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> hi all,

>

> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she

wouldn't have been in

> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was

perfectly sober

> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something

nearly as dangerous

> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were

given the same

> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or

would

> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ?

irrelevant.

there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's.

there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even

more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in

less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold

medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that

make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to

jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too?

>

> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she

had plowed into

> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all

over the road?

irrelevant.

if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge,

or bypass the constitution because of his personal power

fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law

doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have

done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is

public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were

killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is

an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation.

>

> another thought .... most police officers are required through

the nature of

> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many

accidents, far to many

> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for

a living

> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and

it is

> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely

heartbreaking almost

> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the

circumstances

> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to

have a damn

> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her

or someone she

> cared about.

once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is

to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do.

not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how

does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative

publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the

jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough

job as it is without losing more of the publics trust?

>

> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer

but it seems

> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an

abusive

> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front

of this safe and

> protective computer screen.

no its not ,

because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and

the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was

sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with

his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did.

tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what

he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power.

if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a

" power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty?

> There are infinate variables of posibilities

no, there are not.

there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not

if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to

arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show.

> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's

behavior or mental state except by the simple facts.

simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period

>One huge one pops into my mind. This

> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an

intoxicated condition, in a

> public place ..........

One huge one pops into my mind,

thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who

drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the

public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them

parade around in public to humiliate them.

> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too

much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to

accept responsibility for their> actions.

bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he

had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to

uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself,

by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him,

but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to

himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next

time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING.

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> hi all,

>

> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she

wouldn't have been in

> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was

perfectly sober

> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something

nearly as dangerous

> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were

given the same

> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or

would

> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ?

irrelevant.

there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's.

there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even

more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in

less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold

medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that

make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to

jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too?

>

> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she

had plowed into

> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all

over the road?

irrelevant.

if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge,

or bypass the constitution because of his personal power

fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law

doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have

done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is

public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were

killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is

an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation.

>

> another thought .... most police officers are required through

the nature of

> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many

accidents, far to many

> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for

a living

> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and

it is

> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely

heartbreaking almost

> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the

circumstances

> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to

have a damn

> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her

or someone she

> cared about.

once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is

to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do.

not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how

does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative

publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the

jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough

job as it is without losing more of the publics trust?

>

> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer

but it seems

> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an

abusive

> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front

of this safe and

> protective computer screen.

no its not ,

because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and

the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was

sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with

his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did.

tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what

he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power.

if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a

" power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty?

> There are infinate variables of posibilities

no, there are not.

there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not

if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to

arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show.

> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's

behavior or mental state except by the simple facts.

simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period

>One huge one pops into my mind. This

> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an

intoxicated condition, in a

> public place ..........

One huge one pops into my mind,

thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who

drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the

public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them

parade around in public to humiliate them.

> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too

much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to

accept responsibility for their> actions.

bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he

had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to

uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself,

by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him,

but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to

himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next

time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING.

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> hi all,

>

> It seems to me the woman had two choices.

Police officers are authority figures. That status is legitimately

bestowed upon them by our society. Police carry guns. If the officer

is a man and the civilian is a woman, that is an probably additional

source of power since most men are stronger than most women. And I'm

not even going into the possibility that women are socialized to be

subservient and men are socialized to be dominant. The point is,

however many choices the woman had, the cop had infinitely more. The

option the cop chose to exercise is indefensible, given the facts we

have: the article on the web.

This case is worthy of note because frankly, I assume that most cops

have the decency and the smarts not to abuse their power. I assume

that most cops, and most men, would not make a choice like this in a

similar situation.

> Finally, I was not there.

I wasn't in Beijing a decade ago either, but I have an opinion about

the student uprising in Tieneman Square and how that uprising was put

down by the Chinese army.

>I don't know the woman or the officer but

it seems

> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an

abusive

> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front of this

safe and

> protective computer screen. There are infinate variables of

posibilities

> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyones

behaviour or

> mental state except by the simple facts.

We absolutely, absolutely should have an opinion based on the limited

facts we have. You absolutely are qualified to judge someone else's

behavior *in addition to your own*, you absolutely are entitled to

your opinion and to express it. How else are you going to learn other

sides of the situation and hopefully develop a more balanced

perspective?

judith

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> hi all,

>

> It seems to me the woman had two choices.

Police officers are authority figures. That status is legitimately

bestowed upon them by our society. Police carry guns. If the officer

is a man and the civilian is a woman, that is an probably additional

source of power since most men are stronger than most women. And I'm

not even going into the possibility that women are socialized to be

subservient and men are socialized to be dominant. The point is,

however many choices the woman had, the cop had infinitely more. The

option the cop chose to exercise is indefensible, given the facts we

have: the article on the web.

This case is worthy of note because frankly, I assume that most cops

have the decency and the smarts not to abuse their power. I assume

that most cops, and most men, would not make a choice like this in a

similar situation.

> Finally, I was not there.

I wasn't in Beijing a decade ago either, but I have an opinion about

the student uprising in Tieneman Square and how that uprising was put

down by the Chinese army.

