Guest guest Posted October 5, 2003 Report Share Posted October 5, 2003 Hi Glenna, yep one of my biggest worries (apart from getting under control of course...) is the effect on the other two. at 9 is kinda resigned to it all, and she has definitely changed personality wise since 's seizures started just before she turned 6. A lot quieter than she used to be, and v mature for her age, like too mature really.... As for , (3) he is SO not sweet and easygoing like Maggie - quite the opposite actually Any attention is good attention for him, and usually it is negative, he is pretty badly behaved, probably becasue we are so focused on , and like you, I tell myself I'll make it up to him, but I've been saying that for quite a while now... He is a real character though, class clown type, so he gets away with a bit, a lot more than he should, all recipes for dysfunctional siblings, but that is all on the 'fix later list'.....Sigh. So no, no secrets here for making the others feel special, everytime I get close to that kind of revelation, something pops up with - and away it all goes again - er you are not alone there ----- Original Message ----- > Hi , > Loved the pictures...what cuties you have! Lucky you, and lucky > them to have such a great mommy! Hope is doing well. Do you > ever worry that you slight the others? Boy, I sure do, and feel > guilty about it all the time. Macie has always been a " high > maintenance " child, and it leaves her little sister getting the > leftovers many times. After getting Macie's meals all ready, I'm > not nearly as creative and energetic about Maggie's. She gets a > much lower percentage of our time. I had thought that once Macie > started kindergarten, I'd begin to try to make it all up to Maggie > during the day, but with the breakthroughs I've been going to school > nearly every day for at least a little while. Luckily Maggie is > easy going and as sweet as sugar, but she is only three. I worry > about what she'll think when she gets a little older. Got any > secrets for making the others feel special, too? > > Glenna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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