Guest guest Posted January 5, 2001 Report Share Posted January 5, 2001 > hi all, > > It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she wouldn't have been in > the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was perfectly sober > and she was pulled over for running a red light(something nearly as dangerous > to others and self as driving under the influence) and were given the same > two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or would > she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ? irrelevant. there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's. there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too? > > How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she had plowed into > another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all over the road? irrelevant. if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge, or bypass the constitution because of his personal power fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation. > > another thought .... most police officers are required through the nature of > their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many accidents, far to many > caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for a living > about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and it is > both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely heartbreaking almost > everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the circumstances > but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to have a damn > good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her or someone she > cared about. once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do. not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough job as it is without losing more of the publics trust? > > Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer but it seems > to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an abusive > redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front of this safe and > protective computer screen. no its not , because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did. tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power. if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty? > There are infinate variables of posibilities no, there are not. there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show. > engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's behavior or mental state except by the simple facts. simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period >One huge one pops into my mind. This > woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an intoxicated condition, in a > public place .......... One huge one pops into my mind, thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them parade around in public to humiliate them. > I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to accept responsibility for their> actions. bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself, by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him, but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING. 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Guest guest Posted January 5, 2001 Report Share Posted January 5, 2001 > hi all, > > It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she wouldn't have been in > the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was perfectly sober > and she was pulled over for running a red light(something nearly as dangerous > to others and self as driving under the influence) and were given the same > two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or would > she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ? irrelevant. there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's. there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too? > > How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she had plowed into > another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all over the road? irrelevant. if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge, or bypass the constitution because of his personal power fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation. > > another thought .... most police officers are required through the nature of > their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many accidents, far to many > caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for a living > about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and it is > both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely heartbreaking almost > everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the circumstances > but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to have a damn > good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her or someone she > cared about. once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do. not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough job as it is without losing more of the publics trust? > > Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer but it seems > to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an abusive > redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front of this safe and > protective computer screen. no its not , because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did. tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power. if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty? > There are infinate variables of posibilities no, there are not. there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show. > engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's behavior or mental state except by the simple facts. simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period >One huge one pops into my mind. This > woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an intoxicated condition, in a > public place .......... One huge one pops into my mind, thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them parade around in public to humiliate them. > I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to accept responsibility for their> actions. bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself, by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him, but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING. 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Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 > hi all, > > It seems to me the woman had two choices. Police officers are authority figures. That status is legitimately bestowed upon them by our society. Police carry guns. If the officer is a man and the civilian is a woman, that is an probably additional source of power since most men are stronger than most women. And I'm not even going into the possibility that women are socialized to be subservient and men are socialized to be dominant. The point is, however many choices the woman had, the cop had infinitely more. The option the cop chose to exercise is indefensible, given the facts we have: the article on the web. This case is worthy of note because frankly, I assume that most cops have the decency and the smarts not to abuse their power. I assume that most cops, and most men, would not make a choice like this in a similar situation. > Finally, I was not there. I wasn't in Beijing a decade ago either, but I have an opinion about the student uprising in Tieneman Square and how that uprising was put down by the Chinese army. >I don't know the woman or the officer but it seems > to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an abusive > redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front of this safe and > protective computer screen. There are infinate variables of posibilities > engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyones behaviour or > mental state except by the simple facts. We absolutely, absolutely should have an opinion based on the limited facts we have. You absolutely are qualified to judge someone else's behavior *in addition to your own*, you absolutely are entitled to your opinion and to express it. How else are you going to learn other sides of the