>I don't know the woman or the officer but

it seems

> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an

abusive

> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front of this

safe and

> protective computer screen. There are infinate variables of

posibilities

> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyones

behaviour or

> mental state except by the simple facts.

We absolutely, absolutely should have an opinion based on the limited

facts we have. You absolutely are qualified to judge someone else's

behavior *in addition to your own*, you absolutely are entitled to

your opinion and to express it. How else are you going to learn other

sides of the situation and hopefully develop a more balanced

perspective?

judith

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> hi all,

>

> It seems to me the woman had two choices.

Police officers are authority figures. That status is legitimately

bestowed upon them by our society. Police carry guns. If the officer

is a man and the civilian is a woman, that is an probably additional

source of power since most men are stronger than most women. And I'm

not even going into the possibility that women are socialized to be

subservient and men are socialized to be dominant. The point is,

however many choices the woman had, the cop had infinitely more. The

option the cop chose to exercise is indefensible, given the facts we

have: the article on the web.

This case is worthy of note because frankly, I assume that most cops

have the decency and the smarts not to abuse their power. I assume

that most cops, and most men, would not make a choice like this in a

similar situation.

> Finally, I was not there.

I wasn't in Beijing a decade ago either, but I have an opinion about

the student uprising in Tieneman Square and how that uprising was put

down by the Chinese army.

>I don't know the woman or the officer but

it seems

> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an

abusive

> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front of this

safe and

> protective computer screen. There are infinate variables of

posibilities

> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyones

behaviour or

> mental state except by the simple facts.

We absolutely, absolutely should have an opinion based on the limited

facts we have. You absolutely are qualified to judge someone else's

behavior *in addition to your own*, you absolutely are entitled to

your opinion and to express it. How else are you going to learn other

sides of the situation and hopefully develop a more balanced

perspective?

judith

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Great post, Dave... you address all the points succinctly. The case is

still news in downstate NY, as several other women have come forward with

similar tales of abuse by this nasty perv. Thus is from yesterday's Long Island

Newsday:

http://www.newsday.com/coverage/current/news/friday/nd3129.htm

There's probably more in today's.

The kind of mindset that would gloss over this behavior and say " well, it

wouldn't have happened if she wasn't drinking " is the same sort of mindset that

glosses over 13th stepping abuse of newcomers in AA. " she should look for her

part in it " -- BARF

~Rita

>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>

>Date: Sat, 06 Jan 2001 06:54:20 -0000

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: Suffolk Co. Incident (was: About Recovery -

Training t...

>

>

>> hi all,

>>

>> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she

>wouldn't have been in

>> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was

>perfectly sober

>> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something

>nearly as dangerous

>> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were

>given the same

>> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or

>would

>> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ?

>

>

>irrelevant.

>there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's.

>there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even

>more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in

>less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold

>medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that

>make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to

>jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too?

>

>>

>> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she

>had plowed into

>> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all

>over the road?

>

>irrelevant.

>if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge,

>or bypass the constitution because of his personal power

>fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law

>doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have

>done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is

>public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were

>killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is

>an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation.

>

>

>>

>> another thought .... most police officers are required through

>the nature of

>> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many

>accidents, far to many

>> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for

>a living

>> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and

>it is

>> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely

>heartbreaking almost

>> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the

>circumstances

>> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to

>have a damn

>> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her

>or someone she

>> cared about.

>

>once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is

>to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do.

>not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how

>does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative

>publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the

>jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough

>job as it is without losing more of the publics trust?

>

>>

>> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer

>but it seems

>> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an

>abusive

>> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front

>of this safe and

>> protective computer screen.

>

>no its not ,

>because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and

>the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was

>sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with

>his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did.

>tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what

>he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power.

>

>if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a

> " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty?

>

>

>

>> There are infinate variables of posibilities

>

>no, there are not.

>there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not

>if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to

>arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show.

>

>

>

>> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's

>behavior or mental state except by the simple facts.

>

>simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period

>

>

>>One huge one pops into my mind. This

>> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an

>intoxicated condition, in a

>> public place ..........

>

>

>One huge one pops into my mind,

>thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who

>drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the

>public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them

>parade around in public to humiliate them.

>

>

>

>> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too

>much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to

>accept responsibility for their> actions.

>

>

>bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he

>had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to

>uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself,

>

>by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him,

>but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to

>himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next

>time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING.

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Great post, Dave... you address all the points succinctly. The case is

still news in downstate NY, as several other women have come forward with

similar tales of abuse by this nasty perv. Thus is from yesterday's Long Island

Newsday:

http://www.newsday.com/coverage/current/news/friday/nd3129.htm

There's probably more in today's.

The kind of mindset that would gloss over this behavior and say " well, it

wouldn't have happened if she wasn't drinking " is the same sort of mindset that

glosses over 13th stepping abuse of newcomers in AA. " she should look for her

part in it " -- BARF

~Rita

>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>

>Date: Sat, 06 Jan 2001 06:54:20 -0000

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: Suffolk Co. Incident (was: About Recovery -

Training t...

