Guest guest Posted October 1, 2001 Report Share Posted October 1, 2001 , Do you think that you might have jumped into this romance to fast? You were hurting from your wife leaving and you might have wanted love far to much to think ahead. Getting to know people over the Internet very seldom works. As for your house being a mess. Since I did not see it I could not comment on it. I know that you have a very bad FMS/CFS and things are hard to do. Was there not someone that could have helped you out to get things straightened up before she came over. I know as do the rest on this list how rough it is keeping your house clean. I need help and even with help I still have problems. As for having sex out of wedlock, I think that you will be forgiven. This does not seem to be the sin as it used to but it is not a wise thing to do if you beat yourself over it. Just remember, this to will pass. The next time you get interested in a woman, tell he everything about you including how messy the house is. Please take care of yourself. We all fall from grace once in a while. God does forgive. Irene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2001 Report Share Posted October 1, 2001 , Do you think that you might have jumped into this romance to fast? You were hurting from your wife leaving and you might have wanted love far to much to think ahead. Getting to know people over the Internet very seldom works. As for your house being a mess. Since I did not see it I could not comment on it. I know that you have a very bad FMS/CFS and things are hard to do. Was there not someone that could have helped you out to get things straightened up before she came over. I know as do the rest on this list how rough it is keeping your house clean. I need help and even with help I still have problems. As for having sex out of wedlock, I think that you will be forgiven. This does not seem to be the sin as it used to but it is not a wise thing to do if you beat yourself over it. Just remember, this to will pass. The next time you get interested in a woman, tell he everything about you including how messy the house is. Please take care of yourself. We all fall from grace once in a while. God does forgive. Irene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2001 Report Share Posted October 1, 2001 , Do you think that you might have jumped into this romance to fast? You were hurting from your wife leaving and you might have wanted love far to much to think ahead. Getting to know people over the Internet very seldom works. As for your house being a mess. Since I did not see it I could not comment on it. I know that you have a very bad FMS/CFS and things are hard to do. Was there not someone that could have helped you out to get things straightened up before she came over. I know as do the rest on this list how rough it is keeping your house clean. I need help and even with help I still have problems. As for having sex out of wedlock, I think that you will be forgiven. This does not seem to be the sin as it used to but it is not a wise thing to do if you beat yourself over it. Just remember, this to will pass. The next time you get interested in a woman, tell he everything about you including how messy the house is. Please take care of yourself. We all fall from grace once in a while. God does forgive. Irene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2001 Report Share Posted October 2, 2001 , I'm sorry to hear about your friend and her attitude. I know this wasn't what you needed right now. We are here if you need to talk. Darcy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2001 Report Share Posted October 2, 2001 Hi , It sounds like you got used. Your letter said that she said she could deal with the mess. Did you mean that she could not deal with it? Anyway, was this the first time she came to your house? If so, I have an idea about why she dumped you, but I'll wait for your answer. Hang in there. There are nice ladies out there. Joanne --- Watters wrote: > Hello all.. > > Please forgive me.. but I needed to share and > talk this out. > I am in tears as I write this... > I met a wonderful woman awhile ago > online..things progress rapidly.. > She told me how handsome I was,how badly she > wanted me..all of me... > that she was all that I thought of..that she > was falling in love with me.. > That she had never felt like this before for > any other man... how she ached > for me to lie next to her at night and be with > her.. > She wanted to come over to my place and be with > me.. > I opened my heart to her bared my soul to > her..I was falling in love with > her.. > Iwas completely open and honest with her..about > my disease, that I am on > disability, and have been for the past 18 > months.. she told me that it did > not matter at all to her.. she still wanted me > badly... > I trusted her and took solace in the fact that > I was actually being > completely accepted by her despite the FMS and > the CFS... > She made me feel happy again..wanted.. a > feeling I have not had in over a > dozen years.. I felt alive..stronger... I sent > her beautiful e-cards, > poems,letters...all expressing my love for > her.. she said that no one had > ever done this for her.. and how much she ached > for me(SEE ATTACHED LETTER) > She was married for 16 years to a cruel husband > that used to beat her > constantly.. she's been divorced/separated for > a year