Guest guest Posted January 5, 2006 Report Share Posted January 5, 2006 , You have to talk with our member Annie who is from PR and traveled to Miami with her twins to get treatment. She is usally in chat on Friday nights. Her email is anniecastro take out the spaces before and after the @. You will find that when traveling or going anywhere people are generally very polite. I know there are always people who feel the need to make harsh or ignorant comments, but that is life and you cannot live a normal life trying to avoid that. GO, have a wonderful time and really who cares what some idiot has to say. Talk to Annie about what the weather will be at the time of your trip and plan accordingly. CAROLG > > My husband and I have an opportunity to go to Puerto Rico in February. > We worry how Liliana will handle the heat. Also we are concerned with > how people in public will react to it. Forgive me if this is not the > case, but it seems to me that people are more image-conscious and open > about making observations or comments about your child directly to you. > > Do you know other children in Puerto Rico who have bands? I ask this > realizing I've never run into anyone else with a band except at our CT > appointments. Has your experience in dealing with people's reactions > been about the same as what others on this message board report? > > We want a vacation and neither one of us is up for defending our > decision to band our daughter. > > While my husband is hearing the call of the palm trees, we'll probably > delay our trip until after Liliana graduates which will be about the > first week of April. I think I worry more about family reactions than > anyone else and there's nothing I can do to avoid them except delay my > trip. > > Any input is welcome. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2006 Report Share Posted January 5, 2006 , You have to talk with our member Annie who is from PR and traveled to Miami with her twins to get treatment. She is usally in chat on Friday nights. Her email is anniecastro take out the spaces before and after the @. You will find that when traveling or going anywhere people are generally very polite. I know there are always people who feel the need to make harsh or ignorant comments, but that is life and you cannot live a normal life trying to avoid that. GO, have a wonderful time and really who cares what some idiot has to say. Talk to Annie about what the weather will be at the time of your trip and plan accordingly. CAROLG > > My husband and I have an opportunity to go to Puerto Rico in February. > We worry how Liliana will handle the heat. Also we are concerned with > how people in public will react to it. Forgive me if this is not the > case, but it seems to me that people are more image-conscious and open > about making observations or comments about your child directly to you. > > Do you know other children in Puerto Rico who have bands? I ask this > realizing I've never run into anyone else with a band except at our CT > appointments. Has your experience in dealing with people's reactions > been about the same as what others on this message board report? > > We want a vacation and neither one of us is up for defending our > decision to band our daughter. > > While my husband is hearing the call of the palm trees, we'll probably > delay our trip until after Liliana graduates which will be about the > first week of April. I think I worry more about family reactions than > anyone else and there's nothing I can do to avoid them except delay my > trip. > > Any input is welcome. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2006 Report Share Posted January 5, 2006 Carol, Thanks for the encouragement to go and have a great time. You're right, it's hard to truly appreciate how wonderful life is generally without experiencing a few bumps and bruises along the way. Hope to join chat tomorrow night and write to Annie. ~ > > > > My husband and I have an opportunity to go to Puerto Rico in > February. > > We worry how Liliana will handle the heat. Also we are concerned > with > > how people in public will react to it. Forgive me if this is not the > > case, but it seems to me that people are more image-conscious and > open > > about making observations or comments about your child directly to > you. > > > > Do you know other children in Puerto Rico who have bands? I ask this > > realizing I've never run into anyone else with a band except at our > CT > > appointments. Has your experience in dealing with people's reactions > > been about the same as what others on this message board report? > > > > We want a vacation and neither one of us is up for defending our > > decision to band our daughter. > > > > While my husband is hearing the call of the palm trees, we'll > probably > > delay our trip until after Liliana graduates which will be about the > > first week of April. I think I worry more about family reactions > than > > anyone else and there's nothing I can do to avoid them except delay > my > > trip. > > > > Any input is welcome. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2006 Report Share Posted January 5, 2006 Carol, Thanks for the encouragement to go and have a great time. You're right, it's hard to truly appreciate how wonderful life is generally without experiencing a few bumps and bruises along the way. Hope to join chat tomorrow night and write to Annie. ~ > > > > My husband and I have an opportunity to go to Puerto Rico in > February. > > We worry how Liliana will handle the heat. Also we are concerned > with > > how people in public will react to it. Forgive me if this is not the > > case, but it seems to me that people are more image-conscious and > open > > about making observations or comments about your child directly to > you. > > > > Do you know other children in Puerto Rico who have bands? I ask this > > realizing I've never run into anyone else with a band except at our > CT > > appointments. Has your experience in dealing with people's reactions > > been about the same as what others on this message board report? > > > > We want a vacation and neither one of us is up for defending our > > decision to band our daughter. > > > > While my husband is hearing the call of the palm trees, we'll > probably > > delay our trip until after Liliana graduates which will be about the > > first week of April. I think I worry more about family reactions > than > > anyone else and there's nothing I can do to avoid them except delay > my > > trip. > > > > Any input is welcome. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2006 Report Share Posted January 6, 2006 GOOD FOR YOU!! Sometimes it just takes a little encouragement to remember to have fun,lol. I hope to see you in chat. CAROLG > > > > > > My husband and I have an opportunity to go to Puerto Rico in > > February. > > > We worry how Liliana will handle the heat. Also we are concerned > > with > > > how people in public will react to it. Forgive me if this is not the > > > case, but it seems to me that people are more image-conscious and > > open > > > about making observations or comments about your child directly to > > you. > > > > > > Do you know other children in Puerto Rico who have bands? I ask this > > > realizing I've never run into anyone else with a band except at our > > CT > > > appointments. Has your experience in dealing with people's reactions > > > been about the same as what others on this message board report? > > > > > > We want a vacation and neither one of us is up for defending our > > > decision to band our daughter. > > > > > > While my husband is hearing the call of the palm trees, we'll > > probably > > > delay our trip until after Liliana graduates which will be about the > > > first week of April. I think I worry more about family reactions > > than > > > anyone else and there's nothing I can do to avoid them except delay > > my > > > trip. > > > > > > Any input is welcome. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2006 Report Share Posted January 6, 2006 GOOD FOR YOU!! Sometimes it just takes a little encouragement to remember to have fun,lol. I hope to see you in chat. CAROLG > > > > > > My husband and I have an opportunity to go to Puerto Rico in > > February. > > > We worry how Liliana will handle the heat. Also we are concerned > > with > > > how people in public will react to it. Forgive me if this is not the > > > case, but it seems to me that people are more image-conscious and > > open > > > about making observations or comments about your child directly to > > you. > > > > > > Do you know other children in Puerto Rico who have bands? I ask this > > > realizing I've never run into anyone else with a band except at our > > CT > > > appointments. Has your experience in dealing with people's reactions > > > been about the same as what others on this message board report? > > > > > > We want a vacation and neither one of us is up for defending our > > > decision to band our daughter. > > > > > > While my husband is hearing the call of the palm trees, we'll > > probably > > > delay our trip until after Liliana graduates which will be about the > > > first week of April. I think I worry more about family reactions > > than > > > anyone else and there's nothing I can do to avoid them except delay > > my > > > trip. > > > > > > Any input is welcome. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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