>

>

>> hi all,

>>

>> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she

>wouldn't have been in

>> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was

>perfectly sober

>> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something

>nearly as dangerous

>> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were

>given the same

>> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or

>would

>> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ?

>

>

>irrelevant.

>there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's.

>there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even

>more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in

>less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold

>medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that

>make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to

>jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too?

>

>>

>> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she

>had plowed into

>> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all

>over the road?

>

>irrelevant.

>if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge,

>or bypass the constitution because of his personal power

>fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law

>doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have

>done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is

>public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were

>killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is

>an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation.

>

>

>>

>> another thought .... most police officers are required through

>the nature of

>> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many

>accidents, far to many

>> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for

>a living

>> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and

>it is

>> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely

>heartbreaking almost

>> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the

>circumstances

>> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to

>have a damn

>> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her

>or someone she

>> cared about.

>

>once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is

>to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do.

>not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how

>does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative

>publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the

>jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough

>job as it is without losing more of the publics trust?

>

>>

>> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer

>but it seems

>> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an

>abusive

>> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front

>of this safe and

>> protective computer screen.

>

>no its not ,

>because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and

>the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was

>sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with

>his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did.

>tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what

>he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power.

>

>if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a

> " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty?

>

>

>

>> There are infinate variables of posibilities

>

>no, there are not.

>there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not

>if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to

>arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show.

>

>

>

>> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's

>behavior or mental state except by the simple facts.

>

>simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period

>

>

>>One huge one pops into my mind. This

>> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an

>intoxicated condition, in a

>> public place ..........

>

>

>One huge one pops into my mind,

>thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who

>drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the

>public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them

>parade around in public to humiliate them.

>

>

>

>> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too

>much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to

>accept responsibility for their> actions.

>

>

>bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he

>had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to

>uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself,

>

>by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him,

>but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to

>himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next

>time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING.

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Great post, Dave... you address all the points succinctly. The case is

still news in downstate NY, as several other women have come forward with

similar tales of abuse by this nasty perv. Thus is from yesterday's Long Island

Newsday:

http://www.newsday.com/coverage/current/news/friday/nd3129.htm

There's probably more in today's.

The kind of mindset that would gloss over this behavior and say " well, it

wouldn't have happened if she wasn't drinking " is the same sort of mindset that

glosses over 13th stepping abuse of newcomers in AA. " she should look for her

part in it " -- BARF

~Rita

>To: 12-step-freeegroups

>

>Date: Sat, 06 Jan 2001 06:54:20 -0000

>Reply-To: 12-step-freeegroups

>Subject: Re: Suffolk Co. Incident (was: About Recovery -

Training t...

>

>

>> hi all,

>>

>> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she

>wouldn't have been in

>> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she was

>perfectly sober

>> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something

>nearly as dangerous

>> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were

>given the same

>> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer or

>would

>> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ?

>

>

>irrelevant.

>there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY Circumstance's.

>there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even

>more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in

>less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on cold

>medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would that

>make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go to

>jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too?

>

>>

>> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she

>had plowed into

>> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to pieces all

>over the road?

>

>irrelevant.

>if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the judge,

>or bypass the constitution because of his personal power

>fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the law

>doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have

>done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how is

>public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were

>killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which is

>an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation.

>

>

>>

>> another thought .... most police officers are required through

>the nature of

>> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many

>accidents, far to many

>> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this for

>a living

>> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities and

>it is

>> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely

>heartbreaking almost

>> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under the

>circumstances

>> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the morgue to

>have a damn

>> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to her

>or someone she

>> cared about.

>

>once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job is

>to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to do.

>not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how

>does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative

>publicity he earned for him and his police department, make the

>jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard enough

>job as it is without losing more of the publics trust?

>

>>

>> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer

>but it seems

>> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone an

>abusive

>> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in front

>of this safe and

>> protective computer screen.

>

>no its not ,

>because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority and

>the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was was

>sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye with

>his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did.

>tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that what

>he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power.

>

>if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a

> " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty?

>

>

>

>> There are infinate variables of posibilities

>

>no, there are not.

>there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not

>if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was to

>arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show.

>

>

>

>> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge anyone's

>behavior or mental state except by the simple facts.

>

>simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period

>

>

>>One huge one pops into my mind. This

>> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an

>intoxicated condition, in a

>> public place ..........

>

>

>One huge one pops into my mind,

>thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who

>drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect the

>public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have them

>parade around in public to humiliate them.

>

>

>

>> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking too

>much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to

>accept responsibility for their> actions.

>

>

>bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget he

>had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to

>uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself,

>

>by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in him,

>but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to

>himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well next

>time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING.

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they are taking this seriously, the fact he was suspended without

pay is more than they had to do. but i guess $30 million in law

suits will do that. this man should never be allowed the privledge

to be entrusted to protect the public agian.

> >> hi all,

> >>

> >> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she

> >wouldn't have been in

> >> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she

was

> >perfectly sober

> >> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something

> >nearly as dangerous

> >> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were

> >given the same

> >> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer

or

> >would

> >> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ?

