Wow, how things change....

[Guest guest]

Hello all~

Most of you who see this post will be sitting in your chairs

wondering, " Who the hell is this? " For those of you who don't

remember me, which might be everyone, my name is Maegan.

I joined this group when I lost my grandma to cancer in October of

1999. The women in this group got me through some really dark, hard

times. It's been YEARS since I've posted, mainly because Im a selfish

mid-twenties woman out playing " grown-up " and too busy to be a part

of the lives that so amazingly reached out to touch mine. I must say

that is saddens me to see the rift in this group. Granted I haven't

been around for the mistfits and the trouble makers, but none the

less, its sad to me to think that another 19 year old out there might

be looking around for someone, ANYONE, to help her cope with losing

her most favorite person on earth, and not find this place.

For what it's worth, even though I don't post, there is a comfort in

being a 'part' of a group that is so warm and caring. It helps me to

remember how far I've come. Its helps to keep my faith in humanity

and compassion alive. It helps to remind me of what I lost, and how a

handful of strangers reached out to help me find my way, and gives me

the inspiration I need in a world that is so often filled with harted

and selfishness that its disheartening.

Life is short, as many of you are well aware of. Time is not meant to

be spent in anger or hatred. Love, joy, faith, passion -- these are

the things that time is worth spending on. If you want to delete me,

so be it, that is your choice, that is your power. But

sometimes " lurkers " just need to be the silent observer.

Take care, and God Bless each and every one of you.

~Maegan

[Guest guest]

Maegan,

I will NOT delete you if you would like to stay. I did this a few yrs ago and noone complained there WAS a problem a month or so ago with a few members who decided they knew it ALL. Since then I have been trying to get things back to normal.

I did this a few yrs ago and there was no complaints from anyone. I have you down as wanting to stay.

Hugs

nne

Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html

Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com

Wow, how things change....

Hello all~Most of you who see this post will be sitting in your chairs wondering, "Who the hell is this?" For those of you who don't remember me, which might be everyone, my name is Maegan.I joined this group when I lost my grandma to cancer in October of 1999. The women in this group got me through some really dark, hard times. It's been YEARS since I've posted, mainly because Im a selfish mid-twenties woman out playing "grown-up" and too busy to be a part of the lives that so amazingly reached out to touch mine. I must say that is saddens me to see the rift in this group. Granted I haven't been around for the mistfits and the trouble makers, but none the less, its sad to me to think that another 19 year old out there might be looking around for someone, ANYONE, to help her cope with losing her most favorite person on earth, and not find this place.For what it's worth, even though I don't post, there is a comfort in being a 'part' of a group that is so warm and caring. It helps me to remember how far I've come. Its helps to keep my faith in humanity and compassion alive. It helps to remind me of what I lost, and how a handful of strangers reached out to help me find my way, and gives me the inspiration I need in a world that is so often filled with harted and selfishness that its disheartening. Life is short, as many of you are well aware of. Time is not meant to be spent in anger or hatred. Love, joy, faith, passion -- these are the things that time is worth spending on. If you want to delete me, so be it, that is your choice, that is your power. But sometimes "lurkers" just need to be the silent observer.Take care, and God Bless each and every one of you.~Maegan

[Guest guest]

Maegan,

I will NOT delete you if you would like to stay. I did this a few yrs ago and noone complained there WAS a problem a month or so ago with a few members who decided they knew it ALL. Since then I have been trying to get things back to normal.

I did this a few yrs ago and there was no complaints from anyone. I have you down as wanting to stay.

Hugs

nne

Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html

Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com

Wow, how things change....

Hello all~Most of you who see this post will be sitting in your chairs wondering, "Who the hell is this?" For those of you who don't remember me, which might be everyone, my name is Maegan.I joined this group when I lost my grandma to cancer in October of 1999. The women in this group got me through some really dark, hard times. It's been YEARS since I've posted, mainly because Im a selfish mid-twenties woman out playing "grown-up" and too busy to be a part of the lives that so amazingly reached out to touch mine. I must say that is saddens me to see the rift in this group. Granted I haven't been around for the mistfits and the trouble makers, but none the less, its sad to me to think that another 19 year old out there might be looking around for someone, ANYONE, to help her cope with losing her most favorite person on earth, and not find this place.For what it's worth, even though I don't post, there is a comfort in being a 'part' of a group that is so warm and caring. It helps me to remember how far I've come. Its helps to keep my faith in humanity and compassion alive. It helps to remind me of what I lost, and how a handful of strangers reached out to help me find my way, and gives me the inspiration I need in a world that is so often filled with harted and selfishness that its disheartening. Life is short, as many of you are well aware of. Time is not meant to be spent in anger or hatred. Love, joy, faith, passion -- these are the things that time is worth spending on. If you want to delete me, so be it, that is your choice, that is your power. But sometimes "lurkers" just need to be the silent observer.Take care, and God Bless each and every one of you.~Maegan

[Guest guest]

Maegan,

I will NOT delete you if you would like to stay. I did this a few yrs ago and noone complained there WAS a problem a month or so ago with a few members who decided they knew it ALL. Since then I have been trying to get things back to normal.

I did this a few yrs ago and there was no complaints from anyone. I have you down as wanting to stay.

Hugs

nne

Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html

Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com

Wow, how things change....

Hello all~Most of you who see this post will be sitting in your chairs wondering, "Who the hell is this?" For those of you who don't remember me, which might be everyone, my name is Maegan.I joined this group when I lost my grandma to cancer in October of 1999. The women in this group got me through some really dark, hard times. It's been YEARS since I've posted, mainly because Im a selfish mid-twenties woman out playing "grown-up" and too busy to be a part of the lives that so amazingly reached out to touch mine. I must say that is saddens me to see the rift in this group. Granted I haven't been around for the mistfits and the trouble makers, but none the less, its sad to me to think that another 19 year old out there might be looking around for someone, ANYONE, to help her cope with losing her most favorite person on earth, and not find this place.For what it's worth, even though I don't post, there is a comfort in being a 'part' of a group that is so warm and caring. It helps me to remember how far I've come. Its helps to keep my faith in humanity and compassion alive. It helps to remind me of what I lost, and how a handful of strangers reached out to help me find my way, and gives me the inspiration I need in a world that is so often filled with harted and selfishness that its disheartening. Life is short, as many of you are well aware of. Time is not meant to be spent in anger or hatred. Love, joy, faith, passion -- these are the things that time is worth spending on. If you want to delete me, so be it, that is your choice, that is your power. But sometimes "lurkers" just need to be the silent observer.Take care, and God Bless each and every one of you.~Maegan