and a half. > As I said, she wanted to be with me, and come > over to see me.. I warned her > more than once that my home is very,very messy > right now,because I have not > been able to clean much.. and cannot afford > house keeping help right now. > She said that she was fine with it.. > ..and then yesterday..she came over. > We ended up making love to each other. > a couple hours later we hugged,and she left for > home.. > By last night, she ICQd me and told me that she > could deal with the fact > that my house was a mess.. and dumped me..just > like that... > I just got over the pain of my now separated > ex-wife, and the multiple > affairs she had on me while I was recuperating > from surgery.. and took my > precious boys with her, along with her stuff, > and left me after 11 years. > Now, My heart hurts all over again..I feel so > used... > To make matters worse,stupid me let my heart > rule, instead of my head.. I > needed to feel loved and wanted so badly..and > when the opportunity came..I > jumped for it. > She was the only other woman that I have been > 'intimate' with...ever > ..besides my ex. > Too make matters worse for me personally.. I am > a Christian.. have been for > almost 14 years now... and I ended up doing the > one thing I thought I never > could.. have sex out of wedlock.. > I felt so bad yesterday for compromising my > values and beliefs..I know that > God has forgiven me,and I am at least at peace > with that... > So to all those out there with FMS/CFS that > have been rejected because of > this horrible disease and it's side effects..my > heart goes out to you.. > because now, I KNOW what it's like.. > > A very sad and hurt Watters. > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2001 Report Share Posted October 2, 2001 Hi , It sounds like you got used. Your letter said that she said she could deal with the mess. Did you mean that she could not deal with it? Anyway, was this the first time she came to your house? If so, I have an idea about why she dumped you, but I'll wait for your answer. Hang in there. There are nice ladies out there. Joanne --- Watters wrote: > Hello all.. > > Please forgive me.. but I needed to share and > talk this out. > I am in tears as I write this... > I met a wonderful woman awhile ago > online..things progress rapidly.. > She told me how handsome I was,how badly she > wanted me..all of me... > that she was all that I thought of..that she > was falling in love with me.. > That she had never felt like this before for > any other man... how she ached > for me to lie next to her at night and be with > her.. > She wanted to come over to my place and be with > me.. > I opened my heart to her bared my soul to > her..I was falling in love with > her.. > Iwas completely open and honest with her..about > my disease, that I am on > disability, and have been for the past 18 > months.. she told me that it did > not matter at all to her.. she still wanted me > badly... > I trusted her and took solace in the fact that > I was actually being > completely accepted by her despite the FMS and > the CFS... > She made me feel happy again..wanted.. a > feeling I have not had in over a > dozen years.. I felt alive..stronger... I sent > her beautiful e-cards, > poems,letters...all expressing my love for > her.. she said that no one had > ever done this for her.. and how much she ached > for me(SEE ATTACHED LETTER) > She was married for 16 years to a cruel husband > that used to beat her > constantly.. she's been divorced/separated for > a year and a half. > As I said, she wanted to be with me, and come > over to see me.. I warned her > more than once that my home is very,very messy > right now,because I have not > been able to clean much.. and cannot afford > house keeping help right now. > She said that she was fine with it.. > ..and then yesterday..she came over. > We ended up making love to each other. > a couple hours later we hugged,and she left for > home.. > By last night, she ICQd me and told me that she > could deal with the fact > that my house was a mess.. and dumped me..just > like that... > I just got over the pain of my now separated > ex-wife, and the multiple > affairs she had on me while I was recuperating > from surgery.. and took my > precious boys with her, along with her stuff, > and left me after 11 years. > Now, My heart hurts all over again..I feel so > used... > To make matters worse,stupid me let my heart > rule, instead of my head.. I > needed to feel loved and wanted so badly..and > when the opportunity came..I > jumped for it. > She was the only other woman that I have been > 'intimate' with...ever > ..besides my ex. > Too make matters worse for me personally.. I am > a Christian.. have been for > almost 14 years now... and I ended up doing the > one thing I thought I never > could.. have sex out of wedlock.. > I felt so bad yesterday for compromising my > values and beliefs..I know that > God has forgiven me,and I am at least at peace > with that... > So to all those out there with FMS/CFS that > have been rejected because of > this horrible disease and it's side effects..my > heart goes out to you.. > because now, I KNOW what it's like.. > > A very sad and hurt Watters. > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2001 Report Share Posted October 3, 2001 Dear How could someone be so manipulative as to do that to you. It just shows how cruel some people