Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Zephyr--sounds like you could use a little " me " time!! Maybe a chance to catch up on some sleep too? You and DH have been through alot with you MIL passing away and now your new business. Maybe you could arrange an evening or afternoon just for yourself to relax and unwind? Maybe DH could use this too? Hope it all works out. About the gain, that seems to be my story quite a bit! I am not one of those people who loses every week, unfortunately. I'm kind of used to it now. My WW leader says you are entitled to have your very own " pity party " for say, an hour or two, so you can feel bad and all, but then, GET UP AND GET BACK ON THAT HORSE, GIRL!! You can do it! And you will! Caren ><(((*> > > Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. > Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. > Zephyr > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Thanks Caren!!! Zephyr Re: Zephyr update Zephyr--sounds like you could use a little " me " time!! Maybe a chance to catch up on some sleep too? You and DH have been through alot with you MIL passing away and now your new business. Maybe you could arrange an evening or afternoon just for yourself to relax and unwind? Maybe DH could use this too? Hope it all works out. About the gain, that seems to be my story quite a bit! I am not one of those people who loses every week, unfortunately. I'm kind of used to it now. My WW leader says you are entitled to have your very own " pity party " for say, an hour or two, so you can feel bad and all, but then, GET UP AND GET BACK ON THAT HORSE, GIRL!! You can do it! And you will! Caren ><(((*> > > Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. > Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. > Zephyr > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Sorry about the gain. Sodium will do me in every time, too. You'll get it back off next weigh-in! You are doing the right thing in giveing DH some space right now. He will mend in time. And don't forget to take extra good care of yourself. His emotions can have a large influence on your own and we don't want that Munch Monster creeping in. You know you can come here to vent any time. That is what we are here for! ((Hugs)) |--------+--------------------------> | | " Zephyrmon " | | | <zephyrmon@cable| | | speed.com> | | | | | | 07/15/2002 08:21| | | PM | | | Please respond | | | to wwliterside | | | | |--------+--------------------------> >-----------------------------------------------------------| | | | To: wwliterside , " ThePointers " | | , " Hicks " | | | | cc: (bcc: -C /BRE/AGFA/US/BAYER) | | Subject: Zephyr update | >-----------------------------------------------------------| Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Sorry about the gain. Sodium will do me in every time, too. You'll get it back off next weigh-in! You are doing the right thing in giveing DH some space right now. He will mend in time. And don't forget to take extra good care of yourself. His emotions can have a large influence on your own and we don't want that Munch Monster creeping in. You know you can come here to vent any time. That is what we are here for! ((Hugs)) |--------+--------------------------> | | " Zephyrmon " | | | <zephyrmon@cable| | | speed.com> | | | | | | 07/15/2002 08:21| | | PM | | | Please respond | | | to wwliterside | | | | |--------+--------------------------> >-----------------------------------------------------------| | | | To: wwliterside , " ThePointers " | | , " Hicks " | | | | cc: (bcc: -C /BRE/AGFA/US/BAYER) | | Subject: Zephyr update | >-----------------------------------------------------------| Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Sorry about the gain. Sodium will do me in every time, too. You'll get it back off next weigh-in! You are doing the right thing in giveing DH some space right now. He will mend in time. And don't forget to take extra good care of yourself. His emotions can have a large influence on your own and we don't want that Munch Monster creeping in. You know you can come here to vent any time. That is what we are here for! ((Hugs)) |--------+--------------------------> | | " Zephyrmon " | | | <zephyrmon@cable| | | speed.com> | | | | | | 07/15/2002 08:21| | | PM | | | Please respond | | | to wwliterside | | | | |--------+--------------------------> >-----------------------------------------------------------| | | | To: wwliterside , " ThePointers " | | , " Hicks " | | | | cc: (bcc: -C /BRE/AGFA/US/BAYER) | | Subject: Zephyr update | >-----------------------------------------------------------| Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Big Hug Zeyphyr! I'm sorry your having a hard time. You weight gain could also be do to stress. It happens to me, I seem to hold onto everything. Does your DH have someone he can talk to about his pain. I know after my father passed away, I almost had a breakdown (I had also just given birth to my first child 12 days before). But I tend to hold everything in. Talking finally allowed me to release some of my pain. Hang in there. -- Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Big Hug Zeyphyr! I'm sorry your having a hard time. You weight gain could also be do to stress. It happens to me, I seem to hold onto everything. Does your DH have someone he can talk to about his pain. I know after my father passed away, I almost had a breakdown (I had also just given birth to my first child 12 days before). But I tend to hold everything in. Talking finally allowed me to release some of my pain. Hang in there. -- Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Big Hug Zeyphyr! I'm sorry your having a hard time. You weight gain could also be do to stress. It happens to me, I seem to hold onto everything. Does your DH have someone he can talk