Re: More bad news... kind of off topic

[Guest guest]

Jen,

Sorry things have been so tough for you lately. Here's hoping that this week

will be much better. (((((HUGS)))))

Dana

[Guest guest]

Jen,

Sorry things have been so tough for you lately. Here's hoping that this week

will be much better. (((((HUGS)))))

Dana

[Guest guest]

Jen

I am so sorry to hear about your father-in-law. I hope

you and your dh's family are doing ok and find some

comfort in each other. (please be careful out driving

around in that weather.) I know you all are going

through so hard times but we are hear for you.

I know each time our anniversary date (whether it be a

month or a year) is extremely hard for us and I am

sorry for you. (my heart goes out to you) This

Saturday will be 3 months since my surgery. As I am

sure you can relate, sometimes it feels like

yesterday.

As for your lovely office manager, don't give her a

second thought (easy for me to say) as long as you

know you do the best job possible, forget her!! She

will come to learn what a good employee she had when

you do leave I am sure!!!

Again, I am sorry to hear about all the sad things you

have had to go through this weekend. Please take

care.

--- Marie D'Alessio

wrote:

> Hi All,

> I hope you have all had better weekends than I have.

> My Saturday

> found me leaving work almost in tears and completely

> pissed off at my

> office manager, who basically insinuated that I am a

> liar. So, my

> week will be looking for a new job, because I have

> had it! Over-

> worked, under-paid, dealing with everyone's BS day

> in and day out,

> and enough is enough!

> My Sunday, while it began nice - my husband made a

> nice breakfast and

> we had a good morning, ended up hrrible, and

> unfortunately, its not

> even 6:00 yet! We got news that DH's grandfather

> died last night.

> While he was 90 years old, and we're all thankful he

> had 90 years on

> this earth, he is the father of my mother-in-law,

> who died 7 years

> ago. So, I know DH is going to take this pretty

> bad, since he always

> told me that the only thing he has left of his mom

> was his

> grandfather. Although he has my father-in-law and

> brothers-in-law (3

> of them), his grandfather was a special reminder of

> his mom. So, my

> week will be spent at a funeral home, and this dumb

> weather has me

> worried on how we will even accomplish that!

> And to top it off, today is 2 months to the day

> since my EP, and so I

> am altogether not happy! I'm going to head over to

> the gym, for

> has a basketball final for the team he

> coaches, and

> hopefully, the little girls he coaches will cheer

> him up, at least

> for now.

> Sorry to sound so negative, I'll check back with all

> of you later.

> Jen

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Jen

I am so sorry to hear about your father-in-law. I hope

you and your dh's family are doing ok and find some

comfort in each other. (please be careful out driving

around in that weather.) I know you all are going

through so hard times but we are hear for you.

I know each time our anniversary date (whether it be a

month or a year) is extremely hard for us and I am

sorry for you. (my heart goes out to you) This

Saturday will be 3 months since my surgery. As I am

sure you can relate, sometimes it feels like

yesterday.

As for your lovely office manager, don't give her a

second thought (easy for me to say) as long as you

know you do the best job possible, forget her!! She

will come to learn what a good employee she had when

you do leave I am sure!!!

Again, I am sorry to hear about all the sad things you

have had to go through this weekend. Please take

care.

--- Marie D'Alessio

wrote:

> Hi All,

> I hope you have all had better weekends than I have.

> My Saturday

> found me leaving work almost in tears and completely

> pissed off at my

> office manager, who basically insinuated that I am a

> liar. So, my

> week will be looking for a new job, because I have

> had it! Over-

> worked, under-paid, dealing with everyone's BS day

> in and day out,

> and enough is enough!

> My Sunday, while it began nice - my husband made a

> nice breakfast and

> we had a good morning, ended up hrrible, and

> unfortunately, its not

> even 6:00 yet! We got news that DH's grandfather

> died last night.

> While he was 90 years old, and we're all thankful he

> had 90 years on

> this earth, he is the father of my mother-in-law,

> who died 7 years

> ago. So, I know DH is going to take this pretty

> bad, since he always

> told me that the only thing he has left of his mom

> was his

> grandfather. Although he has my father-in-law and

> brothers-in-law (3

> of them), his grandfather was a special reminder of

> his mom. So, my

> week will be spent at a funeral home, and this dumb

> weather has me

> worried on how we will even accomplish that!

> And to top it off, today is 2 months to the day

> since my EP, and so I

> am altogether not happy! I'm going to head over to

> the gym, for

> has a basketball final for the team he

> coaches, and

> hopefully, the little girls he coaches will cheer

> him up, at least

> for now.

