Guest guest Posted May 26, 2001 Report Share Posted May 26, 2001 abraxis3@... Hi Jan! Here's a big huuuuuuuuuuuuuuggggggggggggeeeeeeee hug back to ya! That was fun! LOL Sue --- janicelpn@... wrote: > It seems lie the group as a whole is going through > so much right now. I > think it is time for a group hug........... > {{{{{{{{{{{ H U G }}}}}}}}}}} now you feel a little > better? I sure > hope everyone gets back to feeling their best soon. > TIA's in a oung > person, what a shame, but the blood thinners should > help, hang in > there...... Anxiety, it can make you feel so low and > sad, please ask > your doctor for help. I will be thinking of > you..........as for me, > well I am ok. The knee isn't too bad and I am doing > the exercies and > the lungs, well they are crappy because of the > pollens and rain, but > what can ya do? My sleep, well it is hard enough > getting good sleep on > a regular basis now with the pup I was up at 4am > today, back in by > 4:45am and up again at 7am,,,,,,,hope he sleeps > through soon. Spanky > slept through the night quickly, hope this one does > too. > I have no plans for today except be around the > house,,,,,,,shhhh, don't > tell anyone, haha. I plan on reading email and > doing some house work > and holding 2 doggies...........hope today is better > than yesterday and > half as good as tomorrow !!!! Jan M > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2001 Report Share Posted May 26, 2001 abraxis3@... Hi Jan! Here's a big huuuuuuuuuuuuuuggggggggggggeeeeeeee hug back to ya! That was fun! LOL Sue --- janicelpn@... wrote: > It seems lie the group as a whole is going through > so much right now. I > think it is time for a group hug........... > {{{{{{{{{{{ H U G }}}}}}}}}}} now you feel a little > better? I sure > hope everyone gets back to feeling their best soon. > TIA's in a oung > person, what a shame, but the blood thinners should > help, hang in > there...... Anxiety, it can make you feel so low and > sad, please ask > your doctor for help. I will be thinking of > you..........as for me, > well I am ok. The knee isn't too bad and I am doing > the exercies and > the lungs, well they are crappy because of the > pollens and rain, but > what can ya do? My sleep, well it is hard enough > getting good sleep on > a regular basis now with the pup I was up at 4am > today, back in by > 4:45am and up again at 7am,,,,,,,hope he sleeps > through soon. Spanky > slept through the night quickly, hope this one does > too. > I have no plans for today except be around the > house,,,,,,,shhhh, don't > tell anyone, haha. I plan on reading email and > doing some house work > and holding 2 doggies...........hope today is better > than yesterday and > half as good as tomorrow !!!! Jan M > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2001 Report Share Posted May 26, 2001 , The blood thinners should help. They help me. Why on earth would anybody be so mean as to say that to you. Anxiety can be a big problem. Have you talked to your doctor about it. There are medications that can help. If it is possible I would try to stay away from people that talk to you in that manner. You do not belong in an institution because of anxiety. We love you and care for you and we all understand what hurt others can cause you. Some do it just to be mean and to hurt you. If you can, don't let others know how they have hurt you. It will cause them to say it again. I do hope that this person is not a close member of your family. That would truly cause you pain. Just remember that we are always here and we will support and care for you and will be glad to listen to you any time that we can. Please take care, Irene > I'm > trying to continue with my life which is hard but the blood thinners should > help. I wil hang in. I also suffer from anxiety which gets worse as time > goes by. Yesterday, somebody told me because of my anxiety I should belong > in an institution and that hurt me so much. It was like the last thing I > needed to hear. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2001 Report Share Posted May 26, 2001 , The blood thinners should help. They help me. Why on earth would anybody be so mean as to say that to you. Anxiety can be a big problem. Have you talked to your doctor about it. There are medications that can help. If it is possible I would try to stay away from people that talk to you in that manner. You do not belong in an institution because of anxiety. We love you and care for you and we all understand what hurt others can cause you. Some do it just to be mean and to hurt you. If you can, don't let others know how they have hurt you. It will cause them to say it again. I do hope that this person is not a close member of your family. That would truly cause you pain. Just remember that we are always here and we will support and care for you and will be glad to listen to you any time that we can. Please take care, Irene > I'm > trying to continue with my life which is hard but the blood thinners should > help. I wil hang in. I also suffer from anxiety which gets worse as time > goes by. Yesterday, somebody told me because of my anxiety I should belong > in an institution and that hurt me so much. It was like the last thing I > needed to hear. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2001 Report Share Posted May 26, 2001 Hi Jan You are such a darling. How are you my friend? Are you feeling well? I'm trying to continue with my life which is hard but the blood thinners should help. I wil hang in. I also suffer from anxiety which gets worse as time goes by. Yesterday, somebody told me because of my anxiety I should belong in an institution and that hurt me so much. It was like the last thing I needed to hear. Feel better Jan~! Love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2001 Report Share Posted May 26, 2001 Hi Jan You are such a darling. How are you my friend? Are you feeling well? I'm trying to continue with my life which is hard but the blood thinners should help. I wil hang in. I also suffer from anxiety which gets worse as time goes by. Yesterday, somebody told me because of my anxiety I should belong in an institution and that hurt me so much. It was like the last thing I needed to hear. Feel better Jan~! Love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2001 Report Share Posted May 26, 2001 In a message dated 5/26/01 2:38:40 PM Eastern Daylight Time, patidu@... writes: > > I'm > > trying to continue with my life which is hard but the blood thinners > should > > help. I wil hang in. I also suffer from anxiety which gets worse as time > > goes by. Yesterday, somebody told me because of my anxiety I should belong > > in an institution and that hurt me so much. It was like the last thing I > > needed to hear. > > > > > > > , By no means do you need to hear such hurtful things. Please listen to Irene's advice it is great. I am a psych nurse and if it makes you feel better to talk privately feel free to e-mail me any time and we can discuss med's that you can talk to your doctor about. Hang in there. e-mail FAYDRA913@... Love ya, Kathy D. Diagnosed in 98 Live in Western Massachusetts Married for almost 19yrs, to a sweetheart Mother to 16 and 14 My Rottie dog Shelby Spooky the cat Hobbies: Boating, Learning this computer Arts & Crafts, and a passionate reader Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 2001 Report Share Posted May 27, 2001 I also suffer from anxiety which gets worse as time goes by. Yesterday, somebody told me because of my anxiety I should belong in an institution and that hurt me so much. It was like the last thing I needed to hear. Don't you have to wonder about people like that?? Either they are trying too hard to be " helpful " in which case you have to wonder where they come up with their info., like the woman at work who, because I was still depressed over the death of my mother 4 months afterward, but would have days when I felt better, told me I was manic depressive. Ah..yeah, having days where you feel upset over the death of a parent and then having days where you aren't as upset doesn't make you a manic depressive person. Or the people are out to put you down in which case, they are the ones with the problems. I've noticed people who say stuff like this tend to be the ones who haven't gone through any kind of a major problem where they've had to experience real difficulties. Darcy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 I see a counselor and he prescribes my antidepression medication. We also discuss what is causing me emotional problems and it has helped a lot. Some doctors will give you antidepressants but most prefer not to. Go and see a counselor. I think that you will be glad you did. You can talk to them about all of the things bothering you and about people that don't understand and heaven knows, there are many. Take care, Irene > He is against giving me anti depressants and says > I should see a counselor. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 I see a counselor and he prescribes my antidepression medication. We also discuss what is causing me emotional problems and it has helped a lot. Some doctors will give you antidepressants but most prefer not to. Go and see a counselor. I think that you will be glad you did. You can talk to them about all of the things bothering you and about people that don't understand and heaven knows, there are many. Take care, Irene > He is against giving me anti depressants and says > I should see a counselor. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 I see a counselor and he prescribes my antidepression medication. We also discuss what is causing me emotional problems and it has helped a lot. Some doctors will give you antidepressants but most prefer not to. Go and see a counselor. I think that you will be glad you did. You can talk to them about all of the things bothering you and about people that don't understand and heaven knows, there are many. Take care, Irene > He is against giving me anti depressants and says > I should see a counselor. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 Hi Irene, I am trusting that the blood thinners will help. I am glad that they help you. Just hearing that, makes it very reassuring, so I thank you very much for that. I have no idea why somebody would be so mean, but I try not to pay attention to what they say, althought that can be hard. I have spoken to my family doctor about it and he is against giving me anti depressants and says I should see a counsellor. I am so grateful that you all love and care for me. I do the same. I can admit that it is a close member of my famliy, my own father! Thanks for everything Love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 Hi Irene, I am trusting that the blood thinners will help. I am glad that they help you. Just hearing that, makes it very reassuring, so I thank you very much for that. I have no idea why somebody would