situation and hopefully develop a more balanced perspective? judith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 > hi all, > > It seems to me the woman had two choices. Police officers are authority figures. That status is legitimately bestowed upon them by our society. Police carry guns. If the officer is a man and the civilian is a woman, that is an probably additional source of power since most men are stronger than most women. And I'm not even going into the possibility that women are socialized to be subservient and men are socialized to be dominant. The point is, however many choices the woman had, the cop had infinitely more. The option the cop chose to exercise is indefensible, given the facts we have: the article on the web. This case is worthy of note because frankly, I assume that most cops have the decency and the smarts not to abuse their power. I assume that most cops, and most men, would not make a choice like this in a similar situation. > Finally, I was not there. I wasn't in Beijing a decade ago either, but I have an opinion about the student uprising in Tieneman Square and how that uprising was put down by the Chinese army. >I don't know the woman or the officer but it seems > to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an abusive > redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front of this safe and > protective computer screen. There are infinate variables of posibilities > engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyones behaviour or > mental state except by the simple facts. We absolutely, absolutely should have an opinion based on the limited facts we have. You absolutely are qualified to judge someone else's behavior *in addition to your own*, you absolutely are entitled to your opinion and to express it. How else are you going to learn other sides of the situation and hopefully develop a more balanced perspective? judith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 > hi all, > > It seems to me the woman had two choices. Police officers are authority figures. That status is legitimately bestowed upon them by our society. Police carry guns. If the officer is a man and the civilian is a woman, that is an probably additional source of power since most men are stronger than most women. And I'm not even going into the possibility that women are socialized to be subservient and men are socialized to be dominant. The point is, however many choices the woman had, the cop had infinitely more. The option the cop chose to exercise is indefensible, given the facts we have: the article on the web. This case is worthy of note because frankly, I assume that most cops have the decency and the smarts not to abuse their power. I assume that most cops, and most men, would not make a choice like this in a similar situation. > Finally, I was not there. I wasn't in Beijing a decade ago either, but I have an opinion about the student uprising in Tieneman Square and how that uprising was put down by the Chinese army. >I don't know the woman or the officer but it seems > to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an abusive > redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front of this safe and > protective computer screen. There are infinate variables of posibilities > engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyones behaviour or > mental state except by the simple facts. We absolutely, absolutely should have an opinion based on the limited facts we have. You absolutely are qualified to judge someone else's behavior *in addition to your own*, you absolutely are entitled to your opinion and to express it. How else are you going to learn other sides of the situation and hopefully develop a more balanced perspective? judith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 Great post, Dave... you address all the points succinctly. The case is still news in downstate NY, as several other women have come forward with similar tales of abuse by this nasty perv. Thus is from yesterday's Long Island Newsday: http://www.newsday.com/coverage/current/news/friday/nd3129.htm There's probably more in today's. The kind of mindset that would gloss over this behavior and say " well, it wouldn't have happened if she wasn't drinking " is the same sort of mindset that glosses over 13th stepping abuse of newcomers in AA. " she should look for her part in it " -- BARF ~Rita >To: 12-step-freeegroups > >Date: Sat, 06 Jan 2001 06:54:20 -0000 >Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups >Subject: Re: Suffolk Co. Incident (was: About Recovery - Training t... > > >> hi all, >> >> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she >wouldn't have been in >> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was >perfectly sober >> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something >nearly as dangerous >> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were >given the same >> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or >would >> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ? > > >irrelevant. >there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's. >there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even >more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in >less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold >medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that >make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to >jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too? > >> >> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she >had plowed into >> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all >over the road? > >irrelevant. >if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge, >or bypass the constitution because of his personal power >fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law >doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have >done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is >public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were >killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is >an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation. > > >> >> another thought .... most police officers are required through >the nature of >> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many >accidents, far to many >> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for >a living >> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and >it is >> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely >heartbreaking almost >> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the >circumstances >> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to >have a damn >> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her >or someone she >> cared about. > >once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is >to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do. >not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how >does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative >publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the >jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough >job as it is without losing more of the publics trust? > >> >> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer >but it seems >> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an >abusive >> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front >of this safe and >> protective computer screen. > >no its not , >because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and >the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was >sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with >his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did. >tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what >he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power. > >if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a > " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty? > > > >> There are infinate variables of posibilities > >no, there are not. >there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not >if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to >arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show. > > > >> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's >behavior or mental state except by the simple facts. > >simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period > > >>One huge one pops into my mind. This >> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an >intoxicated condition, in a >> public place .......... > > >One huge one pops into my mind, >thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who >drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the >public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them >parade around in public to humiliate them. > > > >> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too >much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to >accept responsibility for their> actions. > > >bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he >had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to >uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself, > >by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him, >but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to >himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next >time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING. ------------------------------------------------------------ --== Sent via Deja.com ==-- http://www.deja.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 Great post, Dave... you address all the points succinctly. The case is still news in downstate NY, as several other women have come forward with similar tales of abuse by this nasty perv. Thus is from yesterday's Long Island Newsday: http://www.newsday.com/coverage/current/news/friday/nd3129.htm There's probably more in today's. The kind of mindset that would gloss over this behavior and say " well, it wouldn't have happened if she wasn't drinking " is the same sort of mindset that glosses over 13th stepping abuse of newcomers in AA. " she should look for her part in it " -- BARF ~Rita >To: 12-step-freeegroups > >Date: Sat, 06 Jan 2001 06:54:20 -0000 >Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups >Subject: Re: Suffolk Co. Incident (was: About Recovery - Training t... > > >> hi all, >> >> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she >wouldn't have been in >> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was >perfectly sober >> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something >nearly as dangerous >> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were >given the same >> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or >would >> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ? > > >irrelevant. >there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's. >there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even >more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in >less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold >medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that >make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to >jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too? > >> >> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she >had plowed into >> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all >over the road? > >irrelevant. >if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge, >or bypass the constitution because of his personal power >fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law >doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have >done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is >public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were >killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is >an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation. > > >> >> another thought .... most police officers are required through >the nature of >> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many >accidents, far to many >> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for >a living >> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and >it is >> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely >heartbreaking almost >> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the >circumstances >> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to >have a damn >> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her >or someone she >> cared about. > >once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is >to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do. >not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how >does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative >publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the >jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough >job as it is without losing more of the publics trust? > >> >> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer >but it seems >> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an >abusive >> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front >of this safe and >> protective computer screen. > >no its not , >because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and >the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was >sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with >his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did. >tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what >he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power. > >if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a > " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty? > > > >> There are infinate variables of posibilities > >no, there are not. >there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not >if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to >arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show. > > > >> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's >behavior or mental state except by the simple facts. > >simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period > > >>One huge one pops into my mind. This >> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an >intoxicated condition, in a >> public place .......... > > >One huge one pops into my mind, >thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who >drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the >public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them >parade around in public to humiliate them. > > > >> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too >much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to >accept responsibility for their> actions. > > >bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he >had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to >uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself, > >by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him, >but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to >himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next >time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING. ------------------------------------------------------------ --== Sent via Deja.com ==-- http://www.deja.