Guest guest Posted April 28, 2003 Report Share Posted April 28, 2003 Hi Jen- Great questions! I plan on just answering any questions that come up. I'm sure some day he'll ask why he has casts on or pictures with the DBB. I'll wait till then and then address the questions. I don't think there is any research saying cf children are not as fast as running as other children either. > >Reply-To: nosurgery4clubfoot >To: nosurgery4clubfoot >Subject: What do you plan to tell your child?(more) >Date: Mon, 28 Apr 2003 19:59:59 -0000 > >Hi I was just wondering what any of you are planning to tell your >child about his or her foot/feet. > >Do you plan to make a big deal out of it, or downplay it? > >Do you plan to tell the child that their foot is smaller or their >calf is skinnier because of clubfoot, or that they might not be as >fast of a runner because of it? > >Just curious--if anyone had given it any thought. > >Jen > _________________________________________________________________ Add photos to your e-mail with MSN 8. Get 2 months FREE*. http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2003 Report Share Posted April 28, 2003 Hi Jen- Great questions! I plan on just answering any questions that come up. I'm sure some day he'll ask why he has casts on or pictures with the DBB. I'll wait till then and then address the questions. I don't think there is any research saying cf children are not as fast as running as other children either. > >Reply-To: nosurgery4clubfoot >To: nosurgery4clubfoot >Subject: What do you plan to tell your child?(more) >Date: Mon, 28 Apr 2003 19:59:59 -0000 > >Hi I was just wondering what any of you are planning to tell your >child about his or her foot/feet. > >Do you plan to make a big deal out of it, or downplay it? > >Do you plan to tell the child that their foot is smaller or their >calf is skinnier because of clubfoot, or that they might not be as >fast of a runner because of it? > >Just curious--if anyone had given it any thought. > >Jen > _________________________________________________________________ Add photos to your e-mail with MSN 8. Get 2 months FREE*. http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2003 Report Share Posted April 28, 2003 Hi I just wanted to jump in here on this one my son is now 21 years old and he was born with bilat. c/f I never made a big deal of it with him if he asked I answered him with the truth and left it at that he never really had too many questions I guess it was something that he knew from day one and things were different then to with treatment and surgery he just learned about it as he grew up with it . as for running slower and stuff like that my son was in a track meet at his school when he was 7 he got first place in all his races and also he got first place in long jump and the high jump events. and he was wearing a brace still at that time so I really don't think c/f will slow any child down with the treatment being so much better and the correction being 100% now days that was not the case for my son but still he did great. Leora stumbalina23 wrote: Hi I was just wondering what any of you are planning to tell your child about his or her foot/feet. Do you plan to make a big deal out of it, or downplay it? Do you plan to tell the child that their foot is smaller or their calf is skinnier because of clubfoot, or that they might not be as fast of a runner because of it? Just curious--if anyone had given it any thought. Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2003 Report Share Posted April 28, 2003 Hi I just wanted to jump in here on this one my son is now 21 years old and he was born with bilat. c/f I never made a big deal of it with him if he asked I answered him with the truth and left it at that he never really had too many questions I guess it was something that he knew from day one and things were different then to with treatment and surgery he just learned about it as he grew up with it . as for running slower and stuff like that my son was in a track meet at his school when he was 7 he got first place in all his races and also he got first place in long jump and the high jump events. and he was wearing a brace still at that time so I really don't think c/f will slow any child down with the treatment being so much better and the correction being 100% now days that was not the case for my son but still he did great. Leora stumbalina23 wrote: Hi I was just wondering what any of you are planning to tell your child about his or her foot/feet. Do you plan to make a big deal out of it, or downplay it? Do you plan to tell the child that their foot is smaller or their calf is skinnier because of clubfoot, or that they might not be as fast of a runner because of it? Just curious--if anyone had given it any thought. Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2003 Report Share Posted April 28, 2003 Hi I just wanted to jump in here on this one my son is now 21 years old and he was born with bilat. c/f I never made a big deal of it with him if he asked I answered him with the truth and left it at that he never really had too many questions I guess it was something that he knew from day one and things were different then to with treatment and surgery he just learned about it as he grew up with it . as for running slower and stuff like that my son was in a track meet at his school when he was 7 he got first place in all his races and also he got first place in long jump and the high jump events. and he was wearing a brace still at that time so I really don't think c/f will slow any child down with the treatment being so much better and the correction being 100% now days that was not the case for my son but still he did great. Leora stumbalina23 wrote: Hi I was just wondering what any of you are planning to tell your child about his or her foot/feet. Do you plan to make a big deal out of it, or downplay it? Do you plan to tell the child that their foot is smaller or their calf is skinnier because of clubfoot, or that they might not be as fast of a runner because of it? Just curious--if anyone had given it any thought. Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted April 30, 2003 Report Share Posted April 30, 2003 Hi Everyone, Well, to answer your question about what the plan is to well your child. My son is 3 years old and he understands that one foot is a slight bit smaller than the non clubfootleft . It does not effect him in anyway and we do not make a big deal out if it so he does not feel that it is a defect as he gets older we do plan on telling him of all the things that happened and travels to NYU for treatments with the Ponseti Method and that traditional treatments that he recieved prior to the Ponseti Method. We did keep some short casts and some of the Ponseti casts and took pictures of him in casts. Zachary says that was his boo boo foot but it's ok mom. it't ok! I think it bothers me more than it effects him that he was born with a clubfoot. I think if children are told the truth is makes things better. take care,Kathy F Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2003 Report Share Posted April 30, 2003 I agree with all comments + the fact that they may have to deal with problem in the future. Their kids or grandkids may have it. Now I have to also warn my daughter that was born with normal feet. My husband was born with normal feet but his brother was with the CF. His brother's kids (twins) are ok but we got it. No other known relative with it. Looks like once it starts appearing in the family, it will continue with or without skip of generations. I am planning on participating in Dr. Hecht's research. Dessi ( bilateral CF 9-17-02) Re: What do you plan to tell your child?(more) Hi Everyone, Well, to answer your question about what the plan is to well your child. My son is 3 years old and he understands that one foot is a slight bit smaller than the non clubfootleft . It does not effect him in anyway and we do not make a big deal out if it so he does not feel that it is a defect as he gets older we do plan on telling him of all the things that happened and travels to NYU for treatments with the Ponseti Method and that traditional treatments that he recieved prior to the Ponseti Method. We did keep some short casts and some of the Ponseti casts and took pictures of him in casts. Zachary says that was his boo boo foot but it's ok mom. it't ok! I think it bothers me more than it effects him that he was born with a clubfoot. I think if children are told the truth is makes things better. take care,Kathy F Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2003 Report Share Posted April 30, 2003 I agree with all comments + the fact that they may have to deal with problem in the future. Their kids or grandkids may have it. Now I have to also warn my daughter that was born with normal feet. My husband was born with normal feet but his brother was with the CF. His brother's kids (twins) are ok but we got it. No other known relative with it. Looks like once it starts appearing in the family, it will continue with or without skip of generations. I am planning on participating in Dr. Hecht's research. Dessi ( bilateral CF 9-17-02) Re: What do you plan to tell your child?(more) Hi Everyone, Well, to answer your question about what the plan is to well your child. My son is 3 years old and he understands that one foot is a slight bit smaller than the non clubfootleft . It does not effect him in anyway and we do not make a big deal out if it so he does not feel that it is a defect as he gets older we do plan on telling him of all the things that happened and travels to NYU for treatments with the Ponseti Method and that traditional treatments that he recieved prior to the Ponseti Method. We did keep some short casts and some of the Ponseti casts and took pictures of him in casts. Zachary says that was his boo boo foot but it's ok mom. it't ok! I think it bothers me more than it effects him that he was born with a clubfoot. I think if children are told the truth is makes things better. take care,Kathy F Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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