2004 Report Share Posted June 15, 2004 Hi Dora, You are so right I was invisable when I was fatter and it was sort of comfortable. You know what I absolutely hated? when people used to say to me but your so pretty like because I'm fat that like it was a crime. Now my body is starting to catch up with my features. It will take some serious time to adjust. You guys are the best thanks for responding to my post. Dawn > Dawn, > > What you are going through makes perfect sense. I was talking with my sister-in-law (who recently has lost a lot of weight) and some friends about this same issue recently. The thing is that when you are fat, your fat becomes your safety. You know you are safe because no one looks at you or talks to you. You can be a flirt and no one takes you serious, or you can just fade into the background. But without that layer of fat protecting you it is scary. Because the opposite sex do look at you now and they like what they see. She has assured me that it gets better with time. Give yourself time to get adjusted to the new you. You look good and now you need to get your mindset to where you feel like you look good. Hang in there. It will work itself out. Enjoy your new body and live!! > > Dora > Awaiting approval in TN > > Long time no write! > > > Hello gang, > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say I am so happy since > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I don't even blink > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say it's almost two years > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal weight yet but I > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is Dec of this year. > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know why I know I must > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I still see myself as > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they are so big. When I go > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I look but I'm still > very negative toward my body image. It's that awful? but I still have > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me I'm looking behind me > because they can't be talking to me right? That's still something I'm > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that still feels a little > shell shocked? > > Dawn > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2004 Report Share Posted June 15, 2004 Hi Dora, You are so right I was invisable when I was fatter and it was sort of comfortable. You know what I absolutely hated? when people used to say to me but your so pretty like because I'm fat that like it was a crime. Now my body is starting to catch up with my features. It will take some serious time to adjust. You guys are the best thanks for responding to my post. Dawn > Dawn, > > What you are going through makes perfect sense. I was talking with my sister-in-law (who recently has lost a lot of weight) and some friends about this same issue recently. The thing is that when you are fat, your fat becomes your safety. You know you are safe because no one looks at you or talks to you. You can be a flirt and no one takes you serious, or you can just fade into the background. But without that layer of fat protecting you it is scary. Because the opposite sex do look at you now and they like what they see. She has assured me that it gets better with time. Give yourself time to get adjusted to the new you. You look good and now you need to get your mindset to where you feel like you look good. Hang in there. It will work itself out. Enjoy your new body and live!! > > Dora > Awaiting approval in TN > > Long time no write! > > > Hello gang, > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say I am so happy since > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I don't even blink > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say it's almost two years > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal weight yet but I > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is Dec of this year. > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know why I know I must > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I still see myself as > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they are so big. When I go > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I look but I'm still > very negative toward my body image. It's that awful? but I still have > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me I'm looking behind me > because they can't be talking to me right? That's still something I'm > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that still feels a little > shell shocked? > > Dawn > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 too funny. my mom had at one time said she would give me $10 for each pound I lost. I'll be a rich woman....lol. She's sticking to it too, how cool is that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 Dora, The exact same thing happened to me. Like I wasn't worthy of love the way I was. It wasn't until I found someone that loved me just as I am, that I was able to start the research to lose the weight and move on. 2-10-04 404pre-op/367surg/296/160? -- Long time no > write! > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say > I am so happy > since > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I > don't even blink > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say > it's almost two > years > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal > weight yet but I > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is > Dec of this year. > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know > why I know I must > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I > still see myself > as > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they > are so big. When I > go > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I > look but I'm still > > very negative toward my body image. It's that > awful? but I still > have > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me > I'm looking behind > me > > because they can't be talking to me right? That's > still something > I'm > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that > still feels a little > > shell shocked? > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 Dora, The exact same thing happened to me. Like I wasn't worthy of love the way I was. It wasn't until I found someone that loved me just as I am, that I was able to start the research to lose the weight and move on. 2-10-04 404pre-op/367surg/296/160? -- Long time no > write! > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say > I am so happy > since > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I > don't even blink > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say > it's almost two > years > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal > weight yet but I > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is > Dec of this year. > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know > why I know I must > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I > still see myself > as > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they > are so big. When I > go > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I > look but I'm still > > very negative toward my body image. It's that > awful? but I still > have > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me > I'm looking behind > me > > because they can't be talking to me right? That's > still something > I'm > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that > still feels a little > > shell shocked? > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 Dora, The exact same thing happened to me. Like I wasn't worthy of love the way I was. It wasn't until I found someone that loved me just as I am, that I was able to start the research to lose the weight and move on. 2-10-04 404pre-op/367surg/296/160? -- Long time no > write! > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say > I am so happy > since > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I > don't even blink > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say > it's almost two > years > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal > weight yet but I > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is > Dec of this year. > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know > why I know I must > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I > still see myself > as > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they > are so big. When I > go > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I > look but I'm still > > very negative toward my body image. It's that > awful? but I still > have > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me > I'm looking behind > me > > because they can't be talking to me right? That's > still something > I'm > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that > still feels a little > > shell shocked? > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 As alone as we may think we are in our misery, there are others just like us. Although I would never want that hurt to be placed on anyone else, it is comforting to know that I am not alone. Long time no > write! > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to say > I am so happy > since > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now I > don't even blink > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say > it's almost two > years > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my goal > weight yet but I > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which is > Dec of this year. > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't know > why I know I must > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes I > still see myself > as > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes they > are so big. When I > go > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good I > look but I'm still > > very negative toward my body image. It's that > awful? but I still > have > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to me > I'm looking behind > me > > because they can't be talking to me right? That's > still something > I'm > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that > still feels a little > > shell shocked? > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 oh I forgot to add to that that when I was little my mother used to hit me to eat. I would hide the food cuz I didn't want to eat and then when she found it she would hit me. As a result I never make my son eat. I feed him when he asks for food. --- Dora McCary wrote: > And in the past it is. It does not bother me > anymore. I know my father loved me and only said it > out of love. My mother on the other hand blames > herself for my weight and we are having to deal with > that. > > Long time > no > > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have > to > > > say > > > > I am so happy > > > > since > > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and > now I > > > > don't even blink > > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to > say > > > > it's almost two > > > > years > > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my > goal > > > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be > which > > > is > > > > Dec of this year. > > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't > know > > > > why I know I must > > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. > Sometimes I > > > > > > > still see myself > > > > as > > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes > they > > > > are so big. When I > > > > go > > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how > good I > > > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's > that > > > > awful? but I still > > > > have > > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk > to me > > > > I'm looking behind > > > > me > > > > > because they can't be talking to me right? > > > That's > > > > still something > > > > I'm > > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one > that > > > > still feels a little > > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 Heck yeah she's going to go through with it. Since I put my foot down with my family about my weight my mom has started to see the fault in her ways but every now and then she has a brain fart, I guess you can't teach an old dog a new trick --- Sagel Burns wrote: > Sounds like a good deal to me, may make up for it > . > > > Lap RNY April 9, 2004 > 348/295/140 (begin/current/goal) > www.carrieburns.net > > > > > > OH my god!!My mother did the same thing except I > had > > her write it down and when I told her about the > > surgery I brought it up and she's sticking to it. > She > > also said she's going to pay for any nipping and > > tucking I might need after I loose all my weight. > > > > --- Sagel Burns wrote: > >> Most certainly not alone . My grandma always > used > >> to say that she > >> would buy me a whole new wardrobe when I lost the > >> weight (this when I > >> was in my teens), well I'll be damned if I won't > be > >> going right to her > >> when I hit goal asking where my new wardrobe > >> D & G/Gucci/Vera Wang > >> wardrobe is . Granted this is the same woman > that > >> would never let me > >> leave a morsel of food n my plate....go figure > why > >> people are the way > >> they are. Carlin said it best (of course > not > >> about us > >> )... " people are dumb. " We're all