Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 a - wow! are we in sync ... I just finished checking out a bunch of our wedding details ... it looks like we'll be a top the Eiffel Tower at the Paris Las Vegas hotel on October 14th reciting our vows ... that definitely cheered me up and gave me somethign to concentrate on ... we are going to book the hotel and airline when Joe gets home tonight ... thanks for your support! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 a - wow! are we in sync ... I just finished checking out a bunch of our wedding details ... it looks like we'll be a top the Eiffel Tower at the Paris Las Vegas hotel on October 14th reciting our vows ... that definitely cheered me up and gave me somethign to concentrate on ... we are going to book the hotel and airline when Joe gets home tonight ... thanks for your support! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 In a message dated 02/21/2001 7:45:47 AM Eastern Standard Time, courtneyhdarcy@... writes: << he leaves and i spend my day obsessing about what happened >> , I feel that way at times too. Ihave been doing everything I can to keep busy, but I do have my moments! My DH works from 7 a.m. till 9:30 at night 6 days a week....every night I wish he could come home at a normal time. Maybe not to talk about what happened, but just to be there. I hope you feel a better soon. It will get easier. Love, Chris TL: Sept 2, 1996 TR: Sept 5, 2000 PG Confirmed: Jan. 30, 2001 Ectopic Confirmed & Terminated: Feb. 15, 2001 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 Thanks Keri - Joe says the same things ... he is isnt going to get sick of me be upset and crying and leaning on him .. I guess I am afraid because my first marriage ended after my first ep and i know that our lack of communication after the ep contributed greatly to our divorce ... but Joe knows that too so I think we are being especially open, honest and supportive of each other because we saw how my first marriage ended ... i guess once you find the right guy you need to hold onto him for dear life ... because they arent all good ones ... Heath (great name, I love it!) is probably trying to be strong for you so he hides his feelings ... Joe was doing that and I told him I need to know when he is upset and hurting ... he can't always be the hero ... i want to help him too ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 - Joe sounds so sweet. You are going through a really tough time, and of course you are leaning on him for emotional support. It is really great that he is ready and willing to provide that support for you. Take it easy on yourself. Please don't blame yourself, you have every right to feel this way. I hope it gets better soon. Hey, you do have wedding plans to think about, don't you? a > ugh ... I feel like Joe and I are dealing with all of this really well, then > the second he goes to work I crumble ... when he is here we talk about it, > get upset together, laugh together, have fun and almost forget what we are > going through ... he leaves and i spend my day obsessing about what happened > and then I feel guilty when he calls to see how i am because i breakdown and > he wants to rush home from work (the new job that he just started on monday) > ... then i get angry with muyself and even more upset ... he is a saint, i > dont know how he puts up with me ... > > courtney > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 - Joe sounds so sweet. You are going through a really tough time, and of course you are leaning on him for emotional support. It is really great that he is ready and willing to provide that support for you. Take it easy on yourself. Please don't blame yourself, you have every right to feel this way. I hope it gets better soon. Hey, you do have wedding plans to think about, don't you? a > ugh ... I feel like Joe and I are dealing with all of this really well, then > the second he goes to work I crumble ... when he is here we talk about it, > get upset together, laugh together, have fun and almost forget what we are > going through ... he leaves and i spend my day obsessing about what happened > and then I feel guilty when he calls to see how i am because i breakdown and > he wants to rush home from work (the new job that he just started on monday) > ... then i get angry with muyself and even more upset ... he is a saint, i > dont know how he puts up with me ... > > courtney > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 , I feel the same way you do. My db, Heath has been wonderful, he has been there through all of this. It has been about three months since we lost our baby, and I still have my moments and he is always there to hold me. I keep telling him he must be getting tired of me crying and he said he is not he wants me to if I need to, He dosen't really cry so sometimes I think I forget that he is probally going through alot too so I guess he really needs to hold me too. Your not going crazy though. If you are then I am too.---Keri > > ugh ... I feel like Joe and I are dealing with all of this really well, then > the second he goes to work I crumble ... when he is here we talk about it, > get upset together, laugh together, have fun and almost forget what we are > going through ... he leaves and i spend my day obsessing about what happened > and then I feel guilty when he calls to see how i am because i breakdown and > he wants to rush home from work (the new job that he just started on monday) > ... then i get angry with muyself and even more upset ... he is a saint, i > dont know how he puts up with me ... > > courtney > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 courtney, everything you are feeling is normal... it will get better. It is always harder for me when i am alone too... Hang in there... lots of prayers for you lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 courtney, everything you are feeling is normal... it will get better. It is always harder for me when i am alone too... Hang in there... lots of prayers for you lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2001 Report Share Posted February 21, 2001 courtney, everything you are feeling is normal... it will get better. It is always harder for me when i am alone too... Hang in there... lots of prayers for you lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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