fair-weather cycle buddies

[Guest guest]

,

Gee, that's weird. I'm sorry you gave so much of yourself at a point that

was hard and now you aren't getting it back (from her). You are right about

the internet though, one day someone is here, the next day they aren't...

{{{HUGS}}}

[Guest guest]

,

Gee, that's weird. I'm sorry you gave so much of yourself at a point that

was hard and now you aren't getting it back (from her). You are right about

the internet though, one day someone is here, the next day they aren't...

{{{HUGS}}}

[Guest guest]

Hi,

Have any of you had this happen? There was a woman who joined this

group (who is no longer on it). She was a lurker, but e-mailed me

privately a lot. After her ep, she started to ttc. She'd e-mail me

almost everyday and I supported her through ttc and charting. Then

she got pg and I supported her through blood tests, ultrasounds,

elements of her personal life, etc.

This went on for about 3 months. At the time I was encouraging her

through ttc, I was going through metho hell. It took a lot for me to

look beyond myself and provide her with the support that I did--but

it turned out we had a lot in common.

Luckily, her pg was healthy, but then she disappeared. No more e-

mails to see how I'm doing, etc. Am I wrong to think she's a fair-

weather cycle buddy? Now that I need support (not that I didn't back

then too), she's gone. The internet is a weird place in that you

feel like you really know someone, but you really don't.

[Guest guest]

I am sorry to hear your story. It is so nice to have

someone who you have things in common with and can

understand how you are feeling. I am new on this

group and find everyone to be fantastic. I don't know

why she did what she did, maybe she was alittle

selfish or maybe she is going through a rough time.

It was not right what she did but you have us.

--- franke100@... wrote:

> Hi,

>

> Have any of you had this happen? There was a woman

> who joined this

> group (who is no longer on it). She was a lurker,

> but e-mailed me

> privately a lot. After her ep, she started to ttc.

> She'd e-mail me

> almost everyday and I supported her through ttc and

> charting. Then

> she got pg and I supported her through blood tests,

> ultrasounds,

> elements of her personal life, etc.

>

> This went on for about 3 months. At the time I was

> encouraging her

> through ttc, I was going through metho hell. It took

> a lot for me to

> look beyond myself and provide her with the support

> that I did--but

> it turned out we had a lot in common.

>

> Luckily, her pg was healthy, but then she

> disappeared. No more e-

> mails to see how I'm doing, etc. Am I wrong to

> think she's a fair-

> weather cycle buddy? Now that I need support (not

> that I didn't back

> then too), she's gone. The internet is a weird

> place in that you

> feel like you really know someone, but you really

> don't.

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Hi ,

I can think of three reasons why she did it:

1) Maybe she thought it would upset me to talk to keep in touch with

someone who is pg;

2) Maybe she needed to put the ep stuff behind her and focus on her

pg; or

3) She's just plain self-absorbed.

I think if something was wrong with the pg, she would definitely let

me know because she was very good at keeping in contact when SHE was

needy for something. I know I do have this wonderful group for

support. Thanks!

[Guest guest]

Hi ,

I can think of three reasons why she did it:

1) Maybe she thought it would upset me to talk to keep in touch with

someone who is pg;

2) Maybe she needed to put the ep stuff behind her and focus on her

pg; or

3) She's just plain self-absorbed.

I think if something was wrong with the pg, she would definitely let

me know because she was very good at keeping in contact when SHE was

needy for something. I know I do have this wonderful group for

support. Thanks!

[Guest guest]

I would like to think #1 or #2 but you never know.

--- franke100@... wrote:

> Hi ,

>

> I can think of three reasons why she did it:

>

> 1) Maybe she thought it would upset me to talk to

> keep in touch with

> someone who is pg;

> 2) Maybe she needed to put the ep stuff behind her

> and focus on her

> pg; or

> 3) She's just plain self-absorbed.

>

> I think if something was wrong with the pg, she

> would definitely let

> me know because she was very good at keeping in

> contact when SHE was

> needy for something. I know I do have this

> wonderful group for

> support. Thanks!

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

,

I think the good news in this story is that there was yet another

woman who had an ep and went on to have a uterine pregnancy. She was

treated with metho, and literally got pg a couple months after the ep.