Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 My 10 cents tells me that less stress is better for any disease/situation. Stress is not a good thing. Go for it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 My 10 cents tells me that less stress is better for any disease/situation. Stress is not a good thing. Go for it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 My 10 cents tells me that less stress is better for any disease/situation. Stress is not a good thing. Go for it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Hi Jill, If you can manage with one income, perhaps it would be better for you especially if you have a high stress job. I do realize that it is a difficult decision, but being able to take care of yourself and your family is really a higher priority. Good luck with your decision Jill. And by the way, what wonderful parents you must have to be willing to replace your income! You are very blessed! In a message dated 3/18/2004 2:56:04 PM Pacific Standard Time, aj72300@... writes: > So here is my question, do you think taking off of > work, i.e., less stress would help my health? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Hi Jill, If you can manage with one income, perhaps it would be better for you especially if you have a high stress job. I do realize that it is a difficult decision, but being able to take care of yourself and your family is really a higher priority. Good luck with your decision Jill. And by the way, what wonderful parents you must have to be willing to replace your income! You are very blessed! In a message dated 3/18/2004 2:56:04 PM Pacific Standard Time, aj72300@... writes: > So here is my question, do you think taking off of > work, i.e., less stress would help my health? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Hi Jill, If you can manage with one income, perhaps it would be better for you especially if you have a high stress job. I do realize that it is a difficult decision, but being able to take care of yourself and your family is really a higher priority. Good luck with your decision Jill. And by the way, what wonderful parents you must have to be willing to replace your income! You are very blessed! In a message dated 3/18/2004 2:56:04 PM Pacific Standard Time, aj72300@... writes: > So here is my question, do you think taking off of > work, i.e., less stress would help my health? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Wonderful advise ! In a message dated 3/18/2004 7:10:20 PM Pacific Standard Time, j_schrimsher@... writes: > Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time > here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a > little more or made a little more money? No, the things people > regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing > down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make > that mistake that, sadly, so many make. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Wonderful advise ! In a message dated 3/18/2004 7:10:20 PM Pacific Standard Time, j_schrimsher@... writes: > Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time > here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a > little more or made a little more money? No, the things people > regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing > down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make > that mistake that, sadly, so many make. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Jill my neph said reducing my stress level was a big factor in getting things under control. Not only does it help reduce your blood pressure but it also helps your bodies natural healing process...high stress delays healing in many cases. If you can swing a leave of absence or even swing quitting all together I would go for it. Sounds like you have a very supportive husband and loving family behind you. I closed my business for 3 months when I was going thru my initial diagnosis and medication juggling. I work out of the house running my own business (talk about stress) and homeschool my two kids (6 and 9 yrs old talk about more stress) and do most of the household stuff like cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc... Just taking those few months off and not having to worry about work on top of everything was well worth it as far as my health was concerned. It's hard to do when you are a work-a-holic mom, you feel guilty about not contributing to the household budget, you feel guilty about not being able to do many things you used to, but then you realize you only have one body and once it's gone...... Give yourself a break if you can, it's well worth it in the end. Amy Does stress effect IGAN? > As I posted earlier my proteinuria is up to 7500 and I need to go > for shots once a week, blah, blah, blah see earlier post. To make a > long story short, I am a mother of two a 3 1/2 year old and a 7 > month old. I work outside of the home two days a week at a fairly > stressful job that I've been at for 10 years now. My parents want > me to go on medical leave at least for a month while I get my > kidneys stable and they will pay me my salary to stay home. My > husband thinks I should just quit completely and focus on my health > and the kids, we will just make some cut backs financially to make > it work. I don't think I qualify for FMLA because I don't work 1250 > hours a year. So here is my question, do you think taking off of > work, i.e., less stress would help my health? I'm just wondering if > anyone has had anything become worse because of stress or better > with less stress. Thanks for your input. > > Jill > > > > > To edit your settings for the group, go to our Yahoo Group > home page: > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/iga-nephropathy/ > > To unsubcribe via email, > iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe > Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely supported by donations. If you would like to help, go to: > http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm > > Thank you > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Jill my neph said reducing my stress level was a big factor in getting things under control. Not only does it help reduce your blood pressure but it also helps your bodies natural healing process...high stress delays healing in many cases. If you can swing a leave of absence or even swing quitting all together I would go for it. Sounds like you have a very supportive husband and loving family behind you. I closed my business for 3 months when I was going thru my initial diagnosis and medication juggling. I work out of the house running my own business (talk about stress) and homeschool my two kids (6 and 9 yrs old talk about more stress) and do most of the household stuff like cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc... Just taking those few months off and not having to worry about work on top of everything was well worth it as far as my health was concerned. It's hard to do when you are a work-a-holic mom, you feel guilty about not contributing to the household budget, you feel guilty about not being able to do many things you used to, but then you realize you only have one body and once it's gone...... Give yourself a break if you can, it's well worth it in the end. Amy Does stress effect IGAN? > As