doing great, > we're > >> taking giant leaps > >> forward to be the healthier, thinner people we > want > >> to be and it's > >> wonderful, just try to focus on that, not what > >> others have to say, > >> remember who you're doing this for and leave the > >> past where it is. > >> > >> > >> Lap RNY April 9, 2004 > >> 348/295/140 (begin/current/goal) > >> www.carrieburns.net > >> > >> > >> > >>> It feels good to not be alone huh? And you > >> definitely aren't. > >>> > >>> Long time > >> no > >>>>> write! > >>>>>> > >>>>>> > >>>>>> Hello gang, > >>>>>> > >>>>>> It's been a while just living life. I have > >> to > >>>> say > >>>>> I am so happy > >>>>> since > >>>>>> surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and > >> now I > >>>>> don't even blink > >>>>>> twice when I have to climb them. I have to > >> say > >>>>> it's almost two > >>>>> years > >>>>>> since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my > >> goal > >>>> > >>>>> weight yet but I > >>>>>> feel by the second anniversary I will be > >> which > >>>> is > >>>>> Dec of this year. > >>>>>> I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't > >> know > >>>>> why I know I must > >>>>>> have dropped about four dress sizes. > >> Sometimes I > >>>> > >>>>> still see myself > >>>>> as > >>>>>> that fat girl and when I put on my clothes > >> they > >>>>> are so big. When I > >>>>> go > >>>>>> to the gym everybody keeps telling me how > >> good I > >>>> > >>>>> look but I'm still > >>>>>> very negative toward my body image. It's > >> that > >>>>> awful? but I still > >>>>> have > >>>>>> to work on my mindset. Even when men talk > >> to me > >>>>> I'm looking behind > >>>>> me > >>>>>> because they can't be talking to me right? > >>>> That's > >>>>> still something > >>>>> I'm > >>>>>> not comfortable with. I'm I the only one > >> that > >>>>> still feels a little > >>>>>> shell shocked? > >>>>>> > >>>>>> Dawn > >>>>>> > >>>>>> > >>>>>> > >>>>>> > >>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 ahahahahha funny you should say that cuz his family SUCKS!! He's one of a kind...he may not be the most educated or have the best job but he's got a huge heart. --- " Guthrie,Eileen " wrote: > Does he have a brother? > > Long time no > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to > > say > > > I am so happy > > > since > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now > I > > > don't even blink > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say > > > > it's almost two > > > years > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my > goal > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which > > is > > > Dec of this year. > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't > know > > > why I know I must > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes > I > > > > > still see myself > > > as > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes > they > > > are so big. When I > > > go > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good > I > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's that > > > awful? but I still > > > have > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to > me > > > I'm looking behind > > > me > > > > because they can't be talking to me right? > > That's > > > still something > > > I'm > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that > > > still feels a little > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 My parents never hit me for it, but they would make me sit there until I ate it. My mother knows it is wrong now, but they learned from people who lived through the depression and you never ever wasted food then and that stuck with them. Long time > no > > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have > to > > > say > > > > I am so happy > > > > since > > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and > now I > > > > don't even blink > > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to > say > > > > it's almost two > > > > years > > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my > goal > > > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be > which > > > is > > > > Dec of this year. > > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't > know > > > > why I know I must > > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. > Sometimes I > > > > > > > still see myself > > > > as > > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes > they > > > > are so big. When I > > > > go > > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how > good I > > > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's > that > > > > awful? but I still > > > > have > > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk > to me > > > > I'm looking behind > > > > me > > > > > because they can't be talking to me right? > > > That's > > > > still something > > > > I'm > > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one > that > > > > still feels a little > > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 My parents never hit me for it, but they would make me sit there until I ate it. My mother knows it is wrong now, but they learned from people who lived through the depression and you never ever wasted food then and that stuck with them. Long time > no > > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have > to > > > say > > > > I am so happy > > > > since > > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and > now I > > > > don't even blink > > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to > say > > > > it's almost two > > > > years > > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my > goal > > > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be > which > > > is > > > > Dec of this year. > > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't > know > > > > why I know I must > > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. > Sometimes I > > > > > > > still see myself > > > > as > > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes > they > > > > are so big. When I > > > > go > > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how > good I > > > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's > that > > > > awful? but I still > > > > have > > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk > to me > > > > I'm looking behind > > > > me > > > > > because they can't be talking to me right? > > > That's > > > > still something > > > > I'm > > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one > that > > > > still feels a little > > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 My parents never hit me for it, but they would make me sit there until I ate it. My mother knows it is wrong now, but they learned from people who lived through the depression and you never ever