Guest guest Posted February 16, 2006 Report Share Posted February 16, 2006 Emails can be funky.. glad that you sent it here.... Thinking about your mom has me thinking of mine... My mom was sick for several years before passing.. there was something that she said a lot the last couple of years. Well, a lot of somethings.... She said that we shouldn't cry when she was gone, cuz she didn't hurt any more. That it was all past the bad and into the good. She said that to cry would be to cry for ourselves and not for her and that was [bS]. She said we should have a big BIG party after to celebrate that all her hurts were gone. And that is what we did.... A big one, all the family and the neighbors and everyone, after being told for so long to celebrate for her, we did. I then spent the next 2 or 3 months crying myself to sleep every night. She passed just months after my RAI. Looking back I don't know who I what I was crying for more, missing my mom, or how sick I was getting.... sigh L On Thu, 16 Feb 2006 11:16:14 -0000 "christine hacon" writes: These msgs i sent you failed to be sent to your email address, so i copied and pastContent-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit Hi , You are helping by sending your healing thoughts to my family. Prayers do work, even if it's to help my mother pass peacefully, the healing thoughts help the rest of the family cope. We can't do much ourselves just sit by her bed, talking to her or just being there when shes sleeping. Take care. .topper2@... wrote: It's so hard to go through what you're going through.. you, your family and your mom... I wish I could help.... L Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2006 Report Share Posted February 16, 2006 Emails can be funky.. glad that you sent it here.... Thinking about your mom has me thinking of mine... My mom was sick for several years before passing.. there was something that she said a lot the last couple of years. Well, a lot of somethings.... She said that we shouldn't cry when she was gone, cuz she didn't hurt any more. That it was all past the bad and into the good. She said that to cry would be to cry for ourselves and not for her and that was [bS]. She said we should have a big BIG party after to celebrate that all her hurts were gone. And that is what we did.... A big one, all the family and the neighbors and everyone, after being told for so long to celebrate for her, we did. I then spent the next 2 or 3 months crying myself to sleep every night. She passed just months after my RAI. Looking back I don't know who I what I was crying for more, missing my mom, or how sick I was getting.... sigh L On Thu, 16 Feb 2006 11:16:14 -0000 "christine hacon" writes: These msgs i sent you failed to be sent to your email address, so i copied and pastContent-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit Hi , You are helping by sending your healing thoughts to my family. Prayers do work, even if it's to help my mother pass peacefully, the healing thoughts help the rest of the family cope. We can't do much ourselves just sit by her bed, talking to her or just being there when shes sleeping. Take care. .topper2@... wrote: It's so hard to go through what you're going through.. you, your family and your mom... I wish I could help.... L Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2006 Report Share Posted February 16, 2006 I know what you mean.. I was totally screwed up when my relationship with my ex fiance ended... when I had almost bottomed hypo wise and then I thought of something... 'why the hell are you crying.. you were going to break up with him... what the ****?!' lol. *shrug*Our bodies are strange bedfellows lol. andrea Re: Hi Topper Emails can be funky.. glad that you sent it here.... Thinking about your mom has me thinking of mine... My mom was sick for several years before passing.. there was something that she said a lot the last couple of years. Well, a lot of somethings.... She said that we shouldn't cry when she was gone, cuz she didn't hurt any more. That it was all past the bad and into the good. She said that to cry would be to cry for ourselves and not for her and that was [bS]. She said we should have a big BIG party after to celebrate that all her hurts were gone. And that is what we did.... A big one, all the family and the neighbors and everyone, after being told for so long to celebrate for her, we did. I then spent the next 2 or 3 months crying myself to sleep every night. She passed just months after my RAI. Looking back I don't know who I what I was crying for more, missing my mom, or how sick I was getting.... sigh L On Thu, 16 Feb 2006 11:16:14 -0000 "christine hacon" writes: These msgs i sent you failed to be sent to your email address, so i copied and pastContent-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit Hi , You are helping by sending your healing thoughts to my family. Prayers do work, even if it's to help my mother pass peacefully, the healing thoughts help the rest of the family cope. We can't do much ourselves just sit by her bed, talking to her or just being there when shes sleeping. Take care. .topper2@... wrote: It's so hard to go through what you're going through.. you, your family and your mom... I wish I could help.... L Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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