Re:Shan!!!!! MIA for awhile

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Shan!!!!!

Oh hon, I hope your mom's surgery goes well. I am as usual behind on

posts. I did check on some of the things you mentioned and I can not

make any of the changes. I tried to get a hold of Laurie but haven't

gotten a reply yet. I tried e-mailing Yahoo about the home page stuff.

We'll see if I get a reply. I even went to the sister group and checked

on them. Don't take this the wrong way but I really think they just

meant they can't keep up here. I can understand, I can't either! Try

not to take it so personal. Just like you shouldn't change for anyone,

I don't expect this group to be for everyone. Quite frankly, we don't

need people who feel it is too much anyway. It's just not for everyone

and that's ok.

About the nasty e-mails. I am sooooo sorry! That makes me soo mad! If

any of you jerks who did that are reading this, that is totally

uncalled for and actually it is harassment and Shan, if you really

wanted to I believe you could really get them in trouble. I'm not sure

what the laws are where you live but here in Alaska, a friend of mine

just went through something similar and her provider told her to send

them all the e-mails and that there are laws against threatening or

harassing e-mails and it is prosecuted. Something to check into if it

continues.

Thanks for filling us in on Miki and KM. Tell them hi for me and Shan,

don't change a thing. I love you the way you are! I'm very proud of you

for how far you have come and I love your wonderful attitude and

personality. These a$$ wipes who did that, they are the ones missing

out on a wonderful person. It's their loss!

Love and hugs,

Gena

> I am going to be MIA for the next week or so.

>

>

> To give you an idea I have been called everything but a white girl and

> also

> told that I am a fake who probably hasn't lost even one pound. Nice

> huh? I know

> I take things to heart and if I err on the side of talking too much

> then

> thats on me. I am not going to change who I am or how I act to suit

> people who

> cant even say what they think without hiding behind anonymous email

> addresses and

> dont even have the balls to sign their name. I am who I am like it or

> lump

> it. Personal feelings aside though I really enjoy this group and most

> of the

> people. This should be a place for friendship and support and not a

> stressfull

> chore.

>