> >

> >

> >irrelevant.

> >there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY

Circumstance's.

> >there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even

> >more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in

> >less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on

cold

> >medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would

that

> >make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go

to

> >jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too?

> >

> >>

> >> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she

> >had plowed into

> >> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to

pieces all

> >over the road?

> >

> >irrelevant.

> >if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the

judge,

> >or bypass the constitution because of his personal power

> >fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the

law

> >doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have

> >done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how

is

> >public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were

> >killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which

is

> >an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation.

> >

> >

> >>

> >> another thought .... most police officers are required

through

> >the nature of

> >> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many

> >accidents, far to many

> >> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this

for

> >a living

> >> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities

and

> >it is

> >> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely

> >heartbreaking almost

> >> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under

the

> >circumstances

> >> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the

morgue to

> >have a damn

> >> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to

her

> >or someone she

> >> cared about.

> >

> >once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job

is

> >to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to

do.

> >not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how

> >does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative

> >publicity he earned for him and his police department, make

the

> >jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard

enough

> >job as it is without losing more of the publics trust?

> >

> >>

> >> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer

> >but it seems

> >> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone

an

> >abusive

> >> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in

front

> >of this safe and

> >> protective computer screen.

> >

> >no its not ,

> >because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority

and

> >the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was

was

> >sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye

with

> >his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did.

> >tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that

what

> >he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power.

> >

> >if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a

> > " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty?

> >

> >

> >

> >> There are infinate variables of posibilities

> >

> >no, there are not.

> >there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not

> >if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was

to

> >arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show.

> >

> >

> >

> >> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge

anyone's

> >behavior or mental state except by the simple facts.

> >

> >simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period

> >

> >

> >>One huge one pops into my mind. This

> >> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an

> >intoxicated condition, in a

> >> public place ..........

> >

> >

> >One huge one pops into my mind,

> >thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who

> >drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect

the

> >public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have

them

> >parade around in public to humiliate them.

> >

> >

> >

> >> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking

too

> >much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to

> >accept responsibility for their> actions.

> >

> >

> >bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget

he

> >had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to

> >uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself,

> >

> >by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in

him,

> >but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to

> >himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well

next

> >time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING.

>

>

>

>

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they are taking this seriously, the fact he was suspended without

pay is more than they had to do. but i guess $30 million in law

suits will do that. this man should never be allowed the privledge

to be entrusted to protect the public agian.

> >> hi all,

> >>

> >> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she

> >wouldn't have been in

> >> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she

was

> >perfectly sober

> >> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something

> >nearly as dangerous

> >> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were

> >given the same

> >> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer

or

> >would

> >> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ?

> >

> >

> >irrelevant.

> >there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY

Circumstance's.

> >there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even

> >more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in

> >less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on

cold

> >medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would

that

> >make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go

to

> >jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too?

> >

> >>

> >> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she

> >had plowed into

> >> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to

pieces all

> >over the road?

> >

> >irrelevant.

> >if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the

judge,

> >or bypass the constitution because of his personal power

> >fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the

law

> >doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have

> >done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how

is

> >public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were

> >killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which

is

> >an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation.

> >

> >

> >>

> >> another thought .... most police officers are required

through

> >the nature of

> >> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many

> >accidents, far to many

> >> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this

for

> >a living

> >> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities

and

> >it is

> >> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely

> >heartbreaking almost

> >> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under

the

> >circumstances

> >> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the

morgue to

> >have a damn

> >> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to

her

> >or someone she

> >> cared about.

> >

> >once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job

is

> >to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to

do.

> >not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how

> >does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative

> >publicity he earned for him and his police department, make

the

> >jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard

enough

> >job as it is without losing more of the publics trust?

> >

> >>

> >> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer

> >but it seems

> >> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone

an

> >abusive

> >> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in

front

> >of this safe and

> >> protective computer screen.

> >

> >no its not ,

> >because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority

and

> >the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was

was

> >sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye

with

> >his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did.

> >tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that

what

> >he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power.

> >

> >if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a

> > " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty?

> >

> >

> >

> >> There are infinate variables of posibilities

> >

> >no, there are not.

> >there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not

> >if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was

to

> >arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show.

> >

> >

> >

> >> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge

anyone's

> >behavior or mental state except by the simple facts.

> >

> >simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period

> >

> >

> >>One huge one pops into my mind. This

> >> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an

> >intoxicated condition, in a

> >> public place ..........

> >

> >

> >One huge one pops into my mind,

> >thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who

> >drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect

the

> >public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have

them

> >parade around in public to humiliate them.

> >

> >

> >

> >> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking

too

> >much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to

> >accept responsibility for their> actions.

> >

> >

> >bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget

he

> >had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to

> >uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself,

> >

> >by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in

him,

> >but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to

> >himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well

next

> >time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING.

>

>

>

>

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they are taking this seriously, the fact he was suspended without

pay is more than they had to do. but i guess $30 million in law

suits will do that. this man should never be allowed the privledge

to be entrusted to protect the public agian.

