Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > I just wasn't prepared for how much it would hurt my feelings. Who would be? I think you should talk to him. He might say it to some kid that would clobber him for it. I know he wouldn't intend to hurt someone's feeling, but you never know. Sissi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > I just wasn't prepared for how much it would hurt my feelings. Who would be? I think you should talk to him. He might say it to some kid that would clobber him for it. I know he wouldn't intend to hurt someone's feeling, but you never know. Sissi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > I just wasn't prepared for how much it would hurt my feelings. Who would be? I think you should talk to him. He might say it to some kid that would clobber him for it. I know he wouldn't intend to hurt someone's feeling, but you never know. Sissi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > > what took him so long? kailey's been calling me fat for YEARS :'( < > > > sorry, i didn't mean that to sound rude, but i know it did. please forgive me! > , I bet Jacquie took that exactly the way you meant it. It sounded much more " hey, we're in the same boat here, boo, hiss, " than rude, at least to me. Jacquie, could you just tell that fat girl is something nice people don't say to each other? A nice little rule, perhaps? Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > > what took him so long? kailey's been calling me fat for YEARS :'( < > > > sorry, i didn't mean that to sound rude, but i know it did. please forgive me! > , I bet Jacquie took that exactly the way you meant it. It sounded much more " hey, we're in the same boat here, boo, hiss, " than rude, at least to me. Jacquie, could you just tell that fat girl is something nice people don't say to each other? A nice little rule, perhaps? Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > > what took him so long? kailey's been calling me fat for YEARS :'( < > > > sorry, i didn't mean that to sound rude, but i know it did. please forgive me! > , I bet Jacquie took that exactly the way you meant it. It sounded much more " hey, we're in the same boat here, boo, hiss, " than rude, at least to me. Jacquie, could you just tell that fat girl is something nice people don't say to each other? A nice little rule, perhaps? Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 's new name for me: " fat girl " . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > No, no! I actually thought of Kailey as I was writing it! < whew, ok > I just wasn't prepared for how much it would hurt my feelings. I know I'm fat, and I've never pretended otherwise. I didn't expect to be so upset by it. Jacquie < yep, it does hurt. no matter how true it is, no matter how much you accept it. to be told flat out by the person that you love that you are FAT is heartbreaking :'( " Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " - Mr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > No, no! I actually thought of Kailey as I was writing it! < whew, ok > I just wasn't prepared for how much it would hurt my feelings. I know I'm fat, and I've never pretended otherwise. I didn't expect to be so upset by it. Jacquie < yep, it does hurt. no matter how true it is, no matter how much you accept it. to be told flat out by the person that you love that you are FAT is heartbreaking :'( " Something important to remember...we'll always be who we are. " - Mr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > ouch! did you explain to him how this makes you feel? i know your feelings have been somewhat important to him lately. Well, Marc woke up right around the same time, and HE told how I felt. became very loving and sucky towards me, but I'm afraid I was still too hurt to be totally nice and forgiving about it. :-( Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > ouch! did you explain to him how this makes you feel? i know your feelings have been somewhat important to him lately. Well, Marc woke up right around the same time, and HE told how I felt. became very loving and sucky towards me, but I'm afraid I was still too hurt to be totally nice and forgiving about it. :-( Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > > what took him so long? kailey's been calling me fat for YEARS :'( < > > > sorry, i didn't mean that to sound rude, but i know it did. please forgive me! No, no! I actually thought of Kailey as I was writing it! I just wasn't prepared for how much it would hurt my feelings. I know I'm fat, and I've never pretended otherwise. I didn't expect to be so upset by it. Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > > what took him so long? kailey's been calling me fat for YEARS :'( < > > > sorry, i didn't mean that to sound rude, but i know it did. please forgive me! No, no! I actually thought of Kailey as I was writing it! I just wasn't prepared for how much it would hurt my feelings. I know I'm fat, and I've never pretended otherwise. I didn't expect to be so upset by it. Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 > > what took him so long? kailey's been calling me fat for YEARS :'( < > > > sorry, i didn't mean that to sound rude, but i know it did. please forgive me! No, no! I actually thought of Kailey as I was writing it! I just wasn't prepared for how much it would hurt my feelings. I know I'm fat, and I've never pretended otherwise. I didn't expect to be so upset by it. Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 ouch! did you explain to him how this makes you feel? i know your feelings have been somewhat important to him lately. he won't last long on the playground if he thinks he can say things like that without repercussions. if rowan called me fat girl i'd sit on him :oP michelle mg okay, that hurts. 's new name for me: " fat girl " . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 ouch! did you explain to him how this makes you feel? i know your feelings have been somewhat important to him lately. he won't last long on the playground if he thinks he can say things like that without repercussions. if rowan called me fat girl i'd sit on him :oP michelle mg okay, that hurts. 's new name for me: " fat girl " . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2003 Report Share Posted January 4, 2003 ouch! did you explain to him how this makes you feel? i know your feelings have been somewhat important to him lately. he won't last long on the playground if he thinks he can say things like that without repercussions. if rowan called me fat girl i'd sit on him :oP michelle mg okay, that hurts. 's new name for me: " fat girl " . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2003 Report Share Posted January 5, 2003 UGH! Sounds like for another empathy lesson. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2003 Report Share Posted January 5, 2003 UGH! Sounds like for another empathy lesson. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2003 Report Share Posted January 5, 2003 UGH! Sounds like for another empathy lesson. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2003 Report Share Posted January 5, 2003 Jacquie, Don't forget that for , it's a statement, not a case of name calling. You know, the black and white concrete things our kids see. (I hope this isn't making you feel worse.). I doubt that he has any idea that saying that is hurtful or cruel....more of just an observation of big and little with a different word. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2003 Report Share Posted January 5, 2003 Jacquie, Don't forget that for , it's a statement, not a case of name calling. You know, the black and white concrete things our kids see. (I hope this isn't making you feel worse.). I doubt that he has any idea that saying that is hurtful or cruel....more of just an observation of big and little with a different word. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2003 Report Share Posted January 5, 2003 Jacquie, Don't forget that for , it's a statement, not a case of name calling. You know, the black and white concrete things our kids see. (I hope this isn't making you feel worse.). I doubt that he has any idea that saying that is hurtful or cruel....more of just an observation of big and little with a different word. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2003 Report Share Posted January 5, 2003 > > I think it was just the phrasing: " Fat Girl. " I think it's because when I > use that phrasing to someone, I'm being teasingly demeaning, yeah, but our kids don't know how to do that. If did, he'd really be ahead of the rest of our kids!! > So it was my interpretation of it that caused it to feel so icky. Sorry it made you feel bad anyway. I know if he's like my guys at all, you could ask him why he said it, but he wouldn't be able to explain it to you at all. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2003 Report Share Posted January 5, 2003 > > I think it was just the phrasing: " Fat Girl. " I think it's because when I > use that phrasing to someone, I'm being teasingly demeaning, yeah, but our kids don't know how to do that. If did, he'd really be ahead of the rest of our kids!! > So it was my interpretation of it that caused it to feel so icky. Sorry it made you feel bad anyway. I know if he's like my guys at all, you could ask him why he said it, but he wouldn't be able to explain it to you at all. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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