Ladies, I have a question...

[Guest guest]

Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone...

We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My question is,

should I share the details with the group like everyone else does, or would you

guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do not want to offend or anger

anyone, or make anyone jealous that has been ttc for a long time, so I am fine

just keeping our progress to myself, but I want honest feelings. I am not going

anywhere, I'll always be here for all of you, but if anyone prefers that I do

not update on our progress, please feel free to let me know.

The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with Bean, there

were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due to jealously or

whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be rude to them. When I

announced my pregnancy with , I had several " friends " - at least I thought

they were my friends, that just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but true.

Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me know either

personally or in a post.

Hart

Wife to Jon, Love of My Life

Mom to 4:

Arianne (16) ~ a(8)

(4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02)

Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin

http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html

[Guest guest]

,

There are always going to be women who are jealous whether it is your

1st TR baby or your 10th so don't let them keep you from sharing this

wonderful journey with your " sisters " . I would only be offended if

you didn't share! Best wishes!!

Hugs,

> Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone...

>

> We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My

question is, should I share the details with the group like everyone

else does, or would you guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do

not want to offend or anger anyone, or make anyone jealous that has

been ttc for a long time, so I am fine just keeping our progress to

myself, but I want honest feelings. I am not going anywhere, I'll

always be here for all of you, but if anyone prefers that I do not

update on our progress, please feel free to let me know.

>

> The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with

Bean, there were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due

to jealously or whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be

rude to them. When I announced my pregnancy with , I had

several " friends " - at least I thought they were my friends, that

just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but true.

>

> Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me

know either personally or in a post.

>

> Hart

> Wife to Jon, Love of My Life

> Mom to 4:

> Arianne (16) ~ a(8)

> (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02)

> Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin

> http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html

>

>

[Guest guest]

,

There are always going to be women who are jealous whether it is your

1st TR baby or your 10th so don't let them keep you from sharing this

wonderful journey with your " sisters " . I would only be offended if

you didn't share! Best wishes!!

Hugs,

> Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone...

>

> We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My

question is, should I share the details with the group like everyone

else does, or would you guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do

not want to offend or anger anyone, or make anyone jealous that has

been ttc for a long time, so I am fine just keeping our progress to

myself, but I want honest feelings. I am not going anywhere, I'll

always be here for all of you, but if anyone prefers that I do not

update on our progress, please feel free to let me know.

>

> The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with

Bean, there were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due

to jealously or whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be

rude to them. When I announced my pregnancy with , I had

several " friends " - at least I thought they were my friends, that

just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but true.

>

> Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me

know either personally or in a post.

>

> Hart

> Wife to Jon, Love of My Life

> Mom to 4:

> Arianne (16) ~ a(8)

> (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02)

> Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin

> http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html

>

>

[Guest guest]

,

There are always going to be women who are jealous whether it is your

1st TR baby or your 10th so don't let them keep you from sharing this

wonderful journey with your " sisters " . I would only be offended if

you didn't share! Best wishes!!

Hugs,

> Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone...

>

> We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My

question is, should I share the details with the group like everyone

else does, or would you guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do

not want to offend or anger anyone, or make anyone jealous that has

been ttc for a long time, so I am fine just keeping our progress to

myself, but I want honest feelings. I am not going anywhere, I'll

always be here for all of you, but if anyone prefers that I do not

update on our progress, please feel free to let me know.

>

> The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with

Bean, there were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due

to jealously or whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be

rude to them. When I announced my pregnancy with , I had

several " friends " - at least I thought they were my friends, that

just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but true.

>

> Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me

know either personally or in a post.

>

> Hart

> Wife to Jon, Love of My Life

> Mom to 4:

> Arianne (16) ~ a(8)

> (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02)

> Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin

> http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html

>

>

[Guest guest]

, I think that it is great that you are about to start ttcing

and I would love to hear your story. I am now on the same page as you

(smile)you have help me out a lot when I was going through my ups and

down with trying to get my money together. By the way whatever

happened to the boots????? Give Bean a kiss for me. Krissy---

In TubalLigationReversal , " Hart "

<rebecca@c...> wrote:

> Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone...

>

> We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My

question is, should I share the details with the group like everyone

else does, or would you guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do

not want to offend or anger anyone, or make anyone jealous that has

been ttc for a long time, so I am fine just keeping our progress to

myself, but I want honest feelings. I am not going anywhere, I'll

always be here for all of you, but if anyone prefers that I do not

update on our progress, please feel free to let me know.

>

> The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with

Bean, there were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due

to jealously or whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be

rude to them. When I announced my pregnancy with , I had

several " friends " - at least I thought they were my friends, that

just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but true.

>

> Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me

know either personally or in a post.

>

> Hart

> Wife to Jon, Love of My Life

> Mom to 4:

> Arianne (16) ~ a(8)

> (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02)

> Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin

> http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hi ,

Congratulations on ttc again! Shame on anyone that hurt you

before. you have the best last name because you are

the " heart " of the group for me. I have only wrote you a few

times, but your contribution to the group has been immeasurable.

When I first came along a little over a year ago, I saved all

the good info you posted and read them over and over again. I

was so happy that you delivered Bean shortly after my TR,

and it really was thrilling to know that TR works, and we need the

success stories to give each other hope.

I have been on both sides of the fence. Yes when I was hoping

to get pg, and others were, I felt sadness for myself, but not

jealously. I tried to look at it like it was an inspirtation and

if it was the Lord's Will, it would happen. Now I am pregnant,

and so happy. Still my heart goes out everytime I read where

someone has been trying for so long, or has lost their baby.

To be a support group, we have to all share in the good and bad.

Best of Luck! E from Ky EDD 6-14-03

PS...please send me new pics of !

> Just a question so that I do not end up offending anyone...

>

> We will be ttc again, not militantly, but ttc all the same. My

question is, should I share the details with the group like everyone

else does, or would you guys rather I just kept them to myself? I do

not want to offend or anger anyone, or make anyone jealous that has

been ttc for a long time, so I am fine just keeping our progress to

myself, but I want honest feelings. I am not going anywhere, I'll

always be here for all of you, but if anyone prefers that I do not

update on our progress, please feel free to let me know.

>

> The reason I ask this is because when I did get pregnant with

Bean, there were a handful of people who were very ugly about it due

to jealously or whatever, and I am human, no one wants others to be

rude to them. When I announced my pregnancy with , I had

several " friends " - at least I thought they were my friends, that

just stopped speaking to me. Sad, but true.

>

> Anyway, if anyone has any feelings on the subject, please let me

know either personally or in a post.

>

> Hart

> Wife to Jon, Love of My Life

> Mom to 4:

> Arianne (16) ~ a(8)

> (4) ~ (My TR Baby - born 6/20/02)

> Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin

> http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html

>

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