Guest guest Posted August 16, 2004 Report Share Posted August 16, 2004 My Dad was diagnosed with colon & rectal cancer in April. He had his large intestine & rectum removed. We have since found the rectal cancer had spread to his lungs and a lymph node in between. He is unable to have surgery due to copd. He was told in July that he could have 20 months to live with chemo. He started having trouble breathing a couple of weeks ago and they treated it as pnuemonia. He went to the hospital 9 days ago and was treated as pnuemonia for three days until he ended up in ICU. They finally did another CT and determined that the cancer in his lungs has grown faster than expected and also drained 12oz off one lung. He showed immediate improvement and they started him on radiation. He has since gotten progressively worse. The Dr's are saying that he may not even get more radiation. My Dad wants to fight this and is hanging on. They don't want to drain the lung again as they say it has equalized and that it would fill back up in a matter of hours. I don't want the Drs to give up on Dad he is only 67. They keep trying to make him say he doesn't want to be on a ventilator and go no code. He keeps saying that he wants to fight it and doesn't want to be euthanized. I am not sure if they are doing all they can. Please, does anyone have any ideas? They say he is too weak for chemo and now maybe radiation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2004 Report Share Posted August 16, 2004 Well, see messages #5494, #5513, #5562 and the replies to these messages listed below the individual messages. Hope this helps. Best, Ed > There is a surgery they can do on the lungs to help with this. > had it. Ed can you help here? > You need a team that will fight for your Dad. If that is not happening find > someone that will. > Best wishes and God's blessings > Narice > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Please call the University of Miami/Sylvester Comprehensive Cance Center and ask for Dr. Raez..Lung cancer specialist who had a trial going with a new vaccine. Sometimes the cancer is very agressive. I lost my husband and his lung cancer spread rapidly and his oncologist said,radidation or resection was not the answer. No two cases are alike. Get a second opinion,bring your x-rays, C.A.T. Scans and P.E.T. Scans to be read. Your dad has a number of problems,he appears to be a fighter,I would hope you are being realistic, but the power of God is very strong. Miracles happen. You are actively persuing all avenues of treatment. Sometimes there is no remedy. Have an open,honest dialog, with your dad's PCP,ONCOLOGIST,SURGEON AND RADIOLOGIST. I will pray the answer is more positive. We entered a hospice plan,which allowed his care to continue,kepy him free from pain,and allowed us to share in his final weeks. Not everyone believes in this,you have a decision to make,I ask that God grant you the courage to make the best possible decision,the strength to follow through and the grace to to find peace for both of you. Hugs,prayers and love from been there,done that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Please call the University of Miami/Sylvester Comprehensive Cance Center and ask for Dr. Raez..Lung cancer specialist who had a trial going with a new vaccine. Sometimes the cancer is very agressive. I lost my husband and his lung cancer spread rapidly and his oncologist said,radidation or resection was not the answer. No two cases are alike. Get a second opinion,bring your x-rays, C.A.T. Scans and P.E.T. Scans to be read. Your dad has a number of problems,he appears to be a fighter,I would hope you are being realistic, but the power of God is very strong. Miracles happen. You are actively persuing all avenues of treatment. Sometimes there is no remedy. Have an open,honest dialog, with your dad's PCP,ONCOLOGIST,SURGEON AND RADIOLOGIST. I will pray the answer is more positive. We entered a hospice plan,which allowed his care to continue,kepy him free from pain,and allowed us to share in his final weeks. Not everyone believes in this,you have a decision to make,I ask that God grant you the courage to make the best possible decision,the strength to follow through and the grace to to find peace for both of you. Hugs,prayers and love from been there,done that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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