be so mean, but I try not to pay attention to what they say, althought that can be hard. I have spoken to my family doctor about it and he is against giving me anti depressants and says I should see a counsellor. I am so grateful that you all love and care for me. I do the same. I can admit that it is a close member of my famliy, my own father! Thanks for everything Love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 Hi Irene, I am trusting that the blood thinners will help. I am glad that they help you. Just hearing that, makes it very reassuring, so I thank you very much for that. I have no idea why somebody would be so mean, but I try not to pay attention to what they say, althought that can be hard. I have spoken to my family doctor about it and he is against giving me anti depressants and says I should see a counsellor. I am so grateful that you all love and care for me. I do the same. I can admit that it is a close member of my famliy, my own father! Thanks for everything Love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 I actually don't understand people like that, and even more so, when it's my own flesh and blood RE: So much sadness > > I also suffer from anxiety which gets worse as time > goes by. Yesterday, somebody told me because of my anxiety I should > belong > in an institution and that hurt me so much. It was like the last thing I > needed to hear. > > > > Don't you have to wonder about people like that?? Either they are trying > too hard to be " helpful " in which case you have to wonder where they come up > with their info., like the woman at work who, because I was still depressed > over the death of my mother 4 months afterward, but would have days when I > felt better, told me I was manic depressive. Ah..yeah, having days where > you feel upset over the death of a parent and then having days where you > aren't as upset doesn't make you a manic depressive person. Or the people > are out to put you down in which case, they are the ones with the problems. > I've noticed people who say stuff like this tend to be the ones who haven't > gone through any kind of a major problem where they've had to experience > real difficulties. > > Darcy > > > SEND POST TO: fibromyalgia-cfs > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 I actually don't understand people like that, and even more so, when it's my own flesh and blood RE: So much sadness > > I also suffer from anxiety which gets worse as time > goes by. Yesterday, somebody told me because of my anxiety I should > belong > in an institution and that hurt me so much. It was like the last thing I > needed to hear. > > > > Don't you have to wonder about people like that?? Either they are trying > too hard to be " helpful " in which case you have to wonder where they come up > with their info., like the woman at work who, because I was still depressed > over the death of my mother 4 months afterward, but would have days when I > felt better, told me I was manic depressive. Ah..yeah, having days where > you feel upset over the death of a parent and then having days where you > aren't as upset doesn't make you a manic depressive person. Or the people > are out to put you down in which case, they are the ones with the problems. > I've noticed people who say stuff like this tend to be the ones who haven't > gone through any kind of a major problem where they've had to experience > real difficulties. > > Darcy > > > SEND POST TO: fibromyalgia-cfs > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 I actually don't understand people like that, and even more so, when it's my own flesh and blood RE: So much sadness > > I also suffer from anxiety which gets worse as time > goes by. Yesterday, somebody told me because of my anxiety I should > belong > in an institution and that hurt me so much. It was like the last thing I > needed to hear. > > > > Don't you have to wonder about people like that?? Either they are trying > too hard to be " helpful " in which case you have to wonder where they come up > with their info., like the woman at work who, because I was still depressed > over the death of my mother 4 months afterward, but would have days when I > felt better, told me I was manic depressive. Ah..yeah, having days where > you feel upset over the death of a parent and then having days where you > aren't as upset doesn't make you a manic depressive person. Or the people > are out to put you down in which case, they are the ones with the problems. > I've noticed people who say stuff like this tend to be the ones who haven't > gone through any kind of a major problem where they've had to experience > real difficulties. > > Darcy > > > SEND POST TO: fibromyalgia-cfs > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 I actually don't understand people like that, and even more so, when it's my own flesh and blood Hi , I'm sorry to hear that it was your father. Maybe he feels like he is loosing control over you and this is his way to try and get control? When my mom died, the last thing she told me was " I wuv you " . When a good friend of mine's father died, the last thing he said to her was " I hate you " . I really don't understand that except he was a very controlling person, and she hadn't always done what he wanted her to do. I don't think people who have never experienced anxiety have a clue what it feels like to be anxious over things you know that you shouldn't be anxious over. It's not as if it's any fun