Guest guest Posted February 16, 2001 Report Share Posted February 16, 2001 > Oh, I am going to get some good > hugs tomorrow and roll around on the floor and play and make a fool of > myself and I just can't wait!! R, Sounds like a great time. Don't let the other " grown-ups " put a damper on things, just enjoy the kids! -AmyR BTW, you must be sooo patient to make home made chocolates, and I bet they're great! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2001 Report Share Posted February 16, 2001 > Oh, I am going to get some good > hugs tomorrow and roll around on the floor and play and make a fool of > myself and I just can't wait!! R, Sounds like a great time. Don't let the other " grown-ups " put a damper on things, just enjoy the kids! -AmyR BTW, you must be sooo patient to make home made chocolates, and I bet they're great! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2001 Report Share Posted February 16, 2001 > Oh, I am going to get some good > hugs tomorrow and roll around on the floor and play and make a fool of > myself and I just can't wait!! R, Sounds like a great time. Don't let the other " grown-ups " put a damper on things, just enjoy the kids! -AmyR BTW, you must be sooo patient to make home made chocolates, and I bet they're great! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2001 Report Share Posted February 17, 2001 thanks Darci!! You all make me feel sooo much better... lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2001 Report Share Posted February 17, 2001 thanks Darci!! You all make me feel sooo much better... lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2001 Report Share Posted February 18, 2001 Thanks Darci!! I knew what you were saying in your last post!! I guess if I am really honest with myself, my family has Never been there for me. It's like I have this little girl fantasy that they still will be one day for me.... and they are really uncapable of it. These past 6 months have really driven that home for me. It is ok for me to ALWAYS be there for them.. putting their needs/feelings before mine and Dh's. This has got to stop..and I am the only one who can make it stop. they are all going bowling or ice skating today... two things Dh & I can't do, he has a bad back and I have bum ankles..... if I say this to them, the grief I will be given....so, I probably just won't even call there and I am sure that they won't call me either. I always have to be the one that calls and no matter how much it is going to hurt me to not see my niece and nephew again, I have to take care of myself today... Again , everyone, I am truly sorry that I am ramblilng on and on and about something that is off topic too... lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2001 Report Share Posted February 18, 2001 Thanks Darci!! I knew what you were saying in your last post!! I guess if I am really honest with myself, my family has Never been there for me. It's like I have this little girl fantasy that they still will be one day for me.... and they are really uncapable of it. These past 6 months have really driven that home for me. It is ok for me to ALWAYS be there for them.. putting their needs/feelings before mine and Dh's. This has got to stop..and I am the only one who can make it stop. they are all going bowling or ice skating today... two things Dh & I can't do, he has a bad back and I have bum ankles..... if I say this to them, the grief I will be given....so, I probably just won't even call there and I am sure that they won't call me either. I always have to be the one that calls and no matter how much it is going to hurt me to not see my niece and nephew again, I have to take care of myself today... Again , everyone, I am truly sorry that I am ramblilng on and on and about something that is off topic too... lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2001 Report Share Posted February 18, 2001 Thanks Darci!! I knew what you were saying in your last post!! I guess if I am really honest with myself, my family has Never been there for me. It's like I have this little girl fantasy that they still will be one day for me.... and they are really uncapable of it. These past 6 months have really driven that home for me. It is ok for me to ALWAYS be there for them.. putting their needs/feelings before mine and Dh's. This has got to stop..and I am the only one who can make it stop. they are all going bowling or ice skating today... two things Dh & I can't do, he has a bad back and I have bum ankles..... if I say this to them, the grief I will be given....so, I probably just won't even call there and I am sure that they won't call me either. I always have to be the one that calls and no matter how much it is going to hurt me to not see my niece and nephew again, I have to take care of myself today... Again , everyone, I am truly sorry that I am ramblilng on and on and about something that is off topic too... lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2001 Report Share Posted February 18, 2001 You know, you aren't off topic in the least when you discuss your family. Their lack of support in your life hurts you very much at this point in time. You are really hurting from the loss of your two babies. When you are feeling depressed, all those little things become big and it is hard not to focus on it. Their is a direct correlation between your ep and mc and your feelings about your family. " Ramble " all you need to. Darci _______________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2001 Report Share Posted February 18, 2001 thanks darci, I really needed to hear that. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2001 Report Share Posted February 18, 2001 thanks darci, I really needed to hear that. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2001 Report Share Posted February 18, 2001 thanks darci, I really needed to hear that. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2001 Report Share Posted February 18, 2001 thanks maria...I needed to hear that venting is a path to my healilng.. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2001 Report Share Posted February 18, 2001 thanks maria...I needed to hear that venting is a path to my healilng.. lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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