> >> hi all,

> >>

> >> It seems to me the woman had two choices. Of course she

> >wouldn't have been in

> >> the situation had she been sober, but let's just say she

was

> >perfectly sober

> >> and she was pulled over for running a red light(something

> >nearly as dangerous

> >> to others and self as driving under the influence) and were

> >given the same

> >> two choices ........ Would she then strip if told to by the officer

or

> >would

> >> she refuse an accept whatever consequences ...... ?

> >

> >

> >irrelevant.

> >there is no circumstance to do this , under ANY

Circumstance's.

> >there is no excuse for this. this in fact makes his action even

> >more inexcusable, because she was under influence and in

> >less of condition to defend herself. what if she had been on

cold

> >medication, which also can effects your ability to drive, would

that

> >make it alright then? if she had told she had to blow him or go

to

> >jail, would that be ok because she was drunk too?

> >

> >>

> >> How 'bout postulating this: Who would be the " victim " if she

> >had plowed into

> >> another vehicle and left someone's soul smashed to

pieces all

> >over the road?

> >

> >irrelevant.

> >if she was drunk, his job was to arrest her, not act as the

judge,

> >or bypass the constitution because of his personal power

> >fetishes. he is not paid to make the law, but to uphold it. the

law

> >doesn't hold people responsible for what they COULD have

> >done. and even if she ahd plowed into a group of people, how

is

> >public nudity justice by any measure? if my loved ones were

> >killed, i would want to see jail time, not this side show which

is

> >an insult to the judiciary system and rule of law in the nation.

> >

> >

> >>

> >> another thought .... most police officers are required

through

> >the nature of

> >> their job to be rescue personnel at the scene of many

> >accidents, far to many

> >> caused by drunk drivers. I have talked to several who do this

for

> >a living

> >> about this particularly difficult aspect of their resposibilities

and

> >it is

> >> both an extremely difficult thig to do and absolutely

> >heartbreaking almost

> >> everytime. I may not agree with his particular choice under

the

> >circumstances

> >> but maybe I would have given her a ride down to the

morgue to

> >have a damn

> >> good look at what she was fortunate to not have happen to

her

> >or someone she

> >> cared about.

> >

> >once again, totally irrelevant., that is for judge to order, his job

is

> >to uphold the law as it is written, that is what he is SWORN to

do.

> >not to violate it to teach a dubious and abusive " lesson " . how

> >does violating his sworn duty, and the justifiable negative

> >publicity he earned for him and his police department, make

the

> >jobs of any police office easier ? dont they have a hard

enough

> >job as it is without losing more of the publics trust?

> >

> >>

> >> Finally, I was not there. I don't know the woman or the officer

> >but it seems

> >> to me to be a significant stretch to start labeling someone

an

> >abusive

> >> redneck power tripping policeman from my easy chair in

front

> >of this safe and

> >> protective computer screen.

> >

> >no its not ,

> >because thats exactly what it is. he went beyond his authority

and

> >the constitution, he violated his oath and public trust he was

was

> >sworn to protect. he has in fact given all police a black eye

with

> >his over stepping of his and any legal authority to what he did.

> >tell me where it says in any state law, or in constitution that

what

> >he did was legal? a child can tell you he abused his power.

> >

> >if he had done this to jay walker, would it be any more of a

> > " power trip " and a violation of his sworn duty?

> >

> >

> >

> >> There are infinate variables of posibilities

> >

> >no, there are not.

> >there is only two possibilities, she was drunk or she was not

> >if she was drunk, his job, paid for with tax payer money, was

to

> >arrests her, not make her perform a public nudity show.

> >

> >

> >

> >> engendered in the given situation, who am I to judge

anyone's

> >behavior or mental state except by the simple facts.

> >

> >simple facts is no police office is allowed ot do this . period

> >

> >

> >>One huge one pops into my mind. This

> >> woman was brandishing a huge deadly weopon, in an

> >intoxicated condition, in a

> >> public place ..........

> >

> >

> >One huge one pops into my mind,

> >thats why we have laws, and that why we arrest people who

> >drive drunk. we pay are officers to uphold the law and protect

the

> >public, not to violate the laws , strip citizens them and have

them

> >parade around in public to humiliate them.

> >

> >

> >

> >> I am not defending nor condemning anyone just thinking

too

> >much as I've often> been " accused " . I do expect everyone to

> >accept responsibility for their> actions.

> >

> >

> >bullshit, you totally defended this officer and seem to forget

he

> >had responsibility himself, to protect and serve the public, to

> >uphold the law and the constitution.. not make it up himself,

> >

> >by doing so, he has not only weakened the publics trust in

him,

> >but police everywhere. he caused nothing but harm to her, to

> >himself and abilty of his fellow officers to be trusted as well

next

> >time they pull some one over, for ANYTHING.

>

>

>

>

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> I just saw a news story about this where they interviewed the women

on MSNBC

> - there were actually THREE women, not just the one.

