KendallRe: Post~Op update!! I am an emotional wreck~~~~~

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Kendall,

It seems as though you know where I am coming from, and as I have mentioned in a few other posts, part of me feels the same way. Kind of like I need to be thankful for what WE do have and not want or wish for more through assistance. "If it is God's will it will happen 'traditionally'," as he put it today.

So for now I am going to hope and pray that the die thru the good tube opened it up enough we will NOT need any help! As for the sneaking the Clomid, I think that was out of despair and anger!! I do NOT think I could do anything behind his back and live with myself. All kinds of things go thru one's head when anger gets there first!!

Thanks SO very much for your support and words or encouragment!!

{{{{HUGS}}}}

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>From: wickid@... >Reply-To: PregnancyBabiesAfterEctopic >To: PregnancyBabiesAfterEctopic >Subject: Re: Post~Op update!! I am an emotional wreck~~~~~ >Date: Fri, 29 Jun 2001 15:08:30 -0000 > >e, > >Honey, I am so sorry you are going through this !!! Life can be so >unfair! I really think you and DH need to be in agreement on the >issue though (although it is easy for me to say, as I have never been >in your shoes). If it helps at all, your DH is not the only one who >feels that way. Mine would never go along w/ any IF treatments, his >reasoning being the same. We have already been blessed w/ 2 beautiful > children and if we need any kind of assistance to conceive then it is > not God's will for us to have any more. I am reasonably sure he >would not feel that way if we didn't have any children, which makes it >all the more frustrating. > >You and DH and especially your father are in my prayers. I wish there >was more I could do for you, but I can pray. > >Take Care > >Kendall > > > > > > >