I posted earlier my proteinuria is up to 7500 and I need to go > for shots once a week, blah, blah, blah see earlier post. To make a > long story short, I am a mother of two a 3 1/2 year old and a 7 > month old. I work outside of the home two days a week at a fairly > stressful job that I've been at for 10 years now. My parents want > me to go on medical leave at least for a month while I get my > kidneys stable and they will pay me my salary to stay home. My > husband thinks I should just quit completely and focus on my health > and the kids, we will just make some cut backs financially to make > it work. I don't think I qualify for FMLA because I don't work 1250 > hours a year. So here is my question, do you think taking off of > work, i.e., less stress would help my health? I'm just wondering if > anyone has had anything become worse because of stress or better > with less stress. Thanks for your input. > > Jill > > > > > To edit your settings for the group, go to our Yahoo Group > home page: > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/iga-nephropathy/ > > To unsubcribe via email, > iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe > Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely supported by donations. If you would like to help, go to: > http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm > > Thank you > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Jill my neph said reducing my stress level was a big factor in getting things under control. Not only does it help reduce your blood pressure but it also helps your bodies natural healing process...high stress delays healing in many cases. If you can swing a leave of absence or even swing quitting all together I would go for it. Sounds like you have a very supportive husband and loving family behind you. I closed my business for 3 months when I was going thru my initial diagnosis and medication juggling. I work out of the house running my own business (talk about stress) and homeschool my two kids (6 and 9 yrs old talk about more stress) and do most of the household stuff like cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc... Just taking those few months off and not having to worry about work on top of everything was well worth it as far as my health was concerned. It's hard to do when you are a work-a-holic mom, you feel guilty about not contributing to the household budget, you feel guilty about not being able to do many things you used to, but then you realize you only have one body and once it's gone...... Give yourself a break if you can, it's well worth it in the end. Amy Does stress effect IGAN? > As I posted earlier my proteinuria is up to 7500 and I need to go > for shots once a week, blah, blah, blah see earlier post. To make a > long story short, I am a mother of two a 3 1/2 year old and a 7 > month old. I work outside of the home two days a week at a fairly > stressful job that I've been at for 10 years now. My parents want > me to go on medical leave at least for a month while I get my > kidneys stable and they will pay me my salary to stay home. My > husband thinks I should just quit completely and focus on my health > and the kids, we will just make some cut backs financially to make > it work. I don't think I qualify for FMLA because I don't work 1250 > hours a year. So here is my question, do you think taking off of > work, i.e., less stress would help my health? I'm just wondering if > anyone has had anything become worse because of stress or better > with less stress. Thanks for your input. > > Jill > > > > > To edit your settings for the group, go to our Yahoo Group > home page: > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/iga-nephropathy/ > > To unsubcribe via email, > iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe > Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely supported by donations. If you would like to help, go to: > http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm > > Thank you > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Jill, First of all, best of luck getting the protein under control. Secondly, it sounds like a no-brainer to me. Go home and enjoy those babies and take care of your health. I too have small children (6 and 3) and a high stress job (Financial Advisor) and would give up my job in a New York minute to be home with my little ones. Do you think your Mom and Dad would help me out? Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a little more or made a little more money? No, the things people regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make that mistake that, sadly, so many make. Jill, in my opinion-you should just take care to not let the door hit you in the butt on the way out!!! ;) Warmest Regards, > As I posted earlier my proteinuria is up to 7500 and I need to go > for shots once a week, blah, blah, blah see earlier post. To make a > long story short, I am a mother of two a 3 1/2 year old and a 7 > month old. I work outside of the home two days a week at a fairly > stressful job that I've been at for 10 years now. My parents want > me to go on medical leave at least for a month while I get my > kidneys stable and they will pay me my salary to stay home. My > husband thinks I should just quit completely and focus on my health > and the kids, we will just make some cut backs financially to make > it work. I don't think I qualify for FMLA because I don't work 1250 > hours a year. So here is my question, do you think taking off of > work, i.e., less stress would help my health? I'm just wondering if > anyone has had anything become worse because of stress or better > with less stress. Thanks for your input. > > Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Jill, First of all, best of luck getting the protein under control. Secondly, it sounds like a no-brainer to me. Go home and enjoy those babies and take care of your health. I too have small children (6 and 3) and a high stress job (Financial Advisor) and would give up my job in a New York minute to be home with my little ones. Do you think your Mom and Dad would help me out? Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a little more or made a little more money? No, the things people regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make that mistake that, sadly, so many make. Jill, in my opinion-you should just take care to not let the door hit you in the butt on the way out!!! ;) Warmest Regards, > As I posted earlier my proteinuria is up to 7500 and I need to go > for shots once a week, blah, blah, blah see earlier post. To make a > long story short, I am a mother of two a 3 1/2 year old and a 7 > month old. I work outside of the home two days a week at a fairly > stressful job that I've been at for 10 years now. My parents want > me to go on medical leave at least for a month while I get my > kidneys stable and they will pay me my salary to stay home. My > husband thinks I should just quit completely and focus on my health > and the kids, we will just make some cut backs financially to make > it work. I don't think I qualify for FMLA because I don't work 1250 > hours a year. So here is my question, do you think taking off of > work, i.e., less stress would help my health? I'm just wondering if > anyone has had anything become worse because of stress or better > with less stress. Thanks for your input. > > Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Jill, First of all, best of luck getting the protein under control. Secondly, it sounds like a no-brainer to me. Go home and enjoy those babies and take care of your health. I too have small children (6 and 3) and a high stress job (Financial Advisor) and would give up my job in a New York minute to be home with my little ones. Do you think your Mom and Dad would help me out? Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a little more or made a little more money? No, the things people regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make that mistake that, sadly, so many make. Jill, in my opinion-you should just take care to not let the door hit you in the butt on the way out!!! ;) Warmest Regards, > As I posted earlier my proteinuria is up to 7500 and I need to go > for shots once a week, blah, blah, blah see earlier post. To make a > long story short, I am a mother of two a 3 1/2 year old and a 7 > month old. I work outside of the home two days a week at a fairly > stressful job that I've been at for 10 years now. My parents want > me to go on medical leave at least for a month while I get my > kidneys stable and they will pay me my salary to stay home. My > husband thinks I should just quit completely and focus on my health > and the kids, we will just make some cut backs financially to make > it work. I don't think I qualify for FMLA because I don't work 1250 > hours a year. So here is my question, do you think taking off of > work, i.e., less stress would help my health? I'm just wondering if > anyone has had anything become worse because of stress or better > with less stress. Thanks for your input. > > Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Thanks , but I felt that this was the strongest part of my post: " Jill, in my opinion-you should just take care to not let the door hit you in the butt on the way out!!! ;) " > Wonderful advise ! > > In a message dated 3/18/2004 7:10:20 PM Pacific Standard Time, > j_schrimsher@y... writes: > > > Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time > > here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a > > little more or made a little more money? No, the things people > > regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing > > down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make > > that mistake that, sadly, so many make. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Thanks , but I felt that this was the strongest part of my post: " Jill, in my opinion-you should just take care to not let the door hit you in the butt on the way out!!! ;) " > Wonderful advise ! > > In a message dated 3/18/2004 7:10:20 PM Pacific Standard Time, > j_schrimsher@y... writes: > > > Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time > > here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a > > little more or made a little more money? No, the things people > > regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing > > down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make > > that mistake that, sadly, so many make. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 We can all use a little less stress in our lives, disease or no disease. Will reducing your stress level help with the IgAN? Who knows. All you can do is try it. Personally, I don't think you can really get rid of stress. You can only exchange one stress for another Pierre Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 We can all use a little less stress in our lives, disease or no disease. Will reducing your stress level help with the IgAN? Who knows. All you can do is try it. Personally, I don't think you can really get rid of stress. You can only exchange one stress for another Pierre Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 We can all use a little less stress in our lives, disease or no disease. Will reducing your stress level help with the IgAN? Who knows. All you can do is try it. Personally, I don't think you can really get rid of stress. You can only exchange one stress for another Pierre Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Good point Pierre. Especially with a 3 year old and an infant at home. > We can all use a little less stress in our lives, disease or no disease. > Will reducing your stress level help with the IgAN? Who knows. All you can > do is try it. > > Personally, I don't think you can really get rid of stress. You can only > exchange one stress for another > > Pierre Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Good point Pierre. Especially with a 3 year old and an infant at home. > We can all use a little less stress in our lives, disease or no disease. > Will reducing your stress level help with the IgAN? Who knows. All you can > do is try it. > > Personally, I don't think you can really get rid of stress. You can only > exchange one stress for another > > Pierre Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Good point Pierre. Especially with a 3 year old and an infant at home. > We can all use a little less stress in our lives, disease or no disease. > Will reducing your stress level help with the IgAN? Who knows. All you can > do is try it. > > Personally, I don't think you can really get rid of stress. You can only > exchange one stress for another > > Pierre Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 I second that! Your post really made me think about priorities, ! Re: Re: Does stress effect IGAN? Wonderful advise ! In a message dated 3/18/2004 7:10:20 PM Pacific Standard Time, j_schrimsher@... writes: > Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time > here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a > little more or made a little more money? No, the things people > regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing > down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make > that mistake that, sadly, so many make. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 I second that! Your post really made me think about priorities, ! Re: Re: Does stress effect IGAN? Wonderful advise ! In a message dated 3/18/2004 7:10:20 PM Pacific Standard Time, j_schrimsher@... writes: > Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time > here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a > little more or made a little more money? No, the things people > regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing > down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make > that mistake that, sadly, so many make. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 I second that! Your post really made me think about priorities, ! Re: Re: Does stress effect IGAN? Wonderful advise ! In a message dated 3/18/2004 7:10:20 PM Pacific Standard Time, j_schrimsher@... writes: > Remember...when you're old and grey and in the last days of your time > here on earth, are you going to sit around and wish you had worked a > little more or made a little more money? No, the things people > regret are not spending more time with their kids and not slowing > down long enough to take a look at how precious life is. Don't make > that mistake that, sadly, so many make. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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