> the officer has been suspended without pay

Given that he apprently made men do it too, and that actually being

over the limit didnt seem to be important, I am wondering if whether

the entire driver population of this guy's town hasnt taken a walk

home nude and been too embarassed to talk about it. What a bizarre

situation.

I must say I was amazed at the rationalization for this behavior we

saw posted here recently, an even more extreme example of the

AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.

P.

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> I just saw a news story about this where they interviewed the women

on MSNBC

> - there were actually THREE women, not just the one.

> the officer has been suspended without pay

Given that he apprently made men do it too, and that actually being

over the limit didnt seem to be important, I am wondering if whether

the entire driver population of this guy's town hasnt taken a walk

home nude and been too embarassed to talk about it. What a bizarre

situation.

I must say I was amazed at the rationalization for this behavior we

saw posted here recently, an even more extreme example of the

AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.

P.

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> Hey all,

> so,let me try to grasp this...... Woman is not intoxicated and in

complete

> control of her faculties... if arrested, would be taken to a

facility where

> there would be witnesses, susequently more sophisticated testing

equipment

> used with the oportunity to have a blood test done at a hospital,

opportunity

> to contact an attorney ..........hmmmmmmm. I'm still

confused.....What

> rational person would opt to strip naked and walk home in the dark

with all

> the perils that that encompasses?

>

> please excuse me, maybe I have missed something, but I still do not

> comprehend her choice of the two options.

I don't think it feels like a choice when an armed authority figure

presents the " option " of stripping. My opinion, the woman was sexually

assaulted, and choice did not enter into it.

judith

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> Hey all,

> so,let me try to grasp this...... Woman is not intoxicated and in

complete

> control of her faculties... if arrested, would be taken to a

facility where

> there would be witnesses, susequently more sophisticated testing

equipment

> used with the oportunity to have a blood test done at a hospital,

opportunity

> to contact an attorney ..........hmmmmmmm. I'm still

confused.....What

> rational person would opt to strip naked and walk home in the dark

with all

> the perils that that encompasses?

>

> please excuse me, maybe I have missed something, but I still do not

> comprehend her choice of the two options.

I don't think it feels like a choice when an armed authority figure

presents the " option " of stripping. My opinion, the woman was sexually

assaulted, and choice did not enter into it.

judith

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> Hi All,

> I must take exception to > an even more extreme example of the

> AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.<

I think you misunderstnd me Steve. I dont suggest that you favor AA

corcion, I am saying that I think you used a similar rationalization

to justify the abuse of a person's human rights that those who favor

AA coercion use. Namely, they take the reasonable view that someone

who behaves in an antisocial fashion, such as driving while

intoxicated, should forfeit some rights, such as possibly liberty in

some cases, and extend it to suggest that they forfeit almost all

their rights.

> I am still bothered by why any of the victims of this " officer " ,

male or

> female, would strip at his directive ......especially since the

>particular

> woman who instigated this discussion was not even legally

>intoxicated.

Well perhaps that ought to tell you that something is going on that

you dont understand. Ppl in cults will off themselves, and murder

others, in response to authority figures. The deference of ppl to

authority figures is absolutely amazing, even those who are only role

play authority figures, such as in Zimbardo's famous prison role play

experiment. When presented with a COP with a GUN who keeps testing you

till you test positive or at least says you test positive with all

that that might entail, and wears you down for over an hour, then yes

ppl will comply. This woman thought, imo quite reasonably, that the

cop was going to *rape* her. Being a cop doesnt stop you being a

rapist or for that matter a murderer. The " Hollywood Hillside

Strangler " was some kind of part-time cop who used his badge to lure

his victims. In these circumstances yes ppl will comply; getting to

walk home in only her lower underwear probably felt like a relief to

her at the time.

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If it turns out that there is a conspiracy of women, luring this poor

innocent cop into situations where he's forced to make them strip down

and walk around in public, I'll be the first to admit I'm wrong.

judith (for the record, I have never for a moment had the least desire

to expose my breasts when pulled over by a police officer)

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If it turns out that there is a conspiracy of women, luring this poor

innocent cop into situations where he's forced to make them strip down

and walk around in public, I'll be the first to admit I'm wrong.

judith (for the record, I have never for a moment had the least desire

to expose my breasts when pulled over by a police officer)

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If it turns out that there is a conspiracy of women, luring this poor

innocent cop into situations where he's forced to make them strip down

and walk around in public, I'll be the first to admit I'm wrong.

judith (for the record, I have never for a moment had the least desire

to expose my breasts when pulled over by a police officer)

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Hi all

Apparently not only do Republican voters sometimes prefer to vote for

a dead Democrat than their own living candidate, they are apparently

inclined to vote for anoyone wearing a Republican button without

knowing anthing about him.

It seems the denizens of New Hampshire have elected to the State

legislature a man who has previously stood for the Libertarians twice

and the Democrats once, but has only now succeeded on a Republcian

ticket. The relevance here is the guy sounds like a total lunatic,

and part of his lunacy is that he claims his policy is that they

should kill all New Hampshire cops. Sadly I dont have the paper

around that has the guy's name and details but it must be in the

American media much more than ours. Will he enlist an army of

semi-naked outraged motorists to perform the cull?