wasted food then and that stuck with them. Long time > no > > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have > to > > > say > > > > I am so happy > > > > since > > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and > now I > > > > don't even blink > > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to > say > > > > it's almost two > > > > years > > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my > goal > > > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be > which > > > is > > > > Dec of this year. > > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't > know > > > > why I know I must > > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. > Sometimes I > > > > > > > still see myself > > > > as > > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes > they > > > > are so big. When I > > > > go > > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how > good I > > > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's > that > > > > awful? but I still > > > > have > > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk > to me > > > > I'm looking behind > > > > me > > > > > because they can't be talking to me right? > > > That's > > > > still something > > > > I'm > > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one > that > > > > still feels a little > > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 I've heard that. My mom was born and raised in Venezuela and came from a fairly wealthy family her thing was that she was a new mom and thought I would die if I didn't eat. Now in her older years she knows what she did was wrong but that's happened maybe in the last 2 or 3 years. When I had my son she wanted me to force feed him and I was like no he'll eat when he's hungry my son was like 1 1/2 or 2. Blows my mind. --- Dora McCary wrote: > My parents never hit me for it, but they would make > me sit there until I ate it. My mother knows it is > wrong now, but they learned from people who lived > through the depression and you never ever wasted > food then and that stuck with them. > > Long > time > > no > > > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I > have > > to > > > > say > > > > > I am so happy > > > > > since > > > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and > > now I > > > > > don't even blink > > > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have > to > > say > > > > > it's almost two > > > > > years > > > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at > my > > goal > > > > > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be > > which > > > > is > > > > > Dec of this year. > > > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I > don't > > know > > > > > why I know I must > > > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. > > Sometimes I > > > > > > > > > still see myself > > > > > as > > > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my > clothes > > they > > > > > are so big. When I > > > > > go > > > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how > > good I > > > > > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's > > that > > > > > awful? but I still > > > > > have > > > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk > > to me > > > > > I'm looking behind > > > > > me > > > > > > because they can't be talking to me > right? > > > > That's > > > > > still something > > > > > I'm > > > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one > > that > > > > > still feels a little > > > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 I've heard that. My mom was born and raised in Venezuela and came from a fairly wealthy family her thing was that she was a new mom and thought I would die if I didn't eat. Now in her older years she knows what she did was wrong but that's happened maybe in the last 2 or 3 years. When I had my son she wanted me to force feed him and I was like no he'll eat when he's hungry my son was like 1 1/2 or 2. Blows my mind. --- Dora McCary wrote: > My parents never hit me for it, but they would make > me sit there until I ate it. My mother knows it is > wrong now, but they learned from people who lived > through the depression and you never ever wasted > food then and that stuck with them. > > Long > time > > no > > > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I > have > > to > > > > say > > > > > I am so happy > > > > > since > > > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and > > now I > > > > > don't even blink > > > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have > to > > say > > > > > it's almost two > > > > > years > > > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at > my > > goal > > > > > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be > > which > > > > is > > > > > Dec of this year. > > > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I > don't > > know > > > > > why I know I must > > > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. > > Sometimes I > > > > > > > > > still see myself > > > > > as > > > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my > clothes > > they > > > > > are so big. When I > > > > > go > > > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how > > good I > > > > > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's > > that > > > > > awful? but I still > > > > > have > > > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk > > to me > > > > > I'm looking behind > > > > > me > > > > > > because they can't be talking to me > right? > > > > That's > > > > > still something > > > > > I'm > > > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one > > that > > > > > still feels a little > > > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 I've heard that. My mom was born and raised in Venezuela and came from a fairly wealthy family her thing was that she was a new mom and thought I would die if I didn't eat. Now in her older years she knows what she did was wrong but that's happened maybe in the last 2 or 3 years. When I had my son she wanted me to force feed him and I was like no he'll eat when he's hungry my son was like 1 1/2 or 2. Blows my mind. --- Dora McCary wrote: > My parents never hit me for it, but they would make > me sit there until I ate it. My mother knows it is > wrong now, but they learned from people who lived > through the depression and you never ever wasted > food then and that stuck with them. > > Long > time > > no > > > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I > have > > to > > > > say > > > > > I am so happy > > > > > since > > > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and > > now I > > > > > don't even blink > > > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have > to > > say > > > > > it's almost two > > > > > years > > > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at > my > > goal > > > > > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be > > which > > > > is > > > > > Dec of this year. > > > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I > don't > > know > > > > > why I know I must > > > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. > > Sometimes I > > > > > > > > > still see myself > > > > > as > > > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my > clothes > > they > > > > > are so big. When I > > > > > go > > > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how > > good I > > > > > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's > > that > > > > > awful? but I still > > > > > have > > > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk > > to me > > > > > I'm looking behind > > > > > me > > > > > > because they can't be talking to me > right? > > > > That's > > > > > still something > > > > > I'm > > > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one > > that > > > > > still feels a little > > > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 It can pay for you PS, maybe! Re: Re: Long time no write! too funny. my mom had at one time said she would give me $10 for each pound I lost. I'll be a rich woman....lol. She's sticking to it too, how cool is that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 It can pay for you PS, maybe! Re: Re: Long time no write! too funny. my mom had at one time said she would give me $10 for each pound I lost. I'll be a rich woman....lol. She's sticking to it too, how cool is that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 That's all that really matters. Been around extremely handsome men (didn't care for them too much. Very vain), been around men with money (always worried about making more of it and were obsessed with it) and ones who were good people, treated others with respect and had big hearts. I take one over any of the other two. Long time no > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to > > say > > > I am so happy > > > since > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now > I > > > don't even blink > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say > > > > it's almost two > > > years > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my > goal > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which > > is > > > Dec of this year. > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't > know > > > why I know I must > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes > I > > > > > still see myself > > > as > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes > they > > > are so big. When I > > > go > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good > I > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's that > > > awful? but I still > > > have > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to > me > > > I'm looking behind > > > me > > > > because they can't be talking to me right? > > That's > > > still something > > > I'm > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that > > > still feels a little > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 That's all that really matters. Been around extremely handsome men (didn't care for them too much. Very vain), been around men with money (always worried about making more of it and were obsessed with it) and ones who were good people, treated others with respect and had big hearts. I take one over any of the other two. Long time no > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have to > > say > > > I am so happy > > > since > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and now > I > > > don't even blink > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to say > > > > it's almost two > > > years > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my > goal > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be which > > is > > > Dec of this year. > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't > know > > > why I know I must > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. Sometimes > I > > > > > still see myself > > > as > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes > they > > > are so big. When I > > > go > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how good > I > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's that > > > awful? but I still > > > have > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to > me > > > I'm looking behind > > > me > > > > because they can't be talking to me right? > > That's > > > still something > > > I'm > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one that > > > still feels a little > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2004 Report Share Posted June 16, 2004 Yes that he is. I hope that we make it through this surgery though I was reading that sometimes it can break up a couple. --- " Guthrie,Eileen " wrote: > That's all that really matters. Been around > extremely handsome men (didn't > care for them too much. Very vain), been around men > with money (always > worried about making more of it and were obsessed > with it) and ones who were > good people, treated others with respect and had big > hearts. I take one > over any of the other two. > > Long time > no > > > > write! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello gang, > > > > > > > > > > It's been a while just living life. I have > to > > > say > > > > I am so happy > > > > since > > > > > surgery. Stairs used to be my nemesis and > now > > I > > > > don't even blink > > > > > twice when I have to climb them. I have to > say > > > > > > it's almost two > > > > years > > > > > since surgery and I feel fit. I'm not at my > > goal > > > > > > > weight yet but I > > > > > feel by the second anniversary I will be > which > > > is > > > > Dec of this year. > > > > > I'm afraid to go clothes shopping. I don't > > know > > > > why I know I must > > > > > have dropped about four dress sizes. > Sometimes > > I > > > > > > > still see myself > > > > as > > > > > that fat girl and when I put on my clothes > > they > > > > are so big. When I > > > > go > > > > > to the gym everybody keeps telling me how > good > > I > > > > > > > look but I'm still > > > > > very negative toward my body image. It's > that > > > > awful? but I still > > > > have > > > > > to work on my mindset. Even when men talk to > > me > > > > I'm looking behind > > > > me > > > > > because they can't be talking to me right? > > > That's > > > > still something > > > > I'm > > > > > not comfortable with. I'm I the only one > that > > > > still feels a little > > > > > shell shocked? > > > > > > > > > > Dawn > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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