can be, to take advantage and get all they want and then dump you. It sickens me to see that someone has come into your life and tempted you to compromise your moral values and to leave you that way. The one thing I can say is that if someone else comes into your life, that you stick to your moral standing and don't falter, and if that person is genuine they will respect that and if they feel for you with a love that is true they will wait for the right time of love in wedlock. I am sorry to hear that the pain you have already experienced is again upon you. Now you have to turn your life around and look to a better future and maybe one day someone will come your way who will be true and not out to get what they want. It is good for you to cry and get it all out of your system as to bottle it up will only make you ill and bitter. I can tell you that there are a great many women out in the world that do have good values and would not do as that women has done. So don't think that all are like her. It is better to go through life single than to compromise your standards and have to live with the pain. Or to marry someone, who as soon as something like illness comes along deserts you. That isn't true love. True love knows no bounds and will go through thick and thin together. Don't let it hurt you this time as it will make you ill. You have to overcome the hurt, cry it out and go on. Is it worth making yourself ill you have to ask yourself. Is it really? I hope you make the right decision and move forward. God bless Lorraine UK > Hello all.. > > Please forgive me.. but I needed to share and talk this out. > I am in tears as I write this... > I met a wonderful woman awhile ago online..things progress rapidly.. > She told me how handsome I was,how badly she wanted me..all of me... > that she was all that I thought of..that she was falling in love with me.. > That she had never felt like this before for any other man... how she ached > for me to lie next to her at night and be with her.. > She wanted to come over to my place and be with me.. > I opened my heart to her bared my soul to her..I was falling in love with > her.. > Iwas completely open and honest with her..about my disease, that I am on > disability, and have been for the past 18 months.. she told me that it did > not matter at all to her.. she still wanted me badly... > I trusted her and took solace in the fact that I was actually being > completely accepted by her despite the FMS and the CFS... > She made me feel happy again..wanted.. a feeling I have not had in over a > dozen years.. I felt alive..stronger... I sent her beautiful e- cards, > poems,letters...all expressing my love for her.. she said that no one had > ever done this for her.. and how much she ached for me(SEE ATTACHED LETTER) > She was married for 16 years to a cruel husband that used to beat her > constantly.. she's been divorced/separated for a year and a half. > As I said, she wanted to be with me, and come over to see me.. I warned her > more than once that my home is very,very messy right now,because I have not > been able to clean much.. and cannot afford house keeping help right now. > She said that she was fine with it.. > ..and then yesterday..she came over. > We ended up making love to each other. > a couple hours later we hugged,and she left for home.. > By last night, she ICQd me and told me that she could deal with the fact > that my house was a mess.. and dumped me..just like that... > I just got over the pain of my now separated ex-wife, and the multiple > affairs she had on me while I was recuperating from surgery.. and took my > precious boys with her, along with her stuff, and left me after 11 years. > Now, My heart hurts all over again..I feel so used... > To make matters worse,stupid me let my heart rule, instead of my head.. I > needed to feel loved and wanted so badly..and when the opportunity came..I > jumped for it. > She was the only other woman that I have been 'intimate' with...ever > ..besides my ex. > Too make matters worse for me personally.. I am a Christian.. have been for > almost 14 years now... and I ended up doing the one thing I thought I never > could.. have sex out of wedlock.. > I felt so bad yesterday for compromising my values and beliefs..I know that > God has forgiven me,and I am at least at peace with that... > So to all those out there with FMS/CFS that have been rejected because of > this horrible disease and it's side effects..my heart goes out to you.. > because now, I KNOW what it's like.. > > A very sad and hurt Watters. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2001 Report Share Posted October 3, 2001 Dear How could someone be so manipulative as to do that to you. It just shows how cruel some people can be, to take advantage and get all they want and then dump you. It sickens me to see that someone has come into your life and tempted you to compromise your moral values and to leave you that way. The one thing I can say is that if someone else comes into your life, that you stick to your moral standing and don't falter, and if that person is genuine they will respect that and if they feel for you with a love that is true they will wait for the right time of love in wedlock. I am sorry to hear that the pain you have already experienced is again upon you. Now you have to turn your life around and look to a better future and maybe one day someone will