P.

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Hi all

Apparently not only do Republican voters sometimes prefer to vote for

a dead Democrat than their own living candidate, they are apparently

inclined to vote for anoyone wearing a Republican button without

knowing anthing about him.

It seems the denizens of New Hampshire have elected to the State

legislature a man who has previously stood for the Libertarians twice

and the Democrats once, but has only now succeeded on a Republcian

ticket. The relevance here is the guy sounds like a total lunatic,

and part of his lunacy is that he claims his policy is that they

should kill all New Hampshire cops. Sadly I dont have the paper

around that has the guy's name and details but it must be in the

American media much more than ours. Will he enlist an army of

semi-naked outraged motorists to perform the cull?

P.

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> > Hi All,

> > I must take exception to > an even more extreme example of the

> > AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.<

>

> I think you misunderstnd me Steve. I dont suggest that you favor AA

> corcion, I am saying that I think you used a similar rationalization

> to justify the abuse of a person's human rights that those who favor

> AA coercion use. Namely, they take the reasonable view that someone

> who behaves in an antisocial fashion, such as driving while

> intoxicated, should forfeit some rights, such as possibly liberty in

> some cases, and extend it to suggest that they forfeit almost all

> their rights.

Yes, this is it exactly. I believe that people need to experience the

consequences, positive and negative, of their behavior. That is *not

the same* as saying it's OK for cops to beat up, physically or

sexually abuse someone who is accused of even a heinous crime.

If this cop had pulled over someone who was really driving drunk, then

nothing can or should change the fact that the person who had been

pulled over was driving drunk. That person did a wrong thing.

It's also wrong for a visibly armed police officer to offer anyone,

male or female, the opportunity to degrade themselves as an

alternative to the legitimate consequences of their misbehavior. As

wrong as offering the arrested the opportunity to bribe the officer

with cash.

> Well perhaps that ought to tell you that something is going on that

> you dont understand. Ppl in cults will off themselves, and murder

> others, in response to authority figures. The deference of ppl to

> authority figures is absolutely amazing, even those who are only

role

> play authority figures, such as in Zimbardo's famous prison role

play

> experiment.

People don't have to be in a cult. Respecting authority is part of

adapting, socialization, survival.

> When presented with a COP with a GUN who keeps testing

you

> till you test positive or at least says you test positive with all

> that that might entail, and wears you down for over an hour, then

yes

> ppl will comply. This woman thought, imo quite reasonably, that the

> cop was going to *rape* her. Being a cop doesnt stop you being a

> rapist or for that matter a murderer. The " Hollywood Hillside

> Strangler " was some kind of part-time cop who used his badge to lure

> his victims. In these circumstances yes ppl will comply; getting to

> walk home in only her lower underwear probably felt like a relief to

> her at the time.

Again, this is exactly the point. One thing I learned in a

self-defense class was that, when someone attacks you, you *need to

assume* that person will not be satisfied until you're dead. You just

can't allow yourself to be nice when you feel threatened: you need to

act decisively. Oprah did a self-defense program and one piece of

advice one of her experts gave was, never go to crime scene #2. If

someone attacks you then tries to force you into a car, don't get into

the car *at all costs.*

This is in direct opposition to what I learned growing up, which was

to comply and hope the person would leave you alone. Every fiber of my

being says it makes more sense to defend yourself than to comply. I

want my self-defense to be obvious from the outset.

So what the f**k do I do when I am threatened by someone whom I am

also required as a good citizen to obey? I say what happened and find

others who have experienced the same thing, or I go crazy. Eventually,

it has to become a matter of common sense that there is a qualitative

difference between maintaining social order, and giving predators a

license to prey on people who break the law.

judith

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> > Hi All,

> > I must take exception to > an even more extreme example of the

> > AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.<

>

> I think you misunderstnd me Steve. I dont suggest that you favor AA

> corcion, I am saying that I think you used a similar rationalization

> to justify the abuse of a person's human rights that those who favor

> AA coercion use. Namely, they take the reasonable view that someone

> who behaves in an antisocial fashion, such as driving while

> intoxicated, should forfeit some rights, such as possibly liberty in

> some cases, and extend it to suggest that they forfeit almost all

> their rights.

Yes, this is it exactly. I believe that people need to experience the

consequences, positive and negative, of their behavior. That is *not

the same* as saying it's OK for cops to beat up, physically or

sexually abuse someone who is accused of even a heinous crime.

If this cop had pulled over someone who was really driving drunk, then

nothing can or should change the fact that the person who had been

pulled over was driving drunk. That person did a wrong thing.

It's also wrong for a visibly armed police officer to offer anyone,

male or female, the opportunity to degrade themselves as an

alternative to the legitimate consequences of their misbehavior. As

wrong as offering the arrested the opportunity to bribe the officer

with cash.

> Well perhaps that ought to tell you that something is going on that

> you dont understand. Ppl in cults will off themselves, and murder

> others, in response to authority figures. The deference of ppl to

> authority figures is absolutely amazing, even those who are only

role

> play authority figures, such as in Zimbardo's famous prison role

play

> experiment.