to about his pain. I know after my father passed away, I almost had a breakdown (I had also just given birth to my first child 12 days before). But I tend to hold everything in. Talking finally allowed me to release some of my pain. Hang in there. -- Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Vent away Zephyr!! Sorry about the gain! It could be eating at the low or below your points (I gained a pound this week to, and probably for the same reason) or it could be the sodium. Hang in there!!! I am sure it will be down next week!!! I think you are right just trying to give dh his own space right now. I also know that you are probably exhausted, physically and emotionally. Between you MIL passing and trying to open your business, you need a little break! Try finding something to do for yourself. It doesn't need to be big, just something that you would enjoy and would be relaxing. Hang in there and keep us posted!! Maureen Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Vent away Zephyr!! Sorry about the gain! It could be eating at the low or below your points (I gained a pound this week to, and probably for the same reason) or it could be the sodium. Hang in there!!! I am sure it will be down next week!!! I think you are right just trying to give dh his own space right now. I also know that you are probably exhausted, physically and emotionally. Between you MIL passing and trying to open your business, you need a little break! Try finding something to do for yourself. It doesn't need to be big, just something that you would enjoy and would be relaxing. Hang in there and keep us posted!! Maureen Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Thanks !!! Zephyr Zephyr update | >-----------------------------------------------------------| Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Thanks !!! Zephyr Zephyr update | >-----------------------------------------------------------| Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Thanks !!! Zephyr Zephyr update | >-----------------------------------------------------------| Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Thanks so much, I feel better just from venting. Zephyr Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Thanks so much, I feel better just from venting. Zephyr Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Thanks so much, I feel better just from venting. Zephyr Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 We have our old marriage couselor who stopped by to visit the other day and I really wish he would see her but funds wise he is too stubborn to go, she would trade with me services but his pride will not let him. He told me that he had his first good cry yesterday as he put it the one he should have had when we turned off the life support. I am hoping that this is the start of him opening up. Thanks so much. I am wondering now that you bring it up, he is in severe back, neck and shoulder pain and I have worked on it but now I wonder if it is not a manifestation of the emotions he is holding in. Thanks so much for all the support. Zephyr Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Zephyr, I am sure that a lot of what he is doing is from the stress and emotions of his mom passing. I know when my dad died (I was only 24yo at the time) I totally shut out everyone including Robin (we weren't married yet). My dad and I were very close and with me being so young it hit me very hard. When my mom died a couple of years ago, I was a lot more prepared for it because she had been sick for about a year. It still was very hard for me (because we were very close too) but not nearly as bad. I am sure, especially since he had to turn off the life support that he is having a lot of emotional stress. You know it is the best thing to do but it doesn't make it easier. Just let him now that you are there for him and that he can talk to you, but you won't push it and he can have his space to deal with it. Maureen Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Zephyr, I am sure that a lot of what he is doing is from the stress and emotions of his mom passing. I know when my dad died (I was only 24yo at the time) I totally shut out everyone including Robin (we weren't married yet). My dad and I were very close and with me being so young it hit me very hard. When my mom died a couple of years ago, I was a lot more prepared for it because she had been sick for about a year. It still was very hard for me (because we were very close too) but not nearly as bad. I am sure, especially since he had to turn off the life support that he is having a lot of emotional stress. You know it is the best thing to do but it doesn't make it easier. Just let him now that you are there for him and that he can talk to you, but you won't push it and he can have his space to deal with it. Maureen Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 That darn sodium! Sorry bout your gain, hopefully it will be gone by next week. I hope things improve with your DH too. Remember, everything happened so quickly and he's just now catching up with his emotions plus you've got your business going which is enough stress in itself and then when you add $$ stress like you had last week it might seem impossible!! But you love each other and just give each other a little space and time to heal and adjust. Big hugs to both of you. -riza > > Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. > Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. > Zephyr > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 I would not be surprised. One of my old bosses pointed out to me 5 years after my first husband died that every time a special event came around, christmas, birthday's ect. I would get sick around a week after. I realized that I held everything together to get through then