Guest guest Posted January 23, 2001 Report Share Posted January 23, 2001 Jeanette, Congratulations on your pregnancy, and thank you. I'm keeping my fingers crossed! maria Re: & elle (pg ment) > elle and maria, > > i had a miscarriage (actually a d & c at 9 weeks because baby's heartbeat > stopped) that was march 00 in june 00 i had my ep which ruptured and i lost > my left tube. I am now pg 18 weeks. I totally beleive that 3 times is a > charm. > > jeanette > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2001 Report Share Posted February 1, 2001 Hi Jeanette, Your girlfriend's experience is exactly what I'm afraid of.... I'm worried that if we don't put in enough it won't take. Dh says to try two, then if that doesn't work to increase to 3, etc. Well, I don't want to be doing this forever - I don't think he understands. ***Frustrated*** I'm going to speak to my doctor on Monday about doing 3 rather than 2 (agreed to in our last meeting). We originally went with the 2 because I was afraid of multiples, now I'm getting much more used to the idea and it doesn't seem too bad (I'd rather have 2 than 3 at a time; especially with wanting to nurse). Was you cousin going crazy when they were infants? It's a lot of work! maria Re: Elle > maria, > > my girlfriend did ivf and i think she always but back 3-4. The last cycle > she had they but back 4 and she now has a beautiful little girl. My thinking > is that if they did not but back that extra on that time she might still be > trying. > > My cousin has triplets. She said it was very hard in the beggining but with > everything you start to get a routine. Now the triplets are 3 all girls and > she said that is alot easier she is even thinking about ttc again. > > I really don't have any first hand experience though i only have one so from > where i stand i would think the more the better LOL > > good luck > jeanete > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2001 Report Share Posted February 1, 2001 Hi Jeanette, Your girlfriend's experience is exactly what I'm afraid of.... I'm worried that if we don't put in enough it won't take. Dh says to try two, then if that doesn't work to increase to 3, etc. Well, I don't want to be doing this forever - I don't think he understands. ***Frustrated*** I'm going to speak to my doctor on Monday about doing 3 rather than 2 (agreed to in our last meeting). We originally went with the 2 because I was afraid of multiples, now I'm getting much more used to the idea and it doesn't seem too bad (I'd rather have 2 than 3 at a time; especially with wanting to nurse). Was you cousin going crazy when they were infants? It's a lot of work! maria Re: Elle > maria, > > my girlfriend did ivf and i think she always but back 3-4. The last cycle > she had they but back 4 and she now has a beautiful little girl. My thinking > is that if they did not but back that extra on that time she might still be > trying. > > My cousin has triplets. She said it was very hard in the beggining but with > everything you start to get a routine. Now the triplets are 3 all girls and > she said that is alot easier she is even thinking about ttc again. > > I really don't have any first hand experience though i only have one so from > where i stand i would think the more the better LOL > > good luck > jeanete > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2001 Report Share Posted February 2, 2001 Hi Jeanette, I'm so sorry your family is ignoring your pregnancy, that must be so painful. They're probably afraid of getting your hopes up, that you'll have another loss. After my ep, I discovered that not everyone is as sensitive and understanding as I feel I am. We think they should behave a certain way, and they don't - then we're upset. Unfortunately all you can do is talk to them and explain how their actions (or lack of action) is making you feel. You may have to go through this numerous times before you see a change. We'll all very excited for you! Whenever you want to talk " baby talk " you can email me directly marriaaa@... I love discussing babies!!! maria Re: F > karen, > > i noticed that when i told people about my daughter they where really excited > but when i told people about this pg they seem almost stand offish. I am > almost 20 weeks and almost no one in my family even talks about this pg. > Almost as if it is not happening. I really is starting to make me feel bad. > In the begginning i could sort of understand not bringing it up just in case > something happened but now i see no excuse. > > jeanette > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2001 Report Share Posted February 2, 2001 Jeanette, That's so funny to imagine changing a baby even if it doesn't need it.... but I can understand how it would make it so much easier to understand when one what last fed, changed, washed, etc. Was she completely exhausted? maria Re: Jeanette > maria, > > She had to do alot of bottle proping. She would take turns feeding a > different one at each feeding. She did everything in three's. Diapers, > feedings, bath, everyone at the sametime weather they needed it or not. > > jeanette > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2001 Report Share Posted February 7, 2001 Hi Jeanette, So far I feel fine. Yesterday I felt a little sore (in the ovarie area), luckily that seems to be gone today. I'm trying to stay positive and when I don't feel positive, I'm trying not to thing at all. I just want to make it through the next week or so to the retrieval; then make it through the following 2 weeks till I know if it worked or not. I've been trying to keep busy. There's a lot to do around here (still trying to get our house together after renovations). DH is really positive, so that helps alot! It's just sooo hard when you watch your friends having babies like it's nothing. I always believed I could do anything I wanted, and never failed, this is the first time I really feel like it's out of my control - it's a tough reality to face. Sorry for the rambling, how are you doing? maria Re: R - kind of off topic > maria, > > how are you feeling? I hope everything is going smoothly for you. > > jeanette > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2001 Report Share Posted February 17, 2001 maria i am glad. you sound much happier. Best of luck tomorrow jeanette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2001 Report Share Posted February 17, 2001 maria i am glad. you sound much happier. Best of luck tomorrow jeanette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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