Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Kathy I'm sorry to hear about your mother in law. That is so sad. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Matina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Kathy I'm sorry to hear about your mother in law. That is so sad. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Matina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Kathy I'm sorry to hear about your mother in law. That is so sad. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Matina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Kathy, My heart goes out to you for having to deal with this once again. I'm sure the first time was hard enough. I'm not sure but I don't think a 5 year old can comprehend such an emotional and terrible thing. Dying and death are always difficult to discuss. I think when the time comes you'll know what to tell her. And what about you? How are you going to make it through again? Is there someone you can talk to? You can contact me if you need to. I wish you and your family the best, and hope your mother-in-law does not have to endure too much. Sue M. (Springfield) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2001 Report Share Posted August 10, 2001 Kathy, My heart goes out to you for having to deal with this once again. I'm sure the first time was hard enough. I'm not sure but I don't think a 5 year old can comprehend such an emotional and terrible thing. Dying and death are always difficult to discuss. I think when the time comes you'll know what to tell her. And what about you? How are you going to make it through again? Is there someone you can talk to? You can contact me if you need to. I wish you and your family the best, and hope your mother-in-law does not have to endure too much. Sue M. (Springfield) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 DEAR KATHY I AM SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW. AGE 57 IS MUCH TO YOUNG TO BE SICK. WITH KEMO I HOPE SHE HANGS ON A LONG TIME WITH NO PAIN. RAYNA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 DEAR KATHY I AM SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW. AGE 57 IS MUCH TO YOUNG TO BE SICK. WITH KEMO I HOPE SHE HANGS ON A LONG TIME WITH NO PAIN. RAYNA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 DEAR KATHY I AM SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW. AGE 57 IS MUCH TO YOUNG TO BE SICK. WITH KEMO I HOPE SHE HANGS ON A LONG TIME WITH NO PAIN. RAYNA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy: My heart and prayers go out to you and your family......Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy: My heart and prayers go out to you and your family......Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy: My heart and prayers go out to you and your family......Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy, I am so sorry for you and your famliy. I have lost a grandfather and aunt to cancer. I know exactly how it feels. Now my best friends father is losing his life to it. Me and Angie have been friends for 16 yrs so he is my second father. I know that it will affect her so much. Its hard when kids are so young. Again I am sorry and all my love to you and the famliy. Lea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy, I am so sorry for you and your famliy. I have lost a grandfather and aunt to cancer. I know exactly how it feels. Now my best friends father is losing his life to it. Me and Angie have been friends for 16 yrs so he is my second father. I know that it will affect her so much. Its hard when kids are so young. Again I am sorry and all my love to you and the famliy. Lea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy, I am so sorry for you and your famliy. I have lost a grandfather and aunt to cancer. I know exactly how it feels. Now my best friends father is losing his life to it. Me and Angie have been friends for 16 yrs so he is my second father. I know that it will affect her so much. Its hard when kids are so young. Again I am sorry and all my love to you and the famliy. Lea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 KATHY My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers. I do know that there are books available for small children " :why did my nana die " type books.. I remember getting one for my daughter who was around the same age when she lost 2 grandmothers and a very close aunt. It is something to keep in mind. Good Luck and enjoy the time you do have together. Cheryl Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy, I'm sorry to hear of this. I wish you and your family all the best sweetie. Hang in there, and try to enjoy your time together. Dawn Please think of my family... Hi All, I just had to share ..... My heart was broken today. My mother-in-law of 10 yrs. was operated on today for what we now know is cancer. The Dr. had planned on going into her back(some on her spine) and then through the front to get what they thought was another tumor. They did the back fine and would not operate on the front because the tumor is highley malignant. I can not express the sadness I feel . All i can do is sit here an cry my heart out. The thought of my kids loosing there Grandma is almost too much. Dammit she is only 57 yrs. old. My daughter has been Grandma's girl since the day she was born. How do I tell her??? She is only five. My Dad died almost 3 yrs ago of cancer. I don't want to do this again. We will be there Wednesday as we have planned this all summer. I'm not sure what to tell my kids, all they know of cancer is my Dad dying. Beepa and Grandma's house is always so much fun for them. My mother-in-law is probaly going to be transfered to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester,MN so I think that we will spend our " vacation " in Minneapolis. Sorry to ramble on so much but this is tearing me up.......... Love, Kathy V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy, I'm sorry to hear of this. I wish you and your family all the best sweetie. Hang in there, and try to enjoy your time together. Dawn Please think of my family... Hi All, I just had to share ..... My heart was broken today. My mother-in-law of 10 yrs. was operated on today for what we now know is cancer. The Dr. had planned on going into her back(some on her spine) and then through the front to get what they thought was another tumor. They did the back fine and would not operate on the front because the tumor is highley malignant. I can not express the sadness I feel . All i can do is sit here an cry my heart out. The thought