Guest guest Posted March 4, 2001 Report Share Posted March 4, 2001 .... > > > > " I find the longer that I'm in recovery, the less I know how to > handle situations in a sane mature manner. " > > > To use an old National Lampoon line " That's not funny that's sick! " I've run into plenty of people in AA who buy that whole " complete powerlessness " behavior where you lose all ability to make decisions. It makes it easier to be part of the group if you have to go to a meeting for input on breakfast.In NJ we refer to them as discussion meetings and they really lean torwards monologues and discussion is frowned upon.Sick sick sick. I enjoyed the 4 Absolutes article.It's a good foundation for a way of life where one can NEVER enjoy themselves .I attend a Baptist church where a lot of guilt is thrown around especially at the good people.I avoid it by reminding myself that I'm not a buyer I'm a seller. For all time hall of Fame sickness one must visit the Church of God Anonymous site. http://www.churchofgodanonymous.org/ This is way out there yet I'm sure it's enjoyed by many. As a sidebar I had 3 beers last night while out with a couple of guys last night.Nothing special,no obsessions,no blackouts.I awoke today with a slight headache given that alcohol isn't real good for you.It's amazing with the right attitude I can keep things right sized. Peace M. Dougherty P.S.where's the blessed be guy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2001 Report Share Posted March 4, 2001 > P.S.where's the blessed be guy? Haven't you noticed? Fransway, and myself, shamed him out of this list. And haven't you noticed that since the " blessed be guy " has gone the level of debate has gone up by at least 500%? Kind regards, > ... > > > > > > " I find the longer that I'm in recovery, the less I know how > to > > handle situations in a sane mature manner. " > > > > > > To use an old National Lampoon line " That's not funny that's sick! " > I've run into plenty of people in AA who buy that whole " complete > powerlessness " behavior where you lose all ability to make decisions. > It makes it easier to be part of the group if you have to go to a > meeting for input on breakfast.In NJ we refer to them as discussion > meetings and they really lean torwards monologues and discussion is > frowned upon.Sick sick sick. > I enjoyed the 4 Absolutes article.It's a good foundation for a way > of life where one can NEVER enjoy themselves .I attend a Baptist > church where a lot of guilt is thrown around especially at the good > people.I avoid it by reminding myself that I'm not a buyer I'm a > seller. > For all time hall of Fame sickness one must visit the Church of God > Anonymous site. > http://www.churchofgodanonymous.org/ > This is way out there yet I'm sure it's enjoyed by many. > As a sidebar I had 3 beers last night while out with a couple of > guys last night.Nothing special,no obsessions,no blackouts.I awoke > today with a slight headache given that alcohol isn't real good for > you.It's amazing with the right attitude I can keep things right > sized. > Peace > M. Dougherty > P.S.where's the blessed be guy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2001 Report Share Posted March 4, 2001 > P.S.where's the blessed be guy? Haven't you noticed? Fransway, and myself, shamed him out of this list. And haven't you noticed that since the " blessed be guy " has gone the level of debate has gone up by at least 500%? Kind regards, > ... > > > > > > " I find the longer that I'm in recovery, the less I know how > to > > handle situations in a sane mature manner. " > > > > > > To use an old National Lampoon line " That's not funny that's sick! " > I've run into plenty of people in AA who buy that whole " complete > powerlessness " behavior where you lose all ability to make decisions. > It makes it easier to be part of the group if you have to go to a > meeting for input on breakfast.In NJ we refer to them as discussion > meetings and they really lean torwards monologues and discussion is > frowned upon.Sick sick sick. > I enjoyed the 4 Absolutes article.It's a good foundation for a way > of life where one can NEVER enjoy themselves .I attend a Baptist > church where a lot of guilt is thrown around especially at the good > people.I avoid it by reminding myself that I'm not a buyer I'm a > seller. > For all time hall of Fame sickness one must visit the Church of God > Anonymous site. > http://www.churchofgodanonymous.org/ > This is way out there yet I'm sure it's enjoyed by many. > As a sidebar I had 3 beers last night while out with a couple of > guys last night.Nothing special,no obsessions,no blackouts.I awoke > today with a slight headache given that alcohol isn't real good for > you.It's amazing with the right attitude I can keep things right > sized. > Peace > M. Dougherty > P.S.where's the blessed be guy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2001 Report Share Posted March 4, 2001 Thanks . I found this gem under stepper theology: " The basis for CGA's beliefs and teachings are presently found in the AA books, " Alcoholics Anonymous " and " Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions " and in the CGA book, " Perceptions. " " Perceptions " is a sincere attempt to elucidate the theology of Alcoholics Anonymous. It was written by a seventeen-year veteran of Alcoholics Anonymous... Thus, CGA must reject the fundamental teachings and tenets of Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, Judaism, Mormonism, etc. " http://www.churchofgodanonymous.org/theology.html Their theology (orthodox steppism and it's holy scripture) REJECTS Christianity and other religions. Why doesn't this surprise me? :-) Jim > To use an old National Lampoon line " That's not funny that's sick! " > I've run into plenty of people in AA who buy that whole " complete > powerlessness " behavior where you lose all ability to make decisions. > It makes it easier to be part of the group if you have to go to a > meeting for input on breakfast.In NJ we refer to them as discussion > meetings and they really lean torwards monologues and discussion is > frowned upon.Sick sick sick. > I enjoyed the 4 Absolutes article.It's a good foundation for a way > of life where one can NEVER enjoy themselves .I attend a Baptist > church where a lot of guilt is thrown around especially at the good > people.I avoid it by reminding myself that I'm not a buyer I'm a > seller. > For all time hall of Fame sickness one must visit the Church of God > Anonymous site. > http://www.churchofgodanonymous.org/ > This is way out there yet I'm sure it's enjoyed by many. > As a sidebar I had 3 beers last night while out with a couple of > guys last night.Nothing special,no obsessions,no blackouts.I awoke > today with a slight headache given that alcohol isn't real good for > you.It's amazing with the right attitude I can keep things right > sized. > Peace > M. Dougherty > P.S.where's the blessed be guy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2001 Report Share Posted March 5, 2001 http://www.churchofgodanonymous.org/theology.html Might be better termed Masochists Anonymous: Problems, great and small, will threaten your marriage and you will bring great pain to your husband or wife. That is for certain. That person whom you aspire to love the most perfectly is the person that has the power to hurt you the most, by word or by deed, by acts of commission or omission. You must be ready for the pain that you will cause, in your marriage, and the pain that your partner will inflict upon you. Above all else, your marriage must anticipate, tolerate and overcome pain! The Church teaches that we must always strive for spiritual progress not spiritual perfection. Perhaps, the highest level of spiritual progress is to love the person who hurts us and makes us unhappy, especially when the source of our anguish is a husband, wife, parent, sibling, child or neighbor. The 29th Precept of " A Simple Guide For Serene Living, " states, " Love! Love without condition to the limit of your pain! Then, rest, and love on until peace comes. " When you fully understand and accept this teaching, you will be possessed by the spiritual feeling that, if you can persevere and love until it really hurts, your hurt will go away! Pain is necessary to strengthen your marriage and your life. That is God's Plan and Will. Join your will to Herhis Will. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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