my body just gave out on me. I ended up with bronchitis or sinus infections even a kidney infection at one point. It was a big eye opener to me. I still tend to hold things in (hence my back problems) but I do know that talking some how makes it less painful. Wishing you both the best and big hugs -- Re: Zephyr update We have our old marriage couselor who stopped by to visit the other day and I really wish he would see her but funds wise he is too stubborn to go, she would trade with me services but his pride will not let him. He told me that he had his first good cry yesterday as he put it the one he should have had when we turned off the life support. I am hoping that this is the start of him opening up. Thanks so much. I am wondering now that you bring it up, he is in severe back, neck and shoulder pain and I have worked on it but now I wonder if it is not a manifestation of the emotions he is holding in. Thanks so much for all the support. Zephyr Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 I would not be surprised. One of my old bosses pointed out to me 5 years after my first husband died that every time a special event came around, christmas, birthday's ect. I would get sick around a week after. I realized that I held everything together to get through then my body just gave out on me. I ended up with bronchitis or sinus infections even a kidney infection at one point. It was a big eye opener to me. I still tend to hold things in (hence my back problems) but I do know that talking some how makes it less painful. Wishing you both the best and big hugs -- Re: Zephyr update We have our old marriage couselor who stopped by to visit the other day and I really wish he would see her but funds wise he is too stubborn to go, she would trade with me services but his pride will not let him. He told me that he had his first good cry yesterday as he put it the one he should have had when we turned off the life support. I am hoping that this is the start of him opening up. Thanks so much. I am wondering now that you bring it up, he is in severe back, neck and shoulder pain and I have worked on it but now I wonder if it is not a manifestation of the emotions he is holding in. Thanks so much for all the support. Zephyr Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 I would not be surprised. One of my old bosses pointed out to me 5 years after my first husband died that every time a special event came around, christmas, birthday's ect. I would get sick around a week after. I realized that I held everything together to get through then my body just gave out on me. I ended up with bronchitis or sinus infections even a kidney infection at one point. It was a big eye opener to me. I still tend to hold things in (hence my back problems) but I do know that talking some how makes it less painful. Wishing you both the best and big hugs -- Re: Zephyr update We have our old marriage couselor who stopped by to visit the other day and I really wish he would see her but funds wise he is too stubborn to go, she would trade with me services but his pride will not let him. He told me that he had his first good cry yesterday as he put it the one he should have had when we turned off the life support. I am hoping that this is the start of him opening up. Thanks so much. I am wondering now that you bring it up, he is in severe back, neck and shoulder pain and I have worked on it but now I wonder if it is not a manifestation of the emotions he is holding in. Thanks so much for all the support. Zephyr Zephyr update Just a note to say I was up 2 pounds today, not sure why but feel it has to do with eating below or at the low end of my range of points it happens to me every time plus I had a lot of sodium yesterday. Still it was a big bummer. Already feeling very down DH has been a royal pain in the butt, very cranky and he never is and very depressed, with his mother passing, it is very understandable and I am trying to give him space but ouhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he is really hard to take right now, I am just venting but god I feel like running away right now until he returns to nornmal. Sorry just had to vent. Plus I am sooooo tired. Zephyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Zephyr - You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that your DH will open up to you. My DH can be the same way but all you can do is keep the lines of communication open and be there for him. Take care of yourself and vent whenever you need to. We love You! Hugs - Sherrie K Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2002 Report Share Posted July 16, 2002 Thanks so much everyone, I must have gotten through a little bit last night because he apologized today and said he just got done telling his boss he would have stayed home from work today except he wanted to give me a break from his bad mood. I suggested since it is not tooo terribly hot today that we put the baby in the stroller and go for a walk when he gets home we have really gotten out of the habit with this hot weather and I think it would be really good time togetther.So hopefully, boy you guys sure have taught me some good new behaviors. I also apologized to him for not having more patience given all he is going through. Amazing also is I do not feel like grazing today. My eating sure is emotional.Thanks so much to you all for all the support!!!! Zephyr Re: Zephyr update Zephyr - You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that your DH will open up to you. My DH can be the same way but all you can do is keep the lines of communication open and be there for him. Take care of yourself and vent whenever you need to. We love You! Hugs - Sherrie K Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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