of my kids loosing there Grandma is almost too much. Dammit she is only 57 yrs. old. My daughter has been Grandma's girl since the day she was born. How do I tell her??? She is only five. My Dad died almost 3 yrs ago of cancer. I don't want to do this again. We will be there Wednesday as we have planned this all summer. I'm not sure what to tell my kids, all they know of cancer is my Dad dying. Beepa and Grandma's house is always so much fun for them. My mother-in-law is probaly going to be transfered to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester,MN so I think that we will spend our " vacation " in Minneapolis. Sorry to ramble on so much but this is tearing me up.......... Love, Kathy V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy, I'm sorry to hear of this. I wish you and your family all the best sweetie. Hang in there, and try to enjoy your time together. Dawn Please think of my family... Hi All, I just had to share ..... My heart was broken today. My mother-in-law of 10 yrs. was operated on today for what we now know is cancer. The Dr. had planned on going into her back(some on her spine) and then through the front to get what they thought was another tumor. They did the back fine and would not operate on the front because the tumor is highley malignant. I can not express the sadness I feel . All i can do is sit here an cry my heart out. The thought of my kids loosing there Grandma is almost too much. Dammit she is only 57 yrs. old. My daughter has been Grandma's girl since the day she was born. How do I tell her??? She is only five. My Dad died almost 3 yrs ago of cancer. I don't want to do this again. We will be there Wednesday as we have planned this all summer. I'm not sure what to tell my kids, all they know of cancer is my Dad dying. Beepa and Grandma's house is always so much fun for them. My mother-in-law is probaly going to be transfered to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester,MN so I think that we will spend our " vacation " in Minneapolis. Sorry to ramble on so much but this is tearing me up.......... Love, Kathy V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy, I am so sorry to hear your news. I love my mother-in-law dearly like a mother and so do my children so I can relate. That is so tough for you especially just going through it with your Dad such a short time ago. You are in my prayers. Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2001 Report Share Posted August 11, 2001 Kathy, I am so sorry to hear your news. I love my mother-in-law dearly like a mother and so do my children so I can relate. That is so tough for you especially just going through it with your Dad such a short time ago. You are in my prayers. Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2001 Report Share Posted August 12, 2001 Kathy, My heart goes out to you and your family. I have lost both parent to cancer over the past 6 years. It is a horrible disease. Hugs, Joni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2001 Report Share Posted August 12, 2001 Kathy, My heart goes out to you and your family. I have lost both parent to cancer over the past 6 years. It is a horrible disease. Hugs, Joni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2001 Report Share Posted August 12, 2001 Kathy, My heart goes out to you and your family. I have lost both parent to cancer over the past 6 years. It is a horrible disease. Hugs, Joni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 13, 2001 Report Share Posted August 13, 2001 Kathy, I am terribly sorry for what you are going through and sorry about your mother-in-law. I hope if she has to go that she does not suffer pain. Please know my thoughts are with you. Sally Please think of my family... > Hi All, > > I just had to share ..... My heart was broken today. > My mother-in-law of 10 yrs. was operated on today for what we > now know is cancer. The Dr. had planned on going into her > back(some on her spine) and then through the front to get what > they thought was another tumor. They did the back fine and > would not operate on the front because the tumor is highley > malignant. > I can not express the sadness I feel . All i can do is sit here an > cry my heart out. > The thought of my kids loosing there Grandma is almost too > much. Dammit she is only 57 yrs. old. My daughter has been > Grandma's girl since the day she was born. How do I tell her??? > She is only five. > My Dad died almost 3 yrs ago of cancer. I don't want to do this > again. > We will be there Wednesday as we have planned this all > summer. I'm not sure what to tell my kids, all they know of > cancer is my Dad dying. Beepa and Grandma's house is always > so much fun for them. > My mother-in-law is probaly going to be transfered to the Mayo > Clinic in Rochester,MN so I think that we will spend our > " vacation " in Minneapolis. > > Sorry to ramble on so much but this is tearing me up.......... > > Love, > Kathy V. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 13, 2001 Report Share Posted August 13, 2001 Kathy, I am terribly sorry for what you are going through and sorry about your mother-in-law. I hope if she has to go that she does not suffer pain. Please know my thoughts are with you. Sally Please think of my family... > Hi All, > > I just had to share ..... My heart was broken today. > My mother-in-law of 10 yrs. was operated on today for what we > now know is cancer. The Dr. had planned on going into her > back(some on her spine) and then through the front to get what > they thought was another tumor. They did the back fine and > would not operate on the front because the tumor is highley > malignant. > I can not express the sadness I feel . All i can do is sit here an > cry my heart out. > The thought of my kids loosing there Grandma is almost too > much. Dammit she is only 57 yrs. old. My daughter has been > Grandma's girl since the day she was born. How do I tell her??? > She is only five. > My Dad died almost 3 yrs ago of cancer. I don't want to do this > again. > We will be there Wednesday as we have planned this all > summer. I'm not sure what to tell my kids, all they know of > cancer is my Dad dying. Beepa and Grandma's house is always > so much fun for them. > My mother-in-law is probaly going to be transfered to the Mayo > Clinic in Rochester,MN so I think that we will spend our > " vacation " in Minneapolis. > > Sorry to ramble on so much but this is tearing me up.......... > > Love, > Kathy V. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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