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Just an odd question, 'cause I had meth also, where were your

numbers prior to the rupture? Where they going down steadily, or

dropping like a rock, or not at all?

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-- In ectopicpregnancy@y..., Mei <susu101569@y...> wrote:

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> Hello there. I was so sadden by your story. You have

> been through alot and I am sorry. I know, I was so

> angry and sad (and still am sometimes) It was dh and I

> 1st time ttc when I had ep. We found out beginning of

> Nov. 00 and towards the end of the month I started

> having pains on and off, cramps, and bleeding. My ob

> was checking the betas and did a couple of u/s and tha

> concluded it was a ep. She gave me metho. inj and

> continued to monitor beta but ended up with rupture

> and having er surgery on Dec. 10 and removed my rt

> tube. It still seems so unreal sometimes. I have said

> it before, it is like a dream come true, turned into

> your worst nightmare all in such a short time. There

> are times I have been out, seen a pg person and just

> want to run the other way. My dh has two cousins who

> live in NJ andtheir wives and I found out we were pg

> around the same time, well I am happy for them, I just

> have not been able to talk to them. I don't think I am

> strong enough yet and I don't want to start crying and

> make them feel bad in anyway. It is all so hard. I am

> glad you found this group. I don't know what I would

> of done without everyone here. I hope you find some

> comfort. ++++++++++++thoughts. I got my af the next

> month. Sometimes you can get a hsg(test to check

> tube(s) to make sure there are no blockages and things

> like that by running dye through them. Some people

> have it done for a piece of mine just to know the stat

> of things, but if your dr said they looked good, that

> is good news. As, for people saying you should be

> happy with what you have, you do what makes you happy

> and feels right to you. Many people who have never

> been through this do not understand all the emotions

> we have. Just take things at your own pace.

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