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 Great post, Dave... you address all the points succinctly. The case is still news in downstate NY, as several other women have come forward with similar tales of abuse by this nasty perv. Thus is from yesterday's Long Island Newsday: http://www.newsday.com/coverage/current/news/friday/nd3129.htm There's probably more in today's. The kind of mindset that would gloss over this behavior and say " well, it wouldn't have happened if she wasn't drinking " is the same sort of mindset that glosses over 13th stepping abuse of newcomers in AA. " she should look for her part in it " -- BARF ~Rita >To: 12-step-freeegroups > >Date: Sat, 06 Jan 2001 06:54:20 -0000 >Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups >Subject: Re: Suffolk Co. Incident (was: About Recovery - Training t... > > >> hi all, >> >> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she >wouldn't have been in >> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was >perfectly sober >> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something >nearly as dangerous >> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were >given the same >> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or >would >> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ? > > >irrelevant. >there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's. >there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even >more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in >less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold >medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that >make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to >jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too? > >> >> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she >had plowed into >> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all >over the road? > >irrelevant. >if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge, >or bypass the constitution because of his personal power >fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law >doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have >done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is >public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were >killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is >an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation. > > >> >> another thought .... most police officers are required through >the nature of >> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many >accidents, far to many >> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for >a living >> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and >it is >> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely >heartbreaking almost >> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the >circumstances >> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to >have a damn >> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her >or someone she >> cared about. > >once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is >to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do. >not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how >does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative >publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the >jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough >job as it is without losing more of the publics trust? > >> >> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer >but it seems >> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an >abusive >> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front >of this safe and >> protective computer screen. > >no its not , >because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and >the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was >sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with >his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did. >tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what >he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power. > >if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a > " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty? > > > >> There are infinate variables of posibilities > >no, there are not. >there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not >if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to >arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show. > > > >> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's >behavior or mental state except by the simple facts. > >simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period > > >>One huge one pops into my mind. This >> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an >intoxicated condition, in a >> public place .......... > > >One huge one pops into my mind, >thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who >drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the >public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them >parade around in public to humiliate them. > > > >> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too >much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to >accept responsibility for their> actions. > > >bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he >had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to >uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself, > >by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him, >but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to >himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next >time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING. ------------------------------------------------------------ --== Sent via Deja.com ==-- http://www.deja.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 they are taking this seriously, the fact he was suspended without pay is more than they had to do. but i guess $30 million in law suits will do that. this man should never be allowed the privledge to be entrusted to protect the public agian. > >> hi all, > >> > >> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she > >wouldn't have been in > >> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was > >perfectly sober > >> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something > >nearly as dangerous > >> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were > >given the same > >> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or > >would > >> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ? > > > > > >irrelevant. > >there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's. > >there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even > >more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in > >less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold > >medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that > >make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to > >jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too? > > > >> > >> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she > >had plowed into > >> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all > >over the road? > > > >irrelevant. > >if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge, > >or bypass the constitution because of his personal power > >fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law > >doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have > >done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is > >public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were > >killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is > >an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation. > > > > > >> > >> another thought .... most police officers are required through > >the nature of > >> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many > >accidents, far to many > >> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for > >a living > >> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and > >it is > >> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely > >heartbreaking almost > >> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the > >circumstances > >> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to > >have a damn > >> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her > >or someone she > >> cared about. > > > >once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is > >to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do. > >not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how > >does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative > >publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the > >jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough > >job as it is without losing more of the publics trust? > > > >> > >> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer > >but it seems > >> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an > >abusive > >> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front > >of this safe and > >> protective computer screen. > > > >no its not , > >because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and > >the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was > >sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with > >his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did. > >tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what > >he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power. > > > >if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a > > " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty? > > > > > > > >> There are infinate variables of posibilities > > > >no, there are not. > >there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not > >if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to > >arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show. > > > > > > > >> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's > >behavior or mental state except by the simple facts. > > > >simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period > > > > > >>One huge one pops into my mind. This > >> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an > >intoxicated condition, in a > >> public place .......... > > > > > >One huge one pops into my mind, > >thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who > >drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the > >public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them > >parade around in public to humiliate them. > > > > > > > >> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too > >much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to > >accept responsibility for their> actions. > > > > > >bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he > >had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to > >uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself, > > > >by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him, > >but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to > >himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next > >time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING. > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------ > --== Sent via Deja.com ==-- > http://www.deja.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 they are taking this seriously, the fact he was suspended without pay is more than they had to do. but i guess $30 million in law suits will do that. this man should never be allowed the privledge to be entrusted to protect the public agian. > >> hi all, > >> > >> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she > >wouldn't have been in > >> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was > >perfectly sober > >> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something > >nearly as dangerous > >> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were > >given the same > >> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or > >would > >> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ? > > > > > >irrelevant. > >there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's. > >there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even > >more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in > >less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold > >medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that > >make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to > >jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too? > > > >> > >> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she > >had plowed into > >> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all > >over the road? > > > >irrelevant. > >if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge, > >or bypass the constitution because of his personal power > >fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law > >doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have > >done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is > >public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were > >killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is > >an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation. > > > > > >> > >> another thought .... most police officers are required through > >the nature of > >> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many > >accidents, far to many > >> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for > >a living > >> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and > >it is > >> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely > >heartbreaking almost > >> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the > >circumstances > >> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to > >have a damn > >> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her > >or someone she > >> cared about. > > > >once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is > >to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do. > >not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how > >does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative > >publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the > >jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough > >job as it is without losing more of the publics trust? > > > >> > >> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer > >but it seems > >> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an > >abusive > >> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front > >of this safe and > >> protective computer screen. > > > >no its not , > >because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and > >the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was > >sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with > >his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did. > >tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what > >he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power. > > > >if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a > > " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty? > > > > > > > >> There are infinate variables of posibilities > > > >no, there are not. > >there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not > >if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to > >arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show. > > > > > > > >> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's > >behavior or mental state except by the simple facts. > > > >simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period > > > > > >>One huge one pops into my mind. This > >> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an > >intoxicated condition, in a > >> public place .......... > > > > > >One huge one pops into my mind, > >thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who > >drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the > >public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them > >parade around in public to humiliate them. > > > > > > > >> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too > >much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to > >accept responsibility for their> actions. > > > > > >bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he > >had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to > >uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself, > > > >by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him, > >but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to > >himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next > >time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING. > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------ > --== Sent via Deja.com ==-- > http://www.deja.