Re: It's a hard time right now

[Guest guest]

Sharon

Try and stay busy. You have all these positive things happening. You

are getting married and starting IVF. Put all your energy into that!!

We will all be here for you.

Pam

[Guest guest]

Sharon -

I am sorry you are dealing with so much grief right now. After the ep,

I felt like something in me snapped. I used to always enjoy life

before, but now it is much more easy for me to grow despondent and

depressed. It's like the light of every object got duller, life became

bleaker after the ep. I think it is just one consequence of a

depression. I think you are going through depression too. If your mind

is not healing, maybe going into therapy will help it heal faster. We

are here also to help you heal.

How about memorializing your baby on 3/3? You can light a candle and

say a special prayer. Maybe this simple act can bring you peace and

healing.

Please feel better soon,

a

[Guest guest]

Sharon -

I am sorry you are dealing with so much grief right now. After the ep,

I felt like something in me snapped. I used to always enjoy life

before, but now it is much more easy for me to grow despondent and

depressed. It's like the light of every object got duller, life became

bleaker after the ep. I think it is just one consequence of a

depression. I think you are going through depression too. If your mind

is not healing, maybe going into therapy will help it heal faster. We

are here also to help you heal.

How about memorializing your baby on 3/3? You can light a candle and

say a special prayer. Maybe this simple act can bring you peace and

healing.

Please feel better soon,

a

[Guest guest]

Sharon -

I am sorry you are dealing with so much grief right now. After the ep,

I felt like something in me snapped. I used to always enjoy life

before, but now it is much more easy for me to grow despondent and

depressed. It's like the light of every object got duller, life became

bleaker after the ep. I think it is just one consequence of a

depression. I think you are going through depression too. If your mind

is not healing, maybe going into therapy will help it heal faster. We

are here also to help you heal.

How about memorializing your baby on 3/3? You can light a candle and

say a special prayer. Maybe this simple act can bring you peace and

healing.

Please feel better soon,

a

[Guest guest]

Sharon,

I'm sorry you are in so much emotional pain right now. It must be

extremely difficult to approach the anniversary of your loss. On 3/3

maybe you and can do something special together to help ease the

pain. I think that your baby would really wants you to be happy. I

know it is hard, but try to focus on the positive things that are

going to happen in the near future for you.

{{{{{HUGS}}}}}

-AmyR

[Guest guest]

Sharon,

I'm sorry you are in so much emotional pain right now. It must be

extremely difficult to approach the anniversary of your loss. On 3/3

maybe you and can do something special together to help ease the

pain. I think that your baby would really wants you to be happy. I

know it is hard, but try to focus on the positive things that are

going to happen in the near future for you.

{{{{{HUGS}}}}}

-AmyR

[Guest guest]

Sharon-

Hello. Pam is right, you have alot of great things

going on, it is hard, but try and stay focused on the

good things. Good luck.

--- giguerepw@... wrote:

> Sharon

>

> Try and stay busy. You have all these positive

> things happening. You

> are getting married and starting IVF. Put all your

> energy into that!!

> We will all be here for you.

>

> Pam

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Sharon-

a is right, things do change after the ep. The

joy doesn't come like it did before. We went through a

horrible thing. Don't be hard on yourself you are

doing ok even if you don't think so. Remember, you

have a special angel looking out for you now.

--- rsross@... wrote:

> Sharon -

>

> I am sorry you are dealing with so much grief right

> now. After the ep,

> I felt like something in me snapped. I used to

> always enjoy life

> before, but now it is much more easy for me to grow

> despondent and

> depressed. It's like the light of every object got

> duller, life became

> bleaker after the ep. I think it is just one

> consequence of a

> depression. I think you are going through depression

> too. If your mind

> is not healing, maybe going into therapy will help

> it heal faster. We

> are here also to help you heal.

>

> How about memorializing your baby on 3/3? You can

> light a candle and

> say a special prayer. Maybe this simple act can

> bring you peace and

> healing.

>

> Please feel better soon,

> a

>

>

__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

Sharon-

a is right, things do change after the ep. The

joy doesn't come like it did before. We went through a

horrible thing. Don't be hard on yourself you are

doing ok even if you don't think so. Remember, you

have a special angel looking out for you now.

--- rsross@... wrote:

> Sharon -

>

> I am sorry you are dealing with so much grief right

> now. After the ep,

> I felt like something in me snapped. I used to

> always enjoy life

> before, but now it is much more easy for me to grow

> despondent and

> depressed. It's like the light of every object got

> duller, life became

> bleaker after the ep. I think it is just one

> consequence of a

> depression. I think you are going through depression

> too. If your mind

> is not healing, maybe going into therapy will help

> it heal faster. We

> are here also to help you heal.

>

> How about memorializing your baby on 3/3? You can

> light a candle and

> say a special prayer. Maybe this simple act can

> bring you peace and

> healing.

>

> Please feel better soon,

> a

>

>

__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

Sharon,

My thoughts are with you. Don't be afraid to feel what you feel

without trying to make it go away because it makes sense that this

would be a hard time. Just hang in there and know that it will get

easier (I didn't say easy) again over time.

Maggie

> Well, this week is a year since and I lost our baby. I can't

believe it

> has been a year already and the days are getting harder and harder

as " THE "

> day, March 3rd, approaches. How and when is this going to get any

easier? I

> have been trying so hard not to cry but it is almost impossible. I

just

> broke down on the way to work and have been trying to keep my

composure ever

> since. nd being sick isn't making the moods any better. I have

been crying

> all week. When are the tears going to stop?? Maybe our baby is

thinking

> about me too and that's why he/she is weighing so heavily on my

mind. I'm

> trying to keep busy with planning the wedding but that truly isn't

helping

> with making these days any easier to deal with. Anyone have any

suggestions

> on how to cope with these days as they get closer and harder to

deal with>??

>

> thanks for listening.

>

> Sharon