> Sorry to sound so negative, I'll check back with all

> of you later.

> Jen

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Hi Jen,

Sorry to hear about your crappy week. My job sucks too--they doubled

my responsibilities (which would be fine, except my pay is the same)

and now I've got an evil manager. She really gets under my skin.

But, I need to stick it out because I hope to be pg very soon, and

boy will I enjoy my 4 months of pg leave!

I'm so sorry to hear about the death in your family. I hope good

news will find you soon to balance out the bad.

[Guest guest]

Hi Jen,

Sorry to hear about your crappy week. My job sucks too--they doubled

my responsibilities (which would be fine, except my pay is the same)

and now I've got an evil manager. She really gets under my skin.

But, I need to stick it out because I hope to be pg very soon, and

boy will I enjoy my 4 months of pg leave!

I'm so sorry to hear about the death in your family. I hope good

news will find you soon to balance out the bad.

[Guest guest]

Hi Jen,

Sorry to hear about your crappy week. My job sucks too--they doubled

my responsibilities (which would be fine, except my pay is the same)

and now I've got an evil manager. She really gets under my skin.

But, I need to stick it out because I hope to be pg very soon, and

boy will I enjoy my 4 months of pg leave!

I'm so sorry to hear about the death in your family. I hope good

news will find you soon to balance out the bad.

[Guest guest]

Jen,

It seems like when it rains it pours. I am sorry to hear about your

dh's grandfather. I can imagine how hard it will be for him. My

grandfather is 89 and not doing well. Although I still have my

grandmother. But my dad passed away a couple of years ago. Its weird

that his parents out lived him.

Pam

[Guest guest]

Jen,

It seems like when it rains it pours. I am sorry to hear about your

dh's grandfather. I can imagine how hard it will be for him. My

grandfather is 89 and not doing well. Although I still have my

grandmother. But my dad passed away a couple of years ago. Its weird

that his parents out lived him.

Pam

[Guest guest]

Jen,

It seems like when it rains it pours. I am sorry to hear about your

dh's grandfather. I can imagine how hard it will be for him. My

grandfather is 89 and not doing well. Although I still have my

grandmother. But my dad passed away a couple of years ago. Its weird

that his parents out lived him.

Pam

[Guest guest]

Jen

I just wanted to check you and hoped your evening is

going ok. I hope going to the gym and watching the

kids play basketball helped you and your husband.

(also hope his team won.)

--- Marie D'Alessio

wrote:

> Hi All,

> I hope you have all had better weekends than I have.

> My Saturday

> found me leaving work almost in tears and completely

> pissed off at my

> office manager, who basically insinuated that I am a

> liar. So, my

> week will be looking for a new job, because I have

> had it! Over-

> worked, under-paid, dealing with everyone's BS day

> in and day out,

> and enough is enough!

> My Sunday, while it began nice - my husband made a

> nice breakfast and

> we had a good morning, ended up hrrible, and

> unfortunately, its not

> even 6:00 yet! We got news that DH's grandfather

> died last night.

> While he was 90 years old, and we're all thankful he

> had 90 years on

> this earth, he is the father of my mother-in-law,

> who died 7 years

> ago. So, I know DH is going to take this pretty

> bad, since he always

> told me that the only thing he has left of his mom

> was his

> grandfather. Although he has my father-in-law and

> brothers-in-law (3

> of them), his grandfather was a special reminder of

> his mom. So, my

> week will be spent at a funeral home, and this dumb

> weather has me

> worried on how we will even accomplish that!

> And to top it off, today is 2 months to the day

> since my EP, and so I

> am altogether not happy! I'm going to head over to

> the gym, for

> has a basketball final for the team he

> coaches, and

> hopefully, the little girls he coaches will cheer

> him up, at least

> for now.

> Sorry to sound so negative, I'll check back with all

> of you later.

> Jen

>

>

__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

Jen

I just wanted to check you and hoped your evening is

going ok. I hope going to the gym and watching the

kids play basketball helped you and your husband.

(also hope his team won.)

--- Marie D'Alessio

wrote:

> Hi All,

> I hope you have all had better weekends than I have.

> My Saturday

> found me leaving work almost in tears and completely

> pissed off at my

> office manager, who basically insinuated that I am a

> liar. So, my

> week will be looking for a new job, because I have

> had it! Over-

> worked, under-paid, dealing with everyone's BS day

> in and day out,

> and enough is enough!

