Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 (((((()))))), I'm so sorry it's turning into this mess for you :' (. You don't deserve to be treated this way. I wish I had something to offer you to to help. Just be careful, ok? Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 {{{{{{}}}}}}} I don't know much about your situation, but would calling the police be an option? In any event, stay safe. debbi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 {{{{{{}}}}}}} I don't know much about your situation, but would calling the police be an option? In any event, stay safe. debbi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 : I don't want to over-step my bounds here, but ... you might want to think about saving those phone messages, emails, keeping a phone log, etc. My brother is a public prosecutor specializing in domestic abuse cases. This guy may just be a jerk, but no one here wants to see you get hurt. If he is in a halfway house, you may want to report his behavior there - - they have some authority over their residents and I'm sure this kind of behavior is out of line. And I would totally begin a file with the police. It is my understanding that if you ask someone not to call you, that it is illegal for them to continue to harrass you. (n 30 mo) ps: lemme know if ya need me to bust out the magic wand for protection or a good old-fashioned hex, ok? scared... > for the past couple of weeks, i haven't had much contact with mike besides him harassing me online. he has come by here 2 or 3 times and i haven't answered the door, today being one of those times. he banged on the door and rang the bell and called me for about a half hour. i didn't answer, cause i didn't want to, and frankly, i don't have to. so the last two times he called, he left two very mean and threatening messages. the first one told me to " get my ass outside " and straighten my car so his mom could get in the driveway (she's in the driveway and he still has the key to my car anyway, so i don't know what's up with that) and at the end he called me a " fucking retard " . about 5 minutes later he called again and said that since i was being such a " fucking retard " that, when the baby was born, he wanted a blood test and if it is his he's gonna fight for all he has to get full custody (remember, he lives in a halfway house and has no job) cause i'm " not capable of raising kids " and i " can't even handle the 2 i have " and i " make him sick " . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 : I don't want to over-step my bounds here, but ... you might want to think about saving those phone messages, emails, keeping a phone log, etc. My brother is a public prosecutor specializing in domestic abuse cases. This guy may just be a jerk, but no one here wants to see you get hurt. If he is in a halfway house, you may want to report his behavior there - - they have some authority over their residents and I'm sure this kind of behavior is out of line. And I would totally begin a file with the police. It is my understanding that if you ask someone not to call you, that it is illegal for them to continue to harrass you. (n 30 mo) ps: lemme know if ya need me to bust out the magic wand for protection or a good old-fashioned hex, ok? scared... > for the past couple of weeks, i haven't had much contact with mike besides him harassing me online. he has come by here 2 or 3 times and i haven't answered the door, today being one of those times. he banged on the door and rang the bell and called me for about a half hour. i didn't answer, cause i didn't want to, and frankly, i don't have to. so the last two times he called, he left two very mean and threatening messages. the first one told me to " get my ass outside " and straighten my car so his mom could get in the driveway (she's in the driveway and he still has the key to my car anyway, so i don't know what's up with that) and at the end he called me a " fucking retard " . about 5 minutes later he called again and said that since i was being such a " fucking retard " that, when the baby was born, he wanted a blood test and if it is his he's gonna fight for all he has to get full custody (remember, he lives in a halfway house and has no job) cause i'm " not capable of raising kids " and i " can't even handle the 2 i have " and i " make him sick " . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 , All I can say is I'm sorry you're having to go through this right now. {{{GINA}}} ellen --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.443 / Virus Database: 248 - Release Date: 01/10/2003 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 , All I can say is I'm sorry you're having to go through this right now. {{{GINA}}} ellen --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.443 / Virus Database: 248 - Release Date: 01/10/2003 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 (((((()))))) Im so sorry...... I HATE MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 (((((()))))) Im so sorry...... I HATE MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 (((((()))))) Im so sorry...... I HATE MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 You know Debbi, I was thinking the same thing. Restraining order? Harassment charges? Georga Hackworth www.ubah.com/F1549 Enter to win $50 in FREE books! RE: scared... {{{{{{}}}}}}} I don't know much about your situation, but would calling the police be an option? In any event, stay safe. debbi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 You know Debbi, I was thinking the same thing. Restraining order? Harassment charges? Georga Hackworth www.ubah.com/F1549 Enter to win $50 in FREE books! RE: scared... {{{{{{}}}}}}} I don't know much about your situation, but would calling the police be an option? In any event, stay safe. debbi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 You know Debbi, I was thinking the same thing. Restraining order? Harassment charges? Georga Hackworth www.ubah.com/F1549 Enter to win $50 in FREE books! RE: scared... {{{{{{}}}}}}} I don't know much about your situation, but would calling the police be an option? In any event, stay safe. debbi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 ((((())))) I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. You don't have to. That is harrassement and if he doesn't start leaving you alone after you asked him to I would call the police. Save the messages on your machine and play them for the police. I had problems with my x like this and once the police stepped in he left me alone a little bit, but you definetly don't have to put up with this!!!! I would do something about it. Tina W. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 ((((())))) I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. You don't have to. That is harrassement and if he doesn't start leaving you alone after you asked him to I would call the police. Save the messages on your machine and play them for the police. I had problems with my x like this and once the police stepped in he left me alone a little bit, but you definetly don't have to put up with this!!!! I would do something about it. Tina W. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 Definitely, a restraining order. In Arizona, they are fairly simple to get, but of course that doesn't stop them. However, if in a halfway house, a restraining order may be against the rules. Harassment generally has to be sustained, but I think probably could be proved. It's just is this something can safely do? debbi You know Debbi, I was thinking the same thing. Restraining order? Harassment charges? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 when the baby was born, he wanted a blood test and if it is his he's gonna fight for all he has to get full custody (remember, he lives in a halfway house and has no job) cause i'm " not capable of raising kids " and i " can't even handle the 2 i have " and i " make him sick " . No way he will get full custody. No way on earth. Sorry he is being so horrible. Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 when the baby was born, he wanted a blood test and if it is his he's gonna fight for all he has to get full custody (remember, he lives in a halfway house and has no job) cause i'm " not capable of raising kids " and i " can't even handle the 2 i have " and i " make him sick " . No way he will get full custody. No way on earth. Sorry he is being so horrible. Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 when the baby was born, he wanted a blood test and if it is his he's gonna fight for all he has to get full custody (remember, he lives in a halfway house and has no job) cause i'm " not capable of raising kids " and i " can't even handle the 2 i have " and i " make him sick " . No way he will get full custody. No way on earth. Sorry he is being so horrible. Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 oh gina that is terrible! he sounds very unstable. i would consider a restraining order if he doesn't stop harrassing you. take care of you and your babies. michelle mg scared... for the past couple of weeks, i haven't had much contact with mike besides him harassing me online. he has come by here 2 or 3 times and i haven't answered the door, today being one of those times. he banged on the door and rang the bell and called me for about a half hour. i didn't answer, cause i didn't want to, and frankly, i don't have to. so the last two times he called, he left two very mean and threatening messages. the first one told me to " get my ass outside " and straighten my car so his mom could get in the driveway (she's in the driveway and he still has the key to my car anyway, so i don't know what's up with that) and at the end he called me a " fucking retard " . about 5 minutes later he called again and said that since i was being such a " fucking retard " that, when the baby was born, he wanted a blood test and if it is his he's gonna fight for all he has to get full custody (remember, he lives in a halfway house and has no job) cause i'm " not capable of raising kids " and i " can't even handle the 2 i have " and i " make him sick " . i can't deal with this. THIS is why i was considering abortion. i guess i should have done it, huh? :'( " Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " - Mr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 oh gina that is terrible! he sounds very unstable. i would consider a restraining order if he doesn't stop harrassing you. take care of you and your babies. michelle mg scared... for the past couple of weeks, i haven't had much contact with mike besides him harassing me online. he has come by here 2 or 3 times and i haven't answered the door, today being one of those times. he banged on the door and rang the bell and called me for about a half hour. i didn't answer, cause i didn't want to, and frankly, i don't have to. so the last two times he called, he left two very mean and threatening messages. the first one told me to " get my ass outside " and straighten my car so his mom could get in the driveway (she's in the driveway and he still has the key to my car anyway, so i don't know what's up with that) and at the end he called me a " fucking retard " . about 5 minutes later he called again and said that since i was being such a " fucking retard " that, when the baby was born, he wanted a blood test and if it is his he's gonna fight for all he has to get full custody (remember, he lives in a halfway house and has no job) cause i'm " not capable of raising kids " and i " can't even handle the 2 i have " and i " make him sick " . i can't deal with this. THIS is why i was considering abortion. i guess i should have done it, huh? :'( " Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " - Mr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 , Get a restraining order TOMORROW. This man is harassing you. Sissi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 , Get a restraining order TOMORROW. This man is harassing you. Sissi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2003 Report Share Posted January 13, 2003 , Get a restraining order TOMORROW. This man is harassing you. Sissi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 14, 2003 Report Share Posted January 14, 2003 > for the past couple of weeks, i haven't had much contact with mike besides him harassing me online. he has come by here 2 or 3 times and i haven't answered the door, today being one of those times. Hang in there , don't let him intimidate you. I know it's frightening. He will not get any child from you! Save your emails, and record your messages. KErri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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