People don't have to be in a cult. Respecting authority is part of

adapting, socialization, survival.

> When presented with a COP with a GUN who keeps testing

you

> till you test positive or at least says you test positive with all

> that that might entail, and wears you down for over an hour, then

yes

> ppl will comply. This woman thought, imo quite reasonably, that the

> cop was going to *rape* her. Being a cop doesnt stop you being a

> rapist or for that matter a murderer. The " Hollywood Hillside

> Strangler " was some kind of part-time cop who used his badge to lure

> his victims. In these circumstances yes ppl will comply; getting to

> walk home in only her lower underwear probably felt like a relief to

> her at the time.

Again, this is exactly the point. One thing I learned in a

self-defense class was that, when someone attacks you, you *need to

assume* that person will not be satisfied until you're dead. You just

can't allow yourself to be nice when you feel threatened: you need to

act decisively. Oprah did a self-defense program and one piece of

advice one of her experts gave was, never go to crime scene #2. If

someone attacks you then tries to force you into a car, don't get into

the car *at all costs.*

This is in direct opposition to what I learned growing up, which was

to comply and hope the person would leave you alone. Every fiber of my

being says it makes more sense to defend yourself than to comply. I

want my self-defense to be obvious from the outset.

So what the f**k do I do when I am threatened by someone whom I am

also required as a good citizen to obey? I say what happened and find

others who have experienced the same thing, or I go crazy. Eventually,

it has to become a matter of common sense that there is a qualitative

difference between maintaining social order, and giving predators a

license to prey on people who break the law.

judith

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> > Hi All,

> > I must take exception to > an even more extreme example of the

> > AA-ceorcion type of rationalization.<

>

> I think you misunderstnd me Steve. I dont suggest that you favor AA

> corcion, I am saying that I think you used a similar rationalization

> to justify the abuse of a person's human rights that those who favor

> AA coercion use. Namely, they take the reasonable view that someone

> who behaves in an antisocial fashion, such as driving while

> intoxicated, should forfeit some rights, such as possibly liberty in

> some cases, and extend it to suggest that they forfeit almost all

> their rights.

Yes, this is it exactly. I believe that people need to experience the

consequences, positive and negative, of their behavior. That is *not

the same* as saying it's OK for cops to beat up, physically or

sexually abuse someone who is accused of even a heinous crime.

If this cop had pulled over someone who was really driving drunk, then

nothing can or should change the fact that the person who had been

pulled over was driving drunk. That person did a wrong thing.

It's also wrong for a visibly armed police officer to offer anyone,

male or female, the opportunity to degrade themselves as an

alternative to the legitimate consequences of their misbehavior. As

wrong as offering the arrested the opportunity to bribe the officer

with cash.

> Well perhaps that ought to tell you that something is going on that

> you dont understand. Ppl in cults will off themselves, and murder

> others, in response to authority figures. The deference of ppl to

> authority figures is absolutely amazing, even those who are only

role

> play authority figures, such as in Zimbardo's famous prison role

play

> experiment.

People don't have to be in a cult. Respecting authority is part of

adapting, socialization, survival.

> When presented with a COP with a GUN who keeps testing

you

> till you test positive or at least says you test positive with all

> that that might entail, and wears you down for over an hour, then

yes

> ppl will comply. This woman thought, imo quite reasonably, that the

> cop was going to *rape* her. Being a cop doesnt stop you being a

> rapist or for that matter a murderer. The " Hollywood Hillside

> Strangler " was some kind of part-time cop who used his badge to lure

> his victims. In these circumstances yes ppl will comply; getting to

> walk home in only her lower underwear probably felt like a relief to

> her at the time.

Again, this is exactly the point. One thing I learned in a

self-defense class was that, when someone attacks you, you *need to

assume* that person will not be satisfied until you're dead. You just

can't allow yourself to be nice when you feel threatened: you need to

act decisively. Oprah did a self-defense program and one piece of

advice one of her experts gave was, never go to crime scene #2. If

someone attacks you then tries to force you into a car, don't get into

the car *at all costs.*

This is in direct opposition to what I learned growing up, which was

to comply and hope the person would leave you alone. Every fiber of my

being says it makes more sense to defend yourself than to comply. I

want my self-defense to be obvious from the outset.

So what the f**k do I do when I am threatened by someone whom I am

also required as a good citizen to obey? I say what happened and find

others who have experienced the same thing, or I go crazy. Eventually,

it has to become a matter of common sense that there is a qualitative

difference between maintaining social order, and giving predators a

license to prey on people who break the law.

judith

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--- In 12-step-freeegroups, <malgeo@m...>

> I have also heard it suggested that a woman (or man, I guess)

ask

> the officer to follow her to a well-lit public area before

interacting

> with him. In theory the cop should accede, although in practice

> you'd probably be guaranteeing yourself a ticket or arrest.

>

>

maybe from the cop, in this day and age, it would be tossed out

by the court, or at least you would hope

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