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 they are taking this seriously, the fact he was suspended without pay is more than they had to do. but i guess $30 million in law suits will do that. this man should never be allowed the privledge to be entrusted to protect the public agian. > >> hi all, > >> > >> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she > >wouldn't have been in > >> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was > >perfectly sober > >> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something > >nearly as dangerous > >> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were > >given the same > >> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or > >would > >> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ? > > > > > >irrelevant. > >there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's. > >there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even > >more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in > >less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold > >medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that > >make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to > >jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too? > > > >> > >> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she > >had plowed into > >> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all > >over the road? > > > >irrelevant. > >if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge, > >or bypass the constitution because of his personal power > >fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law > >doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have > >done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is > >public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were > >killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is > >an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation. > > > > > >> > >> another thought .... most police officers are required through > >the nature of > >> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many > >accidents, far to many > >> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for > >a living > >> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and > >it is > >> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely > >heartbreaking almost > >> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the > >circumstances > >> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to > >have a damn > >> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her > >or someone she > >> cared about. > > > >once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is > >to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do. > >not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how > >does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative > >publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the > >jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough > >job as it is without losing more of the publics trust? > > > >> > >> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer > >but it seems > >> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an > >abusive > >> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front > >of this safe and > >> protective computer screen. > > > >no its not , > >because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and > >the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was > >sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with > >his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did. > >tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what > >he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power. > > > >if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a > > " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty? > > > > > > > >> There are infinate variables of posibilities > > > >no, there are not. > >there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not > >if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to > >arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show. > > > > > > > >> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's > >behavior or mental state except by the simple facts. > > > >simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period > > > > > >>One huge one pops into my mind. This > >> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an > >intoxicated condition, in a > >> public place .......... > > > > > >One huge one pops into my mind, > >thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who > >drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the > >public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them > >parade around in public to humiliate them. > > > > > > > >> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too > >much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to > >accept responsibility for their> actions. > > > > > >bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he > >had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to > >uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself, > > > >by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him, > >but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to > >himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next > >time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING. > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------ > --== Sent via Deja.com ==-- > http://www.deja.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 > I just saw a news story about this where they interviewed the women on MSNBC > - there were actually THREE women, not just the one. > the officer has been suspended without pay Given that he apprently made men do it too, and that actually being over the limit didnt seem to be important, I am wondering if whether the entire driver population of this guy's town hasnt taken a walk home nude and been too embarassed to talk about it. What a bizarre situation. I must say I was amazed at the rationalization for this behavior we saw posted here recently, an even more extreme example of the AA-ceorcion type of rationalization. P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 > I just saw a news story about this where they interviewed the women on MSNBC > - there were actually THREE women, not just the one. > the officer has been suspended without pay Given that he apprently made men do it too, and that actually being over the limit didnt seem to be important, I am wondering if whether the entire driver population of this guy's town hasnt taken a walk home nude and been too embarassed to talk about it. What a bizarre situation. I must say I was amazed at the rationalization for this behavior we saw posted here recently, an even more extreme example of the AA-ceorcion type of rationalization. P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 > Hey all, > so,let me try to grasp this...... Woman is not intoxicated and in complete > control of her faculties... if arrested, would be taken to a facility where > there would be witnesses, susequently more sophisticated testing equipment > used with the oportunity to have a blood test done at a hospital, opportunity > to contact an attorney ..........hmmmmmmm. I'm still confused.....What > rational person would opt to strip naked and walk home in the dark with all > the perils that that encompasses? > > please excuse me, maybe I have missed something, but I still do not > comprehend her choice of the two options. I don't think it feels like a choice when an armed authority figure presents the " option " of stripping. My opinion, the woman was sexually assaulted, and choice did not enter into it. judith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 > Hey all, > so,let me try to grasp this...... Woman is not intoxicated and in complete > control of her faculties... if arrested, would be taken to a facility where > there would be witnesses, susequently more sophisticated testing equipment > used with the oportunity to have a blood test done at a hospital, opportunity > to contact an attorney ..........hmmmmmmm. I'm still confused.....What > rational person would opt to strip naked and walk home in the dark with all > the perils that that encompasses? > > please excuse me, maybe I have missed something, but I still do not > comprehend her choice of the two options. I don't think it feels like a choice when an armed authority figure presents the " option " of stripping. My opinion, the woman was sexually assaulted, and choice did not enter into it. judith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 > Hi All, > I must take exception to > an even more extreme example of the > AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.