for us. I don't have a good answer for what you should tell your dad, except maybe " Dad, it's not very much fun to feel like this, I'm working on trying to get help for it. Comments like those, don't help. " Darcy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 I actually don't understand people like that, and even more so, when it's my own flesh and blood Hi , I'm sorry to hear that it was your father. Maybe he feels like he is loosing control over you and this is his way to try and get control? When my mom died, the last thing she told me was " I wuv you " . When a good friend of mine's father died, the last thing he said to her was " I hate you " . I really don't understand that except he was a very controlling person, and she hadn't always done what he wanted her to do. I don't think people who have never experienced anxiety have a clue what it feels like to be anxious over things you know that you shouldn't be anxious over. It's not as if it's any fun for us. I don't have a good answer for what you should tell your dad, except maybe " Dad, it's not very much fun to feel like this, I'm working on trying to get help for it. Comments like those, don't help. " Darcy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 I actually don't understand people like that, and even more so, when it's my own flesh and blood Hi , I'm sorry to hear that it was your father. Maybe he feels like he is loosing control over you and this is his way to try and get control? When my mom died, the last thing she told me was " I wuv you " . When a good friend of mine's father died, the last thing he said to her was " I hate you " . I really don't understand that except he was a very controlling person, and she hadn't always done what he wanted her to do. I don't think people who have never experienced anxiety have a clue what it feels like to be anxious over things you know that you shouldn't be anxious over. It's not as if it's any fun for us. I don't have a good answer for what you should tell your dad, except maybe " Dad, it's not very much fun to feel like this, I'm working on trying to get help for it. Comments like those, don't help. " Darcy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 Mine is a psychiatrist. He is very helpful in some of the other areas in my life that is causing me immense stress. He works with my rheumatologist in my pain management. I, too, have seen a number of different counselors and I find that a good psychiatrist is the most help. I hope that this helps and that you can find one that works good with you. The first visit is the most important. You find out right away if this the doctor you want by the way he consults with you. Take care, Irene > What should the counselor specialize in? Because all the ones I have soon > have been totally useless. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 Mine is a psychiatrist. He is very helpful in some of the other areas in my life that is causing me immense stress. He works with my rheumatologist in my pain management. I, too, have seen a number of different counselors and I find that a good psychiatrist is the most help. I hope that this helps and that you can find one that works good with you. The first visit is the most important. You find out right away if this the doctor you want by the way he consults with you. Take care, Irene > What should the counselor specialize in? Because all the ones I have soon > have been totally useless. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 Mine is a psychiatrist. He is very helpful in some of the other areas in my life that is causing me immense stress. He works with my rheumatologist in my pain management. I, too, have seen a number of different counselors and I find that a good psychiatrist is the most help. I hope that this helps and that you can find one that works good with you. The first visit is the most important. You find out right away if this the doctor you want by the way he consults with you. Take care, Irene > What should the counselor specialize in? Because all the ones I have soon > have been totally useless. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 Darcy - thanks so much for your support. Love RE: So much sadness > I actually don't understand people like that, and even more so, when it's my > own flesh and blood > > > Hi , I'm sorry to hear that it was your father. Maybe he feels like he > is loosing control over you and this is his way to try and get control? > When my mom died, the last thing she told me was " I wuv you " . When a good > friend of mine's father died, the last thing he said to her was " I hate > you " . I really don't understand that except he was a very controlling > person, and she hadn't always done what he wanted her to do. I don't think > people who have never experienced anxiety have a clue what it feels like to > be anxious over things you know that you shouldn't be anxious over. It's > not as if it's any fun for us. I don't have a good answer for what you > should tell your dad, except maybe " Dad, it's not very much fun to feel like > this, I'm working on trying to get help for it. Comments like those, don't > help. " > > Darcy > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2001 Report Share Posted May 28, 2001 Hi Darcy, I know comments like that don't help and I'm sorry to hearwhat you had to go through. Love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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