> My Sunday, while it began nice - my husband made a

> nice breakfast and

> we had a good morning, ended up hrrible, and

> unfortunately, its not

> even 6:00 yet! We got news that DH's grandfather

> died last night.

> While he was 90 years old, and we're all thankful he

> had 90 years on

> this earth, he is the father of my mother-in-law,

> who died 7 years

> ago. So, I know DH is going to take this pretty

> bad, since he always

> told me that the only thing he has left of his mom

> was his

> grandfather. Although he has my father-in-law and

> brothers-in-law (3

> of them), his grandfather was a special reminder of

> his mom. So, my

> week will be spent at a funeral home, and this dumb

> weather has me

> worried on how we will even accomplish that!

> And to top it off, today is 2 months to the day

> since my EP, and so I

> am altogether not happy! I'm going to head over to

> the gym, for

> has a basketball final for the team he

> coaches, and

> hopefully, the little girls he coaches will cheer

> him up, at least

> for now.

> Sorry to sound so negative, I'll check back with all

> of you later.

> Jen

>

>

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[Guest guest]

What a lot to go through in one weekend. I'm sorry to hear about dh's

grandfather. Even at 90 you can't help but want the person to stay

with you another 50 years. As far as looking for a new job, let's

hope you find a great one! Think how much happier you'll be working at

a more fun place for better pay... Hoping this week is better than

last.

Dominique

[Guest guest]

What a lot to go through in one weekend. I'm sorry to hear about dh's

grandfather. Even at 90 you can't help but want the person to stay

with you another 50 years. As far as looking for a new job, let's

hope you find a great one! Think how much happier you'll be working at

a more fun place for better pay... Hoping this week is better than

last.

Dominique

[Guest guest]

Jen,

I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. There really are never

appropriate words to say when a loved one passes, but as you said, he was

very lucky to be here for 90 years. I'll be praying for you and your

family.

maria

[Guest guest]

Jen,

So sorry to hear you've had such an awful weekend ((((((HUGS))))))

-AmyR

[Guest guest]

Thanks , for your very kind words. I appreciate it. We're doing ok,

but I just wonder when things will slow down and good news will arise for us!

Jen

[Guest guest]

Thanks , for your very kind words. I appreciate it. We're doing ok,

but I just wonder when things will slow down and good news will arise for us!

Jen

[Guest guest]

Thanks . It really sucks to have job problems when you know you want to

be pg soon. Like, " what should I do - stay in a place that I'm miserable

because I need maternity leave or time off, or leave and hope my next boss is

understanding? " If you happen to figure out the answer, please let me know!

Jen

[Guest guest]

Pam,

It is so true, seeing his grandfather for the past seven years crying over

losing his daughter and his wife was heart breaking. The man lived a hard

life, he outlived his wife, his daughter, one of his grandsons, and most

recently, one of his great-grandchildren (my EP, which truly broke his heart.

It is very uplifting to know that now they are all together. Hope dh can see

it that way!

I'll keep your grandparents in my prayers!

Jen

[Guest guest]

Pam,

It is so true, seeing his grandfather for the past seven years crying over

losing his daughter and his wife was heart breaking. The man lived a hard

life, he outlived his wife, his daughter, one of his grandsons, and most

recently, one of his great-grandchildren (my EP, which truly broke his heart.

It is very uplifting to know that now they are all together. Hope dh can see

it that way!

I'll keep your grandparents in my prayers!

Jen

[Guest guest]

Pam,

It is so true, seeing his grandfather for the past seven years crying over

losing his daughter and his wife was heart breaking. The man lived a hard

life, he outlived his wife, his daughter, one of his grandsons, and most

recently, one of his great-grandchildren (my EP, which truly broke his heart.

It is very uplifting to know that now they are all together. Hope dh can see

it that way!

I'll keep your grandparents in my prayers!

Jen

[Guest guest]

Thanks .

Nope, we lost, came in 2nd for the season, but that's ok. DH is working

today, he's on his way home. He's doing ok for now, I'm a little worried

about the wake tomorrow, but we'll try our best.

Jen

[Guest guest]

Thanks .

Nope, we lost, came in 2nd for the season, but that's ok. DH is working

today, he's on his way home. He's doing ok for now, I'm a little worried

about the wake tomorrow, but we'll try our best.

Jen

[Guest guest]

Thanks Dominique. I'm hoping this week is better too. I'd just settle for

ONE nice thing to happen in our personal life! 2001 hasn't treated us very

nicely so far. I hope you are doing well!

Jen