< I think you misunderstnd me Steve. I dont suggest that you favor AA corcion, I am saying that I think you used a similar rationalization to justify the abuse of a person's human rights that those who favor AA coercion use. Namely, they take the reasonable view that someone who behaves in an antisocial fashion, such as driving while intoxicated, should forfeit some rights, such as possibly liberty in some cases, and extend it to suggest that they forfeit almost all their rights. > I am still bothered by why any of the victims of this " officer " , male or > female, would strip at his directive ......especially since the >particular > woman who instigated this discussion was not even legally >intoxicated. Well perhaps that ought to tell you that something is going on that you dont understand. Ppl in cults will off themselves, and murder others, in response to authority figures. The deference of ppl to authority figures is absolutely amazing, even those who are only role play authority figures, such as in Zimbardo's famous prison role play experiment. When presented with a COP with a GUN who keeps testing you till you test positive or at least says you test positive with all that that might entail, and wears you down for over an hour, then yes ppl will comply. This woman thought, imo quite reasonably, that the cop was going to *rape* her. Being a cop doesnt stop you being a rapist or for that matter a murderer. The " Hollywood Hillside Strangler " was some kind of part-time cop who used his badge to lure his victims. In these circumstances yes ppl will comply; getting to walk home in only her lower underwear probably felt like a relief to her at the time. P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 If it turns out that there is a conspiracy of women, luring this poor innocent cop into situations where he's forced to make them strip down and walk around in public, I'll be the first to admit I'm wrong. judith (for the record, I have never for a moment had the least desire to expose my breasts when pulled over by a police officer) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 If it turns out that there is a conspiracy of women, luring this poor innocent cop into situations where he's forced to make them strip down and walk around in public, I'll be the first to admit I'm wrong. judith (for the record, I have never for a moment had the least desire to expose my breasts when pulled over by a police officer) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 If it turns out that there is a conspiracy of women, luring this poor innocent cop into situations where he's forced to make them strip down and walk around in public, I'll be the first to admit I'm wrong. judith (for the record, I have never for a moment had the least desire to expose my breasts when pulled over by a police officer) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 Hi all Apparently not only do Republican voters sometimes prefer to vote for a dead Democrat than their own living candidate, they are apparently inclined to vote for anoyone wearing a Republican button without knowing anthing about him. It seems the denizens of New Hampshire have elected to the State legislature a man who has previously stood for the Libertarians twice and the Democrats once, but has only now succeeded on a Republcian ticket. The relevance here is the guy sounds like a total lunatic, and part of his lunacy is that he claims his policy is that they should kill all New Hampshire cops. Sadly I dont have the paper around that has the guy's name and details but it must be in the American media much more than ours. Will he enlist an army of semi-naked outraged motorists to perform the cull? P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2001 Report Share Posted January 6, 2001 Hi all Apparently not only do Republican voters sometimes prefer to vote for a dead Democrat than their own living candidate, they are apparently inclined to vote for anoyone wearing a Republican button without knowing anthing about him. It seems the denizens of New Hampshire have elected to the State legislature a man who has previously stood for the Libertarians twice and the Democrats once, but has only now succeeded on a Republcian ticket. The relevance here is the guy sounds like a total lunatic, and part of his lunacy is that he claims his policy is that they should kill all New Hampshire cops. Sadly I dont have the paper around that has the guy's name and details but it must be in the American media much more than ours. Will he enlist an army of semi-naked outraged motorists to perform the cull? P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2001 Report Share Posted January 7, 2001 > > Hi All, > > I must take exception to > an even more extreme example of the > > AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.< > > I think you misunderstnd me Steve. I dont suggest that you favor AA > corcion, I am saying that I think you used a similar rationalization > to justify the abuse of a person's human rights that those who favor > AA coercion use. Namely, they take the reasonable view that someone > who behaves in an antisocial fashion, such as driving while > intoxicated, should forfeit some rights, such as possibly liberty in > some cases, and extend it to suggest that they forfeit almost all > their rights. Yes, this is it exactly. I believe that people need to experience the consequences, positive and negative, of their behavior. That is *not the same* as saying it's OK for cops to beat up, physically or sexually abuse someone who is accused of even a heinous crime. If this cop had pulled over someone who was really driving drunk, then nothing can or should change the fact that the person who had been pulled over was driving drunk. That person did a wrong thing. It's also wrong for a visibly armed police officer to offer anyone, male or female, the opportunity to degrade themselves as an alternative to the legitimate consequences of their misbehavior. As wrong as offering the arrested the opportunity to bribe the officer with cash. > Well perhaps that ought to tell you that something is going on that > you dont understand. Ppl in cults will off themselves, and murder > others, in response to authority figures. The deference of ppl to > authority figures is absolutely amazing, even those who are only role > play authority figures, such as in Zimbardo's famous prison role play > experiment. People don't have to be in a cult. Respecting authority is part of adapting, socialization, survival. > When presented with a COP with a GUN who keeps testing you > till you test positive or at least says you test positive with all > that that might entail, and wears you down for over an hour, then yes > ppl will comply. This woman thought, imo quite reasonably, that the > cop was going to *rape* her. Being a cop doesnt stop you being a > rapist or for that matter a murderer. The " Hollywood Hillside > Strangler " was some kind of part-time cop who used his badge to lure > his victims. In these circumstances yes ppl will comply; getting to > walk home in only her lower underwear probably felt like a relief to > her at the time. Again, this is exactly the point. One thing I learned in a self-defense class was that, when someone attacks you, you *need to assume* that person will not be satisfied until you're dead. You just can't allow yourself to be nice when you feel threatened: you need to act decisively. Oprah did a self-defense program and one piece of advice one of her experts gave was, never go to crime scene #2. If someone attacks you then tries to force you into a car, don't get into the car *at all costs.* This is in direct opposition to what I learned growing up, which was to comply and hope the person would leave you alone. Every fiber of my being says it makes more sense to defend yourself than to comply. I want my self-defense to be obvious from the outset. So what the f**k do I do when I am threatened by someone whom I am also required as a good citizen to obey? I say what happened and find others who have experienced the same thing, or I go crazy. Eventually, it has to become a matter of common sense that there is a qualitative difference between maintaining social order, and giving predators a license to prey on people who break the law. judith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2001 Report Share Posted January 7, 2001 > > Hi All, > > I must take exception to > an even more extreme example of the > > AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.