come your way who will be true and not out to get what they want. It is good for you to cry and get it all out of your system as to bottle it up will only make you ill and bitter. I can tell you that there are a great many women out in the world that do have good values and would not do as that women has done. So don't think that all are like her. It is better to go through life single than to compromise your standards and have to live with the pain. Or to marry someone, who as soon as something like illness comes along deserts you. That isn't true love. True love knows no bounds and will go through thick and thin together. Don't let it hurt you this time as it will make you ill. You have to overcome the hurt, cry it out and go on. Is it worth making yourself ill you have to ask yourself. Is it really? I hope you make the right decision and move forward. God bless Lorraine UK > Hello all.. > > Please forgive me.. but I needed to share and talk this out. > I am in tears as I write this... > I met a wonderful woman awhile ago online..things progress rapidly.. > She told me how handsome I was,how badly she wanted me..all of me... > that she was all that I thought of..that she was falling in love with me.. > That she had never felt like this before for any other man... how she ached > for me to lie next to her at night and be with her.. > She wanted to come over to my place and be with me.. > I opened my heart to her bared my soul to her..I was falling in love with > her.. > Iwas completely open and honest with her..about my disease, that I am on > disability, and have been for the past 18 months.. she told me that it did > not matter at all to her.. she still wanted me badly... > I trusted her and took solace in the fact that I was actually being > completely accepted by her despite the FMS and the CFS... > She made me feel happy again..wanted.. a feeling I have not had in over a > dozen years.. I felt alive..stronger... I sent her beautiful e- cards, > poems,letters...all expressing my love for her.. she said that no one had > ever done this for her.. and how much she ached for me(SEE ATTACHED LETTER) > She was married for 16 years to a cruel husband that used to beat her > constantly.. she's been divorced/separated for a year and a half. > As I said, she wanted to be with me, and come over to see me.. I warned her > more than once that my home is very,very messy right now,because I have not > been able to clean much.. and cannot afford house keeping help right now. > She said that she was fine with it.. > ..and then yesterday..she came over. > We ended up making love to each other. > a couple hours later we hugged,and she left for home.. > By last night, she ICQd me and told me that she could deal with the fact > that my house was a mess.. and dumped me..just like that... > I just got over the pain of my now separated ex-wife, and the multiple > affairs she had on me while I was recuperating from surgery.. and took my > precious boys with her, along with her stuff, and left me after 11 years. > Now, My heart hurts all over again..I feel so used... > To make matters worse,stupid me let my heart rule, instead of my head.. I > needed to feel loved and wanted so badly..and when the opportunity came..I > jumped for it. > She was the only other woman that I have been 'intimate' with...ever > ..besides my ex. > Too make matters worse for me personally.. I am a Christian.. have been for > almost 14 years now... and I ended up doing the one thing I thought I never > could.. have sex out of wedlock.. > I felt so bad yesterday for compromising my values and beliefs..I know that > God has forgiven me,and I am at least at peace with that... > So to all those out there with FMS/CFS that have been rejected because of > this horrible disease and it's side effects..my heart goes out to you.. > because now, I KNOW what it's like.. > > A very sad and hurt Watters. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2001 Report Share Posted October 3, 2001 ...guess it's also true for you Princes . . . you have to kiss a lot of toads to find a Princess!!!! Keep kissing, sweetie! There's a Princess out there just for you. >, I'm sorry to hear about your friend and her attitude. I know >this wasn't what you needed right now. We are here if you need to talk. Jeane, who kissed more than her share of toads before finding her Prince! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2001 Report Share Posted October 3, 2001 ...guess it's also true for you Princes . . . you have to kiss a lot of toads to find a Princess!!!! Keep kissing, sweetie! There's a Princess out there just for you. >, I'm sorry to hear about your friend and her attitude. I know >this wasn't what you needed right now. We are here if you need to talk. Jeane, who kissed more than her share of toads before finding her Prince! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2001 Report Share Posted October 3, 2001 ...guess it's also true for you Princes . . . you have to kiss a lot of toads to find a Princess!!!! Keep kissing, sweetie! There's a Princess out there just for you. >, I'm sorry to hear about your friend and her attitude. I know >this wasn't what you needed right now. We are here if you need to talk. Jeane, who kissed more than her share of toads before finding her Prince! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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