< > > I think you misunderstnd me Steve. I dont suggest that you favor AA > corcion, I am saying that I think you used a similar rationalization > to justify the abuse of a person's human rights that those who favor > AA coercion use. Namely, they take the reasonable view that someone > who behaves in an antisocial fashion, such as driving while > intoxicated, should forfeit some rights, such as possibly liberty in > some cases, and extend it to suggest that they forfeit almost all > their rights. Yes, this is it exactly. I believe that people need to experience the consequences, positive and negative, of their behavior. That is *not the same* as saying it's OK for cops to beat up, physically or sexually abuse someone who is accused of even a heinous crime. If this cop had pulled over someone who was really driving drunk, then nothing can or should change the fact that the person who had been pulled over was driving drunk. That person did a wrong thing. It's also wrong for a visibly armed police officer to offer anyone, male or female, the opportunity to degrade themselves as an alternative to the legitimate consequences of their misbehavior. As wrong as offering the arrested the opportunity to bribe the officer with cash. > Well perhaps that ought to tell you that something is going on that > you dont understand. Ppl in cults will off themselves, and murder > others, in response to authority figures. The deference of ppl to > authority figures is absolutely amazing, even those who are only role > play authority figures, such as in Zimbardo's famous prison role play > experiment. People don't have to be in a cult. Respecting authority is part of adapting, socialization, survival. > When presented with a COP with a GUN who keeps testing you > till you test positive or at least says you test positive with all > that that might entail, and wears you down for over an hour, then yes > ppl will comply. This woman thought, imo quite reasonably, that the > cop was going to *rape* her. Being a cop doesnt stop you being a > rapist or for that matter a murderer. The " Hollywood Hillside > Strangler " was some kind of part-time cop who used his badge to lure > his victims. In these circumstances yes ppl will comply; getting to > walk home in only her lower underwear probably felt like a relief to > her at the time. Again, this is exactly the point. One thing I learned in a self-defense class was that, when someone attacks you, you *need to assume* that person will not be satisfied until you're dead. You just can't allow yourself to be nice when you feel threatened: you need to act decisively. Oprah did a self-defense program and one piece of advice one of her experts gave was, never go to crime scene #2. If someone attacks you then tries to force you into a car, don't get into the car *at all costs.* This is in direct opposition to what I learned growing up, which was to comply and hope the person would leave you alone. Every fiber of my being says it makes more sense to defend yourself than to comply. I want my self-defense to be obvious from the outset. So what the f**k do I do when I am threatened by someone whom I am also required as a good citizen to obey? I say what happened and find others who have experienced the same thing, or I go crazy. Eventually, it has to become a matter of common sense that there is a qualitative difference between maintaining social order, and giving predators a license to prey on people who break the law. judith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2001 Report Share Posted January 7, 2001 > > Hi All, > > I must take exception to > an even more extreme example of the > > AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.< > > I think you misunderstnd me Steve. I dont suggest that you favor AA > corcion, I am saying that I think you used a similar rationalization > to justify the abuse of a person's human rights that those who favor > AA coercion use. Namely, they take the reasonable view that someone > who behaves in an antisocial fashion, such as driving while > intoxicated, should forfeit some rights, such as possibly liberty in > some cases, and extend it to suggest that they forfeit almost all > their rights. Yes, this is it exactly. I believe that people need to experience the consequences, positive and negative, of their behavior. That is *not the same* as saying it's OK for cops to beat up, physically or sexually abuse someone who is accused of even a heinous crime. If this cop had pulled over someone who was really driving drunk, then nothing can or should change the fact that the person who had been pulled over was driving drunk. That person did a wrong thing. It's also wrong for a visibly armed police officer to offer anyone, male or female, the opportunity to degrade themselves as an alternative to the legitimate consequences of their misbehavior. As wrong as offering the arrested the opportunity to bribe the officer with cash. > Well perhaps that ought to tell you that something is going on that > you dont understand. Ppl in cults will off themselves, and murder > others, in response to authority figures. The deference of ppl to > authority figures is absolutely amazing, even those who are only role > play authority figures, such as in Zimbardo's famous prison role play > experiment. People don't have to be in a cult. Respecting authority is part of adapting, socialization, survival. > When presented with a COP with a GUN who keeps testing you > till you test positive or at least says you test positive with all > that that might entail, and wears you down for over an hour, then yes > ppl will comply. This woman thought, imo quite reasonably, that the > cop was going to *rape* her. Being a cop doesnt stop you being a > rapist or for that matter a murderer. The " Hollywood Hillside > Strangler " was some kind of part-time cop who used his badge to lure > his victims. In these circumstances yes ppl will comply; getting to > walk home in only her lower underwear probably felt like a relief to > her at the time. Again, this is exactly the point. One thing I learned in a self-defense class was that, when someone attacks you, you *need to assume* that person will not be satisfied until you're dead. You just can't allow yourself to be nice when you feel threatened: you need to act decisively. Oprah did a self-defense program and one piece of advice one of her experts gave was, never go to crime scene #2. If someone attacks you then tries to force you into a car, don't get into the car *at all costs.* This is in direct opposition to what I learned growing up, which was to comply and hope the person would leave you alone. Every fiber of my being says it makes more sense to defend yourself than to comply. I want my self-defense to be obvious from the outset. So what the f**k do I do when I am threatened by someone whom I am also required as a good citizen to obey? I say what happened and find others who have experienced the same thing, or I go crazy. Eventually, it has to become a matter of common sense that there is a qualitative difference between maintaining social order, and giving predators a license to prey on people who break the law. judith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2001 Report Share Posted January 7, 2001 --- In 12-step-freeegroups, <malgeo@m...> > I have also heard it suggested that a woman (or man, I guess) ask > the officer to follow her to a well-lit public area before interacting > with him. In theory the cop should accede, although in practice > you'd probably be guaranteeing yourself a ticket or arrest. > > maybe from the cop, in this day and age, it would be tossed out by the court, or at least you would hope Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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